Fuzzy's Romp Room

FireKracker

aND A HUGGGGGG TO YOU AND YOUR MOM....PRAYERS TOO.

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dunesleeper

Good luck fuzzy. Here's a hug -- ((( fuzzy ))). I sure hope nobody bitch slaps you.

ridergirl

Lots of appts this week so my head should pretty well keep spinning....

Hugsssss to all who want one and

Luck to all who need it

LeahLeah

Oh Fuzzy, what a day you've had, great big huge hugs coming your way.  

Peace all 

thefuzzylemon

Thanks everyone!! Moms checked in and waiting...whew! Good bear hugs!

Rider...pocket bus for you this week! Veggy and Nancy too!! Lauren....lets do this!



So...my youngest really hurt my feelings today. Somehow I'm not worth much anymore...mostly because I'm not making money. Its a bitter pill but someday....somehow....she'll realize what she's doing. I didn't want to unload that on everyone and of course there's a much thicker story...but I'm just going to stand on my miserable ground out of tough love. Damn it.

So...enough on that front! I shed my tears...then I got hugs and now mama needs me. I'll update everyone tomorrow!

Looooooooove to all!!! You're the best!

ridergirl

Thanks fuzzy..and anyone else who wants to come for the ride. Its usually pretty boring but i'm sure you ladies could spice it up:-)

Hope all goes well with your mom i just dread the day anything serious goes wrong for mine i'm an only child and we r best friends.

Gingerbrew

Ah Fuzzy children can hurt us worse than about anything else. 

I am sending you one of those bear hugs.

Ginger 

dunesleeper

My lower lip is full of fever blisters. This always happens when I get overly stressed. I'm guessing that these blisters and my emotionality at the ocean are related, but I'm still not exactly sure of the cause. I had a flat tire when I went out to the car this morning to go to mom's. It had a screw in it, but also I noticed that the front tires were completely bald. So, I got 2 new tires. I did not make it to mom's in time to work out with her, but we sat and read through the storm and then had dinner. I think I took all my pills today, so that's good. Well, it is back to school time. I need to find my schedule to see where I have to be and when. LOL

Hang in there fuzzy. I have friends who have gone through similar situations. The kids come around eventually. I know that doesn't help much now though.

sas-schatzi

Fuzzy hugs both for you DD and mom. It's always something . I think I'll erase that post. Someone else just had a bunch of medical backfires and I was just overwhelmed with the system failure. Sorry. same to everyone else.

duckyb1

Fuzzy...........I know the feeling.........if they only knew how it hurts when they act that way...........I have had my share of "bullshit" this past couple weeks, and that is the reason for the "dark hole"............but this too will pass....................if they onlly knew....................................

thefuzzylemon

Dunes...oh man! My oldest gets those blisters too....after years of pain, we figured out it was from a vitamin deficiency. Do you Take vitamins?

Sassy....you're a very experienced and passionate woman. No apologies here sweetie!! I love ya...love love love ya! I know how much you care and how much the system has messed up. Stay true to yourself....always.

Oh my. I had no idea so many of us have gone through the same bullshit with our children. The worst is how she's treated my oldest and my DH. That really gets my goat...in a chokehold...kicking and screaming....ah.

So....what can we do at Riders appointments?? Hmmmm...I'll sneak up on the nurse and give em a wet Willy!! Hee hee....

(((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))))



P.S. mama seems to be "ok" for this round. Should be taking her home soon. Good news!

dunesleeper

Glad to hear the good news about your mom fuzzy . . . . . and yes, I take vitamins. However, I did get thrown off my vitamin schedule at the ocean. Maybe I'm just feeling overwhelmed by the hectic schedule coming up. I don't know. I guess I'm going to look pretty bad for the start of school Tuesday. Oh well. I shouldn't worry about how I will look for school. I should be concerned that I am allowing myself to get this stressed. Stress is not good for preventing cancer. I really have to learn how to chill out. Gonna work on that. I swear it!

thefuzzylemon

Nancy...I'm with you always. When my brother died, the only peace I had was knowing he wasn't suffering any more. Nothing like what your papa went through, but a definite failure in the system...at 29 years old. The loss is still with me over 10 years later but...NY brothers got my back with his wings on. I miss him so much.

