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  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited September 2008
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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    SCRAN ...LOL....I am just gettin some scran ...food!!! 

    scran up....to eat

     or you can nosh up hahahaha 

    hahaha Thankyou for your WOOP !!! WOOP!!! 

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    or if ya really common ...we call it troughing HEHEHE 

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  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited September 2008

    Oohhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

     If you are really bad here we call it pigging out.oiuk ouik.

    or if you are induging in the illegal stuff- the munchies!!! lol

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    WOW THE MUNCHIES ...I LOVE THE MUNCHIES HAHAHAHAHA AND THE ILLEGAL STUFF!!

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    we just stuff our cakeholes  (cakeholes=mouths) I have a small cakehole lol

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    AE we sound reet common HAHA HAHA .... 

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited September 2008

    I AV FOT GO  BED ... FOT GET SOME SLEEP ...SWEET DREAMS AE XXX 

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  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited September 2008

    LOVE YA SUE, SWEET DREAMS!!

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  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited September 2008

    OH WHOOPEEE, now, I can eat, sleep and go to the bathroom!  HOORAY, I KNEW it wasn't Bootface, but that does not do any good until Sue hears the words.  She is so high up right now, I know she is better.  THANK GOD!!!

    We have GOT to drop some US slang on Sue, she is waaay ahead of us in that department.  I know, okay Sue, what, in the US, is a trunk?????

    That will get her!!!!!

    Hugs to all and I sure am glad to go to bed!

    Shirlann

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited September 2008

    Congrats Sue....WOOP WOOP!!!  We won't say...."we told you so"...ok!  Glad to hear you in such a fun and crazy mood!! Sleep well!!

    Sheila...sorry to hear about Donald's near miss and the huge ticket...that stinks.

    Off to get a few more things done here.

    Doctor gave me the ok from my hysterectomy....I can resume all normal activity!! Yeah...now I can go back to running. As soon as my little toe is better...I hit it the other day and it is black and blue and swollen.

    ttyl....hugs

    xoxo

    Lisa

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  • geebung
    geebung Member Posts: 1,851
    edited September 2008

    Just dashed home. I have 2 homes at the moment so it's a bit confusing! I'm driving back to the mountains tonight (leaving soon).

    Once again I am hopelessly behind in reading all your posts. I just glanced over them. Hope you are all ok. Just wanted to send my love to all of you. I can't wait to get the internet on in the new house.

    Hugs to you all.

    jane xxx 

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  • nanof2
    nanof2 Member Posts: 7
    edited September 2008

    hi sueps . i had masectomy tram flap reconstruction and lymph node removal all at the same time on the 15th of august ,no pain from the wounds  but the 4 drains were pretty painfull .went home day four without 3 drains .last one removed on day 7 . i have 85% use of my arm (cant quite put my arm fully extended above my head , the surgeon took my lymph nodes through my breast after masectomy so i didnt have to have a scar under my arm ,and i think thats why 6 weeks after my op ,im able to hang washing and manage some housework .only problem ive had is an infection in my stomach wound and because of this  all my treatments are being done back to front , ive started hormone therapy , seeing the specialist for radiotherapy tomorrow then once my wound has finally healed i will have 8 sessions of chemo ove a 24 week period . the first 4 weeks after getting my results were the hardest time for me ,very depressed etc ,but now ,i just want the treatments over and done with so i can get on with my life . you will get there .theres lots of support here for you 

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited September 2008

    Good news about the ticket Donald (hubby) got, the company will pay the ticket this time because it wasn't technically his fault but next time he will be responsible to pay it himself!

    Nan I am glad to hear that you are doing well and hope you healing continues to go well for you. Sue started this journey last year and we have been supporting her on this topic for over a year now.

    Sheila

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  • 1Cathi
    1Cathi Member Posts: 1,957
    edited September 2008

    Great news about the company paying the ticket Shelia, and we will pray there is no next time.

    XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    A quick checkin break. I've got a 9:30 appointment, then hit the road. Yes, AE, Jule and I are meeting. Of course I'm second fiddle to David...ain't love grand...but he may hang around for the weekend instead of Jule heading over the mountains to him. We'll see. But for sure it's dinner and gab this evening. My son is excited to meet her...he's an avid fisherman and she works with fish. I hope I get time to talk, too!

