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  • Morwenna
    Morwenna Member Posts: 1,063
    edited August 2013

    Radiation going ok, 4 more to go.



    My INR (blood coagulation time) has reached its target figure on oral warfarin, so no more heparin injections. Ta-daaa!



    I don't have to have another blood test til Monday, which is great because we're going camping in Banff tomorrow for the weekend .... in the rain .... How jolly! ;)



    Bit stressed just now over money-matters and funding younger sons college at short notice! :o

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Morwenna, rads almost over, and you sound really great! And jolly! Hope the rain lets up this weekend so you can have a dry camp. I remember more than one occasion camping where we woke up to find everything soaked by rain - not fun. Banff is so beautiful - enjoy!

    Edi, Irish descent no. Dutch yes. They seem to have the same problem as the Irish - LOL. I cooked some of that sausage meat last night with lots of onions, a can of baked beans and fresh herbs. Was not too bad, but has defo too much salt in it. Can't see us eating that stuff regularly, as DH has high blood pressure. He had frozen it in one kg packages. Wonder who I can give it away to? LOL.

    Dakota, glad you and your kids enjoyed yourself at the wedding. Hope cockroach ate his heart out.

    Websister, good to hear you are getting back into your normal work routine. What a nice prospect to have the kids coming, and all the exciting occasions! Was looking at baby knitting wool in WalMart yesterday . . . DD had first ultrasound yesterday, and she is so relieved it is only one baby - lol. We have twins on both sides of our family, and her DH does too. Phew - she dodged that bullet alright.

    Nihahi, how is the relief effort coming along? Are most of the High River people back in their homes yet? Looking forward to have you back here - we miss you!

    These last few days have been very hot here with temps upwards of 30 degrees C. Will not complain, and just enjoy it while it lasts. Went to the gym for a session with the trainer this morning, but she was at the hospital with a good friend of hers whose 15-year old son had tried to hang himself last night. His mom found him, cut him down, and now he is barely alive. No word yet on the extent of the brain damage - cannot imagine anything more devastating than this. We have so much to be grateful for.

  • MariaNL
    MariaNL Member Posts: 118
    edited August 2013

    Howdy



    Sorry I've been mia, was having a pitty party for a few days. I've been reading just not posting.



    Feeling better now, my girlfriend got here yesterday from Iowa she is a great distraction.



    Welcome to the hubs, it is awesome to see the support for your wives.



    We are going to have a slumber party with my sister's and bff tomorrow, we have booked a big suite and are going to stay up all night and act silly.



    Hope everyone had a wonderful week and has an awesome weekend

  • Morwenna
    Morwenna Member Posts: 1,063
    edited August 2013

    Oh Liefie, thats so sad to hear about the 15 yr old. It is not something anyone ever recovers from, especially if he is permanently damaged by the attempt. My younger brother committed suicide aged 23, at his third attempt, the first at age 19. No, it still hurts after nearly 30 years, and I can barely imagine my parents' feelings, but then to end up caring for somebody long-term after a failed attempt. Too cruel.



    I wish the rain would stop. I had enough of grey skies!



    I was playing my piano today, after almost a year of not having touched it. I was actually considering selling it to help fund youngster's school, but once I dusted and cleaned the keys, and started to play I realised how sad that would be.



    Oh well, its there as a last resort I guess.

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited August 2013

    Hi Ladies....really, really tired tonight.

    Liefie...no, many, many people are not back in their homes. Some have been cleaning for weeks, only to have it reflood with all the rain, some have been cleaning, only to be told the mold has gotten too bad, and they have to get out again and have more work done to clean the mold, some have JUST been allowed to get in to get some possessions, not to stay, as their homes have been deemed "un-inhabitable", some still haven't been let in. Many are still displaced into friends homes, hotels, trailers, etc. It is going to be a long, long process.

    Morwenna...glad to hear about the bloodwork, and the "almost" end of rads. You sound well!

    Off now to do a quick check on the diep thread, then soon off to bed for me. Hugs to all (((((((X)))))))

  • Jennie93
    Jennie93 Member Posts: 1,018
    edited August 2013

    Sorry I have not been posting, have been pretty down in the dumps lately, not sure why. Maybe the fast-approaching anniversary of my diagnosis, or maybe the frustration of feeling like the healing process has stalled and I'm just never going to feel better. Anyway I read everything and I rejoice with you all when there is good news, and am right there with y'all in all pockets that need us.

