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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited February 2013

    Thanks everyone for caring.There is no plan B right now for my son.

    I gotta have that tummy surgery soon.

    goin to the drs on mon.and wed.

    The rest of the family is takin over.They threw me out anyway...i was makin everyone crazy.

    Just want to fix this tummy.My surgery is way overdue.

    I never had surgery before.just my tonsils out as a kid,since i retired i lost count!!!

    Maybe i should go back to work!!!!!

    huggggs everyone.

    grannydukes

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2013

    Hi Granny.......good luck with the surgery.....I too have to see about having my back done.....broke another vertebrae and need to get it repaired. Been putting it off. Just don't feel like dealing with the bullshit. In the meantime I whine about the pain in back and legs.....oh we'll one day......hugs dear.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited February 2013

    Awwwwwwwwww Ducky....just do it....easy for me to say but i just wanna get thid damn thing over and done with.I could be in the hospital 5-8days.But i dont care....

    im tryin that 1 day at a time but i try to do more than that.

    hugggs to you dear sista.I have missed you.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2013

    Miss you too dear heart...........I will. Just tired of it all....sure you are too.....prayers for your son....

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited February 2013

    Yeah im tired of it all too.....BUT im so scared that if i wait too long ill end up havin to poop in that bag.grrrrrrrrrrrrrr.sound gross.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2013

    Yea, and me in a wheelchair.....gotta do something.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited February 2013

    Granny....that would be a HUGE motivator for me....I think its called an Ostomy, right? No thanks!!

    I hope everyone had a wonderful Valentines Day. I didn't want to post yesterday because I was in a meltdown (had nothing to do with Valentines Day) but I cried for hours and hours. DH really took good care of me when he got home. We cried together, he said great things, he understood...then made Turkey chili Mac & Cheese.



    Mom is out of the nursing home and in her new assisted living place. I worked on it all day and my youngest helped. It was a lot and there's still a lot to do. Her anxiety was out of control. But hopefully she'll get settled and make a few friends. Everyone was so nice there...residents and staff. I was pretty impressed.



    Tomorrow...we go to our tax Guy...ugh...

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited February 2013

    ((((Ducky))))

    ((((Granny))))

  • dogeyed
    dogeyed Member Posts: 884
    edited February 2013

    FUZZ, just so you ain't broke after the tax man is the main thing.  You got enough health issues,  i think, to keep you out of jail. Smile.  I'm disabled, don't have enough money to file...  I also don't have any teeth.  At least my hair is growing back.  I gotta get like DUNES and get into physical fitness.  But gosh, it is SO hard for me to get on my feet, and my back hurts so much, it's VERY hard, but I'm a gonna try.  We're going to add salad all mixed in a big bowl in the refrigerator so a to avoid giant chocolate cakes at the in-store backery.  Yum, yum.  But a great salad is really good, too.  Oh, and I cry for you Argentina when you cried the other day, this cancer thing really blows us away, it's like standing on a cliff about to fall, but if you'll just turn around, the world has a lot of purty things to play with.  And three stars for your hubby being so nice to you and helping you.  I could NOT have made it thru this misery without him.  Remember I love you in the heart and spirit, girl, my owne true sister, Gail 

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited February 2013

    Morning gals....  Granny Kantalope, what kind of surgery are they doing?  You would only need a colostomy if you are having problems in your intestines.   And sometimes they make them temporary, after surgery to let things heal in there. 

    My SIL had most of her colon removed, but they attached what was left to the opening, and she can go like she used to... Just different eating habits now...  Her problem was living on laxatives all of her life, and her intestines just quit.

    But what did they say is wrong with your stupid stomach?   So you are going Monday, (tomorrow) and Wednesday?  Be sure and let us know. 

    And your Son is doing a little better?  Are there any other plans for him, or can they treat it with meds?  I don't mean to get you started here, but things must be a little better?    And you say your family threw you out.... Gee, I can't see why......Wink  Honey, if they let you loose on those Docs' the whole world would hear it!   They will all take care of you, little Princess....  just let someone else do the worrying for a change.... xoxoxo

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 443
    edited February 2013

    All finished with my weeek of rads, no issues with skin except for my back feeling a little sunburned.  More happy to be done with the 3 hrs drive everyday it was making a 5 minute session take up my whole day, with some Dr appt mixed in just for variety.  Had my CT scan yesterday, now wait and worry for results, it was for chest and abdomen so she's lookiing for new cancer - really really hoping there's nothing to find, but the waiting, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

    Hugs to all my b/c sisters hope every1 has a good s/e free weekend, its bright and sunny here for the first time all week.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited February 2013

    Rider...im really sending you every warm thought I have...praying that CT is clean...

