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  • LMDuncan
    LMDuncan Member Posts: 715
    edited July 2009

    My rad burns were pretty bad.  I also had a mastectomy but they still insited on radiation.  My burns showed up after the 25 rads and then the skin peeled off.  It was pretty raw and sore.  I feel for you Deb I hope you heal up soon.

    (((HUGS))) Lori

  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

    Just got off the phone with Julz... what a cutie!  She's got to work tonight, enjoyed our talk...

    I told her that I think I might write Oprah and tell her there's a group of gals that she might be interested in interviewing about bc.  If she could put us up for a weekend in Chicago together I'd do it...fat, bald and sickly!  lol

    Hope you are all having a blessed night...

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited July 2009

    I posted a longer post of our visit -- over on Stage IV thread.

    Here's a quick synopsis:

    The adults......l to r: Mr. & Mrs. Faith, then Mr. & Mrs. Saint...... our little front room.

    And here's the whole group....... all of the Saint family & then us:

    (The Wilsons at THE Wilsons -- yes, they bought the t-shirt to commemorate the occaision.)

  • Jane_M
    Jane_M Member Posts: 1,549
    edited July 2009
  • Deb-from-Ohio
    Deb-from-Ohio Member Posts: 1,140
    edited July 2009

    Awwwww Deb, wish I could have been there to meet her...I've never talked to her, but she sure sounds like such a warm loving person..........much like you!

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited July 2009

    WOW Faith sorry i am missing out on such a great trip!.......I knew I should have hidden under the RV!...LOL

    Saint if you are reading this wemiss you here, sweet sister and are so glad you are doing so great!...God is Able and He answered our prayers..........

  • Deb-from-Ohio
    Deb-from-Ohio Member Posts: 1,140
    edited July 2009

    I think tomorrow I am going to call my oncologist and ask him what the percentage of a recurrance is if I just do what i have done versus the whole 30 radiation treatments. I only have 6 reg treatments and 5 boosts left and to put simply, I am tired of the whole thing. Went thru chemo, got sick.....went thru surgery, pain...and swelling.........go thru rads more pains with the 3rd degree burns and being burned inside and my breast still is swelled up twice the size of the other..just so sick of being sick, tired and in pain.........if it comes back, will deal with it then............

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited July 2009

    Very gentle HUGS, Deb.  Such a shame you have to put up with this.  Prayers said for a quick and pain free total healing.  

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY (((((( ARNIE )))))))))) -- shouting to the roof tops.  Peace, Blessings, Hugs, Love, and of course NO Housework.   Pah Tee as you are able and laughs and all things sweet and good for you.

    Gentle Hugs for everyone else.  :-) 

     Nancy 

  • Jayne_in_UK
    Jayne_in_UK Member Posts: 517
    edited July 2009

    Deb (((((gentle hugs))))) so sorry to hear what you are going through. I am not surprised you are tired of the whole thing. I am sending powerful healing vibes in your direction.

    Happy Birthday Arnie! Hope you have a wonderful, housework free day.

    (((((Hugs to everyone else)))))

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited July 2009

    Happy Birthday Arnie.

  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

      Thanks Sharon!!!!  Wooo Hooo!!! 

    NOTE:   Please add Patoo's birthday to your lists it's ...January 1, 1949  Happy New Year gal!

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2009

    (((((((((((((((( Deb ! )))))))))))))))))

    Arnie !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

    Thanks Barbe....   I hope Deb is doing better this a.m., I hope they gave her something to help!!!   ((((((((( hugs)))))))))))

    Faith... the pics are fabulous!!!  How precious....

    lefty...Jayne UK... thank you sooooo much for the birthday wishes...

    No housework for me today.... I'm gonna do what I love most...get out in the workshop and make some shelves for the porch room.   I love woodworking!!!

    See full size image

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited July 2009

    Enjoy YOUR day in the sawdust arnie!

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    80sNight029.jpg Happy Birthday Janet! image by hmendoza_photos

    Thought you might enjoy being 29 again Arnie. Hope you have the most blessed of blessed days!!! Happy Birthday and we love you Arnie!!!!

  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

    Love you guys too!!!!   THANK YOU!!!    wow.... EVEN HAS MY NAME ON IT!!!  Laughing

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited July 2009

    A very happy birthday to you Arnie!

    Sweet Deb-  you are in my prayers!

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    Faithie and Saint......sure wish I was a fly on the wall at Wilson's Restaurant!!! I know ya'll are having the GREATEST time!!! Enjoy every single second of the week!!! I want to see Faithie and Saintie on the MOTORCYCLE!!!! Now that's a vacation!!

    Deb......I feel so bad for your burns. My goodness, that sounds so painful. I'm glad they're giving you a break. Maybe you've had enough and won't have to go through that again. Seems like if it does that to your skin, it sure oughta be zapping those cancer cells.

    Good morning Jayne, Nancy and Elaine.......hope you ladies have a great day.

    bkc....I forgot to mention the thing about your office being destroyed. Wouldn't you just love to get your hands on those people? Probably kids out of school with nothing else to do. They need their little hinies spanked, that's what they need. A real spanking!!!

    (((((((((((((Shiny)))))))))))) thinking about you this week girl!!!!!!! Hope everything is going according to plans.

