I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited December 2011

    Sunflowers-That is exactly what would happen if she showed up, but alas, she didn't-it was yesterday. Maybe next year.........I have asked her to go just for me and her dad, but she's still angry with me for sharing her troubles with others.

    Mary 

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited December 2011

    Bren, what's up with the job?

    This chick is a tired chick. Sucks getting up at 5:30 and getting to the office at 7. Plus the extra gas. $. Jeez.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2011

    Still waiting for DD to send me pics of THE dress.  My mom is getting around with her walker and is as happy as can be.  A year ago today I had my DBS surgery.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited December 2011

    Just got back from our work breakfast - yummy. I wonder what's for dessert :)

    Very tired today - I wonder if it's the tablets I got yesterday.

    Blue - good to hear your Mum is OK.

    Sue

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2011
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2011

    The dress is about 5 sizes too big for her and the pictures do it no justice.  It has some delicate  bling around the neckline and waist, and buttons all the way to the end of the train.

  • AnneW
    AnneW Member Posts: 4,050
    edited December 2011

    I can tell it's elegant. Wow!!! Beautiful. Did she have to try on lots before that one got the nod??

    Linda--love the looks of that recipe. I'm going to have to make it!

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited December 2011

    Wow, Blue! It still looks awesome!

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited December 2011

    Morning folks. Off to the hated job. Ugh!

  • sewingnut
    sewingnut Member Posts: 1,129
    edited December 2011

    Blue,

    Awesome dress.  Make sure they under bustle it. Over bustles are the easy way out and dont look as nice.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2011

    She must have tried on 50 dresses.  When she tried this one we all went "WOW".  And there were 5 of us in the audience.   You're right sewingnut.  She wants that flow.  It is delicate french lace.

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited December 2011

    Gorgeous, Blue!  Amazing!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2011

    OMG - gorgeous, just gorgeous, elegant - every word I can think of that incudes WOW. Just WOW!

    Mary... NEXT YEAR.  But, I hope she will understand your "sharing" your own experience of such deep emotional pain, to get support from the most natural place to ask for and receive support , was for you as well as for her.  I can't remember who said it, but paraphased, "troubles shared are troubles diminshed" -or something like that.  Maybe she feels some kind of shame, which is somehow( in my little mind) related to false pride.  Forgiveness of Self sees to be the most difficult lesson, and usually the first step in being able to forgive others.  I hope you all have a wonderful peaceful and healing New Year. Don't we all wish we knew when we were younger, what we know now about human nature.....

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited December 2011

    Blue the dress is beautiful.

    So glad the quiches are done. I had to make 5 of them. Got the cookies done as well.

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited December 2011

    Blue - dress is beautiful (so is DD) - can't wait to see wedding pictures (when is that?)

    Today is Christmas volunteer lunch and then Onc appointment with results - I've been taking Ativan everyday since Saturday - I could do without all this "ceremony" - why can't they just scan then phone instead of waiting to get "all their ducks in a row" - wish some of the players were in our shoes then things might change - too much to hope for.

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited December 2011

    Hugs, Sandy!!  Fingers crossed for an oh-so-boring day!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2011

    Sandy - more votes for BORING.  Here's my cynicism showing - when we go into the office, we get charged ( or our insurance does) for an office visit.  BORING, BORING, BORING news on the way.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited December 2011

    Sandy's gonna be oh so BORING!

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited December 2011

    (((Sandy))) -  We KNOW how you are feeling, but the chances of clear scans are excellent!  Enjoy your lunch, go to your appt and then be sure to bring us back your boring <yawn> results!

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited December 2011

    Sandy-fingers crossed for boring!

    Blue-the dress is beautiful!

    Thanks, Sunflowers for your words of wisdom.I know things will get better, someday.....I have to believe that.

    Mary

    PS-Anyone heard from 3monstmama? She had her oopherecotmy(I'm sure I spelled that wrong) last Friday. 

  • pip57
    pip57 Member Posts: 12,401
    edited December 2011

    Blue the dress is absolutely gorgeous!!  

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited December 2011

    Mary -- 3mons is at home recovering from successful surgery, and dealing with her own mom who is going through chemo.

    Blue -- Beautiful dress, she's going to look absolutely stunning! 

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited December 2011

    Hi Everybody!

    Mary .. I am so sorry your daughter didn't go to church with you.  I hope by next year she comes to her senses.

    Blue . The dress is so beautiful.  Your daughter looks so lovely in it.

    Sandy ... I'm keeping you in my thoughts today and hoping for "unremarkable" on the scans!

    I just picked up Winston's ashes from the vet.  He's up on the counter with my beloved Bobo .. they're together once again.  I sure do miss them both.

    I also dropped off the application and my resume at the County building.  I tried to look professional and like I was the best candidate for the job.  Won't hear anything until after the 1st of the year.

    Hope everyone is having a good day,

    hugs,

    Bren

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited December 2011

    Blue........don't come here to often, even though I have this as one of my favorites.......................had to tell you, your daughter's dress is beautiful.......................really flattering, and looks beautiful on her............I have 3 daughters, and must say the "gown" part was so much fun.

    However, 2 of my 3 daughters wore my wedding gown...................and one got married on my 25th Anniversary ..................the 3rd, could not wear it...............she was too tall 5ft. 7in, so I got to go with her to pick out her gown................by that point her father had died, and since he was not going to be there, me feeling bad, let her have whatever her heart desired.

    I thought she had been cheated of her father, so she deserved something extra special...........the sad thing was she was going to push her wedding up by3 years so he could be there...........I decided it was not a good idea, and she listened, so I was not going to say "NO" to anything else...................before he died, he told her "I won't be there to walk yo down the aisle............but I will be there...........I promise....................and while the ceremony was going on, a "white butterfly", fluttered all around the altar, and eventually landed on her veil......................I knew he was there, then, and so did she............good luck, and enjoy, she is your little girl................forever............hugs.

  • Ang7
    Ang7 Member Posts: 1,261
    edited December 2011

    Wow Ducky~ that gave me chills...

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited December 2011

    Ducky - that's lovely. I remember at my Dad's funeral I looked out and saw a butterfly and thought that he was there with us.

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited December 2011

    Well folks you were right BORING, BORING, BORING!!!!!!!  I have, however, gained 14 pounds - onc. was happy, PCP won't be and I would like to not have to buy new jeans AGAIN so after January 1 it's back on South Beach for a couple of months - good thing about my height no one ever notices the weight gain (I do though).  Thanks again for all your support and friendship - you are all the best!

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited December 2011

    Yey Sandy - wonderful news!!

    Lovely dress, Blue. Can't wait to see the pictures on the wedding day.

    Bren, hoping your job hunt yields some results - ugh. Who doesn't HATE looking for jobs.

    Lindasa - say hello to 3monst - I wish she would post more.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited December 2011

    Great news Sandy!!!

  • rosemary-b
    rosemary-b Member Posts: 2,006
    edited December 2011

    Boring Sandy

    What good news.

    Blue

    Beautiful dress

    Bren

    Good luck

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