please help

livesstrong

Nana - I am so sorry you had to join our club but at the same time I am glad you are here.  Don't forget, we have been there and done that so feel free to have every emotion you care to.

We will lead you down the yellow brick road together.

I hate bootface.

AE

lvtwoqlt

Nanna, I too am sorry you had to join our club. Just try and relax until the lumpectomy. I don't blame you for waiting until you get better insurance coverage. I had my needle biopsy on April 25 and didn't have my mastectomy until June 2 so you should be fine waiting a couple of weeks.

My son is letting me on his computer some this week.

Hope all have a very Merry Christmas if I don't get back on line before then.

Sheila

shari1232

Bootface sucks.

1Cathi

It was a little chilly on the beach this AM had to put on my Christmas Gear

1Cathi

WISH I WERE THERE --------- NOT!!!!!!!!!

livesstrong

Sure Cathi, rub it in!!!! grrrrrr.

my3girls

Hi sisters!! Checking in from work. We are all so busy this time of year! When I am home, I am either running around...wrapping gifts, cleaning, laundry...or spending some precious time with my dear Dennis!! I know...it's the norm for all of us right?  Well..not the Dennis part..haha

MEL...I am sooooooooo happy to see you here!! I miss you so much! Your greetings and condolences to Nana..are so heartfelt! You are truly a blessing to us all! I wish you a beautiful Christmas.  Will Adam be with you?

Oliver got all of his staples out.  He is doing pretty well.  I have been hugging and loving him until he is probably ready for me to stop! I can't help it.  I couldn't believe how hard it was being away from him for 4 days...now that he is back, and still recouping..I want to baby him!! So precious!

Cheryl....I am so sorry your news was not good.  Like all the other sisters have told you...you came to the right place! We have all been there..and we will be here for you every step of the way.  Welcome to the Yellow Brick Road...and we will get you to the Emerald City. We will help to make your journey as easy as possible.

Judie..I wish I could slow down....just can't! It's a busy time at work.  I took a vacation day for Christmas..so I can sit and relax with my girls.  Dennis is coming over for brunch that day...he is Jewish...but he celebrates it all!  We will go to my brother's later.  I am going to his sister's house for Hanukkah on Sunday.  Tonight we are going to my grandson's for dinner...and to spoil him and his brother with lots of gifts!!

Lot's of cold and wind here..not too much snow. But very bitter temps! It will warm up tomorrow..so more than likely, it won't be a white Christmas.

Ladies...back to work.  My flight just landed. 

Talk to all of you later...and If I don't....

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OF MY DEAR, DEAR SISTERS..WHOM I LOVE SO MUCH!!!!

XOXO

Lisa

NancyD

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone! I just got the results of my latest bloodwork this evening. My onc had me worried because a month ago he said one of my cancer markers was slightly elevated. I didn't even know he had started testing me for that. But last week's test results came in today and everything's back down where it should be! That's one of the BEST Christmas presents I could have received.

I'm off work now through to 1/5, a sorely needed rest. But I ended up taking work home with me to do tomorrow as we had an emergency late in the day that has to be fixed ASAP.

I finally finished my Christmas shopping tonight. My daughter's been working and had my car every evening for the past two weeks, but tonight she was off. So I hit the mall (not the usual madhouse—a sign of the economic times) and bought a few last minute things.

I finished up there so quickly I decided to do some grocery shopping. That was the straw that broke my back. I spent more time in the grocery store than at the mall. I'm sitting here, aching, but thinking how nice it will be when I wake up at 5:30 am (my usual get-up time) and just roll back over for another hour or two.

I hope everyone's health improves with the new year. Nana, stay strong. I found the hardest time is when you're waiting for the answers...waiting for a plan. It was about the only time in my bc journey that I HAD to take something for the anxiety. But once the plan is made, you grit your teeth and somehow get through the treatments. And when you hit a slump and start to slide, we're here to give you a boost back up.

geebung

It's a little early but Happy Christmas everyone - Sue, Ulla, Shirlann, Lisa, Karen, AE & UB, Judie, Suebee, Dink, Cathi, Jule, Ann, Mel, Sheila, Kaloni, Digger, Wren, Nancy, Fumi, Shari and everyone.

 Lots of love, peace and hugs,

Jane xoxox 

1Cathi

Just a quick pop in this AM as  we have some busy days ahead.  Wishing all of you a MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS.  And only good health happiness and lots of MONEY in 2009!!!!!!

XOXOXOXOXOXOXO -Cathi

portiasproudmom

My dear sisters, I'm sitting here in tears.  Judie has e-mailed me with the sad news that her son Cai (Connor's dad) passed away a few days ago.  I don't have details, as she's obviously too overcome with grief and shock to get into all that at this time.  I do know that he was born in 1963--a year before me.  That would have made him 45.  This is just so sad and tragic.  Please keep our sweet sister Judie in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  And what a horrible time to have it happen--right before Christmas.  My heart is breaking for her and her family.

Love to all,

Karen

portiasproudmom

Here's what she sent me.  It must be a copy of his obituary.

