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Just a quick pop in, Lisa again soooooo happy for you. ENJOY.
Mel so happy your onco visit was good, and Karen heres praying for an all clear at yours.
Shelia hope that cold gets better ASAP.
Yes my girls get along for the most part, but they are complete opposite in many ways, I thank God he has given me the chance to have my family close, but also saying prayers for some sense of peace, calm and normal days SOON.
Yes girls one day closer, and it can't come any to soon, the last 2 days I have felt as though my body is just giving out, today I spent in bed most all day (great new mattress by the way) can hardly walk or for that matter sit, I think I am 102 years old. Just so VERY EXHAUSTED and hurting so badly.
Good night all, hoping things will feel better tomorrow.
LOVE YOU ALL - XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
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Cathi, how does your new furniture look? Glad you're enjoying the mattresss, it's SO important!
Sheila, what did your doc say?
Lisa, Lisa, Lisa......
Elaine, how is your mom?
OMG! I'm doing a LIST! I NEVER do lists! I'm going to stop now...
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Barbe, the doctor confirmed my dx of sinus infection. I was fortunate not to have it settle deep in my chest (yet) and the coughing was mainly from the drainage. She gave me a Z-pack and script for some good cough syrup to relieve the coughing at night. I slept the best last night I have slept in a week. I saw the NP yesterday and when I was leaving, I wanted to schedule my annual physical with my GP, only to find out that my GP had left the practice. I will be seen by her replacement in November
. Another doctor I have to train.
We had the Komen Luncheon this past weekend and it was fabulous. The cancer coordinator started out the luncheon in her welcome by saying that this luncheon was all about all the ways we get support: support from our families, support from our house of worship, support from local support groups, and even support from a good bra (that got a laugh). The survivors had name tags in the shape of a bra with a pink ribbon between the cups and their guests wore pink hearts. The entertainment part of the program just said 'Glitz and Glamour fashion show'. We kept it a secret that the fashion show was 'art bras' modeled by young women in black t-shirts. You should have seen the audiences reaction when the first model came out with her pink sequined bra on struting to the tune 'Diamonds are a girl's best friend'. Everyone embraced the fashion show and we received many comments about how fun the afternoon was. I will let you know when the photos are up on the wig bank site.
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Sheila, that show sounded wonderful! Did you auction off the bras at the end?
Glad to hear you're getting meds. I once got such a strong cough medicine from the ER that the pharmacist actually phoned the hospital to make sure it was legitimate!.....sleeeeeeeeep......
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AE it was a sad weekend in Boston. Not pretty at all!
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No we didn't auction the bra's off. This luncheon wasn't a fund raiser, it was to honor all the survivors in the 3 county region (survivors got in free, and guests were $10). There is a dinner in October called 'the Legacy' that honors people from the community who have passed away from cancer the previous year. They will talk about the legacy that each one has left behind and they have a professional speaker come and talk (a couple of years ago they had humorist Jeannie Robertson from NC). The wig bank board likes to have humor and fun part of the night. The Wig Bank board has asked to use the Art Bras as part of the Legacy dinner this year as well as display them at the wig bank during the month of October. I am not sure what is going to happen with the bras after that.
My doctor's office actually faxes the prescription directly to the pharmacy that you want to pick it up from, so I don't even get to see the written script. The cough syrup has hydrocodone in it. I slept good but with crazy dreams - and best of all very limited coughing.
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Barbe the new bedroom is awesome, and as we did a major clean while moving the old out and the new in plus our bathroom it is a sanctuary away from the rest of the house, it sleeps great which I have been doing a awful lot of the past 2 days, just have no GET UP AN GO, I am waking up tired and exhausted, yet I think I am sleeping pretty good through the night with my 3 Extra strength Tylenol PM's , guess just getting old - LOL.
Shelia feel better soon.
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. This site is THE BEST! I am online every day and sometimes twice; now that I am home it looks like I live on the computer now. Our love and prayers to you dear and you will live to see your grandchildren - be positive. Breast Cancer treatments have come a long way so please never never give up. Love to you!
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. This site is THE BEST! I am online every day and sometimes twice; now that I am home it looks like I live on the computer now. Our love and prayers to you dear and you will live to see your grandchildren - be positive. Breast Cancer treatments have come a long way so please never never give up. Love to you!
