I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Posting this has brought me to tears. Please share this information with all of your friends and neighbors who may be listening to second guessing and political grandstanding. There is a place for hard questions to be asked and they are being asked, but to throw dirt on this situation before the questions are answered is just wrong.
Here again is the link to the posts above. http://www.state.gov/r/pa/prs/ps/2012/10/198791.htm#.UHoBdHRSV_h.twitter
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Thank you, notself. I knew there would be women here who would understand.
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Thank you HappyLibby and notself for providing that information!
Ladies, I feel like we're living in bizarro world!
Todd Akin is ahead in the polls and I recently read this:
"A pro-life, family-values congressman who worked as a doctor before winning election as a Tea Party-backed Republican had an affair with a patient and later pressured her to get an abortion, according to a phone call transcript obtained by The Huffington Post."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/10/scott-desjarlais-abortion-pro-life_n_1953136.html
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I don't think Hillary can be blamed for Benghazi either - not unless there were to emerge evidence that State knew of an attack, which one seriously doubts in such a crazy world.
People living in First World countries think that everything is as orderly and predictable everywhere else. Guess what, a majority of the world is full of surprises and American diplomats and security personnel are made of skin and bone. Peoiple are not in the habit of warning of attacks - that's so first world, so political/guerrilla. Most attacks in this crazy world are planned as hits, meaning that there isn't a political desire to warn, onlly a desire to extract a pound of flesh.
Until proven otherwise, this is a tragedy that could not have been foreseen. Benghazi isn't Salt Lake City, for Heaven's sake.
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Notself - I read through the recount of the attack you posted on the previous page (reads like a suspense novel), but just skimmed the news conference above. I'm trying to fit this in with the 5 minutes of the tailend of an interview with ? on NPR that I heard at around 10 am this morning. This reporter was being interviewed and this reporter had spoken with neighbors outside of the Ambassador's compound. He said, the Cairo protests against the movie degrading the prophet had started about 3 hours previous to the assault in Benghazi. No "similar" protests were evident at this compound...but men loaded with arms arrived at the compound and immediately attacked. The important part of this interview was that under Khadafi, this was the nature of protests in Libya....they were not what we would typically see, with signs and chanting, etc. etc., more roaming bands of armed militia, implying that it could have been a Libyan version of the protest of the movie. I wish I could have heard more, or who was even speaking.....and perhaps your posts above address this?
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All of the posts come from the link to the State Department site. I don't think anyone mentioned or were asked about protests prior to the attack. They did say there was no intelligence predicting trouble.
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I sure wish I knew who this reporter was....his story, or the part I heard, totally synche'd with the state department accounts you posted, but he added the nuance about how protests occur in Libya and the attack could have totally been about the movie degrading the prophet. Nevertheless, there was nothing to warn of the attack, no matter the cause.
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Hmm...all of those poll conspiricists all of a sudden think polls are just hunky dorry.
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Saying hi from LA where I'm visiting my daughter. Beautiful weather out here. Will not be on much til i return to jersey but will be thinking of all of you as i watcht the d ebate tonight
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Happy debate night all! Fingers crossed that Obama hits one out of the park!!
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Protests are different things in different places, and can go bad in a heartbeat. Don't forget how the APEC summit protests or World Bank protests can degenerate in a matter of seconds into riots. All it takes are one or two agitators and a protest can turn deadly. Haven't we seen enough of it over the past months, with the Arab Spring protests? People just don't get how unpredictable large crowds can be.
Yes, Kam, the attack could indeed have been about the movie. It could also have been a planned attack and they saw a window of opportunity to coincide with the protests in other countries. Or they planned it for that day. It is possible they didn't know the Ambassador was there -- he was not regularly stationed in Benghazi. His regular duty station was Tripoli, a fact which seems to have been lost. It could very well have been a bad coincidence. And had the attack gone slightly differently or had been carried out when the ambassador wasn't there and four other Americans had been killed, I am sure that Chris Stevens, being venerated in death by Repugs who didn't give a rat's patootie about him in life, would have been hauled back to Washington by that smirking car thief Issa and set up to throw stones at him for not doing enough to protect the consulate staff. They don't care about the safety and security of Americans overseas -- they never have. This is only about smearing the President and the Secretary of State.