  • websister
    websister Member Posts: 1,092
    edited August 2013

    Morwenna - glad you are 'off the needle' and that you are at the end of rads. Rest up over the weekend. Nice that you rediscovered the piano, hoping you find another way to fund the education expense



    Liefie - so sad about the trainer's friend and her son, I have also experienced suicide within my family many years ago, still makes me sad.

    How exciting that DD had her first US and what a relief re: one, not twins. Now you can concentrate better on your shopping and crafting :)



    Nihahi - it must be so discouraging for those people and it seems that volunteer help is now dwindling. What a mess - in so many ways. I hope you slept well.



    MariaNL - good to hear from you again, have a wonderful time with your BFF and sister - we need those times. BTW pity parties are allowed here and they aren't reserved for just the surgery/chemo/rad period of time. I allowed myself a brief one yesterday when I was also exhausted and sore and wondered how I was ever going to get back to full time hours at work when I felt this way now working part-time. Over it now and will take one day at a time.



    Hello to everyone else and wishing all a good weekend

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Awww, Jennie, so sorry to hear that you are feeling like this. Like Websister said, we are always game for a pity party, and one always feels better after unburdening here where we all understand. Hoping/praying that you will turn the corner soon, Jennie.

    Morwenna, so very sad about your brother, and he must be missed even after all this time. Also can't imagine selling my piano, and I hope you can find another way of funding. My mom bought me a brand new German-built piano when I was 12 years old. It cost a full year of her teacher's salary that she had saved for this purpose - what we won't do for our children, eh?

    Maria, that slumber party sounds really good - enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!! It will lift your spirit, no doubt!

    Websister, slowly does it, for sure. Your body just has its own pace, and you are doing remarkably well anyway. Just rest and relax over the weekends as much as you can. Don't know how that will go next week with all the parties coming up, and that new baby girl to enjoy - lol!

    Nihahi, High River is a tragedy, and I cannot imagine the heartbreak and stress going on there. Home is where the heart is, eh? One is grateful that so few lives were lost, but the loss of so many homes is so sad. What will all these people do, and where will they go? How many of them have the means to start over? What a dire situation.

    On a lighter note, it is International Women's Day today. Congrats to all you wonderful ladies! Edi, you will enjoy this. A friend of mine down the street is throwing a real English high tea in her garden this afternoon to celebrate this - I think she was just looking for a reason to have a party - lol. So we all get to dress up in flowery sundresses with hats and all, and sit at beautifully laid tables with table-cloths, flowers, silver teapots, cucumber sandwiches, the works - she borrowed everything 'English' that she could find. Her garden is right on the water, and beautiful. She asked me to make scones for the occasion, so will bake dainty lemon scones with cream and strawberries. Looking forward.

  • websister
    websister Member Posts: 1,092
    edited August 2013

    Liefie - what a great idea to have an English high tea! She knew the right person to ask for the scones, they sound delicious. Care to share the recipe?



    Jennie - sorry to hear about how you have been feeling, even though it helps me to know I am not alone in the slow or stalled healing process. It can be discouraging when it seems that everyone else is doing so well and getting on with life. Last evening I had another 'crash' where I just suddenly felt completely energy depleted and had to head to bed at 8 p.m. Then, even though body was physically exhausted my mind wouldn't turn off and I couldn't sleep. Finally took a sleeping pill at 2 a.m. and that worked.



    It will be a quiet weekend on here as it sounds like lots of fun activities going on.



    Carla - still thinking of you, please share as you know what is happening.



    Wishing all a good and relaxing weekend

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Will pm you the scone recipe, Websister. Glad you slept well eventually. Tea party went well, just so hot we eventually sat on the grass in the shade to cool off. Went to bed late myself, and it is so hot here that even the ceiling fan in the room does not do much to relieve the heat. DH worked ER last night, and came home at 4 in the morning. Shift from hell as he calls it - chest pains, strokes, broken legs, etc. Will have a quiet, restful day for sure.

    Big worry here as our dog ran away yesterday afternoon. He's done it before, but that was long ago. He is old, but still chases cars. Just hoping/praying he will find his way home today.

  • Moviemaniac
    Moviemaniac Member Posts: 949
    edited August 2013

    Gosh Bellies........



    Wish I could wrap my arms around every one of you.......life is.....complicated at times, isn't it? Doing so would make me feel better, I am sure....we not only have our BC "stuff", but life doesn't take a time out for us, does it?



    Jenny, I cannot speak from my own experience, because I have never had either rads or chemo.....but I DO get the frustration, for sure......we've been here long enough....time for some positive movement .....the feeling hits me at unpredictable intervals.....I blame myself for my cancer....I took Prempro for about four years, and .......here I am, looking like Frankenstein's Bride......there, that's my usual pity party list of invitees......



