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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited December 2010

    Its 1am I need another night of beauty sleep plus Im so hungry I need to be sleeping.

    Good Night

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited December 2010

    Good Morning!  APOC, we have plenty of room for you too!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    A stands for Abussive.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    APOC = abusive piece of crap???

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    That's the one

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    I feel so good when my husband offer me a cup of tea everymorning. He always supports me  while  in my treatment that is why some his relatives commented  on him  " henpecked." But I don,t agree as  husband  and wife should always be together in all family matters, social activites or whatever may be, then the family  becomes perfect.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010
  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    Hi ! deborye! you might be surprised on my post but it is really true and fact.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    My DH brings me coffee just about every day.  The other days, I bring him coffee. 

    APOC wouldn't lift a finger to help me with ANYTHING.  He does't know it, but it was that which made me self-sufficient enough to go out on my own.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    Ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  It's me, myself and I.

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    Meece, I am sorry ! I can understand the condition of your husband. I always pray for his recovery. I felt so bad when I saw your posting about him. Pl. dont, mind, it just came in my mind. Sorry! once again.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    raj, he is a sweetie.

  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited December 2010

    I am very lucky, I realize now more than ever...

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    My DH will do anything I ask him to do.  Just in his own time.  Then I start NAGGING!!  Because I want it done NOW!!!

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    You know, sometimes we argued, fight for nothing. I always kept mum when He gets his mood off. We cant ignored human tendency.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    I consider BC my blessing.  If I hadn't got it, I would have stayed longer with APOC and would never have found DH who treats me like a queen.  (Not to mention that I never have to worry about DH lifting a hand against me.)

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    Yeah! Meece, definitely !

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    The fact that I am 7 yrs NED and happliy married 5 years is icing on the Cake.

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    Yes ! I  can imagine  the bond in between you and matt.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited December 2010

    raj...you write so beautiful and the truth.♥

    Being born on the other side I know exactly what you are saying women always should serve.......

    GOOD MORNING

    Hmm I can add few letters to RPOC. Like AMA=Adulterer Mental Abuse

    Hey I'm happy and alive because he wasn't in my life. I thank God to that.

    Meanwhile my tablecloth is a different story. It even looks more beautiful in daylight.

    The house is warm, coffee is ready, my dear sisters are here.

    I'm content and grateful for the life I have with my family.

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    syla888 ! your table cothe is looking  really gorgeous.I think only sitting on the dinning chair near the table will feel my stomach. No need to eat . It is so good. Is it purchase from shop or you created it ?

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    I just made some blueberry scones.  Yum.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010
  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited December 2010

    raj...It is store bought. I used to knit and I loved it but only a scarf or baby hat. That's as far as I go. Wouldn't be nice if you could cook all your delicious food and we all the sisters here around the table eating and laughing..................

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited December 2010

    Yes seyla888, please keep a chair for me. I am also be there with you all.  How nice if it happens in real. Your strawberry scones looks is appealing. If you could post the receipe it would be nice as I also can try  over here.

  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited December 2010

    Deb- that looks like the perfect thing for me right now.  Wish I could run by and grab one or two :)

    Two friends are coming this morning to help me get things ready for the big party next weekend.  It's kind of funny, but one of the women thinks we are holding this party just for her husbands 60th birthday and insists on helping with everything, but it is her birthday that day (58) and so we will also be celebrating hers.  Her husband thinks we are throwing a party for her!  Kind of funny :)  But I don't have dishes for 16 people or anything for 16 people.  Plus with this chef coming, we have to clear a storage space for him, sharpen knives, clean the oven, sort through what pans he will need, blah blah.  Honestly, I think it would have been easier if I were doing the cooking.  One of the ladies coming is super, super-flowery in her decor and I am just the opposite.  Should be ineresting.  Last year, it would have bugged me to have someone helping in this way because I would have felt like my things werent good enough or something.  This year, I could care less what anyone thinks and am actually grateful and looking forward to it all.

    Yesterday, I noticed that my hair is so, so, so thin on the top and sides, more than I had thought.  I now appreciate the work and effort that goes into a comb - over :)

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited December 2010

    So much to catch up on.......I'll read more later.  Just got back from Christmas shopping with DH and now we are off to a Christmas party.  Hope you are all having some fun today!

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    Going to the Pheasant Lane Mall to do some shopping.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited December 2010

    Those scones look yummy.  A friend of mine made Pumpkin chocolate chip scones last year, and I could have eaten the whole batch.

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited December 2010

    Got a little Christmas shopping done.

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