    GG: it was so aweful because I really felt like I turned a corner. Little did I know, around That corner was a black eye and a broken nose...such a bummer. But, its a new Day. I need to go on and get this to work out.

    We will hopefully do well with taxes this year...DH didn't come anywhere near his normal wages, I didn't work for 6 months and we have major expenses....fingers crossed for sure.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2013

    Prayers and hugs Rider......

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited February 2013

    Hmmm...google search to find something for Rider....it might make you smile!

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited February 2013

    Made me smile Fuzzy, Thanks!  I needed that.

  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited February 2013

    Rider, Waiting is the pits. Sending warm hugs.

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited February 2013

    Hey Rider - saw a thousand Harleys yesterday - it was an incredible site and bother I can't find a picture of them en masse. Waiting on good results for you.

    Hope everyone is having a great weekend.

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited February 2013

    Made me smile too Fuzzy.

    Best wishes Rider. There is entirely too much worry involved with this cancer crap!!!

    I'll be getting my taxes done tomorrow. My friend, who studies accounting, helps me do mine. Poor thing. She has been stressed all day about what she is going to feed me. Damn! I suspected it but didn't know for sure until mom told me Bobbie had called her this morning asking what she could feed me. I keep telling people I can eat pretty much anything once in a while. I guess I just need to come right out and tell them I can eat vegetables. They can make whatever they want but just make some extra vegetables. I feel terrible that she has been stressing about this today.

    Now mom wants to celebrate my anniversary, which she counts as the day they took the cancer out. That will be March 7th. There's a great Chinese restaurant near her, and I told her I'd like to go there. She countered that she thought I didn't want to eat soy sauce (or anything soy). I told her that I could eat a little soy just once. I probably wouldn't eat anything with chicken because of the growth hormones and the arsenic (unless it is organic). However, I could have a vegetarian dish or one with shrimp. I would see if I could get it without MSG, but again, how much will it hurt if I eat it once? I know I had been extremely strict with my diet through most of this past year. Lately, I have had stuff with sugar and I have had cheese which I'm sure was loaded with growth hormones. Other than that, I pretty much live on home-made, completely organic, vegetarian vegetable soup. (The batch I made today needs something. I didn't make it very well today.)

    I don't see why people can't accept what I am telling them. I'm not trying to be nice. I don't want them spending a lot of money buying organics when I can eat a little meat if that's what they serve and I can always eat vegetables. It's not that complicated. Don't get me wrong, though, I am grateful for their concern.

    I did not hike today. The weather was too nasty, raining all last night. I did not feel like tramping around in the mud. I played Wii Sports for my exercise today. And I was naughty. I ate a scone. Gawd! That was good. Damned Panera's!

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 443
    edited February 2013

    Thanks ladies for sharing the waiting with me....it really does help.

    Fuzzy how did you know???  I was a HUGE Knight Rider fan and Baywatch also...love love love David Hasselhoff!!!

    Alyson I can't even imagine how cool that would look...must have been an awesome sight, and sound.

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited February 2013

    Rider, we heard them long before we saw them, evidently they all started off at the race course which must have been incredible. These bikes just kept coming for so long. Today we saw several when we took MiL out for lunch and of course everyone had to look at the bikes. Some have come from the Staes for this convention.

    Hope you are able to go out tomorrow Dune without too much hassle. It is lovely that you have people who are trying to do things for you rather than being critical.

    Sunday evening here so must get kitchen tidied and then I will sit and knit for awhile.

