All Alone Husband divorcing me please help.

Jack55ok

Pinkribbon56,

I am so sorry to hear about your husband. I also have a 19 year old daughter and was with my husband for 23 years. He had a girlfriend who was 20 years younger than him. I found out while I was going through treatment. I was bald and ugly....to him.

 I know your hurt, I know your anger and I feel it with you. I loved him with my entire being and never expected him to be so shallow. We have been apart for a couple of years now and I sought help. I am finally at peace and have learned to live with out him and I am happy. I pray that you can find the same peace and know that you are worthy and deserve so much better. Please post again periodically and let me know how you are? May God bless you.

rosie06ct

I feel you should put yourself FIRST.it certainly is terrifying I am sure.  If he is paying the bills try to take someof that for your private account or h ave a close friend hold it for you !   and in most cases if you stop paying your mortgage you can stay in the home about 2-3 years before the bank forcloses.YES it would kill your credit but if you are like me credit isnt great with all the medical absences and bills.... also I am not sure of your age but if elidgeable you could get into 55 an dolder or 62 /or disabled HUD subsidized housing for cheap based on your paycheck ...

throw his ass out if he is not paying the bills or giving you money ...and change the locks .  hope all this that we all are posting is of some sort of help to you !  best of luck and STAY STRONG .because it sounds like YOU ALREADY HAVE BEEN DOING IT ALONE ALL ALONG !!!

MelissaDallas

Rosie, nobody has posted on this thread in fifteen months so you may not get a reply.