Single Pink Rose for AlaskaDeb
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Another Pink Rose added from Michigan.....gosh I hope if nothing more comes out of this, that those girls will remember the day their mother brought so much pink into their lives as a cheerful memory. I know it will be hard now, but one day....they will remember this and I know it ill bring a smile as wide and effective as Deb's own smile was always on these boards.....Now its time for another tear fest about this whole danged situation....why is never answered, but always on our lips...and in our hearts..
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Wish.....and....when I finally get finished with what looks like so far is going to be 70....... 8 1/2 x 11 pages of beautiful condolences....they will be able to see who sent the roses. I've since changed the idea of the first page to our book to include a picture of the same # of pink roses that utlimitely end up at our beautiful Deb's funeral.
It's going to be great. You girls are awesome.
Edited to add....omgosh...if the girls send us a pic of the actual roses...I can use that!
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I just ordered mine. What a bittersweet thing to do. So sad but yet happy that her family will know how much she was loved here.
Watson
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Hey I was just thinking...sure hope they don't run out of roses in Alaska. It is the middle of winter!
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I ordered my rose earlier today and at that time it was over 100 roses but I see the number has grown this afternoon. I will be sending a card to her family tomorrow so if you want me to add your name to the card, PM me with what you want to say and your bco name.
Margaret
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This is so touching and all these single roses in vases will comfort the family. Perhaps, if we now have 100 single roses in vases being sent by one florist in a small town, we should now, be sending financial support for breast cancer research in Deb's memory and not more flowers. What do you think Deb would want.
Susan
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zap, I too was thinking that a hundred $10-dollar roses is a thousand dollars -- and that we could have a "matching fund" -- for research, or for something her family has specified.
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sue, someone said earlier that it will not be a single rose per vase...simply too many roses. there will be multiple vases with many roses in each one. i do know that most florists order their flowers in so they shouldn't have any problem getting that many flowers. if my memory is correct, the service isn't till sat so they should have plenty of time. wouldn't it be nice if gov. palin knew about our special angel and could honor her in some way also. maybe i'll go look for her website. take care
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That would be great since Deb was a real fan of Palin.
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This link will take you directly to Gov. Palin's website email if you would like to contact her to convey your thoughts on Deb's outstanding contribution to the BCO community:
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tried to order a rose today before work but it didn't work. I have figured out the time difference now and will see if it will work.
Margaret B....would you please add my name to your card? Thanks
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I sent this post/email to Gov Palin. Her site did say that due to the volume of emails that they give priority to reading those from AK.
I hope that I do not step on any toes or boundries by mentioning both websites...Deb was involved with both discussion boards, and I felt since they are both dedicated to BC to include both in the email.
Governor Palin,
One of my friends, Deb Clonan passed away on Sunday, January 25, 2009 after waging a valiant battle with breast cancer. Deb is a native Alaskan and lived in Soldotna with her husband John, two daughters Carol and Katie as well as her parents who were her neighbors.
The reason I am telling you all this is as a way to introduce you to one of the truly most wonderful, caring, amazing person who I have encountered. Deb was a devoted wife, mother, daughter, friend, community volunteer. But her community was not just Soldotna, AK. Deb's community reached across the US, Canada, the UK, Japan, Australia, and Israel. You may wonder how Deb came to have so many friends across the world. To those that counted Deb as our friend, the answer is simple. Deb was caring, intuitive, had a great sense of humor, and a wonderful supportive listener. Deb told stories, stories of her life in Alaska, her family, her animals, friends, work both volunteer and paid. Deb was a member of two non-profits that support breast cancer survivors, families and friends. These two organizations, Breastcancer.org (bco) and Nosurrenderbreastcancerhelp.org. Both provide invaluable information to those touched by breast cancer. Among the resources both these groups provide are research, education and discussion boards. For many of us, the discussion boards are a life line to others battling breast cancer, a cyber support group. It is here that I had the good fortune to meet Deb. It is hard to even to begin to describe how many women lives that Deb touched. Just read the number of posts that have been written on BCO and No Surrender and the words women used to describe what Deb meant to them, what support she offered. Deb's friends are ordering single pink roses that will be arranged in several vases to be delivered at the memorial service. At last count, there were at least 150 roses ordered at the end of business today and the number will continue to grow. Deb will live on in all our hearts. Local Soldotna Florist, Tammy's Flowers and Gifts will be arranging the roses and delivering them to the memorial service. The service is being held at Soldotna Bible Chapel at 2 pm on January 31st (Her obit is in the Peninsula Clarion).