    Sue, WOOP WOOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XOXOXOXOXOX I've packed a bag of scram to stuff in my cakehole on the five hour drive.

    I'll be thinking and gossiping about all of you.

    Judie

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Im soooo excited that I can hardly wait for Judy to get here...

    David will be here over the weekend so I wont be heading over the mountain so Im thinking Judie, Devin and I will get to spend some time together on Saturday too as David has to work...

    I have always envied the ladies from this board that are close together and able to do little get togethers as Ive always been a lone girl on this side of my state so this is so awesome!!!!

    As always Ive read everyones posts but too excited today to keep much of it in my mind...so will just say HI to all and head back to getting my work done.

    Jule

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited September 2008

    Judie and Julie, I hope you both have fun during your meeting. I know I enjoyed my meeting with Anne. We both had copies of ABBA Gold to play in the car but we talked all the way to Asheville and back, never connecting up the new cd player I got for the car.

    Sheila

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  • AnneW
    AnneW Member Posts: 4,050
    edited September 2008

    Meeting cyber friends is great. You finally get to put a face and personality to the written word. I'm a memeber of a book club on line that has yearly gatherings. I've only atteneded two, but it was so much fun to meet and eat and talk. And several years ago I met a lady on this site who actually lived a mile away from me. We became good friends and had regular meetings at a local cafe.

    So, take advantage of opportunities to meet sisters. It is so worth the effort!

    Anne

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  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited September 2008

    Yipeeeeee!!  Let me add my !!!!!!!!  I'm so happy for you, Sue!!

    Hugs,

    Karen

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited September 2008

    Judie and Jule have a GREAT VISIT!! I am so thrilled that the two of you are getting together!! I am sure Devin will enjoy himself as well.  EAT DRINK & BE MERRY!!!

    Ulla...darling...I miss you!!!!

    Off to work ladies. Enjoy the day!

    xoxo

    Lisa

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2008

    Judie and I had a wonderful visit!!!!

    We met for dinner early and ended up closing the resturant.

    Devin is an absolutely doll!!!!! He definately has his momma's dimples and those brown eyes are beautiful!! Such and man at 19 yrs old.....he is one of the most curtious and interesting young men at that age that I have ever met.

    We are planning to go possibly go fishing over the weekend and Judie has invited David and I to attend an imprompto theater that Devins college is putting on Saturday evening so look forward to spending more time with she and Devin.

    Now the good stuff!!!! Ladies, Judie is exactly like she is here....very insightful into life in general and such a personality. I am so happy that we were able to meet here and in person. I feel our friendship will continue for many many years to come.

    Well, as always it seems, Im at work and have budget junk to attend to this morning so must run..

    Love to all

    Jule

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  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited September 2008

    Oh wow, how wonderful to actually get to see and hug our dear sisters!  Joy upon joy!  Jule, I am so happy for you and I knew Judie would be just as you described.

    What a treat!  Makes me smile to hear all this.

    Now, we have to get our Sue over here, and maybe Fumi and Ulla too.  WOW, we would all be so blessed.

    Hugs and kisses to all, Shirlann 

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  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited September 2008

    well my dear dear sisters..let me say what  AE used to tell us ..*u r such a chatty bunch ladies...*lol

    now about me..i have read all ur posts (needed 3 hrs to do so)but it made me feel better to know about all of u in spite that our dear fumi post about her friends loss made me cry like a baby wen i remembered my died Persian cat in Baghdad in my family house,,just under my tree which was planted by my mother when i was born,,sometimes i just cant stop crying wen know about such things...

    i am so happy to read ur posts mentioning me and that u miss me ,,unfortunately i was feeling so bad in the last days,,i feel so empty..like there is a big,,big hole inside me that will swallow all of me in a deep dark hole that persist only deep inside me..

    i couldn't stop crying and i don't know why am crying//i felt so unimportant and that my presence is so meaningless..i felt so unuseful .helpless,,and that its better to decide how and when i am going to put an end to my miserable,empty life...

