Does anyone besides me hate the holidays?
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Nancy, where are you located? I'm trying to judge when the snow will get to central Maine.
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Goodness 14 inches of snow! Storm went thru MT the first of the week - just little snow but sub-zero temps that I am so glad are gone now. I too like the escape plan when needed during the holidays. I also had a pretty maniuplative family and so glad when I quite allowing them to stress me.
Merilee - not sure where you are finding all these funny cartoons but I LOVE them! thx
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NativeMainer: I am across from Washington, DC, in Virginia. At 10 pm I measured 20 inches. The entire area is a storm emergency situation. If you drive your car and are not an emergency responder (fire, police, medical team) and you get stuck, the fine is $250 if you have 4 wheel drive, but $500 if you do not. There were over 5000 (five thousand) reported accidents, last I heard on the news. This is between DC, Virginia and Maryland, but a heck of a lot of wrecks. People abandoned their cars and road crews are working continuously. At least they have road crews and not like some areas that don't even have a truck with a snow plow.
When I lived in Tucson, Arizona and it snowed, there were native residents who had never seen real snow and there were no snow plows or snow shovels to be had. My fear now is that the electrical lines will come down from trees or ice.
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lefty--thanks for the update. Looks like central Maine is going to get a miss on this storm--the local weather report is predicting possible snow showers. The coast is getting a bit of it, but there are only winter weather warnings up. I was watching the snow coverage on CNN yesterday for a while--quite a wopper down there! I heard when they closed the Regan Airport. You know there's a lot of snow when they close an international airport.
Ice and wind will take down power lines like nobody's business. Hopefully the wind will die off as soon as the storm blows through--that cuts down on the trees on the lines. Hope you keep your power!
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The sun came out and was warm enough to start the melting process. So, the fear of power outage is gone, for now. An old friend phoned me to complain of 6 inches of snow in an area where that is common.
You should have seen the snow removal team at my apartment complex - working with garden shovels, one foot wide, so all sidewalks have a 1 foot wide path. They did plow the streets very nicely, so I could have gotten out if I was dumb enough to think that was a good idea.
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That's quite a picture you've painted! 1 foot wide paths through the complex--I just imagine trying to carry anything through the complex! I'm glad things are melting and you don't have to worry about power outages. The wind's picked up here, so I may lose power tonight, but that's not unusual and doesn't generally last more than a few hours. Just annoying to have to reset all the clocks.
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LOL!
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Ha! Reminds me of a girlfriend counting the squares across my plaid skirt one day. Grrrrr. But I was small then...she's still be counting if it was today!
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Oh Merilee! You just made my day. Where do you find these? I particularly liked Harvey's last office xmas party. And had to share that with my team-mates at work.
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Getting very close to Christmas here....late afternoon of 23 December.
Am so very over Christmas already. Spent 3 hours this morning shopping for food with about a million other people, and just to add to my enjoyment we are experiencing a 42 C day which works out to about 102F temperature for my friends on the other side of the equator. I am not even sure I have bought what I need ....most of it was just junk!!
I ran into my mother while shopping and she is currenty not talking to me (or just barely) because I decided that I would like a quiet christmas a home with DH and kids. She is annoyed that I won't be going to the big family one. Very awkward moment there but I am still happy with my decision.
SO IT IS OFFICIAL....CHRISTMAS SUCKS.
Big hugs to all
Viv
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Viv, I am hoping that it is Saturday soon, so I too can be over this holiday business. It will be starting a new family tradition at my only son's. He and his wife are expecting in March, the wife's sister got married and had a baby this past year and now live nearby, the parents did not go to their Florida condo yet, and I do not have one single Christmas decoration up. None of them come to visit me because I am in an apartment and it is (of course) smaller than their houses. So why get a tree, decorate it ( by myself ) and have to put it all away again? And I am thinking of moving to an even smaller apartment to cut costs.
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Bah-humbug. I feel a cold coming on -- worried I might not make the great escape to Boston tomorrow. Growl... It will be so much fun coughing and horking crap on my b/f. Gee honey, did you miss me, sniff, snort, wipe my nose, gimme a kiss...sigh.
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Can't wait to rip down the tree and put away all the decorations and return to normal!!!!!
Pat
P.S. Will enjoy the eve and day .....just such work to prepare for it
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No tree, no wreath, the few cards I got are in a pile on the counter. Tomorrow is family dinner and that will be one big headache, I just know it. And I probably have to walk 3 blocks if I can find a parking space. Joy to the world... bah humbug.
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Tomorrow should be interesting. For years I'd have to listen to my mother about how she would love to have a peaceful, quiet Christmas. Looks like she will be getting it since I wont be there and it's debatable as to wether or not my brother and his family will be there.