    Lucy.......let us know about the job situation, ok? Been praying for you!!

    MaryRose and Jayne.....thinking about ya'll too....hope treatment hasn't been too harsh for you!

    Arnie's feeling pretty good, 'cause she's wood working:)........probably making wooden vacuum cleaners for all the bunnies........LOL

    Anybody heard from Lursa? I hope she's doing ok.

    Kathleen is still in the hospital. Lucy is supposed to get us her address so we can bombard her with cards:)

    OK.........said I was gonna quit with the name thing.......so I'm quitting right now......'cause I know I've forgotten somebody..........like MOM!! Hi Mom......hope things are going good for you. Hope the girls are loving each other today:)

    (((((((((((((((((((hugs to all bunnies)))))))))))))))))

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited July 2009

    Hi to all my beautiful slackers this beautiful morning!

    Happy Birthday Arnie!....Hope you  have a great day!.........

    Coonie...So far only meetings and nothing else....Now they want to find a place for me where I don't handle money for awhile and where I won't be getting anxious and jumpy......Hard to do sinece I can't lift more than 15 pounds.....

    I posted Kathleen's Address on her reject thread but I will post here also

    Kathleen McCraw Rom 116

    C/O Inova Loudon Nursing & Rehab Center

    235 Old Waterford Rd.

    Leesburg, Va     20176

    PM me and I will give you her number to her room so you can call also.......

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    Well, Lucy maybe you could be a people greeter.......if they have those at your place. Good luck to you!

    I called Kathleen earlier. She sounded really good. Said she had about 3 more weeks to stay. They're giving her lots of anbitiocs to clear up the infection.

    Really wishing I was sitting outside this old barn right now. Beautiful sunshine and about 68 degrees.......hoping Makraz is having a great vacation!!

     barn.jpg old barn image by sclark098

  • CAROLMARIE427
    CAROLMARIE427 Member Posts: 206
    edited July 2009

    Ok gals, know its been awhile.  It has just been a whirlwind of activity in my life, but all good things (two graduations, parties etc.) But I know I can count on you all. and I really need a shoulder to lean on right now.  Going for my prophylactic this coming Monday, and I am getting myself into an anxiety wreck.  On top of that, one of my good friends just passed away from breast cancer last night.  She has been fighting stage IV cancer for over twelve years and beaten every odd.  She even had her son (age 17) and husband die of cancer in the years when she fought.  She leaves behind a little 13 year old son who has lost his entire family to this disease.  So please pray for him, as I know she is smiling with her son and husband now in peace.  And while you are at it, I would really love if you can offer me some support as I am really hurting emotionally in so many ways right now.  Thanks so much.

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    Ok..........Arnie, I've been out looking for a sundress, and thought this one was cute. It comes with a hat too. Whatcha think? You like?

    yellowdress.jpg Sundress image by mzdeborah

    Now I gotta find a gift card for the tan :)

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    ((((((((((((((((((Carolmarie)))))))))))))

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend! May she rest in peace. I'll be praying for her son too. Does he have grandparents or other family close by?

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited July 2009

    CarolMarie, what a horrible tragedy.  I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend.  This cancer crap sucks!  It makes me so angry!  That poor little fellow........

    Sending you gentle hugs.

  • arnie
    arnie Member Posts: 3,050
    edited July 2009

    (((((((((((((Carolmarie)))))))))))))))))))  so sorry to hear that news.... I've been missing my sister Margee today... she passed from cancer November 2008.  We always got each other books for our birthdays and she always wrote something real special inside... treasure them...

     Coonie...thanks hon... you have such good taste!!!

  • Gramof3
    Gramof3 Member Posts: 301
    edited July 2009

    Arnie,

    This one's for you!   birthday_cake.gif - (8K)

    Deb--Maybe there's something in this medicine cabinet to help you out.

    Medical cabinet - Click image to download.

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    Hey Gramof3.......you are in God's country!! Springfield, MO  ;).......do you get to Branson very often?

  • Jayne_in_UK
    Jayne_in_UK Member Posts: 517
    edited July 2009

    ((((((((((Carolmarie)))))))))) so sorry about the loss of your friend. I'll remember her son in my prayers. Wishing you well for Monday.

    ((((((((((Arnie)))))))))) sorry to hear about your sister. I still miss my brother who passed from lung cancer on 12th July 2003.

    Sharon is right, this cancer crap sucks big time!

  • Gramof3
    Gramof3 Member Posts: 301
    edited July 2009

    Coonie,

    I love it down here (except for the ice in the winter).   I was in Branson 2 weeks ago with my son, DIL and grands.  We went to "Steal Your Dollar City!"  My son called it that so much, that it's what my 5 yr old grandd thinks it is really called.  Am going again later this month--so many fun things to do!

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited July 2009

    Oh Gram!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm soooooo jealous!!!  We go a few times a year. We have a timeshare in Hollister. HAHA....Steal Your Dollar City!!! That's 'bout right:) It is a fun place to go though. I just love it at Christmas time. Of course, I love it in the Fall too. Well shucks, I just love Branson all the them. My BIL and SIL live in Springfield. Beautiful area!!! We usually meet up at Lamberts!

    logo.gif lamberts image by b_towle

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