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  • CB3
    CB3 Member Posts: 8
    edited October 2008

    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Deb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

    I know I don't post... but I read... and want you to know I'm on my knees praying hard!

    Charlie

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Night time post for good nights rest for you Deb. I thought of you today while preparing for a small boy-girl homecoming dinner for my daughter. I know you have daughters in addition to your son. Kids make our life full, and seeing them grow in grace and manners warms a mom's heart. I'm glad your daughter is with you, and your DH. 
     
    Hoping you were content today, and find peace and pleasure in the simple things in life. The smell of Fall, the color of the sunset, the acorns hid by the squirrels.
     
    Much affection,
    Tender 
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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    we've had such a fun day out and about -- exploring Annapolis, slonedeb..............

    tired out, ready for sleep. hitting the road in the morning -- time to head for home

    prayers for you, prayers for your kids, prayers for all of our slone-rangers.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited October 2008

     Hugs to comfort you and know we all love you! My prays to you each night is to help you to know that you are a very special fighter. God Bless You and sleep well, Debbie

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  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited October 2008

    Good morning, Deb from Kentucky!! I have a new T-shirt that I'd like you to have. It says "Jesus Loves You......but He love ME more!!" Innocent

    I hope today is a "good" one for you~~~~~Sunday School prayers for you!

    PANSY

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb. i'm hitting the road -- back to home -- it's too soon for the fall colors thru W VA, but there are hints of greater things to come!!

    know that we're all praying for you, to hold you up. 

    be strong, sister. courage. love

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Morning Deb. Just dropping by to add to the others in good wishes for you today. It's sunny and cool up here, and I'm going to do some canvessing for my candidates. 
     
    Prayers on wings being sent your way.
     
    Tender 
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  • ellenoire
    ellenoire Member Posts: 674
    edited October 2008
    I ran the local BC 5km today...

    the paper on my back said "I am running for:

    April and May Girls on bc.org and SloneDeb"

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  • footprintsangel
    footprintsangel Member Posts: 43,890
    edited October 2008

    Debbie, My thoughts are with you today, May the Lord peace feel you and comfort you. You are a very special person. Your a Debbie like alot of us on line. Take care, Angel hugs, Debbie

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb. i'm home safe and sound. exhausted, but grateful for having had the opportunity to travel and see new places.

    ellenoire. how terrific. you RAN?? congrats!! i'm so grateful that you put sloneDeb's name on your back. i think it's great to 'personalize' BC -- for those in attendance.

    see you tomorrow. gonna go rest my eyes -- and my brain. LOL

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 2,298
    edited October 2008

    That is so awesome Noelle. A friend of a friend will have my name on her tag in a race this weekend in Tampa Bay, FL. I am so greatful, and I know Deb is too.

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    Deb, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Traci

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb. good morning greetings. how about we start the day with great big muffins for breakfast? which would you prefer: blueberry or pumpking? i've also got some hot tea in a funny mug to perk up your morning.

    deb. we know that you're fighting on the rough road. we're all hear praying for you. i'm so proud of you. i treasure that we can work together to hold you up.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00x

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  • Maryiz
    Maryiz Member Posts: 975
    edited October 2008

    Hi, Slonedeb, just checking in on you this a.m.  Hope today is a good day for you.  Saying my prayers, Love, Maryiz

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Like the others, dropping by to let you know you're on my mind, and to send prayers for comfort today.
     
    I'm hoping your doctors office will answer your questions this week as they should. I'm sorry they left you hanging as they did.
     
    Lot of ((hugs)) for you Deb.
    Tender 
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  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 562
    edited October 2008

    ellen thank you so much noone has ever done that for me before god bless you  girls as i lay here in this bed i think about all of you and what you al mean to me you all are so wonderful and if god calls me home i told my  daughter to come hee and let youa all know i am in bad shape today my liver is swollen i cant lean back on my back  and went to er and they cancer on my good leg all the way from my hip tp my toes so i hope when my onc comes abck she will put me back on some kind of chemo she wont be back till the 12th soi wont get no relief before then and my leg is really getting my  down the pain meds dont even start to help the pain and where ive took so many my liver is beong affected by ot because there is teynoel in it and my skin is staring to turn yellow again do girls know if i can use a live cleanser to try and get some of the teynoel ou of it  i am so tired have to go  tender thanks for your kind words faith my dear sister  bug where are you and to everyone else on here i love you all hang in there even though my journey is getting shorter i pray your will last a long long time  and hope you all make it till thry find a cure  god bless deb from ky

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  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited October 2008

    Dear Deb,

    Hold on to us. We are here for you. Feel all our prayers. We love you.

