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Thanks Fumi, It isn't a full quilt only a quilt block (18 inches square) with the edges finished for a small wall hanging for her room at the nursing home. I will have to bring my camera memory card to work tomorrow and get it sent to you. If I had seen this before I went to Lunch, I would have brought the memory card today. I am working on a baby quilt now for a friend at work, he and his wife are expecting their first child in August and I took a class recently on a quick-n-easy quilt. I can have a baby quilt cut and sewn up in about 8 hours with most of it machine work and very little hand work. I had to wait until I lost the hand wraps before I could finish up that quilt. I actually have 2 of them nearly finished, one is more of a toddler size for my great nephew's 1st birthday the end of May and the other is for the guy I work with. Now the wall hangings I do for my office are different, I do sew them together by machine (most of the time) but do the quilting by hand.
as you can tell, Lisa, I am also bored at work today!
Sheila
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I did get busy with some reports here for awhile.
Sheila..you are sooooooooo talented!!!
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All I can say is this, Lisa: OMG!!!! Can it be possible that Olivia has become even more gorgeous? I can't believe how absolutely stunning she looks in that dress. And YOU!!! Are you kidding me? Bad picture?? You look great!!!! Your hair has grown so much!! I agree--you need a new avatar. Olivia's boyfriend is a total hottie too! They do look like a celebrity couple. Did you say they broke up recently? I'm sure they'll get back together. They just look too good together!
Thanks for posting the beautiful pics, Fumi!
Hugs,
Karen
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I want to see the quilt too, Sheila! I envy creative, talented people like you!
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Thank you Karen. I think she is just very very photogenic! Dru is coming home today...and she was so excited last night...so, I think all is ok...again! lol. He really is a very very nice boy. He sent me a text on Mother's day..wishing me a good one. He never forgets me..my b'day, valentines day..etc. Very sweet and loving..and good looks too! lol
Thanks...I will have Olivia take a new pic of me...curly or straight? I will wait till after next Friday...I am getting my hair foiled!! I'll be blonder! wooooooohooooooooooo!
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Oh my gosh Lisa, Olivia (by the way that is my all time favorite name -why I didn't name one of my DD's that I don't know - yess I do - stupid father) she is absolutely beautiful - LIKE HER MOM I might ad. A beauty queen a model, just gorgeous. Your picture is great too. And Dru - HA-CHA-CHA!!!!! (LOL)
Barbe, Jaclyns doc is confident that 5 of the areas she removed cells from had not "spread" therefore she was pretty confident that those will be back with clean margins (just like our BC biopsies) the other 4 are much more concerning - apparently the way they looked to her while doing the LEEP procedure - the way I understand it - they look to be as if they may have spread deeper into the cervix lining or beyond????? I though understanding BC was hard, this seems alot harder.
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Ah Cathi, I cringed at your description....sigh. So much worry for you. How is Jaclyn doing with it all?
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Thanks Cathi..you are too sweet. Dru is a doll..isn't he? Olivia has always been a fav. name of mine too. When I was pregnant for the 3rd time (actually 5th, had 2 misscariages), I said, if it's another girl..I want Olivia. My ex said, he didn't like it. But I stood firm..and said..either Olivia Grace or Grace Olivia..he voted for the first. Of course after she was born..she fit the name perfectly.
I have to agree with Barbe...I cringed too...still keeping Jaclyn in my thoughts and prayers, Cathi.
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Hello all my sistas,
I've been hibernating, but reading the posts. So much have I missed.
Beautiful pictures of the dresses ... then of the dress being worn. Beautiful, stunning daughter!!! You must be so proud! Brings back memories of my two DDs and their highschool dances.
Cathi, prayers sent out to you and Jaclyn. I pray all the rest are clear.
Sheila, my mom quilts, too. Such patience to do that. I know you crochet (I've made me quite a few hats to wear now) and my mom has made several of the thread crochet tablecloths and bedspreads. So much work in them. I stop at a 27" table cover ... hers cover a table that will seat 12.
I start my A/C chemo on Monday. Still been fighting this dang cough ... for over a month now. Had a chest x-ray done today and doc put me on predinose. I have brochial asthma and guess the allergies are giving me grief. At least that's all it is. phew!
I had a huge scare a little over a week ago. My son has moved back in with me. He was out with friends and came home agitated. Went into the bathroom and then it was quiet. My instinct told me to check. I thank God I did. I had to unlock the door ... he was on the floor, blue. Called 911. They got here in 4 minutes and he was not breathing when they got here. Took him to the hospital. He does have a little bit of problems now - memory problems, thinking problems. TIme will tell if he will recover it, but the doc is doubtful as he was so long without breathing.
Needless to say, my nerves gone. My eye is twitching ... just too much. So, this is when I hibernate.
