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  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited May 2008

    Nancy,

    Good God Girl - you have a long journey ahead, don't you??? Please know we are here for you whenever you need us.

    Don't worry about Unce Fester - he has been here before - right ladies??? 

    Photobucket

    Valerie 

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    What a wonderful day this is!! I just got teary eyed and goose bumps reading all the posts..along with the wondeful news.

    Sue honey...you did it!!! OMG...I am so proud of you...and I can hardly believe the time is finally here!  You beat it! Dorothy..."there is no place like home"..and you are there!

    Ulla...great news for you sweetie!! I am glad you have a new oc and that you aced your test!  You will be so relieved to have that port out..I know I was.  I will think of you next Thursday, and say a prayer for you to have strength and an easy surgery.

    Suebee..I am glad to hear you are doing better. Have you heard anything as to if you will need any chemo at all?  I know it's hard to head back to work and leave your children.  I was very fortunate (well it took allot of budgeting) to stay home with my girls while they were growing up.  I didn't have to go to work until my divorce. Here is to winning the lottery!

    UB...you are such a dear.  Val you and your husband are an amazing couple.  When I read your posts...you can just feel the love! I got chills reading UB post...so very tender.  I hope both of you are doing well.

    I won't be able to view your youtube or pics till I get home.  Right now it looks like I will be at work for at least another 45 min. It's 7:30pm now...our flight is delayed.

    Much love to all my sisters...on this very happy, joyous occasion!!

    Celebration!!

    Oh..I love the fact that you heard EJ's song AE...how appropriate!  I love Elton...I listen to his cd in my car all the time!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • Wren
    Wren Member Posts: 324
    edited May 2008

    Congratulations Sue! You made it!!! I'm so happy for you!

    Also, congrats Ulla for passing your class! What a great feeling.

    I hope you both feel OK too after your treatments/meds.

    Amazing how far we all have come... but we are all making it one way or another.

    My surgery will be June 11th to get the expanders exchanged for implants. I am busy doing things to get my house ready, etc.

    Thank you all for caring about me.

    I sure wish we could have a big party to celebrate our successes...

    I'd love it if Oprah could help us... that's probably the only way I'd ever be able to go anywhere... LOL...

    You are all in my heart and I think of you all often.

    Hugs!

  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited May 2008

    Oh my gosh AE!lol Do you and Lisa remember that day we said we looked like uncle Fester , and Sue and Ulla looked him up on the net and were soooo shocked! We grew up watching him, but they didn't! Poor girls. But that was so funny.lol

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited May 2008

    I'm sitting here in bed with Chase and catching up on the posts from today.  I'm all teary-eyed and filled with love for each and every one of you. 

    Sue, you did it sweetie!!!!  This is the last time you have to feel so ill!  I know that being finished with tx's comes with mixed feelings, but you're going to be FINE!!  You have totally annihilated bootface a$$!!!  I am so very happy for you!!!  Thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey.

    AE, how amazing that that song came on!  Goodbye FOREVER Yellow Brick Road!  Our Sue has made it to the Emerald City.

    Congratulations, Ulla!  I'm so happy that you passed your test.  I'm even more happy that you have a new onky.  That other jerk just made me so angry!!  You deserve so much better.

    UB, I was so touched when I read your very sweet post.  You are truly one of us!  You and AE are so lucky to have eachother and we're lucky to know you both!

    Suebee, how great that you're feeling better!  I hope everything continues to go as scheduled for you.

    Much love to everyone--Mel, Lisa, Jane, Wren, Nancy, Anne, AnnNYC, Shirlann, Sheila, Jule, Judie, and anyone I may have missed.

    Hugs,

    Karen

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited May 2008

    Oh!  I forgot to tell you all that I've been asked to participate in a research study.  Someone from the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center is coming to interview me on June 2.  I'm kind of looking forward to it.  They're doing a study on why some young women develop breast cancer and others don't.  Should be interesting!

    Hugs,

    Karen

  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited May 2008



    Dear Sue,



    September 11, 2007 to May 20, 2008. Diagnosis, surgery, chemotherapy treatment.



    Congratulations, Sue, on finishing your last chemo infusion yesterday. I still follow along, and had a smile on my face this morning, which I had to join with a note of encouragement to you. You've walked a long yellow brick journey with your friends, and certainly deserve a massage and hair salon visit prior to meeting Oz. Then he may send you back to time without surgery and chemo, to just living and working, and being a Mom and friend.



    If anyone fit's Dorothy in this well documented role, it's you Sue. But don't click those brilliant red shoes together quite yet, as you want this last chemo effect to pass, so you go home well!



    You've made many friends on the way to Oz,

    Tender

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited May 2008

    Nancy, my mom actually started losing her hair on Halloween! we had gone out to supper that evening and all was well, she went home and her head started itching, when she went to scratch, she brought her hand down with a lot of hair. She did not do much with it that night but called her beautician the next morning and she took mom in right away and washed out as much as possible before cutting any off. she showed mom how to put her wig on and when Mom showed up at my job the next morning, I did not realize that it was her wig not her real hair. It went by quick.