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Happy Libby and notself thank you so much for the link and posts. I am forwarding that link.
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Just home from work and thank you so much for all the information. I want to sit down with lots of time and really go through and try to understand in the entirety.....so glad skimming here and there.
Since I am always complaining about my Repugs family there is something I have not said before, but I will now. My BIL from N. Carolina is a retired U.S. Diplomat. He specialized in foreign treaties. His last tour of duty was in Pakistan. His was a life I would have hated......but I do know and have for a long, long time that there are things that cannot always be told.
I am amazed......really downhearted by what seemed to me such careless statements and rhetoric being bandied about, by not only the press but so many that want something else to hold against Obama. No matter what I might personally feel about a candidate, I hope and pray I always have the decency, especially when it is innocent human lives, to take the high road and not the convenient opportunity. Just how I feel but I think you have to be pretty low to "use" something like this and still look at yourself in the mirror.
Jackie
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I spent 2 years in Lahore, Pakistan in the mid-1980s, Jackie. That's why I am so passionate and so angry about the reprehensible and disgusting behavior of the repugs. It was under Republican administrations that our budgets always suffered more and it was always repug congresscritters who would cut more.
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Have a nice time out west, Alexandria!
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Jackie, I wish there were a "like" button by your post.
Linda
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Thanks lewing......HL, when I wrote my post I could not remember for sure but it comes to me that the U.S. Embassy where my BIL worked was in ( hope I spell this correctly ) Islamabad....which looks wrong to me, but sounds right. I do know the capital of Pakistan is Karachi.
I'm not so good at spelling or remembering things. Had a thyroid blow out. Oddly I was very hyper for years ( so not fun ) and was only caught a day or so before I likely would have gone into a coma. Long story, wasn't pretty, but had transitory amensia. Then a few years back, a brain stem stroke, had to learn all over how to walk and talk again for the second time....minimum of three years of therapy each time with transitory amenesia again. Then the cancer. Some days mentally are harder than others, but given time I can usually come up with what I need.
Jackie
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OMG, Jackie, you've been through the mill! You are just so articulate and intelligent that absolutely nobody would guess the stuff that's happened to you. (((JACKIE)))
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What yorkie said!
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Just came in my in-box....more pure disgust:
Everyone should know by now that Mitt Romney is not a candidate that represents women’s equality. But do you know how very badly the potential 45th President treated the women he was supposed to care for as a Mormon bishop?
Tale #1: Romney Tries to Force Ill Woman to Continue Pregnancy, Against Doctors’ Advice.
After a life-threatening blood clot was found in Carrel Hilton Sheldon’s pelvic region, the woman then became the victim of a medical error. She was given an overdose of the blood thinner heparin, a mistake which threatened her life and likely damaged her unborn fetus, according to doctors. Sheldon was advised by her doctors and by a chief LDS Leader, Dr. Gordon Williams, to terminate the pregnancy to protect her own life.
Unabashed, Mitt Romney stormed, uninvited, into Sheldon’s hospital room; he was the Mormon bishop assigned to “guide” her at the time. As she lay in the bed, her life in danger, Romney adamantly insisted that she continue the pregnancy, even though doing so may have cost Sheldon her life. According to Geoffrey Dunn’s article Mitt Romney’s Pregnancy Problem, Sheldon had the following to say about her uninvited guest:
“[Romney] regaled me with stories of his sister and her retarded child and what a blessing the child had been to the family. He told me that ‘as your bishop, my concern is with the child.’… At a time when I would have appreciated nurturing and support from spiritual leaders and friends, I got judgment, criticism, prejudicial advice, and rejection."