But I needed to let you all know that I check in on you, think of you, and pray for you all to have healthy, happy days.
love and hugs,
Cheryl
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Thankfully Barbe myself and Jaclyn are quite busy these days, work the past week or so for me has been quite hectic, the same for Jaclyn and of coarse she always has 2 children (3 really W/Dad) to keep her busy. But at this appointment I did see "fear" come over her face when the DR said 9 areas, we had been under the impression from the last procedure a few weeks ago it was not that wide of an area, Jaclyn and I talk a lot about the "medical" part of it, I make suggestions give my MOM 2 CENTS and tell her how much I love her, but she , nor I have really opened up to each other and shared "fears"
I think she is sparing me , and my god I just don't know how I could possibly say to her "I'm afraid you could die from CA" (if you know what I mean), the worst possible thoughts have crossed my mind, but how does a mom relay that to her child. I know she'll be alright - I pray everyday - but we all know how it is THOSE MIND MOMENTS we have.
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I am not sure if this is the right place but I will try anyway. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 weeks ago and will start her therapy in aprox. 3 weeks my family and I were wondering if there was someway to donate our hair and have a wig personaly made for her from our hair. If some one has information on this I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks
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Welcome pgtbkm, and so sorry that your family is in this pickle, but this forum if full of wonderful women who will help you all we can.
I am not sure about the hair, hopefully someone will come along and have more info.
Oh yes, this is my little Tuxedo Rescue Cat, we love her to death. We didn't get her til she was 11 months old, so she doesn't like to be picked up. But every now and then she climbs in our laps for a scratch, you'd think it was the Queen of England, we are so honored, she thinks she is a dog and loves Dusty to pieces.
Oh Lisa, the pix are wonderful, look at that skin!!! Oh for those days!! What a beautiful girl.
Fumi, our dear girl, always ready to post pix. She is a treasure
Gentle hugs, Shirlann
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(((((Cathi))))), I am at a loss for words. You must be so worried about Jaclyn. You are both trying to be strong for each other. She knows how much you love her. Perhaps, when all the reports are back and you know exactly what you are dealing with, you will be able to talk more candidly. For now, it is best that you are just there for her - and you certainly are - she is so lucky to have such a wonderful mother. I continue to pray for the best outcome for her.
Lisa - that group photo is amazing. The girls look like beautiful, exotic orchids! And the pic of Olivia and Dru - gorgeous - both of them. I hope she holds on to him - he sounds so nice!
(((((Cheryl))))) - I was shocked to hear of your son's passing out in the bathroom. How absolutely terrifying for you. Forgetfulmess and vagueness are very common with any type of brain injury so I hope and pray this is just temporary. You are starting A/C on Monday - this is all too much - I hope you have some strong and loving support people to lean on during this extremely difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts.
My sister was rushed to hospital early Monday morning with a kidney stone and kidney infection. She has had kidney stones before. For the first few days, I was getting updates from her d/h and he was very low-key about it (that's his personality). Then, yesterday I spoke to her for the first time and she told me that she has had a high temperature all week and has had a stent put in. She has a blood infection called urosepsis. I googled it and it can be life threatening. She won't be allowed home until her temperature stays down for 24 hours. We are very close.
Sheila - I would love to see a photo of your hankerchief quilt. You are so talented!
Love to everyone,
Jane
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(((((Jane)))))))
Prayers to you and your sister! How scary! I also googled it to see what it is. Keep us updated.
Thank you for your kind thoughts and prayers. Yes, it's too much lately. My DS had a friend over today ... TV on, the two of them talking and it was just too much noise!!! Was even putting in my ear plugs. Then the friend's father comes over, I get to meet him, and all the more chatting. This is supposed to be "normal" things but right now, it's just too much. My right eye is twitching on and off. I think I need to talk to my doc about some calming pills.
huggs to all
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Cheryl, I think that is a very good idea to get some calming pills. B/c and the treatments are enough to endure without all this added worry. Big hugs to you. xxx
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Cheryl...I agree, please get something to help YOU! Something for your nerves. Going through BC is enough, like Jane said..but throw something else into the mix..esp. something to your child...and most definately you need something to help you relax. I know first hand, about going through a difficult situation along with BC...and I was greatful to take something to relax me and help me sleep. Keeping positive thoughts for you my dear..and for healing for your son.
Jane..I am sorry to hear about your sister. My gosh...sounds like several things hit her at once. Are kidney stones painful? I think my good friend may have one. I have not heard of that blood infection. I should google it too. I had a blood infection before my dx. I am not sure exactly what it was called. But I hurt everywhere..was extremely tired etc. I hope your sister's temp comes down and is home soon resting.
Cathi...I can't even begin to imagine what you are feeling and thinking. We never ever want to see our children hurting, or even fathom the idea of them leaving us. My daughter Alise has the HPV virus and needs to be checked every 3 months or so. She is putting it off, so I told her about Jaclyn...hopefully that will make her think.
