I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited September 2012
    Ha! Wish I had seen the original! Wink
  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited September 2012

    Ducky-thank you for your post. Except for the part where you said you voted for Bush, that could have been written by me. All my thoughts exactly.

    Mary 

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    "Serenity bench"? Why is that making me think of a special bench for people wearing adult diapers?

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited September 2012

    Now how about a good roar to motivate me to get up and go do stuff?

    Momine ... hahaha ... not exactly what I had in mind.   

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    White Rabbit, really? [insert my most innocent and naive, blue-eyed blonde look ;)]

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited September 2012

    Not buying the innocent look Smile  I thought that was Depends ... do they have Serenity ones too? 

    Perhaps I should go change that to Zen Bench?

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    Dammit! But I AM blonde, honest ;) I think serenity is actually a brand of menstrual pads, so not exactly in adult diaper league.

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012
    Momine: this person has a long history of reporting people and getting them banned from BCO. If it were just a question of words, believe you me, I would not care. I was once banned thanks to her for ten days and, as a person who needed support with BC, that pisses me off.

    Lots of sisters don't know this, but this thread is actually the third or fourth iteration. Previous threads that discussed politics were closed by moderators because our resident troll and her friends would report us, have our posts deleted and get some of us banned. A few were stalked and harassed and intimidated into not posting. I am speaking up for those personally affected, and who now feel free to discuss important issues. Believe me, I am no one for serenity for serenity's sake, but there's been many bloodbaths in previous years that many people who haven't been here a really long time don't know about. I don't know about some of them myself. There are real consequences. People who were never banned or harassed may view things differently...I don't know. We even set up a fundraising thread to stop cyber-bullying. The funds were needed to help the moderators install electronic systems that would enable them to ensure more fair reporting. Much as changed in BCO in the last year or two, partly thanks to our work and the outcry on numerous threads. However, the situation is still delicate and we are being watched carefully by the mods, who receive many complaints from troll-land. The mods are in a very tough position. We haven't always agreed with some of the calls they've made. But as long as this person keeps coming and being engaged, we risk more calls by the mods we don't like, and people get hurt. So it's much more than about "honesty" etc.... We can say what we want - just don't engage the troll.

    Yes, we are adults - it should be as simple as "hey, we're just talking." It isn't that simple at all. For "just talking" good people have disappeared.

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited September 2012

    Well we sure don't want a bench full of women with PMS!  Except that there would probably be lots of chocolate there so maybe ...

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    Athena, I was just trying to add some levity and change the subject. Sorry if it seemed flippant.

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012

    Wabbit - yes, we are researchers at heart and at brain. :-)

    But I refuse to be manipulated. When I answer trolls I feel as though I am taking the bait.

    I don't have enough respect for trolls to even feel that correcting any misstatements is going to make an iota of difference. They are not here to learn but to intimidate.

    So, again, we can say what we want, just not in dialogue with trolls - it makes us patsies. Wabbits and lionesses are no patsies in nature - not if we can help it, anyway. Tongue out

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012

    Momine, no it didn't - my apologies to you, then. I thought you were not aware of our history because many people are not.

    Levitate away! :-)

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited September 2012

    I've been hearing the dreaded "death panels" meme again in describing the Independent Payment Advisory Board, so I thought I'd do some research on behalf of my American sisters.  Herewith the salient points:

    The IPAB's mandate is to determine treatments and procedures that are both health-effective and cost-effective (see my earlier posts re the Institute of Medicine).

    It will consist of 15 members who are experts in healthcare, economics etc.  They will be appointed by the President and approved by the Senate.

    The IPAB is prohibited by law from denying or rationing healthcare.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    Thanks ;) I may not know the particulars of the situation, but I have been on various message boards for about 15 years and have lived through some idiotic board wars, so I can sort of sense the situation. 

    Ooooooommmmmmmmmm http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZO8HI884_zI 

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012
  • AnneW
    AnneW Member Posts: 4,050
    edited September 2012

    Head/desk...how many patients have I seen over the years who can't afford thier medicines. Yes, some meds are cheap. Then there are the required doctors visists to check blood levels to ensure the meds are correct, there are testing strips for diabetes and supplies, and when you are really poor, that 10 bucks you might spend for insulin (it's more than that over all) may just have to go to pay the light bill this month. Poverty is a very complex issue, intertwined with poor health, lack of education, lack of support systems that we better-offers don't have to worry about.