    Morwenna, I cannot imagine the ongoing pain your brother's suicide has caused your family......I sometimes worry about DD#4.....her prognosis is so bleak, and she has spoken of the S word......puts ice in my veins.....we do what we can, and she SEEMS to be in a better place now, but.......

    I join Liefie in wishing you success in finding an alternative to funding college for son........



    Liefie, I think I have mentioned this, but I don't remember things too well, so will say it again, so very sorry about your trainers friend, and her son.......sending prayers.....



    Websister, so sorry you crashed and burned last night.....I hope today is being kinder to you, and that you can accomplish what is on your agenda for the day....



    Nihahi, you are a gem to help out your community in such a time of need......you have such a giving spirit AND a kind, loving heart.......hope you will be ready to relax and hike with me this next weekend......looking forward to it!



    Edi, Traii, Dakota, Maria, Benny, Carla.....and ALL......sending my love out to all.....

    Have good weekends, my wonderful friends!

    XOXO

    Namaste and God Bless-Jackie





  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited August 2013

    Hi All.....not much posting from me lately, but have been reading...

    Liefie....can I please have the scone recipe too???? PLEASE!!!!

    Websister...with this weather of rain, and humidity (sooooo not like our usual), everyone's energy is pretty low, I think. I took a day off from High River today....was so tired yesterday I could barely make it home. When I got up this morning, I knew I had made the right choice, as I felt about 103! We've had a quiet day, gone for a lovely ride down to Longview, stopped at the Turner Valley art show, then home to Okotoks for ice cream! Now just lazing around. Two more days of volunteering, then a MASSAGE on Tuesday (did you ever get an appt?), a couple days organizing then OFF TO PLAY WITH MOVIE IN MONTANA!!!!! 

    Hope everyone finds something good in today....I'll hopefully be more active posting again in a couple weeks. Thinking of everyone.....hugs to all.

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Okay, Websister and Nihahi, here is the link for the scone recipe.

    www.canadianliving.com/food/mini_lemon_scones_with_strawberries_and_cream_.php

    Hope the link works. Scones came out really well, and I even cut in the butter with two knives after I had grated it into the flour mixture. DH broke my mixer, remember? LOL. Did not put egg and extra sugar on scones before baking - unnecessary work. It's not a competition. The cream I whipped with a little sugar and added mascarpone cheese at the end - yum! (3/4 C. of cream, 1/2 C. of mascarpone cheese, 1 T. sugar) Enjoy!

    Were out on the lake in the boat just now, and got stopped by the police who chased us down in their big black intimidating rubber boat just like in a movie- lol! They checked our operator's licenses, boat license, everything on the boat, and it turned out we did not have a fire extinguisher or an extra floating rope on board. (Who would stay on a small motorboat if it catches on fire? Just grab a lifejacket and jump overboard already!) They were actually really kind and friendly, and gave us just a warning - phew! The fine would have been $460 . . . wow. First time I've seen police on the water. Good thing, because on weekends here are often intoxicated young people out boating. Not good.

    Runaway dog came back this morning, guilty as sin, and has been sleeping all day after a thorough bath. He stank to high heaven - must have rolled in the rotting dead fish washed up, salmon that die after spawning.

    Movie and Nihahi, you two must be looking forward, eh? Nihahi, glad you took a day off. You are working yourself to the bone - would love to hear all your stories re High River. Must get to Calgary soon. Movie, I shuddered when I read the S word in regards to your DD. Poor girl. I sincerely hope and pray that she will now have a better quality of life, that her problems will be over, and that she will find peace and happiness. As a mom I understand your concern so well, and life can be so cruel. How is the dog doing?

    Kind regards to each and every one of you!