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Hi Everyone,
This is the second day I've been part of this wonderful support group. I am almost completely alone in the world. I have many, many serious problems and now breast cancer.
I begin extensive testing to determine the stage of the cancer and whether any cells are renting space in my bones, liver or lungs this coming Friday. My surgery is scheduled for October 20. At this point I don't know the extent of the surgery. I will have an active part in the decision making. My breast surgeon is absolutely wonderful.
I'm considering having a double mastectomy. I have to do all that I can to reduce the risks of a recurrence. I can't imagine having only one mastectomy.
For all of the positive things I've read on these posts, I am so thrilled for all of you who are having fun and once again enjoying life. It sounds to me as though it's possible to make friends through this forum even though we are all occupying space in different parts of the palnet.
Today I'm just falling apart. Maybe tomorrow will be better. I'm just beginning to allow myself to cry.
I think joining a local support group would be a good idea.
Prayers to all of you.
Thanks for listening.
Bo
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Bo, a typo in your post gave me a laugh...then a pause. "we are all occupying space in different parts of the palnet"
We are a palnet. We each occupy the space appropriate to our ability to give and receive. It works.
And yes, if there are stray cells, they are renting space until you evict them. Love that image. Welcome to one of the best spaces on the palnet!
Judie
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Vilma, it looks like you responded to Sue's initial post that was posted two years and 443 pages ago! Skim through a few pages to get a feel for where it has led us, and jump right in. You are welcome and appreciated.
We've welcomed several new women lately. AE, Sue, or anyone up for the Yellow Brick Road story? It's good to refresh it from time to time.
Judie
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Hey Judie how is that Jasper doing, keeping you busy and happy with joy I am sure, can't wait to have that one on one with Margo again. She has gained a bit to much weight the past 2 months with dropping being left all about, soon back to her normal healthy diet and exercise.
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Jasper and I just returned from our evening walk and are drenched to the skin. A sudden downpour was not anticipated by me and I was unprepared. Jasper still insisted on visiting every tree and bush. Boys! He thought the whole thing was a great adventure! Since I live alone he is becoming a little protective of me and wary of others. I've got to nip that in the bud. I've never liked small dogs who attach to one person and snarl at the rest of the world. Sigh. Lots of work to do. But I enjoy the heck out of him and understand how you feel about Margo. Schnauzers are food focused, too, and tend to gain weight easily. Jasper would vacuum up every dropping with all those people, too. Gotta watch our canine kids!
How many more days? Hours? I'm so excited for you!
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Judie they pick the key up on 10/9, we will begin moving the small stuff that day, but all the men must workon Friday so official sleep in date is 10/10.Saturday , so 11 more days, so close yet so far. LOL
Maro actually surprises me as far as being so great with others, I am of coarse her prime soul mate as with little dogs they do like one person best, but she truly is amazing for being a Chihua , she is fantastic with the little kids, not snippy at all, they can walk over take her toys/treats without a hitch, that is not normal for that breed, we did get lucky there. She is a little fatty right now and most definetly needs to diet in 11 days. - LOL
It is a beautiful AM here in Fla, our cool front has come through - love this time of year, sure hope it lasts until next June, but they are saying expect the humidity to return by next week - DARN.
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oops! mean every word tho! Love
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Hugs for Vilma
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Welcome Vilma and Bo.
Judie, I'm not sure I can properly relate the Yellow Brick Road story, since I was a "late comer" but ladies, it has to do with all of us traveling to Oz...Sue is our Dorothy, AE (really, Val) is our Auntie Em, hence the AE. Oz is the place where treatment is finished, for now. Some are still on the road, so we cheer them along, and we're definitely happy when someone makes it here with us.
Sue was struggling so while she went through her chemo that when she finally made it to Oz, she was sent a care package of lovely things, including ruby slippers and a magic wand. Somewhere back a few hundred pages, there are photos.
Since then we've gathered here daily to carry on with discussions about life and our families. But really, no topic is off limits...except I haven't seen anything political, which is OK with me.
