please help

1Cathi

Hi Gals,

Sorry I have been missing, I can't believe how busy I stay with a new "baby" in the house -Yikes, each day gets a little easier, she and my kitty are now good buddies, of coarse they are to fast for me to capture a picture of them playing.

I skimmed the posts, AE/UB, much love & prayers coming your way.

Hope everyone thats not feeling well gets better ASAP.

So the update on Jaclyn, I was so mad (God forgive me as her mom I had NO Compassion) her GYN cancelled the test until this coming Wednesday her dad is not weel, there are other doctors in the office but they are covering emergeny calls and scheduled C-Sections, I was so angry for a few minutes, MORE waiting. She does much better with all this, worrying about her is much harder than any worry I had for myself, thinking your child is possibly facing the "C' word sucks.

LOVE YEAH ALL -HAPPY WEEKEND!!!

portiasproudmom

Oh Cathi!  I would have been mad too!  The waiting is definitely the worst part of it all!  ((((((((Cathi and Jaclyn))))))))

Hugs,

Karen

my3girls

Sorry Cathi!! The waiting is the hard part. I can't even imagine waiting on results for one of my daughters!! God...I pray that never ever happens. I just know your daughter will have good results!  Love ya Cathi!

barbe1958

Hey, did y'all know there is a Ta-Ta Sisterhood trip planned to Vegas in September? I love the hotels, shops and shows, too. I'm hoping to go. It's on another thread....

(Cathi, I haven't let you guys out of my thoughts....) 

NanaOfTen

Stopping by for a quick hi to everyone!

Nancy, thoughts with you and your family as you care for your father.

Sheila, didn't know we already had a resident Toto ... then again, I never knew the full explanation re the emerald city till it was explained to me. AE = Auntie Em ... etc.

Speaking of AE, give UB gentle hugs as he starts his chemo ... again.

Cathi, hugs to you and DD ... waiting is the worse. Seems your daughter should be included in with the 'emergencies' seen - they know how hard the waiting for results is.

Nettie, I know you already know this, but I am so happy for you that your tumour shrunk and you are starting to feel better. look for another pm soon.

Still fighting my own demon here. My MRSA has grown, one is larger than the palm of my hand. Both have started to drain, they are just nasty things, I wanna puke when they do that! Doc has me on antibiotics and anti virals till I see him Monday. Son wants me to head to the ER room, says I should be on IV antibiotics. Past couple of days been having a hearty chest cough to add to this. My Immune system seems to be in the toilet at the moment.

Las Vegas, fun fun, never been, but hear it is anyway. my dd is heading that way this year. oldest son stopped there on the way to base years ago. 

Lisa, you sound like you are having such a fun time now. I can't wait till I reach the Emeral City and maybe life will get back to being normal again.

2 tx's down, 6 to go. Then exchange ... there's no place like home.

geebung

Cheryl, that's terrible that you have MRSA. My bil had it after having a triple bi-pass. I tend to agree with your son. UV antibiotics work so much more quickly. I'm sure you are so sick of hospitals and I agree there's no place like home but it would be good to hit this with the big guns. Having a chest cough as well must be making you feel so low. You poor thing - keeping you in my prayers that you start to feel better soon.

Sheila - good to see you back again. I remember that dear, sweet Penelope was our Toto! Well, I think we should have multiple Totos - you can never have enough dogs! They are all wonderful creatures - big and small. Btw, your quilt sounds gorgeous. Will look forward to a pic!

Cathi - no wonder you are angry! All that waiting, only to be told to wait some more - it's just too much! Keeping you and Jaclyn in my thoughts and prayers.

AE - thinking and praying for you and UB as he starts his next chemo. Stinking, rotten bootface.

My sister's best friend who is the same age as I am, has just been dx with NH lymphoma. She is such a lovely, vibrant fit and healthy person. I hate bootface! We need one of Sue's rants.

Speaking of Sue, she seems to be really getting on with her life, getting fit and not focusing on this beast. Good for you Sue! And don't feel guilty about not checking in so much. We miss you here but you have to do what is best for you.

Karen - so glad that Chase is better. Now you can go and enjoy this fantastic trip. You so deserve it!

Lisa - great to hear from you. Love your attitude re the dating - just enjoying it and who knows what might happen? Lucky men to date the vibrant Lisa! What a sweet and generous boyfriend your daughter has - she needs to hang on to him! The concert sounds wonderful!

Hugs to all xxxxx 

geebung

Why do I only see my mistakes once I post?!

honeygirl

Lucy , I'm home!!!!  Hello all my dear sweet sisters! Wow , I have missed so much! I'll try to remember , but please don't be upset if I miss you!