  • scouser47
    scouser47 Member Posts: 963
    edited August 2013

    Hi girls just spent ages catching up with posts. Reading makes me feel like I am part of a glorious family spread all over the world.Laughing

    Morwenna, are your rads all done now ? You now must rest and recouperate.I kept on going and now fatigue has flattened me. Sleeping 11-12 hours a night.
    So sorry to hear about your Brother, my Mum made a failed suicide attempt and that had such far reaching implications don't know how we would have coped if she had succeded.
    Lovely about the piano, keep up the playing.x

    Movie,getting excited for you and Nihahi !! We will all be there with you wether you like it or not.
    How is your dog ?
    With a Mom like you DD will pull through all this I am sure.
    Is Pempo a form of HRT ? If so I too took this and only stopped when my friend was diagnosed with BC and told to get off it. Sure we will never know what awakens the bxxxh but we must put her back to sleep.x

    Jennie, know something of how you are feeling, first anniversary for me too this month and wading about in a pit of despair right now. Shame we are so far apart we could talk this out together. x

    Carla, Thinking of you sweetheart x

    Nihahi, glad you will be getting your rest this week. Your reports of the ongoing misery for people is harrowing. x

    Traii, how is healing of wound ? x

    Websister, hope you have had a great weekend x

    Liefie, Just one baba, what a relief. Now get those knitting needles out.Smile 
    The young man's suicide attempt so tragic, here two 14 year old's have hung themselves in the past week egged on by a social networking site trolls. What is this world coming to ?
    English tea party wow what a lovely idea. Bet those scones were fantastic.
    Glad smelly doggie back home.
    Laughed at vision of you and DH being pulled by the cops. Nice they let you off.x

    Maria, How did slumber party go ? Still trying to find you on f/b Frown x

    Love to ALL sisters mentioned or not. X

  • Delvzy
    Delvzy Member Posts: 527
    edited August 2013

    Hi girls sorry I haven't posted for a while had that horrible head cold that has been going around leaves you very flat and tired. Trai glad you are healing well coming up to my 5 year anniversary in under 4 weeks can't believe it has gone so quick.

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited August 2013

    Hey Ladies...

    Edi.....I remember the first anniversary as one of "a year ago I was normal, a year ago I had a life....etc...." pfffttt to that mindset now!

    Like Delvzy....now it's not an anniversary, it's a celebration of how long ago "IT" was, how long it's been since "IT", how awesome that it's been "xxx years".....You'll get there too. This November it will be 22 years for me. 

    Gotta dash...love to all!

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Nihahi, you are like a shining beacon of hope for the rest of us. Every time I read that you are 22 years out, it truly inspires me, and helps me realize that we may indeed dare to dream big.

    Edi, as for HRT, I took it for 6 years, then got diagnosed with bc. Dropped that stuff like a hot potato. Blamed myself in the beginning, because I should just have stuck out the menopause symptoms. Eventually I realized that no amount of blaming and beating myself up was going to change the facts, and that I just had to put it behind me, and move on. So sad about those 14-year olds - there are some very sick, very scary people on the internet. One wonders if they will be held accountable. I surely hope so. As for knitting, have not done that in a very long time, but I hope I still remember the basics - will be interesting! DD and SIL are coming for a visit in a few weeks. Hopefully there will be something to show her by then - LOL.

  • Morwenna
    Morwenna Member Posts: 1,063
    edited August 2013

    After a weekend of camping and hiking, I am completely exhausted! Tired but triumphant!



    Been remiss in applying Glaxalbase though ... well just twice a day rather than 3-4, and I can feel the difference in my skin, but no regrets. We hiked to the Plain of Six Glaciers tea house from Lake Louise today 11km round trip, and yesterday from Tunnel mountain to Banff and back. My poor feet! And despite wearing "Off" clip-ons AND multiple applications of Deet sprays, we're bitten to bits, including at least two on my lymphedema arm, through my sleeve!! :(



    Three more rads to go, and inr test tomorrow, so I hope it's still in the right place!



    It looks like my son can get a student line of credit, with hubby and me as co-signers, so he can use that until such time as his student loan comes through ..... sigh of relief! The piano is safe, for now!!

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Morwenna, Lake Louise is so beautiful, and what a trooper you are! Can't imagine hiking 11 km during rads - I could barely walk a few blocks, and had to rest everywhere I could find something to sit on. Maybe it was because I had two major surgeries, chemo and rads all in short succesion that I was so weak eventually, but it is way behind me now - so thankful. So glad the piano is safe - keep it like that, eh?

  • Morwenna
    Morwenna Member Posts: 1,063
    edited August 2013

    I was crying when I reached the top. My husband had given up with less than 600m to go, but it was a steep bit, and he said he couldn't go on.



    I didn't want to go on on my own, but I also couldn't bear to have got so near and turn back. I'm not one to beaten, not by a silly old walk after all I've put up with this year!



    I was going so slow near the end, my heart was thumping in my ears, but I also needed the washrooms, so another incentive! I was cursing away to myself, and sniveling, but when I came out of that washroom there he was, the b***er, sitting on a bench grinning at me.