    I am praying.......

    Hugs and prayers,

    Candie

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    dearest slonedeb. deb-of-slones. Queen-of-Kentucky.

    thank you so much for fighting thru the pain to come here and clue us in to your daily struggles. i'm just so sorry that you've put thru so much with this disease. i can read in your post above that the pain is in the process of winning and that just wrecks my heart.

    we will continue to hold you up in prayer: with petitions asking for a miracle, with petitions asking for support and encouragement.

    my words seem so completely inadequate and pointless, but they are what we have to wrap our care and concern around each other.

    trust that whatever the outcome for you in the time ahead, slonedeb, you can count on me to continue to pray for your son's continual deliverance from the drugs that have mucked up his life. focus on his efforts to recover. celebrate his awareness.

    these times must be so difficult for him.

    sweetie, i read on another thread that our kbug is going thru some tough times in her marriage. i know how strong her faith is & i know that she has continuously prayed for the whole circle of woman and their families, gathered here.

    calm hugs.

    love to you, honey.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

    thank you as always for your candor and for your willingness to share what the road has for you

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Really sorry to read about your liver and leg, Deb. Geez, swelling can be so uncomfortable, hard to get a position where you don't feel compressed one way or the other. Did the ER doctor check out your breathing, you know, with that little finger pulse which measures your oxygen? It's important to have that done, so you'll be given oxygen if it's low. No need to feel like you can breath on top of being swollen. I don't know anything but stopping the Tylenol to get rid of it. Then you'll need a different pain medicine. 
     
    Is your doctor the only one in her group? She must have made back up coverage arrangements. Really ticks me off, Deb, that she just left, and the office staff is telling you what she said. Why don't you call her office and ask to see the covering oncologist? Then too, an ER visit will mandate some connection with an oncologist.
     
    So, I'll say lots of extra prayers for you. I hope your daughter comes and sits with you, but like Faith says, we're there with you too, in spirit. Please have someone post for you if you can't, but never forget that we're all interlinked in kindred spirit.
     
    Affectionately,
    Tender 
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  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited October 2008

    Dear Deb, my Kentucky sister, I am offering up this prayer in your name~~~Let Go and Let God...

    Father God, I love you.

    Thank you that your ways are better than mine.

    Thank you that you always know what's best for me.

    I am stepping out in faith right now.

    By Faith -

    I release my plans

    I release my hold and grasp of what it is I think I want

    I release my finances

    I release all of my earthly possessions 

    I release my children

    I release my DH

    I release my self:

    my mind

    my body

    my emotions

    my desires

    my talents

    my dreams

    my hopes

    my aspirations

    I receive all that you have for me

    Fill me with peace, love and hope

    Renew my mind

    Renew my body

    Renew my spirit

    I now wholeheartedly submit myself to you to be used for righteous purposes.

    In Jesus name, Amen

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb. dear deb. child of our Heavenly Creator.......

    know that i start my day with prayers for you, for your strength in the face of so much pain, for your courage in the face of the unknown and for your willingness to share your story with us.

    i am always given personal encouragement, by reading what others have written here -- for your benefit...... so your sharing your story has benefitted me, thru the outpouring of support that is here and intended for you.

    we wait with you. we hold you up. we pray for your children and dear husband. we watch the turning of the leaves and realize that the seasons do in fact amble on and winter does indeed arrive -- for each of us.

    do all that you can to express what you want to express -- to us here, to your family, to your friends and neighbors..... share from the depths and you will light the journey for so many who follow.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Thinking of you much this morning Deb, and hoping you might feel the sun on your face some today.
     
    xxOOxx 
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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008

    Brrrr, it's actually getting a little nip here. No doubt now that cold weather is coming. I saw that Alaska was expecting snow, which the report said was somewhat early for them (Anchorage I think). Not quite ready for snow.
     
    How are you Deb. Gosh I thought of you a lot today. I hope your doctor's office talks with you soon, to help give you some support and also to address some help to relief some of your symptoms. I know you said you might not be able to post for a while. Please know that you are thought of daily, Deb. Sending warm prayers your way.
     