First , Happy spring everyone!

And to you my dear sweet sister Jane , happy autumn!

Sheila , Hows your mil and Dad doing? They are in my prayers. I hope you and your family are doing well. Sorry things get stressed sometimes with the in-laws. You are such a loving , and compasionate person , I think they may be jealous. Hang tight.xxxx

Hi Judie! I've so missed reading your posts. Please rest and recharge your batteries! Congrats to your son. I can only imagine how wonderful his experience will be. I know you will miss him like crazy , but thats what these beautiful creatures do. They come into our lives , and it seems all so rushed , and just as they are growing into adults we can really relate to and love so much more , BOOM! They decide there is life out there!lol Just think though , when he calls to tell you all about it! There is nothing better to hear ,than your child sharing with you something that makes them happy. Oh , and I remember seeing that sweet lil' Connor! What a goregous child he is. And that outfit you made him. I am sooooo jealous of your talents. I hope you know just how special you are. You make me smile just to know you!xxxx 

Hi Cathi! Big , big prayers to you and especially your daughter. Waiting sure does suck. And worrying about our children really sucks. We can all take anything that comes our way , as long as our kids are not sick or hurting. I don't know if it helps or not , to relate things to your situation , but I will because it is a positive. One of my best friends daughters , at about 25 , had an abnormal pap smear. They did have to do some "freezing" of the area , but she was fine after and is the proud mommy of a two year old boy! So , even if something is wrong , it doesn't mean its not fixable. I am praying always for Jaclyn. Just know , you being there for her helps loads. b9 montra going out to her.

And what can I say about precious Margo!?! Her name fits her so! Yes , those little brown spots above her eyes are just darling. And yes , she is our latest Toto. We have so many , which is good. Cause we have a lot of ladies following the yellow brick road! And Ed sounds like a wonderful husband. After all you have been through , you sure do deserve someone as good as him! Hugs to you and your family.xxxx

Oh my Karen!!!!!!!! I LOVE the new pic of you!!! Your hair is beautiful and you wear it well. You have been through soooo much. You so deserve a vacation. And to look beautiful on top of it! Goregous hair , a tan , beautiful face to match the beautiful person you are , wow , Ruehl(msp?) better be holding you close! I hope Chase is feeling better , and how is our sweet Portia doing? I hope she is doing well. I remember she was having some trouble in school and her dad was being  a jerk. I hope things are better now. A fun family vacation is just what you all need. I hope you mom is doing well. I pray for her too. Well , have fun on your vacation. I can't wait to hear all about the fun you had. xxxx

Hello Nets , my Scottish sister! Glad the chemo is working! I know it sucks to do it , but if thats what it takes to kick ole ' bootface in the a$$ , then so be it! I LOVE being a jellytot! I don't know what it is , but is sounds sooo good!lol Take care of yourself. I ate alot of potatoes going threw chemo. It was what I craved and didn't make me sick. And milkshakes and ice tea. I did four rounds too. Before you know it , your hair will be growing back in. Mine came in curly , but now the curl is only at the ends on my hair. It is down , passed my neckline already. Its been two years since chemo. But I am going to go have it cut sometime soon. Good luck to you Nets. xxxx

Hi Shirlann , So very sorry to hear of Walt's stroke. So glad though that he is OK. Man , that is so scary. How is he doing now? How are you? Are you still having hip problems? Yes , you are right , it sucks getting old. I found out I have arthritis in my thumb and man , does it hurt. And you use your thumb for everything! I am taking naproxen and have to wear a splint on my hand. And of course I can't wear it when I am doing some of my work , and the pill have me soooo bound up! I hope you are having better luck with you hip. Love you Shirlann.xxxx

Fumi! So glad to see your post here! Your pics are soooo breathtaking. You just make me want to be in them. The flowers are so beautiful. Just like YOU! You sure are busy at work. But its the end of March soon. Didn't you say it eases up after that? Hope you are doing well Fumi. Love ya girl.xxxx

AE and UB , my heart is heavy to hear this news. Praying the ins. com. OKs the chemo. Uncle Bill , you are a fighter. And you can do this again. We are always hear for you. Praying for you. And with your best friend beside you , and God leading the way , you will get through this. I can't wait for all of us to be laughing , and drinking our blue drinks on that beautiful patio of yours , in margaritaville! Love you xxxx

Hi Nancy , praying for your dad. Your a wonderful daughter and your dad knows it , and thats what counts. Brothers can be sooooo IRATATING!!!!!!!!.

He just needs to get over himself!