    i was running away from anything related to cancer even the boards,,but it wasn't helpful as i was more depressed..

    my husband was suffering really to feel so helpless..not knowing how he can help me..he tried every possible way but he failed..

    days and hours where tasteless..no joy in doing anything..

    but i couldn't stay like that ..i started to try to think in another way,,just to help myself get out of this horrible mood,,yday i think i did it and started to feel like myself again..

    i came into the boards 2day to read all ur posts and to put this sad post of mine so plz all forgive me for that ,,i just don't have any other place to go..or another friends to understand all these feelings..

    dear shirlann,,thanks again for the biotin..cant find enough words to thank u..

    dear lisa..thanks for missing me,,it helps me to feel better that i mean something to someone..

    mel.judie.julie.sheilla.fumi.sue and every other one who i may missed to mention..

    i love u all

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited September 2008

    Ulla yes we have missed you and I am glad you are back. Can you not get any therapy for the depression that you have been experiencing?

    Sheila

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  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited September 2008

    dear sheila,,they just keep offering me a specialized psykotherapist who i can talk to her freely..i have tried that..i couldnt feel better as she speaks swedish and some english and i speak english and some swedish,,she offered to have a translator ,,i accept and wen tried that the situation was even funnier,,i never felt better..she cant give any medications..the whole health system here is so different of wat u have,,its great realy ut they insist on depending on our own abilities to deal with all those feelings,,they prefere that one have this type of talking freely which might cost them few thousands of dolars to reserve such a specialist to talk with her as long as u want rather that give u any simple depression pills which can be much cheeper and easier,,i cant deny that sometimes thier way is fruitfull..but sometimes its just so hard,,

    deep inside myself i like thier way in insisting on depending on the natural ways to deal with things,,but sometimes it beacame very hard specially with forengers like me  when its not only about sickness but can be bunch of different things

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited September 2008

    I understand that the language barrier can be a hinderance to therapy and it is just crazy that they don't offer any of the drugs to help you get through this dark abyss that you are going through.

    My mom spoke of my uncle when he returned from an earlier war (1960's) that he was changed and to help him get over the ptsd (not called that at that time) my father and the brothers would take him out fishing frequently. The calm water and relaxation helped him get through that tough time in his life.

    If there was something I could do to help you get through this trial in your life I would do it for you.

    Sheila

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  • 1Cathi
    1Cathi Member Posts: 1,957
    edited September 2008

    Dear Ulla,

    I am kinda new to the thread but I have read your past posts, and now this new one, and just want to say I am wishing you good and peaceful thoughts,  I hope soon you can begin to see the "Sunshine" again.

    What Shelia mentioned about water works for me when I am in that place you are right now. I am so lucky to live on the Gulf Of Mexico and when my thoughts  become not so positive -just sitting - doing nothing else but listening to the water and waves just is so much therepy.

    WISHING YOU GOOD THOUGHTS ULLA!

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  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited September 2008

    Well it's official, my son will be discharged from the Navy on Tuesday! He will be having his truck shipped back to the states but we will have to go to Atlanta to pick it up in about 30 days. His personal belongings will be shipped to my house and take about 60-80 days.

    Sheila

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  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited September 2008

    dear 1Cathi ,,thanks alot for ur nice posative words and plz forgive me that i forgot to welcome u with us here,,i noticed all ur posts be4 i post my last one..and was thinking about putting a nice welcome ,,i just forgot,,

    i used to walk through the wood that is so close to where i live and walk by the iver that goes through it,,i just cant know or understand why i start to cry for nothing ,,or no reason..sometimes the scene of the falling leaves from their trees make me cry..sometimes i cry to hear the voice of the rain thinking that the sky is crying with me,,its just a VERY DEEP QUITE SADNESS,,

    my hubby said that i look like am comming from another world ..he was trying to make me laugh when he said that i was look like a ZOMBI WEN I BURST INTO TEARS BECAUSE I REALY FELT SO LIKE WAT HE SAID then he felt so guilty and i felt so bad to make him feel like that..

    i was so fragile and he was so lost not knowing how to make me feel better or how to make me smilei will try to post some of the pix i took in the wood wen we walked there many times in the past few days

    love u sisters

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