I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited September 2012

    Strangely enough I have never "met" Marybe but have received cookies from her (it had to do with a bet) - she is truly one special person and I wish I had a tenth of her energy.

  • kad2kar
    kad2kar Member Posts: 336
    edited September 2012

    Barb-----we are sending you ourselves into the pockets and purses you have. Stay well, Don,t Tire yourself. Marybe knows the LOVE you bring is for her and her family, But the Love you maybe feeling right now is for you from all your friends. Stay Well----------kad2kar

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Barb, what kad2kar said.

    be as gentle with yourself as you can be, 

  • BarbaraA
    BarbaraA Member Posts: 7,378
    edited September 2012

    Thanks all, it was not unexpected but was still hard. She passed very peacefully, just like she wanted. I am selfishly wishing she had stayed longer but it was her time.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited September 2012

    Thank you Barbara.  You are a true friend.  Marybe really touched my heart.  A kind soul!

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012

    Glad it was peaceful - so sorry for your loss.

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited September 2012

    Barbara ... sending you lots of love.  I know how hard it was to lose your dear friend.  Marybe was a sweet soul and she will be sorely missed.

    Sending you a big hug and wishes for safe travel home.

    Bren

  • rosemary-b
    rosemary-b Member Posts: 2,006
    edited September 2012

    Barbara

    I am so sorry for your loss. You did such a good thing.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 7,305
    edited September 2012

    Barbara, please take care of yourself.  I'm glad the passing was easy for her.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited September 2012

    Barbara - I'm so glad you were there with her and she knew we were all there in spirit.

    ((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

    Sue

  • kira1234
    kira1234 Member Posts: 3,091
    edited September 2012

    It was peaceful as she would want. I am glad.

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited September 2012

    I echo all the above sentiments. Relieved that the negative anticipation is over, but still so sorry to say good-bye .

    Jackie

  • GatorGal
    GatorGal Member Posts: 2,550
    edited September 2012

    I hate cancer. I hate that Marybe didn't get to take her trip to Europe. I pray for a cure.

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited September 2012

    I so agree Glenna. This disease is hideous. 

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited September 2012

    Thank you Barbara for being there. I find it amazing that Marybe was working up until a couple of weeks ago. 

    Mary 

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited September 2012

    Deval Patrick has a high voice, but he is a good speaker.

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited September 2012

    Yes....whomever is from Maine....thank you for Deval Patrick.  I loved his speech.

    Jackie

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited September 2012

    Barbara - and all who cared for Marybe:  I am so sorry.  

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited September 2012

    Just as I got ready to watch M. Obama's speech last night......a camera was panning the crowd and I saw our former town mayor ( a woman I might add )  sitting there ....good omen for me, but then I was already feeling after listening to the Patrick speech that up was the direction everything was going. 

    Still wishing Marybe's family love and comfort and Barbara as well.

    Jackie

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Feeling subdued, with thoughts of Marybe and her friends and family.

    Took a nap yesterday afternoon, ( I'm an early to bed person) so I would be awake for the First Lady's speech- and even if I was sleepy, could've stayed awake, hard to cry with joy & sleep at the same time.  I'm so grateful for all she does, for her VALUES, and can't not mention it, FABULOUS sense of STYLE!  She takes such JOY in what she does and how she looks, and I love, love, love the young American designers she has "brought to the table." Strong body, strong woman, smart woman, loving woman - wow.  She's always had my vote, but I'm ready to vote twice!( early & often ;-)))  )

    Didn't see our gov or next senator - but heard both were on fire too.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 7,305
    edited September 2012

    It was a GREAT night.  Powerful speeches all around, but my hat is OFF to Michelle Obama.  What a fabulous speaker and what a fantastic lady she is.  I couldn't have been more proud to be an American and a Democrat last night.

    All of the speeches I heard were powerful.  They put together an excellent team.  (The polls are looking rather good, as well :)

  • GatorGal
    GatorGal Member Posts: 2,550
    edited September 2012

    I also thought last night's speeches were awesome. Smiling between Marybe tears!

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited September 2012

    I thought last night's speeches were amazing as well!

    Remember how I was wishing for a year with no unpleasant surprises? Went to school this morning, and the resource room that I work in has been moved from a full classroom to basically what is a large storage room for the rest of the school. Frown There's no room for my desk-the teacher, of course, gets a desk since she's in there all day, but I got nuthin...I had a small, teary meltdown. All in front of my brand new work partner. Nice-how professional. I promised her I wouldn't cry anymore. I'm surprised she wasn't crying. She had our classroom all set up in what she thought was going to be her room, and just found out yesterday afternoon that we were going to have to move into the storage room. 

    Mary 

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited September 2012

    I watched a lot of the convention last night.  Every speech  was great, Michelle best of all.  However, Is aw the pre-prime time speeches.  Lilly Ledbetter was fantastic, loved the accent.  Also, the mother whose daughter needed heart surgery.  Tear jerker.

    Mary, these type of work things are so upsetting.  It shows a lack of regard and respect for what you contribute. I know you'll carry on with courage, but what a start to the year. 

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited September 2012

    Last night was a slam dunk for Dems! 

    Mary, it seems like special ed is always given the shaft in terms of space and resources. Can't remember how many times I've been shoved into a closet, or worse, where I was expected to test kids, keep confidential files and do my paperwork and reports. Yell 

  • CLC
    CLC Member Posts: 1,531
    edited September 2012

    Mary...I am so sorry for the lousy welcome back to work gift. 

    As for my return to work, no one wants to hear the drama.  Suffice it to say, there were some tears on my part today, too.  I managed to hold them in until I got home, though...sigh.

    Oh well.  Tomorrow's another day.

  • GatorGal
    GatorGal Member Posts: 2,550
    edited September 2012

    @Mary and CLC, you all make me glad I retired from education. I always got moved around at the last minute, too, being a reading teacher in the middle school meant small class sizes so if they needed my room I was always shafted .... After doing bulletin boards and classroom set up. Just hope you like the teacher you will be working with in such confined quarters. Bummer!! Hang in there, friends, sounds like it can't get much worse!!

  • CherrylH
    CherrylH Member Posts: 1,077
    edited September 2012

    Mary and CLC, sorry your first day back was marred with drama. Hoping for smoother sailing going forward. Shall I pour you a drink?

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 7,305
    edited September 2012

    Kudos to you ladies for going back at all!!  Mary, that really sucks to not even have a desk!!! 

    I've been pouting about work every day, it seems like, to my husband lately, but I have both desk and window - on a clear day (like we've been having lately) I even have a view of the mountain Smile.  Still all in all, work sucks and I want to retire. 

    But, as you say, CLC, tomorrow is another day - tonight, though, I'm going to watch the convention and quietly cheer.  Smile  Maybe I'll have a margarita while cheering....

  • CLC
    CLC Member Posts: 1,531
    edited September 2012

    Cheryll...sure...mix me up something that reminds me of summer vacation...I know, I will have a Cape Cod...:)

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