    I'm not sure what decided him to carry on to the top, but at the sight of him I lost it pretty much completely! So we had a nice cup of tea and jam scones, and staggered back down the mountain together! :D

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Morwenna, sounds like you had quite an emotional day! So glad hubby also made it. Now I also want to go for tea and scones at that teahouse - maybe one day with you, Benny, Websister and Nihahi, eh?

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited August 2013

    Wowzer Morwenna.....that isn't an easy hike at the best of times! Combine the distance, the altitude and rads....you certainly are a rockstar!!!! Glad you were able to make it up. Is the trail beyond the teahouse (to the Abbott hut viewpoint) still closed? Were there any washouts on the Plain of Six trail??? Liefie.....get yourself over here and we'll get out in the mountains, for sure!!!!

    re: your hot yoga "meltdown".....I struggle with hot yoga myself.....just don't enjoy it...warm yoga is ok, but that's it for me! I bet we don't "sweat" normally yet in the hip to boob region, cause of all the nerve "changes"....maybe that's why you felt so hot???? Just a theory....but remember....yoga isn't about keeping up, it's about doing what you can do, when you can do it!

    Finished for now with the Red Cross volunteering....but have now applied to be a regular volunteer. I met so many awesome people, and was so personally rewarded by what I was doing, I can't imagine not continuing. Edi....I'm sorry (and very confused) re: your hubby's anger about your time as a volunteer. I'm not sure why you don't tell him off, and just do it! You need to find things to do that bring YOU happiness and personal reward. Screw hubby, if he can't see beyond himself. Sorry to be blunt.....but I wouldn't accept my hubby's attitude if it was the same.

    Off for a much needed massage this morning, then down to MEC to pick up a new pair of hiking poles!!!!! Timtams are on the shopping list, as well as ingredients for scones....then of course, there's the long neglected housework to do....or might just go for a long walk this afternoon....really odd to have a whole day to play! 

    Movie....4 sleeps until we meet up! Can't wait!!!!!!!!!

  • scouser47
    scouser47 Member Posts: 963
    edited August 2013

    Hi Laughing now I can smile again. Two weeks ago found lump right near original site from last year.
    Have hardly slept and tried to be positive .GP got me appointment which was today.
    Consultant was kindness itself. Thorough examination / mammogram / ultrasound followed quickly.
    In one and a half hours had the all clear. Legs gad gone to jelly.
    Now onwards and upwards.

    Nihahi, I want to see 22yrs too that will make me 88.
    Your volunteering is so kind, I did enjoy it but ignoring DH not a good idea. Confrontation is not my way, raised voices reminds me of childhood and really can't cope on top of all this other sxxt.
    Still on the rota if things improve,
    You must be so excited about meeting our Movie.

    Liefie, hope you DO have a go at knitting.
    Know what you mean about reason for this happening, no point in beating yourself up, we have done it and if this is what happens we have to just fight on.
    The networking site that caused the young people to commit suicide is still operating !! Should be closed right now.

    Morwenna, very impressed with your hike, good for you getting to the top. You deserved the tea and scones.
    So glad piano is safe for now too.

    Hope that everyone is well and happy. xxxx

  • Morwenna
    Morwenna Member Posts: 1,063
    edited August 2013

    Edi, sorry to hear about your worries for the past fortnight .... Wow, you must be relieved now. Did they think it was just scar tissue or fatty lump or summat??



    I've been trying to imagine why your OH is so against your volunteering. Does he worry for you or what?



    Nihahi, there were a couple of spots where it looked like the trail had been repaired over watercourses, but the ongoing trail to the viewpoint was open as far as we could tell. We had completely run out of juice by then.



    There was a place near the lake-head where you had to use stepping stones for about 30m, so I don't know if that is normal? On the way back it was starting to rain slightly, and nearly all the stepping stones were actually submerged, so you can see how quickly water levels can rise!It was quite interesting with my slightly iffy balance just now! :)



    Feet still sore, but we got the tent aired and put away this morning. Enjoying a quiet day. Should leave for my treatment in a bit.



    Discovery Channel had a program with Charlie Boorman exploring Saskatchewan and Alberta this morning, which was fun to watch!



    On the 21st I am flying to the UK to visit my folks, but back Sep 8, so maybe we can organize a little group hike when I get back??



    I'd love to meet some of you!

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited August 2013

    Edi, so sorry to hear about your scare, but so happy it turned out okay! Yes, we will have that darn black dog on our heels for the rest of our lives, and the first thing I do every morning is to give him a hard, well-aimed kick in the teeth, and tell him to shove off. LOL. We have to soldier on, no turning back, finding the happy in our lives again.