Shirlann...thanks for sharing the Queen with us...lol..she is beautiful! You are so sweet to have rescued her. Olivia's skin is beautiful...like you said....oh to be young again.
Just got home from work. I may scrapbook some...or relax...hmmmm
Lisa
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Cheryl and Jane, I hope and pray things get better really fast! Both of these stories are just horrible! I will keep everyone in my prayers!!
Shirlann, love the kitty!
Lisa, choose relax!! Can't wait to see our new pic! I love the long hair.
Cathi, still thinking and praying for you and Jacki.
pgtbkm4, perhaps calling a local hospitals cancer clinic could help you? I'm from Boston and I would call Dana Farber Cancer Institute. They offer many services and advice. They are very helpful. Perhaps if you call them, they may be able to help you or point you in the right direction. Sorry you have to go through this. What a wonderful thing for you to do. May prayers go out to your family.
Barb, Karen, Sheila, Fumi and everyone else, have a great night ladies!
BTW, I heard that our sister Suecco has passed. She's from the UK, I believe, just 38 years old. May God bles her and her family. DAMN BOOTFACE!
Hugs to all that need them!! There seems to be a lot!
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Jane thank you for your kind words, sending good thoughts your way and your sisters.
Nana, treatment can be so hard sometimes, I had an exact feeling you you described for awhile "noise - talking -chatter" just got me all weirded out, it passed with time, miy spell like that happened while doing rads and taking Tamox though, but I had extremelly bad SE from Tamox, was taken off after 8/Mo's.
Lisa -PLEASE PLEASE tell Alise to have her PAP (I know you have) it is nothing to play around with, she is young so I expect she has the "it can't happen to me thoughts" we know all to well bad things happen to young ladies.
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Thank you for the kind words for my sister. She just sent me a text to say she has to stay in hospital for at least another few days as the infection is worse than they originally thought. I have read that kidney stones are one of the most painful things a person can endure - one website said they are "more painful than gunshot wounds, major surgery, broken bones, burns and even childbirth." I'm sure there would be those who would disagree but they certainly sound excruciating. Susan (my sister) is not in pain any more (thank God for morphine!) but feels very unwell.
Shirlann, love the cat pic. I remember seeing other photos of your animals and they are beautiful - love the one of your sweet whippet running on the beach. I've wanted a whippet for years but I don't think Blossom (my cat) would approve.
pgtbkm4, I think that is such a great idea. It's horrible that your dear sister has been diagnosed and will lose her hair but it sounds as though she has a wonderful, loving family to rally around her. I'm sure she would really appreciate a wig made from her loved ones' hair. I hope that you can find a way to have one made up.
oxoxo
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Hello everyone,
I'm sorry I haven't been posting, but I'm reading and thinking of you all. I haven't really had much to say. Still struggling with everything seeming to hit me about all I've been through in the last two years (almost). Sometimes it feels like a bad dream. If I think about it too much I get sad; but otherwise I'm OK.
Both my 'kids' graduate from college in a few weeks and I'm busy getting ready for that.
I love looking at the prom photos... what beautiful kids, all of them. Wow.
Sue and Fumi, sooo sooo nice to hear from you. Now we just need to find Ulla.
Sending my warm wishes and blessings to you all.
Hugs!
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OMG, what a lot of horrid posts to read! My heart is aching for everyone who has emotional pain right now. There is so much sadness on the boards...too many sick family and poor Sue...
I'll leave it just at that. You are all in my prayers.
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One thing I can add (of course) is that I have a huge kidney stone and was at a urologists office on Monday. He said if he went by the ultrasound he'd have me in surgery right away. But the CT scan didn't mention it as being overly large so he wants me to get another ultrasound! I am on the strongest pain meds I can take and still legally drive...just taking the friggin' thing out!
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Hi Ladies , Wow , so many of us are so troubled right now. Cathi , I can only imagine how you are feeling. I said before , bootface is such a devastating thing for us all to go through , but when our children are hit with a serious illness , it is even harder for us. Jaclyn is in my daily prayers. And this stage of the game is always the hardest. You have some test results. But not all , and no plan yet. I think it is the worst part of all of this. Once she gets a plan , things seem to get better. And Cathi , I think your daughter appreciates you just being able to be there for her right now. I think no matter how old we are , when we are not well , we just want our moms. My mom lives in Tenn. so she was not able to be here with me. But my son was , and just his presents helped to calm me down. Big hugs to you both.
OH Cheryl , how scary. I will keep you and your son in my prayers. I hope he is going to be OK.
Boy , did you bring back "chemo" memories for me , when you said chatter , or noise was irratating you. It did me too. I think it is alot to be going through , and you just don't want anything that causes more irratation at that time. It does get better after treatment , but it really sucks right now! Hang in there.
