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  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited June 2011

    Oh 3jays, I am so sorry.  Please know that you're in my prayers always, but especially now. 

    Kathy

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited June 2011

    Oh #Jays no words can express my thoughts. May God bless your sister and hold all of the family in his hand.

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited June 2011

    Peace and Blessings ((((( 3jays)))))

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    3jays, my sincere condolences.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited June 2011

    thanks ladies, your support means the world to me right now.. im the last from the 4 of us in this world now. i know there's a place they're holding for me. being here, with them there is jujst do difficult. your caring for me is beyonds words for me, right now...    3jays

  • Dilly
    Dilly Member Posts: 655
    edited June 2011

    3jays, you have my heartfelt sympathy and deepest condolences on the loss of your sister - when siblings are close, there's no other relationship to compare with that bond.  I send warm hugs and loving thoughts your way, now and in the future.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    3jays - I am so sorry for your loss.  Please know that I am praying that God will keep you in His comforting embrace as you deal with this loss and adjust to a life with out your sister.  Also sending you much love and warm gentle hugs.

  • Isabella4
    Isabella4 Member Posts: 2,166
    edited June 2011

    Cherie...I am so very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you, and hoping this news won't have a bad effect on your problems. Try and keep looking after yourself as best you can, after news like this. I have just got to my computer...such a shock, hate to think of you sitting there being so upset.

    I can't go back...you know what happens!...but I'm sure you said you got to speak to your sister last week. I hope so. I am sure each and everyone of us has you in our thoughts.

    Much love and hugs.

    Isabella. 

  • marlegal
    marlegal Member Posts: 2,264
    edited June 2011

    3jays there really aren't the right words for us to comfort you, but with all of our prayers going up on your behalf, and Rae's behalf, I have to believe that God will do the job for us and ease your pain. gentle hugs my friend ... I'll talk to you soon.

  • Valjean
    Valjean Member Posts: 1,898
    edited June 2011

    (((((( ♥ 3jays ♥ ))))))

    Love & Hugs

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited June 2011

    thank you so much, all of you, for your warm thoughts and prayers my way. you'll never know how much it means to me

      yes, Isabella, you're right. we spoke when she was able to a week ago, and we both had accepted that we would probably not get to see each other again on this earth.   im imagining her with my mum and dad, and at peace.

       i've been keeping drs. appts.. 3, this wk, to get to the bottom of my health issues.. , but, that's ALL i've been able to do, for now. another dr."blew me off" today, i went off on him, and had to explain, but thy're no help, it seems. off to get cultures again today for the MRSA. they just won't give me a strong enough antibiotic w/out the "proof" of a culture. so, today, its' fluids, and next wk, if need be, a biopsy on my skin.   last time they wasted this much time, i ended up in ICU.. id like NOT to this time, its all so frustrating..

       thank you again for your kindnesses, ladies... you'll never know how dear you are to me..3jays

  • momoftwo526
    momoftwo526 Member Posts: 151
    edited June 2011

    {{{Hugs}}}. to 3jays.  A beautiful poem. 

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    {{{3jays}}} Praying they get to the bottom of the infection.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    3jays - You are in my thoughts everyday,  I hope you are finding some peace with the absence of your sister and I wish the drs. would really listen to you and find out what the right treatment should be to get you better.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited June 2011

    3jays, I'll be praying that they can get the right treatment for you to get rid of this infection.  I can imagine how frustrating this is, and no, we surely don't want you to wind up in ICU this time.  Looks like they never learn.  You surely don't need this right now.

    Kathy

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    Morning folks! Looking forward to the weekend and the massage I am getting at 4PM. Yes!

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    Good morning ladies,  I am getting ready to spend another day with 3 of my granddaughtersl  They were so much fun to be with in the pool last evening, but I sure was tired last night.  I even slept in this morning until 7:00 a.m. Which is rather late for me. I think I will get DH up and head down to breakfast. I will try to get some pictures posted as soon an I can.  Hope everyone has a joyous day and a restful weekend.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    Barb, Massage, eh....does a glass of champagne and strawberries go along with that?  Enjoy!  