    Big hugs

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited February 2013

    Alyson, every summer we have the Sun and Surf run here. 1,200 to 1,500 Harley's come for the weekend from all over.  Over half of them are couples and a lot of them bring their kids.  We usually wind up with a few of them at the Senior Center for Sunday morning breakfast.  They are a great bunch and some of this little town's favorite visitors.  You've heard the noise a group that size makes but can you imagine the impact a group that size makes on a little town of 5,000, especially when you add in the normal summer weekend crowd of 15 to 20,000?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2013

    Hi Alyson, Chabba, Rider, on the bikes, around here I think it is the ride to the Dakotas.  Have seen groups of them migrating to the starting area, wish I could see the entire group moving.

    Ducky, yes, my new onc doctor is good to me, he was so honest and hopeful and positive.  I am looking forward to the 27th actually.   Rabbits in the house uncaged.  We had that by accident once and they spent the night behind the entertainment center munching on the wires.  We did have George, a huge grey rabbit Hubby bought at an auction so he would not be stew (he brought him home and said, I don't want to hear a word.) George lived in our huge fireplace that had screens on both sides, kitchen and living room.  He had a litter box  and a nice den in there, came out to play and hop in the grass and such.  Georgeous rabbit.  Is your DH afraid he will be tested and told he has cancer?  Would the VA be controlling on do this choice only, giving him no other options?

    Granny and Ducky, I hope the coming springtime brings you the better movement and an esier time too.  Granny, you will have a lot in your pocket Monday.

    Dunes, you sound like me, I am on this food plan, but sometimes some things slide by and sometimes a lot of things slide.  Except Hubby who lets me do as I please and then says, we need to try to do this or that better.... well, no one really worries about what I can eat or not, you are lucky, hope you don't take it too much on the shoulders that they want to make sure you have what you prefer to eat.  It is a huge part of our life.  There are very few restaurants around here that use local and organic foods.  One is at Winona Lake but is very pricey, like we had appetizers there once in beer garden for anniversary the day after we got Danny Boy - he was with us, so good! - and it was one large, not huge, meatball for $7 kind of pricey.  We tried leaving the dog in truck and eating inside w reg menu, but dog started neurotic barking and disturbing the guests, so we had to leave.  We ate Arby's on the way home, while driving, so romantic. But at least we had the new Newfie in our famiy.  But for me, Arby's is definitely letting it slide.

    Fuzzy - what a bad day.  That reminds me of the day I had that horrible dream and cried all day and night and again the next.  You and others were here for me, held me up, and we are here for you, whatever it is does not matter because you have our love and strength to use to get through it too.  ((((FUZZY))))

    Brushed dog w Hubby and cooked this AM.  Have to run to the coffee house w Hubby for our Sunday waffles and coffee.  DD and DGD will be here for afternoon meal and games and walk and pictures of each other - where is my camera!!!.  Finally they will be here.  I missed them so much.  Will be good to see them together w/o the DDDD-DSIL, dear divorced darn drama-driven son-in-law.

    Made sloppy joes on 12 grain bread, balsamic roasted brussel sprouts, black olives, garlic pickles and walnut banana cake with sour cream and maple syrup powder frosting.  Sounds good?  anyone coming?

    LOVEEssa

  • Adey
    Adey Member Posts: 3,610
    edited February 2013
  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited February 2013

    Ok about this stupid surgery that i dont know much abou...why???? cause i was so wrapped up with my son that the doc.said lets take care of your son first.now me.

    tomorrow is no biggie.goin to the gastro doc so he can explain this thing.bringing a tape recorder cause i dont remember squat...all i know is he said that if i dont do this .........surgery i will have to have the colostomy.did i spell it right?I know its non invasive...thats all i know.laproscopic.probably spelt that wrong.ha.

    Anyway thanks for the pocket party.My appt.is 3pm.Ill keep you posted.

    huggggggs and prayers to all who need it

    Where would i be without all of U????

  • kathindc
    kathindc Member Posts: 2,042
    edited February 2013

    In your pocket Granny.  ((((Hugs))))!  Let's get you well.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited February 2013

    Right there with you girlfriend. Hugs and prayers.

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 801
    edited February 2013

    In your pocket Granny...



    Cindy

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited February 2013
  • ptdreamers
    ptdreamers Member Posts: 1,080
    edited February 2013

    Jumping in the pocket Granny.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited February 2013

    thanks everyone.....

    and thanks to all who sent me pms.

    ill be thinkin of all of u tomorrow....

    And ill let u know whats the next step.

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