 

Cailen "Cai" Bruce Campbell passed away December 19, 2008.  Cai was born June 6, 1963, in Provo, Utah, to Bruce Campbell & Judie Lundgren.  A diligent worker who loved a challenge, Cai was known for setting & achieving goals in both his personal & professional life.  He earned his MBA & graduated with honors from the University of Washington & was an executive vice president for  KMS Financial Services.  He will be missed, but never forgotten, for his sense of humor & legacy of love & devotion to his family & friends alike.  Cai is survived by his wife Mei Young & their son Connor, who was the light of his life.  He is also survived by his parents  Bruce Campbell (Valita) and Judie Lundgren; sisters Patti Adams, Heidi Campbell (Eben O'Connor), Jill Hile (Rich), Sarah Youngberg (Spencer) , brother Devin Petersen; step-brother Mark Smith; step-sisters Denise Johnsen (Craig), Lisa Marshall (Bob), & Christina Price (Gary); & numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, & cousins.  A memorial will be held Saturday, January 3, 2009, at 1:30 p.m. at Sunset Hills Memorial & Funeral Home, 1215 145^th Pl SE, Bellevue, 98007.  In lieu of flowers, please send donations to a charity of your choice.

portiasproudmom

Darn.  The picture didn't come through.  It was a really nice one of Cai with Connor.  I'm just in shock.

NancyD

Oh no! I'm so, so sorry Judie. My deepest sympathies and condolences to your entire family. What a heartbreaking thing to happen, and especially at this time of year.

livesstrong

Judie -I am so truly sorry for your loss. I am speechless.

AE

shari1232

Judie,

You and your family are in my thoughts during this terribly difficult time.

1Cathi

Dear Judie,

What can anyone say at this time except I am thinking and praying for you and your family at this time. 

XOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXO -Cathi

sueps

Oh my goodness...just before I logged in here I was looking at some beautiful pictures of Judies family on facebook ...this is absolutely tragic news ....

Judie my deepest sympathy x x x

 to you xxx and all your family xxx 

lvtwoqlt

Judi, I am so sorry to hear about this tragedy. It is a tragedy at any time but this close to the holiday makes it that much harder to bear. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sheila

Anonymous

I feel surrounded by love and spirit. Thank you. Some photos at http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v645/quinndog/Cailen/

I am utterly numb still, in my "make sure details are covered and everyone is getting what they need to get through this" mode. It's my natural instinct. Crashing will come later.

I love you all and pray that each of you have a wonderful celebration. We are still having our big family party this evening to honor Cai and celebrate his life. It will be good for us and for Connor. We are a very close family and are supporting each other.

Judie

Shirlann

I AM HOME!

Oh, I am so sorry for the poor people who have lost a loved one.  It is so hard.  Judie, I am so sorry.

My thoughts and love go out to all of you.  

What is this? One of our sisters is crying?  No, no, Cheryl, you will be just fine.  This is not 1935.  Things are so much better now.  The cure rate is around 80% and better with smaller tumors.  

You will get well and begin to recover when you know more.  I am 10 years post treatment and my mom's best friend died last year, 44 years post double mastectomy, she was 94.  See, most of us get well, we really do.

So try to enjoy Christmas as best you can and come here and rant and rave all you want.  That is what we are here for.

Gentle hugs, Shirlann

md_mouse

I just wanted to stop in and say MERRY CHRISTMAS to all of you beautiful ladies...and UB too!



I don't always post but I do read at least once a week.



BIG HUGS to all of you



md_mouse

nowheregirl

              

Judie,

I don't even know what to say. I am just so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

               

xoxoxo

Fumi

Wren

Judie, I'm so sorry. What a sad shock this time of year, or any time.

To all of you... I'm thinking of you and sending warm wishes.

Hugs!

portiasproudmom

Love and hugs,

Karen

geebung

Oh Judie - I am so sorry to hear this terribly sad news. All my love to you and your family.

Hugs,

Jane xoxo 

my3girls

Judie...I just logged on and read your very sad news.  I am so sorry, dear Judy.  I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I am glad that you are surrounded by your family and that all of you are with each other for support.  I am just stunned. God Bless all of you. May His loving arms embrace each and every one of you...and bring you comfort in this very difficult time. Love and hugs to little Conner. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Judie))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) much love to you!!! We are here for you...you know that!

I hope everyone enjoyed their Christmas!  Mine was wonderful, but I am dead tired today.  Can't wait to go home from work.

xoxo

Lisa

livesstrong

Judie - I just finished viewing your album - the pictures are just precious.  My favorite is of Cailen, Connor & the dog, all three have such huge smiles on the faces.

It's all so unfair.

Please know we are here for you.

Valerie

Anonymous

I called and spoke with Judie yesterday morning...such a sad, tragic time for she and her family.

She is holding up as well as I knew she would be....she sounded tired but seems to be handling this difficult time with all the inner strength she carries.

She is staying strong but said that she felt she needed some alone time,

Please keep her in your thoughts as I know you all will..

Hugs

Jule

my3girls

Jule,

Thanks for giving us the update on our dear Judie. She is a very strong beautiful person...but this would require all of our inner strenghts combined. We are here Judie...let us hold you up and comfort you at the same time.

xoxo

Lisa