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Nancy, great synopsis! The Yellow Brick Road image isn't used as much in our conversations, but it is as fresh in my mind as it was two years ago. Some of us trying to find courage, heart, and wisdom to face the journey, others cheering at the gate to the Emerald City. I love it. And you just hit on another reason I love this place...pure acceptance. Religious thoughts and expressions are accepted by non-believers as sincere expressions of love and hope rather than keep your religion out of my face. Politics is gentle and kind around here. Who would guess?
Vilma, many wonderful women have stumbled in through the same door. Your comments very much appreciated. Do join us on a regular basis.
Sue, who started this whole thing going is a true "character" and has kept us loving and laughing. Like so many others, she is trying to move on as much as possible, but does run to her family here when she's scared, lonely, or just misses everyone. Many along the way have done the same but they are forever part of us.
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Very well said Judie and Nancy!! You described our journey together and sisterhood to a T!! Thank you! Welcome, Welcome to Vilma and Bo...so happy to have you join our wonderful group!!! We will be here for you whenever you need us! It's what we do best!
We do tend to stay out of politics and even the up to the minute news. Which is probably a good thing! I really have my feathers ruffled right now, about the current news story about Roman Polanski. But, I won't go into it! I just can say very nicely, that Miss Whoopi..whom I used to like, well...I won't tune in to see her on anything in the future. Ok..done!
Cathi..congrats on the new sanctuary!! How nice! Only 8 more days!! I am having a garage sale on October 9 and 10th...I'll think of you having your HOME back on that day!
Judie..I can just see your Jasper protecting his "mommy". It's funny, Oliver does to a degree, but he is protective of all of us girls at my home. He does however "allow" Tony to kiss and hug me, without any upset of any kind! It's very unusual, because sometimes he would bark even when Olivia would kiss me! So...that tells me, that he really likes Tony! That's good...cause so do I!
Sheila, I think I have a sinus infection. I get them every year about this time. I have been feeling bad for almost 2 weeks. I have an apt tomorrow with the doctor. Like you...my reg fam. doc...LEFT!! I was so dissapointed. Not sure where he went, but I really, really liked him! I have to now, get used to another one! GRRRRRRRRRR
Have a good day ladies!
Nancy and Val, would still love to set something up for a day in NYC with you two, and whomever else could join us! Maybe in November when the tree is lit up at Rockefeller Plaza??
xoxo
Lisa
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Hello ladies
It's been a long time since I have posted. Wanted to thank you all for your prayers for my little Kenzie. She is the 4 year old granchild that had her right kidney removed yesterday. She has been having respiratory problems and gave the staff at Cooks Children's Hospital a good scare but she is doing a little better today. She had a rough night last night. She isn't talking to anyone. When the doctors push on her tummy she will just make facial grimaces. I told her mom she will have to be Kenzie's voice until she gts a little more comfortable with what's going on. I really miss her and want to be with her but my 2 year old grandchild has the flu so I'm here at home iwth him. Donnie, my DH, is on call and we have all of the 4 granchildren, including Gabriel the 2 yo, and DH is on call with the hospital so I have to stay here.
Peaches, my little lasa opsa went to spend a few days with Kenzie prior to her going into the hospital and she was so excited to be home. Talk about all the love she gives, she makes me feel very important. Cathi, I'm like you, I would love to have my little peaches to myself and no children on an everyday bases. I now have the two oldest grandchildren living with me because their mom doesn't help with homework. Talk about your world chaning!
Lisa - I have read your posts and Tony sounds wonderful.
I am sorry for everyone's losses and illnesses. I didn't read all the posts because there are so many pages. I hope Sue, Mel and everyone are doing good. AE, UB, Margo, Karen, Nancy, you know naming everyone and watching the kids shows, due to grandson, reminds me of romper room's magic mirror when the host would loook through the mirror and start naming names. LOL
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Dink- thanks for letting us know how Kenzie is doing. Prayers for a quick and uneventful recovery. Scarey when little ones have that kind of surgery.....gentle hugs for you all.
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Sending good thoughts and big hugs your way Leeza for the entire family. XOXOXOXOXOX You have a plate full my friend, your much stronger than I.