I realize that it is not possible for you to attend the memorial service. I wonder though, if there is another way for you to pay tribute to Deb Clonan or a way to honor her memory and what she has done for her community near and far. A few ideas come to mind: a donation to BCO or No Surrender from your office, support funding for breast cancer diagnosis and treatment for the uninsured and underinsured, support funding research so that one day soon, we will no longer loose sisters to this dreaded beast called breast cancer.
Thank you for your time.
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Ladies, don't forget in the "commerating Loved ones" forum, the emails to Pres.Obama and Sarah Palin on Feb 14th.......we're really getting organized now......this is in tribute to Alaska Deb and the countless others we have lost to this $%%&%^! disease!
Hugs
Deb
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I think this is all so amazing. A little angel here on the boards gave me the heads up about the roses and asked if she could send a rose for me, in my name.
You women are terrific. What a testimonial of how Deb touched so many people.
I thank you, Little Angel, for inviting me to be a part of this glorious show of love.
Be well..all of you.
Sweet funny thoughts of Deb. ..
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Karen, I am just checking in before starting work and am in tears over the touching letter that you sent Gov. Palin. I pray that one of her aides will speed this through the system in time for Gov. Palin to respond before Saturday.
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Yes Karen, wonderful letter. It would be really something to have a reply by Sat.
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Hi All,
I ordered my rose last pm....and then I felt such a sense of calm. Deb will be laughing with all the other angels and they'll be overjoyed at the sea of roses!!
XX
Joy
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Just tried calling the number but didn't get an answer. Maybe closed right now? Not sure what time it is there? Will try again later.....this is a beautiful way to honor AlaskaDeb
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Coonie - It's only 7 am in Alaska right now. Try back in 2 hours.
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Oh! Thanks Juli-----It's 10:00 here, so I'm WAY off!! Hope you have a great day!
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You're welcome! Have a great day too!
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Adding Another Rose from the Bahamas ( as soon as they open!)
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Man, I wish I lived in the Bahamas right now!!!
Thanks so much girls.
Hugs, Traci
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I opened up a paypal account recently and would like to buy Deb a rose...can I use paypal for the florist (wanted to know before I called her)? Halp!
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The letter to Palin was perfect. Thank you for sending that, and I truly hope someone on her staff sees the letter.
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Peggy, I will get Donna (djd) to get a rose for you because she has a PayPal account and you can repay for it. Though I doubt she will take it. If that's the case, then PAY FORWARD. PM you anyway.
Hugs,
Fumi
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fyi, when i called to order my rose, they took my visa # so there was no payment problem.
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I just ordered my rose and they told me they were up to 141 and calls were starting to come in again this morning.
Donna, I think this was just such a wonderful idea. What a way to show her family how many people's lives she has touched, if even in a small way. I am more of a lurker than a poster on these boards, but when I first came here two years ago scared and confused it was Deb's avatar that really caught my eye and actually made me smile. And reading her posts often gave me a chuckle. She will be missed but forever remembered. Thanks for coming up with this idea.
Cyndi
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Just called right now! It warms my heart to think of her loved ones seeing all the lives she has touched through our flowers. Tammy said John called to her to make sure she gets all our screen names so he can write us. Bless his heart. I told Tammy that we think she's cool!
waterlily
Dx 6/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IV, Grade 3, 13/18 nodes, mets, ER+/PR-, HER2- -
Another pink rose sent from CA. I do hope that Deb's family will see and feel the love and affection that we all felt for Deb. I know the roses are going to be so beautiful...
Lexi
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