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  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited October 2008

    All right, that does it!  Fumi, I told EVERYBODY on this site to get a Shingles vaccine!  You did not mind well!  Into the corner with you!  Dang it, anyone who is well enough, get that Shingles vaccine, you can get Shingles over and over.  It is HORRIBLE.  But poor Fumi, it is just such a time as this  that it strikes, you are sad, and your immune system knows it.

    AE, good luck honey.  I am thinking of you.

    Ulla, what the heck?  Who cares about a dang old test?  You are getting well and are even off on another challenge!  This is a huge victory for you, pass or fail, we are all so proud of you.  Lovely girl.

    Sue bug, going on vacation!  WHOOPEE!  ME too, just not much of one.  Going to Niagara Falls for our 55th Wedding Anniversay on Thursday, just 4 days, it is frickin' freezin'  in Buffalo!  But the airfare was cheap.  hahahahaha

    Cathi, honey, you sound better, I am glad.  I hated those ports.  You feel like a freak and they hurt, too.

    So I have been "missing", we bought a new Prius, and it took all our weekend, we are too old for the "car dealer" rigamarole.  But we sure love it.  So far, 66 miles a gallon, of course, that was only 4 miles!   hahahahah

    Hugs and kisses to you all, Shirlann 

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    SISTERS PRAY

    HIS HEART STOPPED THEY ARE BREATHING FOR HIM I AM CRYING CRYING MY BEST MATE IS ALMOST DEAD THEY ARE RINGING ME IN AN HOUR ....

    ZIPPY PLEASE BREATHE I LOVE YOU BUDDY I LOVE YOU I CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU MATE

    ZIPPPPPPPPPY   DONT LEAVE ME I LOVE YOU PLEASE PLEASE DONT DIE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

    SISTERS I AM CRYING THE PAIN IN MY HEART i LVOE YOU ZIPPY I LLLLLOOOOOOVEEEE YOUUUUUUUUUUUU PLEASE DONT DO THIS   !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited October 2008

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Zippy))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Damn - this is just not right - Sue, honey I am prayng for Zippy & you.

    Poor baby.  Can you go see him?????

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    Zippy is in a coma...I am phoning them in an hour ....his brain is damaged ....  I am nothing without my mate X

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    AE i AM ABOUT TO LOSE MY BEST MATE ..... i CANT GO SEE HIM THEY ARE WORKING ON HIM ..... HIS HEART STOPPED FOR OVER 2 MINS AND THEY EVENTUALLY GOT HIM BREATHING HE IS IN DEEP COMA .....

    ZIPPY I AM NUFFIN WITHOUT YOU .....YOU CANT GO .... OUR BOND IS TOO BIG ...YOU LOVE ME AND i LOVE YOU ...WE NEED EACH OTHER ....

    MY HEARTS IS BROKEN INTO SMITHERINES  

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    Sadly Zippy lies in a coma his eyes are open but he is unresponsive. They will call me in the night if he deteriorates. 

    Goodnite sisters xxx 

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited October 2008

    Sue  - UB & I were at Tai Chi - my goodness, what time is it there??  I am so sorry about Zippy.  I know exactly what you are going through.  Our pets are like children, they mean the world to us. Just know he loves you as much as you love him.

    Hugs my friend

    AE

  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited October 2008

    Dear Sueps, I know about losing animals, I have 2 myself, And I would be lost without them. Hang in there, I will be praying for you 4 legged friend, Hugs Debbie

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008
    Oh, Fumi! You do not deserve this. Shingles is one of the things that can happen when your immune system is weak, and with chemo combined with the stress of grief, you were a prime target. Shingles is the PITS!!! If I were there, I'd fix you some nourishing broth, apply the cream to your rash, clean the house, and drive you anywhere. Heck, I'm going to do it anyway long distance.

    You are not alone. Never. This odd mixture of fantastic women surrounds you. Never forget that.

     The same goes for the rest of you!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    And Sue!!! I just caught up. I'm so sorry. My Agnes was sick last month and I was in a panic. These beings are our children. I'll cry along with you luv. Feel my arms around you?

    I love you dear girl,

    Judie

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008

    oh dear dear sue..am terribly sorry for u..i know how it feels wen it comes to our dear babies...

    my heart goes with u darling..

    i love u..

    love u dear sisters

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited October 2008

    Just checking in, Yesterday's trip to Atlanta was fun, we were about 60 miles from the house and John realized that his wallet wasn't in his pocket and we had to turn back to get it. fortunately I had planned ahead and left very early in the morning (he was half asleep when he went to the car and I made sure he had his blue folder with the paperwork but not his wallet) so we had a couple of hours lee-way before the last time available to pick up his truck.

    Ulla, I am praying that you passed that exam, I know how stressfull exams can be.

    Sue, My heart does go out to you and your zippy. I know how much he comforted you during the past year.

    I need to get back to work, When you miss a day, it is harder the next day to catch up. Huggs to all who I missed.

    Sheila

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008

    YYYPPPPIEEEEE
    YYOOOOOHHOOOO
    I DID IT..
    THEY JUST CALLED ME FEW MINUTES AGO TO TELL ME THAT AM IN,,,
    YYYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOHHHOOOOOOOOO,,,

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008
  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    Dear Sisters

    I went to the hospital to say goodbye to Zippy ...when he heard my voice I put my head on his chest and he purred deeply ... he clenched my finger with his cold paw and he rolled on his bak to have his tummy rubbed. He even tried to flirt with me by putting his paw behind his ear but couldnt manage to lick it... he stood up but couldnt ...he was blind he was brain damaged..he was put to sleep in my arms an hour later.