Further compounding the woman’s distress and grief, Romney accused her of lying about gaining the blessing of Dr. Williams, the LDS stake president, to proceed with the medically indicated termination.
That’s still not all. When Romney couldn’t get Sheldon to bend to his will and cancel the D&C, he paid an uninvited visit to her parents’ house to rail at them about their daughter's decision to put her own health before an early pregnancy that had likely been compromised. Sheldon’s father, incensed by Romney’s stunning lack of sensitivity to his daughter's health, ordered him out of the home.
Because of the outlandish treatment Mitt Romney inflicted, Sheldon quit the LDS church and never returned.
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When later asked about this confrontation with Sheldon, Romney claimed amnesia, or “Romnesia:”
"I don't have any memory of what she is referring to, although I certainly can't say it could not have been me."
That remark is as exasperating as it is telling. Romney’s either lying (big surprise), or he engaged in this sort of patriarchal, absolutist, sneering behavior with so many women he ministered that Sheldon’s case just doesn’t stand out to him.
Tale #2: ‘No Mormon Husband? Then Give Me Your Baby!’
Peggie Hayes, another one of Bishop Romney’s LDS parishioners, also has a startling story to tell. Hayes was a divorced, single mother of a 3-year-old daughter, who did odd jobs for the Romney family.
Romney paid Hayes a visit when it became known that she had conceived a second child, a boy, out of wedlock. He pressured her to surrender her unborn son to the LDS church so that he could be raised by a “proper” Mormon family.
Hayes recounted Romney’s threats to two Boston Globe reporters:
“[Romney] told me it was really important to give the baby up. He told me he was a representative of the church and by refusing I was failing to comply with the church's wishes and I could be excommunicated."
Hayes felt insulted and attacked, as well as resentful of the misogynistic undertones of Romney only wanting her male child. She told Romney she had no intention of handing over her baby. When later asked by reporters, Romney acknowledged the encounter but claimed he never threatened Hayes with excommunication from the church.
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If this article had a third act, it would be to fill you in on the other ways Romney seeks to impinge upon women’s liberties and life choices.
Here are some of the potential impacts of Romney’s first term:
- Endanger the lives of women young and old, and increase unwanted pregnancies, by eliminating Title X of the federal family planning program, which provides contraception counseling, as well as ovarian and breast cancer screenings, high blood pressure control, and care for other major health threats to women.
- Rescind treatment and support for rape and incest victims. (In 2005, then-governor Romney vetoed a Massachusetts bill requiring hospitals to provide emergency contraception to rape victims. Vice-Presidential candidate Paul Ryan does not even support abortion in cases of rape and incest, although flip-flop Romney now says he does (but apparently not in cases like Sheldon’s, where the mother’s life is at risk.)
If you are a woman, and respect your body and your health as you should, please don’t vote for Mitt Romney. On second thought, to make sure we squelch this anti-women tide, commit to casting your vote for the other guy, who has protected women’s rights and health.
And please share this with all the women you know.
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Don't know if I'm the only one who didn't see this, but Rmoney just released details of his tax plan
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Lol - yes, Kam, link was out today.
Anyone care to "live blog" the debate with me? Don't know if I will make it through. So exhausted. I think my sleep meds are effective - but only during waking hours! I put my head on the pillow and, immediately, I can't sleep. Grrr.
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I might throw an impression in now and then.....
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Audience all uncommitted voters - I think that is stupid!
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Candy Crowley's hairdo!
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Maybe a wig? Atleast some extensions....I can barely stand to listen to Mitt....how much will he lie this time? Oooh...easier to afford college? Your Republicans didn't want to lower their loan interest rates! Lie on Pell Grants, you know it!
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"I know how to create jobs." Mitt
He knows how to destroy them, me thinks.
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Impression - Obama talking to Jeremy like he's a full audience..... not just one on one....
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GM would not have come out stronger Mitt, under your kind of bankruptcy....
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Obama - right on...GM would have never survived a traditional bankruptcy.
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