    I probably should have just ignored, but I can't. Sorry, gals.

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited September 2012

    Hi all,

        Watched some of MSNBC's footage this morning of 9-11 as it unfolded.  Still remember that day so clearly.  I was at the New Jersey Supreme Court, waiting for an oral argument, ironically, on the death penalty.  I heard the news when the first plane hit, but thought it was a small plane - an accident.  Then the second hit, and they closed the building. They closed the school early- I went to pick up my girls. My husband was in Newark, and the trains stopped running, so he couldn't get home. The cell phones were down.  A lot of the land lines were down too.  It took hours to hear from him.  He'd seen the towers fall from his office window that looked out on Manhattan.  Finally, he got a ride with someone to a restaurant 45 minutes from our house, and I went to pick him up, too.   What's strange to me is that as clear as the events of that day are still, i can't remember the next few days.  Can't remember if the school was closed or when the trains came back on line.  It's all just a blur.

       I watched some of the commemorations, too.  As long as it's been, i still cry when they play taps for the victims. Joe Biden gave a profoundly moving speech at the memorial to the passengers on Flight 93.

     

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Hi, all, Lots of room on my Block/Ignore Bench - free Depends too.  I still have a lot left over from my chemotherapy days - had to toss the bottles of Immodium, w-a-a-y outta date stamp, but lotsa new bottles, just in case.  Lots of Serenity, happiness on the Bench.  Plenty of room to park our scooters nearby...

    Oh, I do wish there could be a get together soon..

    What Ducky said....and one of the images that still brings warm & happy tears to my eyes, is one of little Sasha ( she was little 4 years ago) sitting in the back seat of a Huge Black SUV, on her way to first days at school ( Sidwell Friends, where many of my friends kids have gone & still go) and there she was, sitting & a little bit wary looking  out at all the photographers and the motorcycles, secret service -  and I had a FLASH BACK of the image Norman Rockwell memorialized - of 4 little girls in their crisp white dresses being "escorted" to school in the USA lo' what seems like a million years ago - and I wonder where those girls are today, and if they can feel how much their courage, dignity have meant to bringing us where we are today.

    And HERE we are with the daughter of the President of the United States, looking a bit like those 4 little girls, but Sasha was the one being GUARDED,escorted, because her father was so important to the world that his family had to be protected too!

    I have a new idea for a bumper sticker: Beware of Bored Trolls.  Sealed

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited September 2012

    I was at home working on a psychological report before a diagnostic staffing. Had the t.v. on while I worked, and watched the first and then second plane crash into the buildings. OMG, I could not believe my eyes. I had to drive into a school, conduct the meeting and then test a child. Talk about being in a fog! The schools were not telling the students what happened. They wanted parents to address it first.

    Horribly, my DH was in Europe and was blocked from returing for several days. At night I slept alone, terrified for both of us and the nation. I would hear the sound of military jets overhead patrolling our skies.

    It's been 11 years but I will never forget. Sometimes I wish I could. 

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited September 2012

    Hi Everyone!

    Just wanted to stop by and wish Lassie a very happy birthday!

    I don't like to get involved in political discussions ... but, having said that, I'm going against my own policy.  I don't think Patmom's statement about free diabetic medicine holds water.  She obviously does not live in a poor area like I do with 24% unemployment.

    Hope everyone is having a good day.

    Bren

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited September 2012
    Happy B'Day Lassie! Smile
  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited September 2012

    Dh called me on 9/11, when he heard the news about the first plane. It was already afternoon here, and I was on my way to pick dd up from school. It was the first time in dd's life that we turned on the news in the middle of the day while she was around and awake  and sat there gawking at it. At first, like most people, we thought it was an accident. Then we saw the second plane hit and we immediately realized the enormity of what was happening.

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012

    Happy birthday, Lassie!

    Bren, 24 percent  - wow!

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited September 2012

    Athena thank you for your post on the board history.  I have a better understanding of the "rules" of engagement now.

    Alexandria -  your post about 911 reminds me how differently we all experienced that day depending on our geography.  I got to work early that day, but being 3 hours behind on the Pacific coast, the attack was well underway by the time I got there.  As soon as I walked in, the only coworker there told me something big was happenning in NYC and the internet was down.  Being the news junkie I am, I turned around and went home to watch the news.  I took the day off while most went to work and treated it just like another day, atleast outwardly.  