    I drove him 40 miles to a pet cemtery to have him cremated I pick the ashes up in a few days ... of which I will take with me when we meet again.

    Thankyou Zippy for sharing 12 years of deep love and tenderness .... I will miss you forever xxx

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    Sisters

    I will bbl I have to go to work to do a stock take now

    ULLA CONGRATULATIONS FROM MY HEART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WELL DONE XXXXX 

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008

    AM SO SORRY DEAR DEAR SUE,,I JUST CANT STOP CRYING FOR ZIPPY,,I CANT THINK ABOUT HAVING A NEW CAT CAUSE I CANT IMAGINE MYSELF LOOSING A CAT AGAIN,,

    MY HEART IS SO BROKEN,,I WAS HOPPING THAT HE WILL BECAME BETTER...

    OH,,HOW SAD IS THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited October 2008

    I have lost a large amount of my soul today ... and a lot of happiness ... and love ...Zips I cannot live without you .... PLEASE xxx

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    I'm so sorry, Sue.

     Rainbow Bridge

    Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
    There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
    There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

    All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
    The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

    They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

    You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

    Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

    Author unknown...

  • NancyD
    NancyD Member Posts: 3,562
    edited October 2008

    Oh, how this thread is mixed with sorry and joy today!

    Sue, I'm so, so sorry for your loss of Zippy. We haven't had a pet in ages because I got tired of dealing with the loss. It was hard enough when a human relative or friend died. I didn't want to keep feeling grief every year. But that's my loss. Your's is the kind I've been avoiding, and I know it cuts deeply. I hope you have some nice pictures of him and can enjoy them in a little while. Let the tears come. Pets deserve to be grieved over.

    Ulla, your news really brightened my day! Congratulations on passing that horrendous test. On to the course and a bright future!

    Judie, that little trick with the mirror is fantastic!

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited October 2008

    Yipee!!! Ulla, I knew that you would pass that exam, they just tried to make it more stressful but we have gone through BC we can beat anything.

    Sue, I am so sorry about zippy. I felt the same when we had to put our Snoopy down because he had blockages in his abdomonen and liver. We had a funeral service in the back yard and my brother carved in a stone Snoopy's name for his headstone. When we moved from Statesville, we brought the stone with us and it is a border stone in my mother's flower garden.

    Sheila

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    Ulla, I never doubted for a moment that you would pass that test. You are a winner!!!

    Congratulations!

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008
  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008
  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited October 2008

    OH YEA WE CAN PASS ANYTHING AFTER WE HAVE PASSED THIS LONG JUORNY TOGEATHER...

    LOVE U SISTERS

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited October 2008

    Ulla, I'm so happy for you!  I just KNEW you'd passed!!!  You are brilliant!

    Hugs,

    Karen

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited October 2008

    Sue, I cried when I read about poor Zippy.  I know how important he was to you.  Losing a pet is so devastating.  I truly believe the story of the Rainbow Bridge that Judie posted.  Zippy will be waiting for you when it's your time to go (which won't be for a very, VERY long time).  I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Love and hugs,

    Karen

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2008

    Nancy, the "mirror" was actually a crystal ball. I tried to superimose it over the faces, but it was too much work and I had already spent hours on it. Maybe later.

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited October 2008

    Sue - I am so sorry about your beloved Zippy - I read you post at work and cried right along with you.  I am so glad you got to spend some time with him - I know he knew you were with him and I'm sure that brought him some peace.

    Remember this?

    aww cutee Pictures, Images and Photos

    Hugs my friend,

    AE

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited October 2008

    Hi sisters!

    I am at work, and tried to catch up with all of your posts.

    Ulla...I was reading your agony over the unfairness of your tests, and the whole time, I am thinking to myself...she will pass, she is so smart..she will pass.  Then as I continued to read...I WAS OVERJOYED TO HEAR YOUR HAPPY NEWS!! CONGRATULATIONS SISTER..YOU DID IT!! I HAD EVERY CONFIDENCE IN YOU!! YEAH...ULLA!!!

    Sue, baby, I am so sorry about your loss. I know what a good friend and comfort good ole Zippy was to you. I am glad you got to be with him.  What caused this? Was zippy old? I am glad you are going away with your boys for vacation...you need it now more than every. (((((((Sue)))))))

    Jane...glad to have you back....my life has been busy, with work, family, traveling and yes...still with Dennis.  Things there are wonderful. I love having him in my life.  He is very sweet to me, very caring.   I don't think I told you ladies, since I have been MIA.  My niece is a resident doctor of dermatology. Well during their residency, they need to practice botox and restiline and juvederm on patients. So...her mom, and sisterinlaw and me, went to Detroit as "victims"!! I got botox around my eyes and brows....I can really see the differenc!! I love it! Next I will get the restiline around my mouth...you know..those (   ) nagging lines on the side of your mouth!! It's all free...and we can keep it up as long as she is a resident, which is 3 yrs!! woohoo!!

    I had a b'day party for my nephew's twins...Michael and Sophia..they turned 3!  They are soo adorable. When Olivia downloads the pics, I will post some.

    AE...I am so sorry you have to have another darn biopsy!! Damn cancer..the gift that keeps on giving!! I go for my doc visits this week and next.  No mammo until January though.

    Fumi...I feel for you.  I know people who have had shingles...very painfull.  I hope you find relief soon.  You have been through so much!

    Karen, Mel, Shirlann, Nancy...congrats on your dad's 90th!!, Cathi, Judie, Wren...and anyone else, I may have missed...lots of love and good wishes for all.

    Back to work!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

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