So I have to share what my wonderful SIL did last evening, I am not mad, his heart I guess was in the right place. They took Landen for a walk last night and came across some ladies going dor to dorr collecting for BC support/research, not sure what group, well SIL told them of my BC and that he thought maybe I might benefit from a visit from them - UGH. Amanda just stood there knowing that I would not be overwhelmed with someone just knocking on my door to talk about BC, she knows how I feel about wasting money on PINK stuff this time of year and that I know how or where to get help if and when I need/want it but she said she couldn't say anything, because she didn't know how to stop him from talking without offending the ladies, he gave as much detail as he knew and my name and address, as of yet no one has stopped by and I am glad, I have you all and a group I joined at the cancer center here (don't go much anymore though). But like I said his heart was in the right place.
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Cathi, and EWB, thanks for the prayers they work. Just talked with my daughter and she said they took the cath out, Kenzie is sleeping good. They took the oxygen monitor off and they are saying if she teetees and gets up she may get to come home tonight or tomorrow. YEEEEHHHH! Thanks you guys.
Cathi, I think your SIL is really concerned about you and this is one way he thought he could help because maybe he doesn't know how to say thank you for all you've done and he's really worried about you. Kids are amazing and they let us know they love us and are thinking about us in their own ways even if it isn't the way we think they should. LOL
Talking about mastectomies, My little Kenzie told me Tuesday night she was going to the hospital and was geeting her "new boobies like Mamaw". Now try explaining that to a little one. LOL. She was so serious so wwe talked about it again, she thought the same thing when she first knew she was having surgery. EWB, Thank you also for your prayers.
Ladies Prayers Do Work even when they aren't what we think they are suppose to be.
Dink
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Leeza, it is like 'romper room' when we try to remember all the wonderful ladies who have been down this yellowbrick road to the Emerald City. Great news about your little Kenzie, although funny that she thought she was going to get new boobies like her Mamaw.
Cathi, if they do show up just be gracious (as you are anyway) your sil was trying to show the ladies that he knows the face of BC. Just remember 1 more week and your house will belong to you again.
Sheila
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Hello Sisters xxxx
You are all forever with me xx I have been away from the thread for ages but do still read xx
Leeza you are one amazing lady! I have just read your posts ..lots of love x
Welcome and hugs to the new sisters .. you will feel safe here... this has been my best support throughout this past 2 years and still is.
I want to tell you all that it has been some 16 months since chemo ended and it is only just now that my energy levels have returned, so for anyone who is reading... always know there is a light at the end of the long dark tunnel xxx
My life is as hectic as always,never ends ... but my inner voice tells me to try something different... I think I am at a crossroads. Work is just too busy , I have been at my new shop since a year last April and it has gone from being the quietest to the busiest Subway around. They want me to keep my labour real tight and so we are all working like dogs! We took £1100 the other day berween just the 2 of us... I am very disillusioned... I think it is quite madness... I am really thinking of quitting while I a ahead.. and work for a company that can afford to run a place with enough staff so that we can get a break in the day.... lol
I want to ask your opinion on my health, for the past one month especially pre menstrual I have had terrible headaches... they make me feel sick etc... so at the age of 40 would one presume this is pre menopausal symptom... the headaches are driving me nuts... I never had them before, I have to shut my eyes and hold my face.
Maybe I am over tired over stressed I dont know. xx I just thought it may be my age ????
Any advice would be welcome xxx
I love you all ... I need to get back to reality instead of slogging my guts out xxx
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Lisa I am really happy for you
Judie I absolutely love Jasper xx
Sheila I hope you are feeling better xx
AE and UB give Delbert big cuddle xx
Nancy I am so sorry to read about your father xx
Cathi, your bedroom sounds fab... not long now and you will be able to get some normality back! I admire you so much xxx more than you will ever know x
Ok I have read all the posts but there are so many ... lol so we will have a group hug eh!
Bo ... we are here for you , we truly understand what you are going through... dont fall apart... cos we will never let bootface stoop so low! Please come here and we will always ALWAYS be able to give you support xxxxxx
GROUP HUG NEEDED MEL... you do it best !!! X X X
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Group hug for Sue!!! Good to see you sweetie, I imagine stress is part of it all but please get this checked out...please?!
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Thankyou so much xx
I think its stress ... its not a pain in a specific area .. I just wondered if it was hormonal
Am I allowed to say this ...MEN HAVE IT TOOOOOO EASY !
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does anyone else suffer head aches ... apart from the life kind.
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