Thank you for the prayers and wishes for mama. She's a good soul, southern and fights like a tiger! Her story is amazing and full of tourture. She has PKD and its a beast. I hope this doesn't offend anyone but I'd take the nasty C over what she has been through any day....heart attacks where she's coded, strokes, 3 stomach/colon surgeries, comas, trauma, seizures, chest tubes, valve replacement...oh the list goes on and on...blood disorders...tons of life threatening infections...that is a nasty disease. My brother and sister have it too. It missed me...so far anyway! The year I was going to give her a kidney, she got too sick to live through the surgery. Weird how shit works, eh? When I got sick, she got so sad. I'm the only person she can count on. Its so funny because she never wants me to hold her purse on my left side...I just ask her "do you think I carry a kayak with one arm?" LOL!! A purse!!! She's a funny gal.

Princess Pre Madonna has not called or anything. I didn't expect it...but it would have been the right thing to do.

Its late no matter what part of the country your in and I get very confused by international time...so night night everyone!

Bear Hugs and Puppy Kisses!

LeahLeah

My goodness Fuzzy, when do you sleep girl?!?

Hope everyone in the Romp Room, has a Romping great Monday.

Hugs to those who want them, Peace to all.

ridergirl

Nancy my thoughts are with you and your family on what is sure to be a difficult day. As you said the only consolation is that we know our loved one is at peace.

Fuzzy hope you and mom both have a good day.

I'm off ti work til noon then dr.

Hugggs to all

Anonymous

Today is my DD's bd, she is 28.  Making hobo stew, a gourmet cheesecake with walnuts and brownie topping, yeah, cheat day. 

I remember when the fur was flying, this the age esp when they are 17 - 22, then they get to need you as they become women, and they realize how awful they acted for that time.  Not all do, but it is a main thread for young women and moms.  Fuzzy, it is so hard, for a few years I was in so much pain from mothering her or worse not being able to mother her like I thought she needed, and everything went back to her and the pain and what could have been, my DS can attest, it was hard.

Nancy - thinking of you.

Sassy huggs for you.  This has been a very difficult week for so many here on bco, sometimes -ofttimes - it is overwhelming to know waht we and or others are going through, what could have been avoided or different, so hard.  Some might even want to kick someone else and often do, their pain is so hard, but their hearts are breaking from witnessing, and we know.

Dunes - cannot imagine you trimming the bird's nails with one arm in that huge cast, LOL, really?  Me trimming one 8# skunk's nails, takes all of me wrapped around her as she squirms and kicks nad pulls her little hand out of mine.  Hubby helps hold her down and that makes her worse, but at least we can trim.  

Welcome Leahlee.

RiderGirl, one appt at a time and with a notebook, dr name, dates, ??? to ask, answers given, info, it's the only way I get through esp w my memory issues.  We would like to go forthe ride, when is it, where?  You take us in pockets right, or a backpack?

SpecialK

Nancy - thinking of you today and sending you strength to get through it - you know that I know what you are feeling.  I am so glad you mom was able to be there and get through yesterday with you.  Know you are surrounded with love here.

fuzzy - how is your mom?  Sounds like she has had a time!  My mom was chronically ill for 25 years - I know very well those ups and downs, frequent hospitalizations for 6-8 weeks, crises, etc.  It is very tough to stay strong in the face of uncertainty like that - you hang in, ok?

The storm has been pretty much a non-event here so far.  i am more worried about those at the top of the Gulf and in NOLA.  I keep thinking about ladies having, or scheduled to have, surgery with the docs at the NOLA Breast Ctr - they must be worried. 

Off to a dermatologist appt. this afternoon to check the skin cancer on my chest!  The fun never stops!

leggo

Hi Fuzzy! Hi All! I just found out about this thread. Yikes...I'll have to go back and read 106 PAGES! Just skimming it sounds like you're a great bunch of ladies. Hope to pop in from time to time to your funky, psychadelic retreat. To all of you that are going through rough times, my sincere hopes that things start looking up soon.

ridergirl

Appt is in Barrie at 215. For all who are coming you'll b traveling in a lovely leopard print tote that comes to all my dr appts. Please keep hands and feet inside while the ride is in motion :-) Other than that hang on and enjoy the ride!