    Tender 
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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb. i got to thinking about Noelle telling you that she ran in the race with your name on her back..... it made me remember the first walk that i walked -- shortly after my diagnosis -- when i was still in the midst of radiation.

    anyhow, i went digging for the t-shirt from that day and finally found it.

    i wrote the names of the chatters at the time, that i'd chatted with repeatedly...... anyhow, there was your name!! right at the top of the list.

    i know that you have a hard time getting pictures on this website.

    if you want to see it, i added the picture on my blog.

    www.rainbowswithinreach.blogspot.com

    you'll have to scroll back to Oct. 1st to see it..........................

    sleep well. rest easily.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • candie1971
    candie1971 Member Posts: 4,820
    edited October 2008

    slonedeb, I hope today finds you feeling a lil better. You are always in my prayers. Also, go to Faith's blog...see our names ( I saw mine) I am honored to be among you. Dear Jesus, please be with slonedeb always.

     Have a good night's sleep...

    Hugs and prayers,

    Candie

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    good morning, dearest slonedeb

    i saw on another thread that you've been given some different pain medication and oxygen?? hope that i'm remembering correctly and praying that all of this intervention gives you some relief -- in the midst of it all.

    did i read that you have scans?

    know that i am starting my day thinking of you. praying for your strength. praying that you keep your faith in this rough terrain.

    i'm praying that your son is able to gain some traction in reclaiming his life...... i know that would be the biggest blessing & encouragement that you could possibly receive. know that in addition to my prayers, i have my fingers crossed too!

    gentle hugs to you, sweetest-of-the-sweet.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

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  • slonedeb
    slonedeb Member Posts: 562
    edited October 2008

    faith that ws so sweet to put my name on your shirt thank you so much right now i am feeling real low onc called and said i hace cancer in my leg from my hip al the way eo my toe i will ahve to have rads on it she said iwas in my knee cap also why girls does this beast  keep comming afrwe me why wont it let me se a little peace and spend some good times with my dh instead of being in constant pain and cant walk i am not a bad person and i love the lord with all my heart and i pray everyday for all of us and this beast keeps comming back on me i dont understand why so i guess the zometa doesnt work for me i dont know what to do but try to keep on fighting anf hoping and praying for a good day  bug we love you dear sister come back to us tender i love your kind words  candie and pansty thank you for your prayers i thank all who comes here for me and shows me their love and support  take care  and god bless   faith they put me on perocet 15 the one that dont have any teynoel in it so my liver shoud start to feel better in about a week  she doubled the strenght on my advastin so i dont know what that will do to me  i love you girls  deb from ky

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  • Daffodil
    Daffodil Member Posts: 829
    edited October 2008

    Deb, I am so glad that at least there is a radiation plan and some changes in meds~~~I hope and pray that will bring you some relief.

    "Life is not fair" gets pretty hard to swallow, doesn't it? I hope the fact that you have inspired the affection and admiration of so many women, as well as giving them an example of how to live with The Beast, gives you comfort and pride.

    Blessings, Kentucky woman......

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  • TenderIsOurMight
    TenderIsOurMight Member Posts: 4,493
    edited October 2008
     
    Dearest Deb, I truly am sorry for your onc's news to you. I wish I could give you a hug and some answers to the why's, which we all question in our struggle with breast cancer. Clearly, this is a great tribulation that has come your way, Deb, one that we lament greatly for you. 
     
    Like Job, you are being tried, yet he was not alone and you are not also, so stay with us and call out often and with no holds bared. We may not have answers but we have ears which will listen and voices which may comfort and fellow tears which may release joint frustration.
     
    I join all others in trying to lift you up that you are heard, and held close in our hearts, in a kindred spirit which is a blessing in itself, as women who know each other by and through disease, but become close through human connection and love.
     
    With great compassion for you, 
    Tender 
     

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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited October 2008

    Dearest slonedeb,

    Lifting you up to our Father who loves you so much.  Pam

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  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2008

    slone deb. thanks for the explaination of the efforts that are being made for your comfort in the midst of this awful process. your questions are so natural.

    "why are good people 'allowed' to suffer?" 

    any answer that attempts to deal with the inequities of this life, is too simplistic

    xx00xx00xx00xx

    we are here for you -- without answers, but full of compassion in spite of our limitations

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