Lisa , I was so awe struck with Olivia! I just kept staring at her picture! She is soooo beautiful. And her and Dru make a beautiful couple. She really did wear that dress well! Even though her escourt was "just friends" , I bet he was on cloud nine all night! And Lisa , you look simply beautiful. Your hair is very pretty. And you wear it well. Mine was that long , but didn't do me justice , so it is now very short. I just needed a "style". I was feeling so blah. When is Olivia's graduation ceremony? Wow , to be that age , look that good , and have the world as your oyster...
Fumi , a big thanks from me too! But hey girlfriend , I would like to see some of your pics here too! I really miss you and your pics. Has work slowed down for you some? Hows life in general? Anything new and exciting for you? I hope you are feeling well , and taking some "me" time for you.xxxx
Oh Jane , I am so sorry to here the news of your sister. I hope she is feeling better with each day. I just hate talking to men about such important issues! They are all like that. They never ask questions , or tell of important details. I'm glad you got to talk to her directly. Godspeed to her.xxxx
Hi Makraz , Did you say Suecco passed? Oh my gosh. She was so chipper and full of life. I really thought she was going to be OK. So sad.
Sheila , Wow. You are very talented. I too , would love to see the quilt hanging. It sounds lovely. And what a lovely thing to do for grandma. Hope all is well with you and Donald and family.
Hi Judie , are you still watching your darling grandson? If so , when is mom due back? I'm so glad you had such a wonderful Moms day with the girls. Yes , it is great being a mom , isn't it! My son Adam , and his girlfriend Ashley , came out Monday and took me out to dinner. Then we drove around , down by the lake , then came back to my place and talked and played computer games. It was great. But they didn't leave until 11:30pm! And I had to get up at 4:00am for work! I came straight home from work and slept for four hours! I'm to old for that!lol
Well , just as my back was feeling better , I had to go back to work and again lift boxes and set up jobs. Needless to say , it is sore again. Boy , I can't wait till Friday is over! I will be popping pills and doing nothing! Love to all.xxxx Mel
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Wren! So good to see you here. Congrats to both of your kids. What a wonderful accomplishment for them. You did good mom!
I know what you mean , about feeling sad sometimes. Sometimes I start thinking of everything that has happened , and I get so depressed. I really miss the old me. And I feel like I have aged 20 years in the last two. Take care sweet sister.xxxx
Oh Barbe! So sorry to here you also have a kidney stone. So very painful. Well , I guess you and I will be high on pain pills this weekend! Yes , why don't they just take it out? Especially if it is so large , you won't be able to pass it. Take care.xxxx
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(((((Barbe))))) So sorry you have a horrible kidney stone and I hope they will do something about it soon. I heard that they can sit there for some time and then all of a sudden will cause dreadful pain. I have read that they can disinegrate stones with ultrasound waves.
Wren - good to see you post. Congratulations for your kids' graduations - I hope you post some pics here!
Fumi - I always enjoy seeing your photos. Hope you are having some happy moments and getting enough time to yourself.
Karen, any photos from your beach camping weekend? Would love to see some!
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Sweet (((((Mel))))) - your back must still be giving you misery. So sorry to hear you are still needing pain pills. I hope and pray you will feel better soon.
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Looks like a hug is in order -
AE
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pgtbkm4 - trys "Locks of Love" as well.
Stop back and let us know how your sister is doing.
AE
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I am so sorry to hear that. I just registered just now and seen your message,. My sister who is 36 has just found out she has ductal carcinoma, unfortunately it is invasive and extremly aggressive . from the scale as far as how bad the cancer is my sister is at the max for all of them and is considered high risk. she will be having a mastectomy next week. possibly double.. 4 weeks later she will under go intravenous chemotherapy. i don't know what all this means and neither does she as everything is happening so fast. I'm so scared for her shes so scared we have no clue what to do .. we never knew it even ran in the family. i say to you "please help" to see a different surgeon get second opinions and don't wait till October. If its invasive thats not good. that means it can get to the lymph nods if it hasn't already and spread to the rest of your body. my sister found the lump about 2 months ago and didn't get checked by the doctors until it started to bother her. Now shes at the highest levels on all categoriesfor her type of breast cancer and we are now in a fight to save her life. please don't wait. pleas find another doctor that can see u.. waiting is the last thing u want to do if its invasive.
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HEY BARBE, I want to wish you a HAPPY EARLY B'DAY. Have a busy weekend ahead so don't want to forget you. Enjoy- elax and hopefully the kidney stone won't give you and trouble. XOXXOXOXOXO
Alexcis is coming over later today and spending the weekend, Jaclyn can use a bit of a rest from both kids, she is now riding her bike with out trainers so we have a big bike ride planned and also time at the beach, then of coarse she and Margo will run the house for hours.
Wishing everyone a GREAT WEEKEND.
xoxoxoxoxoxo
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