But, I have no doubt that she will cry, moan and groan that I'm not there with her and that she's all alone (like how she claimed to have always wanted things).
oh mon dieu
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It's early Christmas morning and I'm still breathing.....so far.
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I can't seem to figure out why I am so depressed lately. Throughout chemo and radiation I felt fine then Thanksgiving came around and I've been feeling so down for weeks. I suppose it's because I was diagnosed around this time and I was having all these crazy surgeries. I am constantly being reminded of how my life changed and how everything is different now. I don't feel like myself and it makes me sad. Holidays Suck!!!!
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A big heartfelt BAH-HUMBUG for all my holiday hating sisters!
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I'm cleaning out the fridge. Already finished grouting and sealing the backsplash. All alone with just me and the one cat that's left....sigh. Bah humbug!
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My best friend INSISTED that I come to her house, so I could be a buffer between her and her family. Normally, I do go over there and put up with Christmas, so it's sort of a tradition....but this year I'm just not in the mood.
So I was supposed to be there at 3-3:30. It's now 4:30, and her daughter just called to see what I was up to/when am I coming over. The bitch is pulling out all the stops, knowing I won't tell her daughter to f*ck off.
Bah. I'll be eating myself silly on stuff I don't really like just to get through it; watching the clock and waiting for an appropriate time to escape.
Lovely.
Merry F*ucking Christmas.
Oh, and I had to buy the obligatory gifts - just to add some financial injury to the mix.
I'd be so much happier if I could just be left alone to relax and clean my apartment. BC creates a lot of paperwork that just ends up in piles.
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It's almost over...it's almost over...it's almost over...
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LOLOL, desdemona, I was just signing in to this thread as I was thinking to myself...............thank goodness THATS over with.
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Hello Fellow Sad Sacks!
Christmas Eve I went to my cousin's house - our holidays are spent there because she is such a nice person and a great cook. It was okay and I got to see the kids in our family - so cute and so sweet.
Today I was supposed to go to my youngest sister's house - I bowed out. First she cannot hold a family dinner without inviting an equal number of her friends. Then it is absolutely imperative that she be the constant center of attention. If I wanted to be an audience, I would go see a play! Besides those large family holiday dinners push all your buttons - of course, those are the people who installed the buttons in the first place. I can't wait until tomorrow.
As to an escape, when I smoked I always used that as an excuse to escape. With my recent health issues I cannot drive as far as I would need to and my sister (who I live with) wants to stay all night! Today, she was going over to help my sister prepare for the meal and wanted me to go with her. The idea of being over there from 10:30 in the morning until God knows when in the evening was more than I could stand.
Hold strong - one more holiday - New Years and then the whole world doesn't celebrate again until next Thanksgiving.
Wishing everyone a bright and healthy new year!
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Oh no, there is another holiday after New Years... Valentine's Day. Another one that will suck tremendously for the single ones. I know, I've had to sit through it for 20+ years while watching all of the other women in the office get flowers.
I've found a couple of more reasons for today to suck. It appears that my fiance didn't put my name with his on his kids Christmas gifts. So now, I guess I haven't given them a damn thing for Christmas.
On top of that, tonight I was borrowing his iphone to look up something and found he had two pornographic websites opened on it.
*sigh*
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I'm HOME. I'm HOME!!!!! YAY!!!!
So glad that's OVER!!!!!
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Hi there ladies,
I do alot of reading on this site and am so grateful for the honesty that is posted. I need some help. I like all of you have been extremely down and my fuse has been -10..lol Nothing makes me laugh too much. My S/O just makes my blood boil and all he has to do is open his mouth! I cannot confront him anything as he is unaccountable for any action...so this past week we went to the Onc so she could put me on Femara (I start taking this on Jan 1st) . I had a check list the length of your arm one thing I am suffering from is vertigo - so Monday I go for a brain MRI - they want to check to see if there is anything in there...lol I finished rad Dec 11th - 33 treatments. There have been 4 bad attacks of the vertigo and enough is enough. With the list of items I checked was my libido..the doc looked at me and said that is in your head! My S/O worships the ground the onc walks on so he translated that to "I was not attracted to him anymore!" Why so men do that. How do they learn to turn everything around and make it about them. That appointment I was and guess am at my rock bottom and day be day I am walking out of it! Does anyone agree with my oncs comment that libido is all in your head! This did start a huge fight...Please I would love to hear from you.
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What an insensitive thing to say! First, how could your libido not be affected by all you have been through this year? You have more patience than I do but I don't have a S/O. I do, however, have other family who are not accountable and therefore confrontation is a waste of breath.
Maire - I forgot Valentine's Day! Drats!!!
I am just glad I got through Christmas.
New Years is another holiday not exactly suited for singles.
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