    Sheila

  • Ka-Loni
    Ka-Loni Member Posts: 431
    edited May 2008

    Hello, I am just popping in today. I hope Everyone is doing well. I am not new to the boards, but, I am new to this thread here.

    You are all very sweet ladies here. And, if I can be of any help here, I will be very happy. Your all are in my heart always.

    God Bless,

     

    Love,

    Kaloni

  • Lucy1234
    Lucy1234 Member Posts: 289
    edited May 2008

    WOOOO HOOOO!



    Hi all!



    I am a rubbish friend I know but I have been soooooooo busy its untrue!



    Im so proud of you Sue you there! It seems like only yesterday I was emailing you guys from my hospital bed! HA HA



    Im having a bit of time off at the moment, quite sore where I had the op. Think iv just been overdoing it..



    Im going to have a look though the posts later but just wanted to say hi



    XXX

  • Lucy1234
    Lucy1234 Member Posts: 289
    edited May 2008

    WOOOO HOOOO!



    Hi all!



    I am a rubbish friend I know but I have been soooooooo busy its untrue!



    Im so proud of you Sue you there! It seems like only yesterday I was emailing you guys from my hospital bed! HA HA



    Im having a bit of time off at the moment, quite sore where I had the op. Think iv just been overdoing it..



    Im going to have a look though the posts later but just wanted to say hi



    XXX

  • lvtwoqlt
    lvtwoqlt Member Posts: 6,162
    edited May 2008

    LUCY!!!! Where have you been young lady? We have missed you.

    Sheila

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited May 2008

    OH MY, precious Sue!  YOU DID IT! I love you, I love you!

    THANK GOD!  You are freeeeee at last!

    And Ulla, LOVE, my prayers for you have been answered. 

    A NEW ONC!!!!

    I am so happy, love you all so much, mum (aka Shirlann) 

  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited May 2008

    I LOVE U MUM

    GOD WAS LISTENNING TO UR PREYRS FOR ME..

    LOVE U ,,LOVE U

  • geebung
    geebung Member Posts: 1,851
    edited May 2008

    Hi Lucy! How good to hear from you again! Hope your soreness passes soon.

    Kaloni, you may be new to this thread but you should consider yourself very much a part of it. I always enjoy reading your posts. How are you feeling today (tonight)?

    Nancy - we will all be here for you as you travel the yellow brick road. Sue did it tough but she has triumphed and you will too.

    So good to hear from Tender too. Your posts are always so welcome.

    Karen, that's great that you are involved in a research study and it will be interesting to know what the results will be. It's a good feeling to be able to give back in some small way in the hope of finding out more and developing knowledge and weapons against bootface.

    Wren, it will be so good to have your exchange surgery over. We will all be here to support you as you recover from surgery.

    UB - loved your post. It's so great to have you here!

    My posts will probably be shorter and fewer over the next few weeks as we have started renovations and packing and I have a lot of assignments due for my class.

    Love to all I have mentioned and all I haven't.

    Jane xxx 

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited May 2008

    Lucy!  We've missed you!!  It's so good to hear from you--I know you're busy, but don't be such a stranger.

    Hello to Tender and Kaloni as well.  I always enjoy hearing from the both of you.

    Hi Jane, Shirlann, Ulla, and Sheila!  Hope everyone else is having a wonderful day.  How is dear Sue?  Feeling yucky, I imagine.  Just think--this is the LAST time you have to go through this!! 

    I had my follow-up witht he rad onc today.  I don't have to see him again.  Yipeee!!!  One less doctor!!

    Love and hugs to everyone.

    Karen

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hopefully our dear Sue is resting!  I am still overwhelmed at the thought of you being done Sue. I told Olivia tonight that you finished yesterday...she was so happy to hear that!

    Tender...what a beautiful post! I always love to read your loving words.

    Jane darling...you will be one busy lady!! Packing..oh my...no fun there.  We will take long or short posts from you...we just love hearing from you!  Your posts always bring a smile to my face.

    Karen..one less doctor!! What a great feeling.  I think that is great that you are going to take part of a study. Let us know how that goes.

    Melody...you made me think back and laugh..reading about the time we talked of Uncle Fester! haha...I remember like it was yesterday!

    Lucy!! Great to hear from you!! I think about you allot.  Funny, I was just wondering the other day, how you were doing, and if you check in here at all.  What surgery did you have done?  Keep popping in, we love to hear from you!!  I remember you posting from your hospital bed...it does seem like yesterday!

    Well ladies...I am off to relax with Olivia and watch American Idol...who will win?? David Cooke is my favorite!! He will be famous no matter what.  His voice is awesome..very sexy!

