I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    River Rat, from what I've read and heard, objectively, you are absolutely right and that was my point.

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited April 2011

    Anyone stop to consider what the pregnancy rate would be without PP and their birth control services.  Anyone stop to consider how many breast cancer cases would go undectected without PP and their services.  Anyone stop to consider what things were like before abortion was legal?  Anyone stop to consider orphanages with dozens of babies who didn't get adopted?? (I came from one of those orphanages as did my brother and sister) - seriously I don't think some people stop to "consider" anything or anybody but their own selfish political interests.

    Sandy

  • rosemary-b
    rosemary-b Member Posts: 2,006
    edited April 2011

    Tonight's dinner. Baked chicken, baked potatoes and brussels sprouts. REALLY!

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited April 2011

    I think it's going to be BBQ steak, baked potato and beet tops with garlic.  BTW, I have a bunch of kale, some of which I put in home-made minestrone the other night.  But what should I do with the remainder?  Any suggestions?

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    Nope it's not rocket science.  JBinOK, are you living in 2011 or 1955?

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited April 2011

    JBin:

    Think it's time you found another hobby for today - you are insulting and you know nothing about me or my situation - we know you are pro-life and I hope that means you are against capital punishment also - abortion is legal - get over it.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2011

    sandy - I'm curious...would you have preferred to have been aborted, instead of being in an orphanage?

    Why is it called PLANNED Parenthood? Shouldn't it be called UNPlanned Parenthood? And...planned and UNplanned parenthood should be a personal family matter. Not something provided by hard working tax payers. How ludicrous. Back in the day before the majority of tax dollars were used for entitlements, family values and self respect prevailed. 30% of abortions are performed on women whose incomes are under $15,000 per year. One suggestion...get jobs so you spend less time in bed making babies you don't want and can't afford. PP, NPR, NEA...should all be privately funded. A new day has come. Change is taking place. Even Obama said that we all must make sacrifices. Hope and change...INDEED!

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited April 2011

    JBinOK used the term "baby killing".

    Every time you produced an egg and didn't become pregnant, you flushed away the potential of a baby. Did you kill a baby then too?

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    Laura, I'm gonna ask you the same question.  What year are you living in?  The days of "Leave it to Beaver are over.  It started in the '60's and it's callled evolution.  We have to learn to adapt.  Not everything in life is neat or perfect.  If it were. we wouldn't be on a breast cancer support board, and I wouldn't have 2 holes drilled into my skull.

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited April 2011

    Get a job, people!

  • Alpal
    Alpal Member Posts: 1,785
    edited April 2011

    Laura, all those pregnant teenagers (in those nice suburban schools) who PatMom and JB wrote about make under $15,000 a year.

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited April 2011

    I always wonder why abortions are OK in some circumstances (incest, rape, etc.) but not in others.  Very illogical.  But then I do think late stage abortions are abhorrent -- if the fetus can possibly live outside the body it should not be aborted unless the woman's health was in danger.

    Also, why not the uproar about IUDs from the anti-choicers?  If they don't prevent conception hormonally they stop the embryo from attaching to the uterine wall.  Hmmm, sounds like abortion to me.

    Why's it always put on the girls?  What about the boys?  They get off so easily in the blame game.

    Or an extreme example, if you aren't perpetually trying to get pregnant aren't you preventing a baby from ever having being created?  Not even getting a chance out of the starting blocks? Aren't some religions totally against birth control or were up until recently?

    Teen pregnancy seems to be a terrible cultural trend these days.  What's strange is that I saw a lot more pregnant teens while I was living in the US.  I was shocked.  Once a teen girl is showing a sexual interest in boys Moms should tell their daughters that they'd rather have a daughter on the pill that a daughter who's pregnant.  She doesn't have to tell Mom about the pill, just do it.  That's what my Mom told me and I did everything she suggested. 

    She was a cool Mom (a nurse) -- over 30 years ago was counselling pregnant teens and if they were adamant about getting an abortion she made sure they got a proper one, not a backroom hatchet job that the anti-choicers would like to drive some girls to do today.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    Enjoyful...everybody or just the ones on their back all day?

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited April 2011

    Enjoyful -- I thought jobs were scarce?   That your economy was going down the tubes?  What happened to all the JOBS that were promised by the other party in the last election?  How easy is it for pregnant, uneducated teens to get a job that will support them and their babies?  Ah, so many unanswered questions....it's boggling all my grey matter.

    Oh, another question:  how well is the abstinence campaign working out?