Anonymous

Ridergirl - I'm coming but I can't promise that I'll be good. Somehow I always manage to get out of the bag and get into mischief.

Fuzzy - Some more hugs coming your way for you and your mom.

Nancy - Wish I could be there to hold your hand and give you a real hug. 

Wednesday I go see my plastic surgeon. Who's coming?

Hugs!

FireKracker

Dear lord...soo much drama....kids really do suk sometimes and everyone goes throu shit..yes everyone but most people dont talk about...I know many times i just stop talkin to one of them sooo i can cool off.they know to stay away from me when im pissed.

Veggy.....im in your pocket if you are gonna be nice.no kicking.

Nancy....once agin stay strong sista.

welcome newbees.

huggggggs to everyone else K

Wren44

Nancy, Warm hugs for you and your mom. Maybe we can sign you up for a group hug every day.

thefuzzylemon

Special.....cancer on your skin???? Damn girl!!! Can I write your autobiography? I mean, you have been through so much....you're an inspiration and one day I'll be in Florida and I'm buying you lunch.

Gracie in the house! Welcome welcome welcome. Its kinda cool here because you don't have to read all the pages to jump right in...all you need is the right equipment (rubber suit, ass kicking boots, some spunk...LOL). In my opinion, the greatest collection of sisters to be found. So lock and load!! Muhahaha

DD will be 22 in 4 short years....ugh. UGH!! You're totally right...I was silent about it for a long time. Oh the pain.

I'll tell my mom how thoughtful each of you are. She's very spiritual and will gain much happiness from each of you.

Nancy...I'm wrapped around you today like a cheap suit sweetie...might not be very comfortable but you know its there and not letting go.

Rider...we're traveling in style today!! Rock n Roll!

Veggy....big big squeeze!! Do docs checks for pigs in our ass? I'm waiting for those suckers to start flying....I'm just not sure I have any pigs at all.

LeahLee...what's coming up for you? Hows everything going?

MadBird....you're Really good with words...I admire That.

Where's GG???

Trimming skunk nails...with their tiny hands....oh so cute!!

I'm totally missing something...I'm going to go into town for a bit. I'll be back and try to be more complete: )

(((((((Hugs)))))))

LaurenM730

Nancy, thinking of you as always.  If you want/need hugs, I got 'em for ya!

Veggy, i'll drive on wednesday to the PS.  I'm going Friday for anyone who wants to tag along on the bus.  DH might pass out again, so I'll need some support.

Okay north east ladies - let's plan this meeting.  Who's in?!?

SpecialK

fuzzy - it is skin cancer number 20, and yes, you read that correctly!  I will take you up on the lunch too!

All - just got the first "tornado in your area - seek cover immediately" bulletin.  Am I seeking cover - no, posting on BCO, lol!  Hello Issac!  And now it is pouring rain...

LeahLeah

Wow there are sure a lot you here, how does everyone keep up?!?



Nancy, so sorry for your pain, am familiar with that loss. Hugs and peace to you.



I'm ok, thanks fuzzy, sort of manic these days, my BS and I are talking MX of the bad boob and proph MX of the good boob, I was all for that, am all for that, so why am I a wreck now, thinking about it. Meet with her on Friday to discuss options, have no idea what recon options I have. My girls are on the large size, have never really been happy to have them so large, but dam if losing them like this doesn't just scare the crap out of me.

Anywho, I'll try to keep up with you all better, thanks for having me, padded rooms are so versatile, doncha think?

LeahLeah

Wow special K, when it rains it pours! Pun intended! Be safe!

FireKracker

Hey lauren----IM IN.ILL FLY THE BROOM.

Im in for this reunion too.Joan and I cannot do the 13-18 but the rest of Sept is good.

start throwing out dates....I am soooo ready for this.Im bringing a sista who I met at the NJ reunion..She has been a wonderful sista...I see her quite often as she lives in the next town.Proudtospin..lets get goin here.NOW!!!!!!!!

It was pouring rain about 1 hr.ago in NJ.Now the sun is shinning.

sending love hugggggs and kisses to all my wonderful sistas.

DUCKY---would love you to come to the reunion....yeah im pestering you once again..Pretty please!!!

I would be bothering Veggy but i know the timing is off.

This is an open reunion so anyone and everyone is invited to NYC...just get there and we will find ya.

xoxoxoK