    Had a session with trainer this morning. The boy who tried to commit suicide is still in ICU, awake, and no brain damage, thank the Lord. He has no recollection that he tried to do that, and psychiatrists are working with him on his issues. Apparently there was alcohol involved too. His poor mother has not been back home, because he did it right on the porch, and she can't bear to face it at the moment.

    Nihahi, yes, that yoga room was way hotter than normal. Add in my Tamoxifen flushes, and it was a perfect storm, I think. The instructor came over afterwards, and I think she will modify things a bit for me - don't think she realized fully what my situation was. Slowly does it, and as I regain my muscle strength, I will be able to do more. This morning did strength training and treadmill afterwards, no problem because the gym is cool - lol. Can't do what I did before surgery, but will get there. Left arm/shoulder defo weaker. DIEP breast also a little achy these past few days - must be all the pulling on the radiated tissues.

    Morwenna, what a nice prospect of seeing your family in the UK - you must be so excited! I get to see mine when we go to South Africa in December for DS's wedding. Can't wait.

  • MariaNL
    MariaNL Member Posts: 118
    edited August 2013

    Hi ladies



    Well I survived my friends visit. We were non-stop the whole time and the slumber party was so fun haven't laughed that much since this mess started. Nothing like girl time to rejuvenate yourself. Boy was I tired when she left on Sunday.



    Sounds like everyone is getting along well, so nice to see.



    Traii and Dakota how are you? You seem very quite as of late.

  • websister
    websister Member Posts: 1,092
    edited August 2013

    Hi - quick check in, have tried to keep up



    Nihahi - thanks re: energy level and weather, I do think it contributes. I don't think the Herceptin infusions are helping in that regard either, I hope that after I'm done with them things will pick up again. Doing my best and that's all I can do :) I did email the massage therapist but didn't get a reply, I will have to give her a call, I will definitely need one after this weekend's activities. Glad you will continue with your volunteering with the Red Cross and wishing you and Movie a wonderful time away, it does sound wonderful



    Liefie - so glad your dog returned, a worry with bears and cougars to be concerned about. Thanks so much for the scone recipe, I plan to use it this weekend. I'm glad the instructor will modify the yoga for you



    Morwenna - you should be very proud of your hiking accomplishment at that point in rads - pretty amazing! And so happy to hear that piano will stay intact and funding is working out for DS



    Edi - so sorry to hear of your worry and so glad that all is well. I can understand why you would choose to avoid a confrontation with DH but I do hope he comes around and realizes how good it is and what it means to you



    Carla - any further news? Continuing to remember you



    Benny - laughed at your gardening adventures today on Facebook



    Trai and Dakota - Maria is right, you have been quiet. Hope you are enjoying your children and that all is well



  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited August 2013

    Edi....sorry you had such a scare....very, very happy it worked out to be all clear! Don't mean to suggest confronting hubby is what you should do, but, has he told you why he doesn't want you to volunteer???? Maybe it could get sorted out behind the two of you if you knew??

    websister...sorry Sherry missed your email...I know she was rushing around trying to get out of town when you may have emailed her. Obviously, she's back now....hope you try again...today's massage was HEAVENLY!!!!!!

    hope all is well with everyone....maria....good to hear from you! Have a good night ladies!

  • adagio
    adagio Member Posts: 982
    edited August 2013

    Liefie - which part of South Africa are you from? I am going to Cape Town in September and am thoroughly looking forward to it - have heard it is a beautiful city.

    Edi - what a worry feeling another lump - just the thought of it alone sends shivers through me. 

    Jennie - your one year anniversary is around the same time as mine - what a year it has been!! Certainly not one I would want to repeat any time soon. Hope you start feeling better soon.

  • Dakota212
    Dakota212 Member Posts: 1,153
    edited August 2013

    Hi sorry I haven't posted. Been very stressed lately. Finally have the cockroach an ultimatum come home by sept 2 or I am filling. This is huge for me as I have never given him the ultimatum. It's scary and sux all atbthe same time. Work has decided to staff by volume which means if I don't have enough work I am to leave without pay or take vacation but with all this BC crap I have 20 hours if vacation. The kids are getting busy and sports bills are coming in. It's just stressful but I am healthy and I have beautiful nipples (no Prince Charming but that would be too much right now anyway). It stinks not having someone to tell me everything is going to be alright for that comfort but. That's life and I and trying hard to deal with it. I have been reading just not up to posting. Love u gals !!!

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