    Take care everyone.  Our trip with Sue may be done....but we will all still be together and helping the other dear sisters here, Nancy and Sueebee..and Wren..finish their journeys.

    Now let the yellow brick road...take us to OPRAH...and that will definately be our EMERALD CITY..when we all meet!!

    xoxo

    Lisa

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    sorry girls...having posting problems...many duplicates!! lol

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Ulla...this is for you!! I found this thread...read it..and thought I would copy and paste it here for you to read.  You many want to chat with this young lady.  See Ulla...this will be you too!!

    13 May 2008 10:45 PM

    hey guys... i don't post here all that often, but the chat room was a lifeline to me when i was going throught treatment.  just thought i'd give some of you something to look forward to, hope for, whatever.

    i was diagnosed a little over 2 years ago just after my 29th birthday.  i did surgery, chemo, rads and was on the SOFT trial for over a year.  a few months ago, i was given the okay to take a break from the drugs and try to get pregnant.  i actually had frozen embryos from when i was diagnosed and all my docs agreed that i should just use them, as then maybe we could control how quickly i got pregnant, etc.  a couple of months ago, i had an oophorectomy since i wouldn't need my ovaries and it made me feel better in the time i'd be off tamoxifen.

    well a week ago i was implanted with 2 embryos and today i got confirmation that i am in fact, pregnant... after breast cancer, even being er/pr positive and without any ovaries.

    it's about time my body stops betraying me. 

    i know when i was diagnosed all i could think about was having a family and i never got someone to share a story like this.  hopefully it will make someone realize it can happen. 

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  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited May 2008

    Wow!  Ulla really needs to chat with that lady.  See Ulla!  There is hope.  You're going to be a mommy one day.  I just know it!!

    Lisa, David Cook is my favorite too.  I haven't seen the show yet, but I did some googling and found out who won by accident.  My lips are sealed in case any of you don't know yet.  I think regardless of the results, both of these guys are going to be HUGE!

    Have a wonderful evening everyone!

    Karen

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited May 2008

    Well, by now you all know the results.  Boo-ya!!!!!!  My favorite won!!!!

    Can't wait for his first album to come out!!!!

    Hugs,

    Karen

  • Diana63
    Diana63 Member Posts: 773
    edited May 2008

    Sue, I haven't posted here before but I have been reading and following you throughout your treatment. Congratulations on finishing, you and I started about the same time I think. I only have two more treatments then I am done with chemo, May 23rd & May 30th.

    I lift my glass of milk up to a lifetime dancing with NED, and dancing at your sons weddings. Laughing

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Hi Diana...and welcome.  2 more to go...good for you!  Hang around...we will help you get through it! 

    Karen...our boy won!!! wooohoo!! I think his voice is so unbelievably sexy!! omg!  I will get his cd too!

    Just got back from my run and made Olivia's lunch...going to go and enjoy my coffe and whole wheat toast.

    bbl

    xoxo

    Lisa

    Oh...Diana...I see you are in Ohio...where about?  Me too!

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited May 2008

    Ladies....I was going back to the beginning of our DOROTHY'S journey...and look what I found...the beginning of our YELLOW BRICK ROAD!....here it is....

    10 Nov 2007 05:50 PM

    You haven't let anyone down Sue. We are all traveling on the same road. I know , the wizard of oz! Thats how I feel. I'll be the scarecrow , you can be pretty Dorothy , Zippy can be our Toto. And will go arm in arm and pick up Karen and won't know whats next , but hey , we are all in this together!!!!

    Seriously Sue , I met the above. We are all in this together. And no matter what happens , we will be here for each other.

    I know , I wish I was normal too. But at the point I am at , I feel more normal than I have since this all started for me in Feb. I am not making small of what you are feeling Sue , I'm just saying in time , you will feel more normal. I wish I could speed your tx time up and you were right where we all are. But please don't fret. We are all ready to help you through. Your Nov. chemo group will help too. It really helps to go through this with others at the same time. Sometimes you need to cry Sue. I wish I was with you too. Having a good cry helps me immensely. I don't look so good afterwards(lol) but I feel better. Maybe make yourself a cuppa , and try to relax. xxxxMelody

     
  • geebung
    geebung Member Posts: 1,851
    edited May 2008

    Oh I can't keep away. Thank you for all your inspiring posts! Lisa - that was such a wonderful, heart warming post from the girl who is now pregnant. Ulla - there is so much hope!

    Suebee, I didn't mention you in my last post. Am thinking of you. My brain is a bit foggy with tiredness at the moment but I think you said you are feeling a bit better. That is great news! Please be gentle with yourself.

    Diana - you have been on the yellow brick road too and you are nearly there! It's so good to know that you have been following this thread and hopefully gaining some strength from watching Sue triumph over this. 

    Sue - thinking of you and hope you are coping with the side effects of this final treatment.  

    It's late. Bed beckons.

    Love to everyone,

    Jane xxx 

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