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited April 2011

    JBin -- you flushed a potential baby away?  Bad.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2011

    "Adapt"! Good grief..."adapt"... OMG. The current path has to stop somewhere. The stats just keep getting worse. It's a vicious cycle. And throwing more money at it is simply not helping or changing the situation. Much of the problems are among the minorities. They are the ones who get the most funding...it's obvious that the entitlements are just causing more dependence and less self relience. Maybe Obama's next campaign slogan can be "Adapt America". 

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    Good one...Adapt America.  Why Not?  They sure haven't and the conservatives, meaning Tea Party, are a prime example.  Make war.  Hate anyone that's different and blame everything on the minorities!

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited April 2011

    Agreed, Laura!  Let's stop throwing money at the wealthy and big oil! 

    JB, why don't you learn some courtesy?

    Yes, everybody, go out there and get a job.  That 9% unemployment doesn't mean a thing if you really really really really want to work.  And by the way, breast-feed that unwanted baby while you're working a full-time job and paying a babysitter.  Just do it and quit complaining!

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    Scum of the earth eh JB?  You read like an old book.

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited April 2011

    You're right.  And I see no need to be courteous to people who would deny health care and other services to the needy.

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited April 2011

    I loathe it when the anti-choicers use the word "baby".  They aren't babies until late in the pregnancy and/or born.  Fetuses are aborted.  They aren't babies.

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited April 2011

    Enjoyful:

    Don't you know that there are no "needy" Americans - just slothful, non-white people who "refuse to pull themselves up by their bootstraps".

    Sandy

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited April 2011
    JBinOK -- Just a suggestion:  why don't you contact the Warren Buffett Foundation and ask the Oracle of Omaha to stop providing funds for abortion services via Planned Parenthood?  It would be a much better use of your time than continuing to post your personal beliefs on this thread.Cool
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    KK you're right.  I lost my first baby right before birth, when my labour began.  The umbilical cord was wrapped around her neck.  She was referred to as a fetus.

    That was such a sorrowful time in my life....probably why I'm pro-life, but I can still tolerate the decisions others make, even though I don't entirely agree with them.  Is it all about money or are people really that hateful?

  • River_Rat
    River_Rat Member Posts: 1,724
    edited April 2011

    Lindasa, I love beet greens and kale.  You can saute the kale in a little oil with or without garlic just like other greens, then add water and cook them until they get tender enough for you - they're a little tougher than a lot of greens.  You can also skip the saute and just boil them down until they're tender.  Either way.....yum!

  • 3monstmama
    3monstmama Member Posts: 1,447
    edited April 2011

    What am I bet that the same people jumping up and down over abortion, with all the name calling, are the same people who:

    1.  Think Head Start and food stamps and WIC and medicaid are a waste of their tax dollars;

    2.  Don't believe in contraceptives or teaching about contraception;

    3.  Vote yes for capital punishment;

    4.  Are opposed to public assistance and welfare;

    5.  Feel they should be able to take their tax dollars and apply it to the private school of  their choice leaving public education without sufficient funding;

    6.  Are opposed to funds for public art, parks and libraries;

    7.  etc etc etc etc.

    Hypocrits.  You only like the "babies" in the womb---once they are out, you don't give a rats patootie.  Is that really WWJD?

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    You could be right 3monst, except if the public art, parks and libraries are in their neighbourhoods.

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited April 2011

    Linda and River Rat Kiss  So glad to see that somebody else knows you can eat beet greens.  We used to have them out of the garden when I was growing up and I remember that I liked them.  Hubby and everybody else I have mentioned it to around here looks at me like I've lost my mind.   Finally ... validation.  I think I'm going to grow some beets this summer.  He can eat the beets (ick) and I'll eat the greens.

    Now if I can just find somebody else who likes to eat saltine crackers with ice cream I might start to feel normal :)

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited April 2011

    WhiteRabbit, I can go along with the beet greens. I'll even eat the beets. But saltine crackers and Ice Cream. Ummmmmmm NO!

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited April 2011

    Crackers and ice cream?  Hmmm, that's a new one!  Rabbit, if you're going to plant some beets, try getting the golden beet seeds.  They're not as sweet as the red ones and I prefer the beet tops to the red ones.  Actually, it's my DH who loves beet greens; I have to smother them in garlic and a bit of EVVO to make them palatable!

    RR -- thanks for the suggestion re kale.  Someone suggested deepfrying it, but I hate the lingering odour of the deep fryer!  Maybe I should take them to my local diner and ask them to do it for me!!!

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