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before I forget, for lmg

Do you see the owl?

Happy new year everyone. Hope this year is better than last.

And less expensive! Tinker is doing fine. I took his cone off. Hes now using the litter box which is good because last night I couldn't get him to. He stayed in bed with me all night and kept trying to pee about every half hour. I hope tonight that he does much better or I'm going to stick him in the bathroom. We're not doing anything. Need to fine a good movie to watch
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Happy New Year everyone. I'm off to celebrate my wedding anniversary at a party. DH agreed not to drum tonight. Yay!
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Love to all of you crazy sexy cool Owlettes!
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HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL
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Happy New Year...........
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So ready to move on from 2014.
I'm hobbling into 2015.
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Happy New Year to all my Friends
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I'm staying up until the ball drops in times square!
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I am trying but not been sleeping well!
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I only have to wait less then 5 minutes!
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Chevy LOL on profanity, do you remember on STFU someone asked a question about antidepressants, I did my whole teaching thingy, and someone dropped in to ask some questions? Then she went back to her home thread and explained why she was on STFU. She apologized to the group for being in ______(forget).i.e such a place. Talk about feeling used and abused. Pick my mind and then intimate I'm awful. I seriously had to do some WTF control behavior. I was proud of myself to just let it go and not post on her thread the bolded stuff.
Interesting thought, very interesting...........It's all easy when things are easy. But when each day holds a new challenge for years on end, then it gets wearing. The moments that there are no challenges are beautiful
Like this moment-------
12:00 am 2015--------------A blessing we are ALIVE
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Happy New Year from the North Country!
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Its 9:00 here in Washington
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to the East Coasters:

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God Bless Kristine, Bluebird, who became Fierce Bluebird FBB when she was dx'd with brain cancer. Her beauty of communication was remarkable. Her kindness was unforgettable. Her art took us away. Our Bluebird will be remembered always between us as long as we survive. -
Chevy you are late to the party-----Christmas Adam is celebrating Christmas on Dec 23rd. Christmas Eve is Dec 24th. Christmas Day is Dec 25th. Oh Chevy you are such a BRAT LOL. I was worn out from the visiting with the relatives. This is Florida, everyone comes for visits during the holidays. Lovely.
We need a name for those folks that celebrate Dec 26 th b/c of family needs?
2ta and I discussed this tonight..............Thoughts?
Mags great chair Yay.....Ihave bought two extremely comfortable beds over the last years. I know this b/c Dini and Schatzi have chosen them as their sleeping places of choice. So, cute.
Jwooohoo will look after I post and bring back a comment
HugsYay Mags Great news on New years Adam
Patty Same back at you about pain relief---let's get together on the phone, I'm a fierce believer in pain control----and I know the words to get them to do what they ought too.
Welcome here Beachie-----That's it I couldn't remember what I used to like to drink in the 80's Bourbon and Coca -Cola.---not pepsi.
Littlegoats-------goat mamma keeper, doing it just b/c you love them. You could be done with them, but no........your mama.
Paws Oh hope no damage. It's kind of like what we do after a hurricane. Walking around the house to see what the damage is. Not fun. Hope you are well? How's the iron?
22222 Great prayer.................
Chevy Bless you for being such a good chicken keeper. Right now I'm being a good barkeeps daughter...............Yes, Chevy wearing socks and sandals. Made the mistake of wearing tennis shoes to the zoo Monday. Toenails to long for shoes-----Oh the pain.........
You look good on the pole ---you trollip!
Wren--- HAPPY ANNIVERSARY and many more

Badger raising my glass to you girl, keep the spirit going
Cami, Blondie, Teka and Foots Blessings
Talked with Phyliss. She's hit another snag. Will update you when she knows more. Pray for 3rd, checked when she last posted or signed in and it's been awhile
Susan Love you
Love you all, May this be a better year
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for those in the next time zone, central time?

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Jwooo what came up on Rc was iridescent Madonna's , and clowns. Both beautiful. Never have seen either. Which are you looking for? -
Happy new year in mountain time zone, an hour to go here

