Single Pink Rose for AlaskaDeb

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  • wishiwere
    wishiwere Posts: 3,793
    edited January 2009

    Another Pink Rose added from Michigan.....gosh I hope if nothing more comes out of this, that those girls will remember the day their mother brought so much pink into their lives as a cheerful memory. I know it will be hard now, but one day....they will remember this and I know it ill bring a smile as wide and effective as Deb's own smile was always on these boards.....Now its time for another tear fest about this whole danged situation....why is never answered, but always on our lips...and in our hearts..

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Posts: 2,298
    edited January 2009

    Wish.....and....when I finally get finished with what looks like so far is going to be 70....... 8 1/2 x 11 pages of beautiful condolences....they will be able to see who sent the roses. I've since changed the idea of the first page to our book to include a picture of the same # of pink roses that utlimitely end up at our beautiful Deb's funeral.

    It's going to be great. You girls are awesome. 

    Edited to add....omgosh...if the girls send us a pic of the actual roses...I can use that!

  • Watson
    Watson Posts: 1,490
    edited January 2009

    I just ordered mine.  What a bittersweet thing to do.  So sad but yet happy that her family will know how much she was loved here.

    Watson

  • Odalys
    Odalys Posts: 2,103
    edited January 2009
    Hey I was just thinking...sure hope they don't run out of roses in Alaska. It is the middle of winter!  Wink
  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Posts: 1,305
    edited January 2009

    I ordered my rose earlier today and at that time it was over 100 roses but I see the number has grown this afternoon.  I will be sending a card to her family tomorrow so if you want me to add your name to the card, PM me with what you want to say and your bco name.

    Margaret

  • zap
    zap Posts: 2,017
    edited January 2009

    This is so touching and all these single roses in vases will comfort the family.  Perhaps, if we now have 100 single roses in vases being sent by one florist in a small town, we should now, be sending financial support for breast cancer research in Deb's memory and not more flowers. What do you think Deb would want. 

    Susan 

  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Posts: 4,484
    edited January 2009

    zap, I too was thinking that a hundred $10-dollar roses is a thousand dollars -- and that we could have a "matching fund" -- for research, or for something her family has specified.

  • jerseymaria
    jerseymaria Posts: 770
    edited January 2009

    sue, someone said earlier that it will not be a single rose per vase...simply too many roses.  there will be multiple vases with many roses in each one.  i do know that most florists order their flowers in so they shouldn't have any problem getting that many flowers.  if my memory is correct, the service isn't till sat so they should have plenty of time.  wouldn't it be nice if gov. palin knew about our special angel and could honor her in some way also.  maybe i'll go look for her website.  take care

  • Odalys
    Odalys Posts: 2,103
    edited January 2009

    That would be great since Deb was a real fan of Palin. 

  • She
    She Posts: 503
    edited January 2009

    This link will take you directly to Gov. Palin's website email if you would like to contact her to convey your thoughts on Deb's outstanding contribution to the BCO community:

     http://gov.state.ak.us/govmail.php

  • bre
    bre Posts: 89
    edited January 2009

    tried to order a rose today before work but it didn't work.  I have figured out the time difference now and will see if it will work.

    Margaret B....would you please add my name to your card?  Thanks

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Posts: 6,503
    edited January 2009

    I sent this post/email to Gov Palin.  Her site did say that due to the volume of emails that they give priority to reading those from AK.   

    I  hope that I do not step on any toes or boundries by mentioning both websites...Deb was involved with both discussion boards, and I felt since they are both dedicated to BC to include both in the email. 

    Governor Palin,

    One of my friends, Deb Clonan passed away on Sunday, January 25, 2009 after waging a valiant battle with breast cancer.  Deb is a native Alaskan and lived in Soldotna with her husband John, two daughters Carol and Katie as well as her parents who were her neighbors.

    The reason I am telling you all this is as a way to introduce you to one of the truly most wonderful, caring, amazing person who I have encountered.  Deb was a devoted wife, mother, daughter, friend, community volunteer.  But her community was not just Soldotna, AK.  Deb's community reached across the US, Canada, the UK, Japan, Australia, and Israel.  You may wonder how Deb came to have so many friends across the world.  To those that counted Deb as our friend, the answer is simple.  Deb was caring, intuitive, had a great sense of humor, and a wonderful supportive listener.  Deb told stories, stories of her life in Alaska, her family, her animals, friends, work both volunteer and paid. Deb was a member of two non-profits that support breast cancer survivors, families and friends.  These two organizations, Breastcancer.org (bco) and Nosurrenderbreastcancerhelp.org.  Both provide invaluable information to those touched by breast cancer.  Among the resources both these groups provide are research, education and discussion boards.  For many of us, the discussion boards are a life line to others battling breast cancer, a cyber support group.   It is here that I had the good fortune to meet Deb.  It is hard to even to begin to describe how many women lives that Deb touched.  Just read the number of posts that have been written on BCO and No Surrender and the words women used to describe what Deb meant to them, what support she offered.  Deb's friends are ordering single pink roses that will be arranged in several vases to be delivered at the memorial service.  At last count, there were at least 150 roses ordered at the end of business today and the number will continue to grow. Deb will live on in all our hearts. Local Soldotna Florist, Tammy's Flowers and Gifts will be arranging the roses and delivering them to the memorial service.  The service is being held at Soldotna Bible Chapel at 2 pm on January 31st (Her obit is in the Peninsula Clarion).