And he will. He probably sees you as "daddysgirl" and "haha" you are ,something he can't be. Seriously , just be the person that you are. Try to "step around bro. You are a loving daughter , and your dad knows that. xxxx

Hey Lisa! Wow , you are on the dating circuit! Good for you! You keep on , keeping on , you will find Mr. right. Elton John and Billy Joel!?! Oh man , I am sooooo jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yes , they both are my favorites too. And Danni's boyfriend sure is in love with her. What a great guy to do this. Aw , you are gonna have such a great time. Hey , did you get Olivia's scrapbook done? I bet it is "tear worthy".  Hope you are feeling better. Hugs to our little Oliver. I hope he is feeling better too. I remember when he was our Toto too!

Hello to all the newbies here since I was here last! Welcome and its so nice to meet you all. xxxx

Well , I have had my pap test , colonoscopy , mammo , and all is well , for now. I see my onc again in April. So hopefully , that will be fine.

Right now , I am sorta a nomad. I don't "live" anywhere exactly , I have been staying with my ex-OH , he is not doing so good. I am taking him to the docs tomorrow. He is having a hard time breathing.

I am sorry I didn't get to talk to everyone , but I have to go. Love to you all. OH Nana of ten , please hang in there. Chemo sucks. Sounds like you are having a hard time of it. Let your onc know of everything you are feeling. They should be able to help you out. You are a strong woman , and you will get through this. You are in my prayers , always.xxxx

Love you all , Melody

geebung

Mel! So great to hear from you.  Wonderful that all your tests have come back with no nasty surprises but sorry about the arthritis in your thumb. Yes, you do use it for everything - even if it's not the thumb on your favoured hand. It's not good to hear about your ex with his breathing problems. You are a sweet, kind dear to go to him when he needs you. I hope he can do something to help himself. It's sad that it has reached this stage.

I hope it's not so long before you pop in here again. You are always missed. Love to you and prayers for you and your dear ones. 

Jane oxox 

Wren

Hi all!

Karen, thanks for asking about me. I'm keeping busy.

My college kids were home this past week so that was a lot going on here. Both will graduate this spring and I'm soooo excited for them.

I am scheduled to get my tattoos next week so I'm nervousing a little bit.

I think of you all every day and keep you all in my prayers.

Hugs!

Anonymous

(((((((((((((((((((((((((Mel)))))))))))))))))))))))))) I've missed you so much. You are an angel to come to the aid of your XOH. You are an angel to me, too, you know!

Wren! You've been on my mind a great deal. So good to see you again. I can't believe tat week is nearly here. Time flies.

Sue is in that moving on space. I'm glad and sad. I achingly miss others who have gone, and celebrate the fact that they got to a point where it was possible. 

Us lifers are here because of friendship, gossip, and the rewards of seeing others blossom and cope. It's all good.

Lisa, the BJ and EJ concert is doing two performances here, also. The first one sold out in 45 minutes so they added a second. Color me brilliant green with envy right now!

Wow on the tumor shrinkage, Nets! Way to go.

Cheryl, get your tush to the hospital. MRSA is nothing to mess around with. It's getting too big, I say!!!

Hey, Cathi, I seem to have a new baby, too. Connor has moved into the building and will be with me a lot. Help!!!!

As for my other "baby" boy ...he returns from Chicago tomorrow, then drives back to school Monday morning. He's going to be one tired puppy.

That's all, folks! Still not myself, doggone it, 'cause I'm doing pot roast for the whole durn family Sunday...I think the count is around 14 now. Must perk up.

geebung

Judie - hope you feel better soon. 14 people to dinner - wow! Please don't tire yourself out too much.

Wren -  delighted that you posted again. Great news about the tats! You will be all finished soon! This is very exciting for you. 

luba

Good Morning All

I have not posted here in awhile, I read alot...but I have a question.

The lady who started this thread...sueps....when was the last time she has posted and how is she doing?   I know this was started sept 07 and I'm sorry to just pop in like this, but my dx was about the same in 05 and this thread caught my attention.

Sorry to intrude

Marie

cloudhowe

Hi Girls

Mel - lovely to hear from you, what a ray of sunshine you are!

Cheryl - I am sick with worry about you girl. I agree, you need urgent intervatnion. My wee mum was ill for a long time and we whisked her in for IV antibiotics at the drop of a hat. At 4 am in the morning once. She responded instantly. I didn't know you had MRSA!!! What are they given you for it. I'm sorry, but I don't think you are getting enough care or support and I WISH TO GOD there was something I could do!!!!! I wish you lived closer or that I was confident that you were being properly taken care of. I know how miserable I have been this week with a racking cough and (very) high temp but sweetie, you should be in hosp! God bless and keep you!