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of BCO! See y'all in 2015!
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HAPPY NEW YEAR gals! Hope you all had a quiet and peaceful one....! Okay, first..... SASS! What do you mean your toe-nails are too long for shoes! The first picture that comes to mind are the ones of Howard Hughes! YEE GODS girl! Gotta trim those things! If they are 2 inches beyond your flip-flops and sandals, ya gotta whittle those things down a tad!
See, I don't have to "trim".... that is being just lady-like. I have to file from the tops! With a long-handled callous remover! My feet were frozen when I was little.... and I lost my toes nails, because the toes were froze, and they never grew back right... So they grow UP instead of OUT! Ha, ha! Now that I have you all feeling bad for my condition, we'll just say my toe-nails are not normal.... but I keep them under control.... Hah!
And yes I remember that time.... Made me feel bad.... mostly for her going back and apologizing for being on our thread.... Made us feel like a bunch of drunken sailors! Now THAT'S another story....! It's like we might forgive people, but we can't forget how they made us feel.
I'm not so sure about this forviging thing either! Do any of you gals have IN-LAWS that have done or said things to you, or about you and your Husband? And you found out about it?
Or found out how two-faced they are, and you didn't even KNOW it? And they pretend to be all nice, and sweet when you talk to them? Or around them?
What hurts most is finding out your Husbands relations are all a bunch of sneaky people, and it hurts YOU, because it hurts your Husband.! And what's even worse, is my DD was not included in their Christmas Eve family traditional dinner.
I can understand them all not wanting to be around my DH when he drinks... I don't want to be around him EITHER! But to find out their answer to that is to just forget we even exist? To be nice to him every other day, but "he's not "family" enough to be included in their annual dinner?....
And to hear it was a "last minute thing?" I may be dumb, but I'm not stupid.... Ha!
See DD saw all these pictures on Face Book.... about this huge family Dinner.... And asked "but why weren't we invited?" And so I'm here telling her "Honey, those pictures were taken from years ago".... And I was probably taking the pictures, so that's why we weren't in them".... So I looked at them... and my heart just dropped... Everyone was there.... but not us.... So I called SIL and asked her, did you go last night? "Well, yeah, but it was a last minute deal".... From then on, I don't even remember what we talked about.
So our girls figured out, it's because their Dad drinks when there are family get-togethers, and no-one wants him to go over..... So she doesn't get invited either.
And honestly I can see their point... Both DH and I grew up this way... both of our Fathers were always drunk.... Everyone hated to be around them... My Mom stayed with my Dad.... come hell or high-water.... and she didn't like it, but she stuck up for him.... He was hers to deal with. So I am being my Mom now.... I know how she feels.... It's okay to talk about them ourselves, but we don't want anyone else to talk about them....
It just made me mad as hell at all of them! And made me feel so sad that his family would choose to ignore him and our Daughter. And it was ME who hauled all that beer for my BIL! Remember how I said my new car ain't no beer-hauler? But BIL wanted it for their party....! SIL says they all got chit-faced... by that time I didn't even want to hear it.
And I bought my car from his Nephew! The same one who he sold his '57 Chevy too... And was given the snow-blower and all of his hunting and fishing equipment.... AND guns! We all had so much FUN when they came over, and signed the papers... So they had the dinner at their house.... with all the rest of the family... just not us Guess I should be glad we don't have to be part of the family anymore.... Guess we don't need anybody else, right?
We have each other.... that's all that matters.... 59 years with this man.... and I honestly love him more now than I ever did... We've been MARRIED for 57.... Sure he makes me mad, but by morning it's all over with... we still have each other... and our Daughter's.....
So my New Years Resolution is to just take care of my family, and don't worry about anything else... Nothing else matters.
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Chevy-I'm sorry that happened. Family stuff can be so hurtful and stressful! I made it my goal these holidays to just focus on my little family and not deal with the outside drama. Sometimes that is the best way to be ((hugs))
Sass-on the family member...turns out the letter she received telling her no cancer, was about her lymph nodes. I didn't see the letter, but she says it was very confusing and misleading. I think she just panicked and called a few people, then it got to me. haha, funny how I'm somehow now the BC expert. I did talk to her previous to the letter, we spent about an hour on the phone talking about what was happening. She's the girlfriend of sister-n-law's brother...so don't know her well. I just felt led to reach out to her.
I think about Kristine too, and her family. I hope they are doing well or as well as can be expected. I imagine it was hard to leave her dh and kids behind

LMG-ya'll doing okay over there with the ice? Just rain out this way, bummed because we had wanted a little ice

Well, I'm hoping 2015 is a MUCH better year than 2014.
((hugs))
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*Good Morning Owlettes*
Worth repeating, so ready to move on from 2014.
I've shaken off past negative drama and now enjoying a Happy New Year Day!

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Happy New Year! I woke January 1st 2015 and that's a good start to the year! I bought a car and I'm stressing about. I always do. I kind of regretted My Last Car purchase. It was okay but wish I would have bought something else. It has remote start, tinted windows, heated seats, and automatic climate control that I didn't have before. I hope I continue to like it
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