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    Well, the massage was great! Today we are meeting friends for brunch and I think eggs benedict is on my agenda. Plan to spend the day floating in the pool then dinner with another friend. Oh and maybe a couple of cocktails.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    Barb,  Are you living the American dream or what?   Your life sounds like a vacation.  I don't even like eggs benedict and now I am craving them. 

  • Jaggy47
    Jaggy47 Member Posts: 2
    edited June 2011

    Barb, I second that!!!  Sounds like fun!!  I live in Orlando and would love to hook up with someone in the area for some beach fun!  My two daughters and I love the beach.  Save some eggs benedict for us!

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    PM me next time you head Pinellas way. I live in Treasure Island.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    BarbA - Glad you are enjoying the weekend! You work so hard and put up with so much at you job that you definately deserve all the relaxation and fun you can find on the weekends.  Love you my sweet friend.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    I am enjoying my time in Oklahoma with my daughter #2 and the 3 granddaughters and DSIL.  DD has not made me crazy yet which is unusual and the girls are growing up so fast and have been such fun to be with.  We went shopping today and got the oldest granddaughter some new clothes since she has out grown everything.  We got 2 skirts, 3 shirts, 2 pair of flip flops, one for the pool and one for church.  She is 11 yrs old, is 5' 5 1/2" tall and wears a size 10 1/2 shoe!  We spent this evening cleaning out her closet and dresser drawers to remove all the things that are too small and put the new things up.  I may have to send her some new shorts as she only has 3 pair that fit.  DD was so surprised that we got the whole room cleaned up!  GD did all of the cleaning, I just held the trash bags while we talked and she cleaned.  It was a good time for both of us.  I kind of wish we had made plans to stay longer, but my next treatment is on Tuesday so we fly back to NC on Monday so I can get a little rest before I get my next treatment.

    Hope everyone is enjoying the weekend. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2011

    AmyJo,   So glad your pain is under control and that you are getting to spend some quality time with the grandchildren.  It looks like it it going to be a beautiful day here so I want to work in the yard.....who knows maybe I will be up to doing an outdoor party this year as I used to every year. 

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    AJ, so glad the pain is being managed now. Hugs for you, gal pal!

    Marybe, I see another day at the pool in my future. It will be 91 today but at least it is not 90% humidity.

    I see there is an area of 'activity' in the Caribbean. Sheesh. It starts! The hurricane season runs from June until October but usually nothing much until August. I hope this year is kind to Florida. 2004 was a doozy. Hurricane Frances almost blew me off my dock. I had planted a foxtail palm tree a couple months before and the wind had it listing toward my big picture window across the pool. So I go out, grab a rope from the dock piling and am trying to tie the tree off to the piling. A huge gust of wind had my legs straight out behind me while I am hanging on to the piling for dear life. Scared the cr@p out of me.

  • Elisimo
    Elisimo Member Posts: 1,601
    edited June 2011

    Marybe - don't overdo it with the gardening.

    BarbA - I too hope this season is kind to all of us.  I am glad you were not blown away in the storm, cause then I would not have met you!

    DD and her family will be by soon to pickus up for churh this morning.  I am assuming that it will be loud as she said thry hand out earplugs if you are going into the service!  This should be interesting.  Everyone have a great Sunday.  Amy Jo 

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited June 2011
    At our Relay for Life yesterday there was a booth set up for Casting for Recovery.  I'd never heard of it; it's a retreat for breast cancer patients & survivors where you learn how to flyfish (no cost)!!!  Anyway the website is www.castingforrecovery.org  Anyhoo I thought perhaps some spirited and lively older women might want to check it out.  Sounds fun.
  • marlegal
    marlegal Member Posts: 2,264
    edited June 2011

    Joni, it's amazing to me how many resources ther are   out there that wwe don't know about

    sorry, typing sucks!!

    that's so cool, i'm not a fisherwoman but just think that's cool

    see you all this weekend gals

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited June 2011

    Mary, good for you walking the Relay. I love to fish, especially fly fishing. I fly fish salt water fish and love it.

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