I am seeing if I can post a wee poem that made me smile ...

The Boob Poem

For years and years they told me,
Be careful of your breasts.
Don't ever squeeze or bruise them.
And give them monthly tests.
So I heeded all their warnings,
And protected them by law.
I guarded them most carefully,
And I always wore my bra.

After 30 years of gentle care,
My gyno, Dr. Pruitt,
Said I should get a Mammogram.
"O.K," I said, "let's do it."

"Stand up here real close" she said,
(She got my boob in line),
And tell me if it hurts," she said,
"Ah yes! Right there, that's fine."

She stepped upon a pedal,
I could not believe my eyes,
A plastic plate came slamming down,
My hooter's in a vise!

My skin was stretched and mangled,
From underneath my chin.
My poor boob was being squashed,
To Swedish Pancake thin.

Excruciating pain I felt,
Within it's vise-like grip.
A prisoner in this vicious thing,
My poor defenseless tit!

"Take a deep breath" she said to me,
Who does she think she's kidding?!?
My chest is mashed in her machine,
And woozy I am getting.

"There, that's good," I heard her say,
(The room was slowly swaying.)
"Now, let's just do the other one.
‘Have mercy,', I was praying.

Next time that they make me do this,
I will request a blindfold.
I have no wish to see again,
My knockers getting steamrolled.

If I had no problem when I came in,
I surely have one now.
If there had been a cyst in there,
It would have gone "ker-pow!"

This machine was created by a man,
Of this, I have no doubt.
I'd like to stick his balls in there,
And see how THEY come out.

 

Makratz

Lupa - Sueps still posts on this thread. I'm sure she will answer you the next time she checks in.  You could always send her a PM.

Cloud - love the poem, thanks for sharing!

14 for dinner - sounds like fun, just do't over do it.

Have a great weekend ladies!!

barbe1958

Good one! I actually did get a cyst popped on one and was able to get ultrasound for 2 years after that. hehehehehe 

cloudhowe

A man and his dog were walking along a road. The man was enjoying the scenery, when it suddenly occurred to him that he was dead.

He remembered dying, and that the dog walking beside him had been dead for years. He wondered where the road was leading them.

After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road. It looked like fine marble. At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a tall arch that glowed in the sunlight.

When he was standing before it he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother-of-pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like pure gold. He and the dog walked toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side.

When he was close enough, he called out, 'Excuse me, where are we?'

'This is Heaven, sir,' the man answered.

'Wow! Would you happen to have some water?' the man asked.

'Of course, sir. Come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up.'

The man gestured, and the gate began to open.

'Can my friend,' gesturing toward his dog, 'come in, too?' the traveller asked.

'I'm sorry; sir, but we don't accept pets.'

The man thought a moment and then turned back toward the road and continued the way he had been going with his dog...

After another long walk, and at the top of another long hill, he came to a dirt road leading through a farm gate that looked as if it had never been closed. There was no fence.

As he approached the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book.

'Excuse me!' he called to the man. 'Do you have any water?'

'Yeah, sure, there's a pump over there, come on in.'

'How about my friend here?' the traveller gestured to the dog.

'There should be a bowl by the pump.'

They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old-fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it.. The traveller filled the water bowl and took a long drink himself, and then he gave some to the dog.

When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man who was standing by the tree.

'What do you call this place?' the traveller asked.

'This is Heaven,' he answered.

'Well, that's confusing,' the traveller said. 'The man down the road said that was Heaven, too.'

'Oh, you mean the place with the gold street and pearly gates?   Nope. That's Hell.'

'Doesn't it make you mad for them to use your name like that?'

'No, we're just happy that they screen out the folks who would leave their best friends behind.' Repied the man. Smiling.

Yeah, who would want a heaven without our animals 

NETTIE XXXX

  

  

  

     

cloudhowe

HI Guys

Thought we could start a wee round robin adding to the lessons that life has taught us.  

Some examples , what do you think ...... 

I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person. 

I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows. 

I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' ..... makes my day!

I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world. 

I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. 

I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child. 

I've learned..... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way. 

I've learned...... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. 

I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand. 

I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult. 

I've learned.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for. 

I've learned.... That money doesn't buy class. 

I've learned... That it's those wee daily pleasures that make life worth living.

I've learned..... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts. 

I've learned...... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you. 

I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds. 

I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am. (you guys ??????)

I've learned... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile. 

I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them. 

I've learned... That life is tough, but I'm tougher... 

I've learned.... That when you harbour bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere. 

I've learned...... That I wish I could have told my Mum and my Dad that I love them one more time before they passed away. 