    I realize that it is not possible for you to attend the memorial service.  I wonder though, if there is another way for you to pay tribute to Deb Clonan or a way to honor her memory and what she has done for her community near and far.  A few ideas come to mind:  a donation to BCO or No Surrender from your office,  support funding for breast cancer diagnosis and treatment for the uninsured and underinsured, support funding research so that one day soon, we will no longer loose sisters to  this dreaded beast called breast cancer.

    Thank you for your time. 

  • Deb-from-Ohio
    Deb-from-Ohio Posts: 1,140
    edited January 2009

    Ladies, don't forget in the "commerating Loved ones" forum, the emails to Pres.Obama and Sarah Palin on Feb 14th.......we're really getting organized now......this is in tribute to Alaska Deb and the countless others we have lost to this $%%&%^! disease!

    Hugs

    Deb

  • ravdeb
    ravdeb Posts: 3,116
    edited January 2009

    I think this is all so amazing. A little angel here on the boards gave me the heads up about the roses and asked if she could send a rose for me, in my name.

    You women are terrific. What a testimonial of how Deb touched so many people.

    I thank you, Little Angel, for inviting me to be a part of this glorious show of love.

    Be well..all of you.

    Sweet funny thoughts of Deb. ..

  • yellowrose
    yellowrose Posts: 886
    edited April 2009

    Karen, I am just checking in before starting work and am in tears over the touching letter that you sent Gov. Palin.  I pray that one of her aides will speed this through the system in time for Gov. Palin to respond before Saturday.

  • Marple
    Marple Posts: 19,143
    edited January 2009

    Yes Karen, wonderful letter.  It would be really something to have a reply by Sat. 

  • JoyRebecca
    JoyRebecca Posts: 787
    edited January 2009

    Hi All,

    I ordered my rose last pm....and then I felt such a sense of calm. Deb will be laughing with all the other angels and they'll be overjoyed at the sea of roses!!

    XX

    Joy

  • coonie
    coonie Posts: 7,618
    edited January 2009

    Just tried calling the number but didn't get an answer. Maybe closed right now? Not sure what time it is there? Will try again later.....this is a beautiful way to honor AlaskaDeb

  • Juli50
    Juli50 Posts: 859
    edited January 2009

    Coonie - It's only 7 am in Alaska right now. Try back in 2 hours.

  • coonie
    coonie Posts: 7,618
    edited January 2009

    Oh! Thanks Juli-----It's 10:00 here, so I'm WAY off!! Hope you have a great day!

  • Juli50
    Juli50 Posts: 859
    edited January 2009

    You're welcome! Have a great day too!

  • lkc
    lkc Posts: 1,203
    edited January 2009

    Adding Another Rose from the Bahamas ( as soon as they open!)

  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Posts: 2,298
    edited January 2009

    Man, I wish I lived in the Bahamas right now!!!

    Thanks so much girls.

    Hugs, Traci

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2009

    I opened up a paypal account recently and would like to buy Deb a rose...can I use paypal for the florist (wanted to know before I called her)?  Halp!

  • BethNY
    BethNY Posts: 2,710
    edited January 2009

    The letter to Palin was perfect. Thank you for sending that, and I truly hope someone on her staff sees the letter.

  • nowheregirl
    nowheregirl Posts: 894
    edited January 2009

                      

    Peggy, I will get Donna (djd) to get a rose for you because she has a PayPal account and you can repay for it. Though I doubt she will take it. If that's the case, then PAY FORWARD. PM you anyway. 

                 

    Hugs,

    Fumi

  • jerseymaria
    jerseymaria Posts: 770
    edited January 2009

    fyi, when i called to order my rose, they took my visa # so there was no payment problem.

  • ck55
    ck55 Posts: 346
    edited January 2009

    I just ordered my rose and they told me they were up to 141 and calls were starting to come in again this morning.

    Donna, I think this was just such a wonderful idea. What a way to show her family how many people's lives she has touched, if even in a small way. I am more of a lurker than a poster on these boards, but when I first came here two years ago scared and confused it was Deb's avatar that really caught my eye and actually made me smile. And reading her posts often gave me a chuckle. She will be missed but forever remembered. Thanks for coming up with this idea.

     Cyndi 

  • waterlily
    waterlily Posts: 547
    edited January 2009

    Just called right now!   It warms my heart to think of her loved ones seeing all the lives she has touched through our flowers.  Tammy said John called to her to make sure she gets all our screen names so he can write us.   Bless his heart.  I told Tammy that we think she's cool!

    waterlily
    Dx 6/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IV, Grade 3, 13/18 nodes, mets, ER+/PR-, HER2-

  • lexi4
    lexi4 Posts: 1,074
    edited January 2009

    Another pink rose sent from CA. I do hope that Deb's family will see and feel the love and affection that we all felt for Deb. I know the roses are going to be so beautiful...

    Lexi

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