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited September 2012

    We are on page 911 now ... appropriate reminder.

    I was home but did not have the TV or radio on and had no idea anything was happening until hubby called me.  From a midwestern perspective it was all kind of surreal and almost unbelievable.  I live fairly close to the airport and the complete lack of air traffic was the most eerie thing here.  Didn't really realize that I even heard them much until they were gone.  Hubby worked at the air traffic control center at the time so much was going on for him at work needless to say. 

  • RetiredLibby
    RetiredLibby Member Posts: 1,992
    edited September 2012

    I was at work in a building very close to the Capitol, just a block off the Mall. I was in a executive staff meeting with the leadership of my agency. We heard about the first airplane when a secretary came in to tell us. Like everyone, we thought it was a small plane, like a Piper Cub. Then she came to tell us about the second airplane, and then that there was an "explosion" at the Pentagon. I went back to my office to change my shoes and leave for home, and I watched the first tower fall on my office TV as I tied my shoes. It took me a couple hours to get home - I got a ride with a colleague who lived near me. We sat on Constitution Avenue for about 45 minutes, staring at the smoke rising from the Pentagon and watching attack helicopters fly over the Potomac. My husband was scheduled for a pre-surgery physical that day for back surgery to repair a catastrophic injury he suffered at work. He had to drive himself to the doctor because I was late getting home. I followed him there and while I was waiting, spoke with a woman who was desperately trying to call her husband who worked at the Pentagon. She had been in a devastating automobile accident some months before and was at the doctor's office for a checkup. He had dropped her off and popped down the road to the Pentagon -- she didn't know if he would be coming back. I stayed up all night weeping, watching the TV, desperately hoping they would find someone alive in the rubble.



  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited September 2012

    Moving forward...... thinking of all of those who were tragically affected on 911. And, yes, it is indeed very strange that this thread is on page 911 today.

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited September 2012

    Yes-how bizarre that this is page 911.

    I was in Victoria, B.C. with my mom. We had spent the previous night there, and had gotten up and had breakfast and went out to do some shopping. At one shop, the salesperson asked where we were from and we told her Seattle. She then told us what was happening in New York and elsewhere. This was at about noon Pacific time-so about 9:00 Eastern time. It was so surreal. No one had said anything to us before this, and we didn't have the TV on in our hotel room when we got up.

    My kids were in school back home in Seattle, and my husband was at work. I didn't have a cell phone at the time, so I had to try and make an international pay phone call, which took numerous tries. My mom and I had already checked out of our hotel. We heard rumors that we would not be allowed to go back to the US on the boat if we didn't have passports. In those days, no one took a passport to Canada. We thought for sure we were stuck there. We finally were allowed to board the boat, after customs thoroughly checked our baggage and driver's licenses, and we got back home to Seattle only about 3 hours later than planned.

    I was so glad to be home with my family. What I most remember about that day and the days afterward was the lack of airplanes, except for the fighter jets that kept flying over, day and night.

    Mary 

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited September 2012

    I find it fascinating to read everyone's account of where they were, what they were experiencing on 9-11, so different and yet so similar.

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited September 2012

    Okay, here's my story.  I was in downtown Toronto at an early morning meeting at the Royal Bank.  Just before 9 a.m., a secretary came into the meeting and whispered something in the Bank Vice-Chairman's ear (he was chairing the meeting), and he adjourned the meeting and excused himself.  Going back to my office, the cabbie told me about a (probably) small plane flying into one of the WTC towers.

    Back in the office, someone had turned on the TV and as I came through the door, I heard a loud gasp.  Second plane...no accident...we were all just so stunned.

    There was a major charity event that was to take place that evening at Skydome (the retractable roof stadium that the Blue Jays play in).  Skydome is adjacent to the CN Tower, which is a major communications tower.  The event was cancelled immediately, under the advice of the authorities, because it was feared that the Tower might be a target.

    Then we heard about the plane in Pennsylvania, and the other one at the Pentagon.

    So, even up here in the GWN, we were both stunned and scared.  I found out later that a friend had accompanied her DH to NYC as he was to attend a meeting at  the Cantor Fitzgerald offices.  He died in the explosion and she was 5 months' pregnant.  She did marry again a few years later, so her son has a father.

    Like all of you, I will never, ever forget that day; the days following are a blur..... 

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