I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them. 

I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks. 

I've learned..... That when a newly born relative  holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life. 

I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Maybe we could end up with a wee back catalogue of like's lessons.....

Nettie xxx

portiasproudmom

Hi everyone!  I'm laying here in bed, too excited about Vegas to go to sleep!  Mel and Wren, it was so good to hear from you both.  Tears are streaming down my face because I'm so happy to have heard from you.  My dh thinks it's crazy that I talk about all of you so much, but he just doesn't understand.  You all mean SO much to me!  I can't even put it into words, but I think you all get it.

I'm leaving tomorrow morning and am returning next Saturday.  Take good care, everyone!  I love you all!!

Hugs,

Karen

geebung

Nettie - thanks for posting all the jokes and wise sayings - great to read them all.

Karen - we will miss you - have a great time!

Love to everyone. I'm off to bed - been a busy weekend.

jane xxx 

Anonymous

A 2 1/2 year old child who is being a perfect angel is more work than any human being should have to endure. If he wasn't so cute he'd be outta here!

lvtwoqlt

Mel, good to see you post and ask about my mil and dad. My mil is back to her usual canterkous self. She asked me again this weekend if I was going to the family reunion Memorial weekend to Crossville TN. Of course I said no, we are still having my grandmother's 95th birthday party that Saturday afternoon and I can't be two places at once. My dh is going with her to the weekend reunion. My dad is healing well from his back surgery but Friday he had another spell with his heart, racing and felt like passing out. He wore an event monitor for a month but didn't have a bad spell during that time. They are calling the heart doctor today to get in and have him checked out this week.

Sheila

EWB

Karen Have a wonderful time in Vegas- enjoy the pretty lights and the energy, and interesting people and all that! I am planning a trip for our 25th anniversary just so we can renew vows in a Vegas chapel (on my bucket list, just to sat we did it)

MIA ladies, so good to hear from you, can't help it, start to worry when ladies are MIA for a while.

Shelia, glad to hear people are on the mend, hope they are able to figure out heart issues. Just like the children, put on a moniter, take them to dr--nothing. 

Nettie, lovely thoughts. Goes to show the easy and inexpensive things are some times the most vaulable and powerful!

After last nights storm with lots of thunder and lighting, the sun is out this morning- I am hopeful for a really good day, I wish the same for you all.

Makratz

EWB send some sun our way.  We are still grey with lingering rain showers.  We had thunder yesterday too.  I need some SUNSHINE!!!

lvtwoqlt

We had 4 days of rain last week but Sunday I woke up to sunshine through my bedroom window and it is sunny again today, although a little chilly with some wind.

Sheila

dink

Hello everyone.  Mel it was so nice to see you again (well, read your writing).  You are such a sweet and thoughtful person.  How are you doing?  Judi, you're also great.  Karen, I hope you have a great time in Vegas, you deserve it.  Cathi, I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers.  How is she hadnling things at this point.  Are you really doing ok or just trying to be brave?  Sheila, galld everyone is doing better.   Things are so busy here, I don't write much but I do read.  We have opened the Surgery Center.  Performed multiple laser treatments and today we did our first three surgeries and they wen so smoothly it was truly scary.  I had to stack all the charts and records on my desk to review them one more time in the morning.  I will be traveling to Augusta< Ga in a week or two.  Is anyone from there?

Everyone, I send you all hugs and wish the best for each and everyone of you,

Leesa

EWB

Leesa, good to hear things are going well!

Makraz, tried sending sun your way- any luck? We have another sunny day (at least we're starting that way).

Happy sunny day to all...Elaine

Kaloni

Bonjour' Ladies!

Boy! There is so many new ladies here. Welcome! Salut! I have not been here for a while. I have been so busy with LIFE! Sue how are you doing? I hope your doing good. Well, As of today, it is 3 years being a Survivor. It is a long journey. But, we manage to keep going...For all you sweet   ladies still going through treatment. Always keep Positive. Keep God above with you always. And, remember my Breastcancer Motto: "Hold on, and, Keep your Strength, Keep your  Faith, and, Keep your Hope." You too will get there. That light will start peaking through little by little each day.

God Bless

Love, Kaloni

Makratz

EWB - Yes!!!  Thank you!!  It was a beautiful day!!  Rain again so I'm soakin' up the sun while I can!!  Do it again tomorrow, please???

livesstrong

Hello All - quick pop in for me.  UB started his 2 day chemo regimen this week.  He did great- just tired ( no surprise there).  I'll keep you posted.

Love ya's,

AE

Karen - have a great time!!!