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  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited October 2009

    Happy Thanksgiving Canadian friends!

    Barbe, you're breaking all the rules of this thread you knowWink

    Just give your company a windex bottle and paper towels when they walk in the door. Tell them no food until the house is clean:)

    Garfield's slippers are cute! I hadn't even noticed.

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited October 2009

    Mary, no housework for you today.  I hope you are feeling better really soon.

    Other than the bathrooms and a quick floor sweeping I clean 'after' the company leaves.  We had turkey yesterday so today is picnic is the maple bush day with DH and doggus.  It's cold but the sun is out.

    Hugs to all the Dusty Buns.

  • mumito
    mumito Member Posts: 4,562
    edited October 2009

    Biscuits and dressing with gravy.I am still high from my Thanksgiving leftover breakfast. I know I need to loose weight but that will have to wait.This is the season for comfort food,and right now I need it.

    Barbe get everyone to pitch in and try to enjoy your family today.Have a great day everyone especially my canadian buddies no work today.

  • xpectmiracles
    xpectmiracles Member Posts: 439
    edited October 2009

    Canadian friends: Happy Thanksgiving!

    Mary, I'm sorry that you aren't feeling well. I had a difficult time after my last chemo. The effects are cumulative. I just wanted it to be all over and get back to life! Very gentle hugs to you!

  • arnie2two
    arnie2two Member Posts: 1,215
    edited October 2009

    Hey all you beautiful dustbunnies!!!

    Barbe...lol...rather be at work!!! Geesh!!!  lol 

    Kathleen...after all you've been through...so sorry your having to watch someone you love suffer. ((((hugs))))

    Texas...felt the same way after last chemo!  Rest as much as you can sweetie! (((((((((((hugs))))))))))

    You guys are making me hungry for turkey!!!  lol  Will have to wait a month though...

    Hope everyone has a blessed day!!!

    thanksgiving thanks giving turkey beef humour

    xoxoxo

  • kmccraw423
    kmccraw423 Member Posts: 3,596
    edited October 2009

    Thanks Artie - its the not knowing that drives you nuts.  On the way home from physical therapy I promised God I would let go and let him and further promised I wouldn't try to take it back.  Its in His hands now - hence:

    good morning this is god

  • EWB
    EWB Member Posts: 2,927
    edited October 2009

    lets see...breaskfast, shower, check email. take morning meds. So far pretty productive. Big outing for the day is bank and buying light bulbs. I know Home Depot will have what I need but maybe I will just head to Walmart and hope (its so much closer)

    Hugs to all...Mary take it easy, you earned some down time sweetie.

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2009

    300 -- 300 -- 300 -- 300 -- 300 -- 300 -- 300!!!!!

    It's awesome to see everyone checking in for our combination Happy 300 -- Thanksgiving party.

    If we started getting creative I bet we could track down all sorts of national holidays, from around the globe. Give us something 'extra' to celebrate every day.

    Shiny, Jayne & Vivvy...... got anything 'fun' coming up on your national holiday parade, that we can help celebrate??

    Had a school-visit day today.

    Just had a message that none of my 3 grand-kiddos is running a fever today. So I'm ready to celebrate in earnest!! WB seems to have 'bounced' his kaka right on thru..... hip, hip, hooray!!

    Lots of details to attend to, before picking up DH @ airport.

    xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited October 2009

    Woohooooot!! Yaaaay WB and twinsies!! It's a good thing when everything is "running" smoothly:)

    Happy 300 bunnies and

    Happy Columbus Day Americans!

    Happy Thanksgiving Canadians!

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2009

    Oh yeah, Coonie...... thanks for the prompt.

    I meant to send everyone a "REAL" Columbus Day wish, from the REAL Columbus -- Ohio.

    (I can't seem to remember my own name these days.)

    LOL

    Together we can.  

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009

    Happy Thanksgiving Canada.  At least you get to work (oh, wrong word) you get to release all the extra calories before Christmas comes around!.  Here we just waddle through Thanksgiving the end of November and eat ourselves silly until Christmas.  Then we spend 4-5 months trying to get it off before hitting the beaches in the summer. 

  • shiny
    shiny Member Posts: 892
    edited October 2009

    thinking of you all ladies,

    Sending vibes of the peachiest variety your way!! Am under the weather, so keeping my "chin wag" to a minimum. I shall report back "properlyish" soon.

    Take care of yourselves, hope you are having a brilliant day.

    hugs! Shiny 

  • KAK
    KAK Member Posts: 1,679
    edited October 2009

    Just wanted to get on page 300!  Love to you all...

  • Jane_M
    Jane_M Member Posts: 1,549
    edited October 2009

    I did a load of dishes and baked 2 apple pies today.

    I also saw all 3 of my docs today.  Started out at the surgeons office.  Met with plastic surgeon and the only option for reconstruction is to pull tissue from my back and get implants.  Not an option for me, so I'm going to have my other mast on 11/9 and go with no reconstruction.  I told the nurse I could buy different sizes prosthesis and if I feel like a B, I could be a B...If I feel like a D, I can be a D.  After the surgeon, I saw my PCP to set up an appt for my pre op clearance that I'll need and then I went to my Onc to get blood drawn before my Reclast infusion next week.

    KAK - did you have your first treatment in the fatigue study on Friday?  How was your vacation?  Were you able to make a lot of headway on your t-shirts?

  • GramE
    GramE Member Posts: 5,056
    edited October 2009

    Happy 300th page.  Happy thanksgiving and colombus day.    I did the dentist today - check my bite with the new crown/overlay and polish my fangs.   The laundry is piling up again, so maybe tomorrow...   Hugs and Blessings,  Nancy

  • TexasRose
    TexasRose Member Posts: 740
    edited October 2009

    Thanks everybody. Good to know this is normal for the last one to suck so much. I'm feeling better. Still not great, but better. I'll take that.

    Kathleen- Still praying for your uncle. And I have that exact sign about God being in charge hanging in my craft room.

    Barbe- You are working too hard! 

    Barbe, Sharon and Mumayan- You are SERIOUSLY making me crave turkey!! I hope you had a wonderful holiday.

    Coonie, Cheryl, Arnie, EWB, Faith, Kathi, and Nancy- (((hugs))) just because...

    patoo- Giggling at the waddling through from Thanksgiving to Christmas! Yep.

    Shiny- Feel better, love!

    Jane- You've had a busy day. Slow down some!! If I have to have my right one removed after the genetic testing, there will be no recon here either.

    Oh and I'm a party pooper about Columbus Day. My dad died suddenly on October 11, 1993. It was Columbus Day and ever since I have hated that holiday even though it moves around and it's not the same day every year. OTOH, my DH did enjoy a day off today. Wink

    I hope I didn't miss anybody. I'm sure I did. Hugs to all!

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited October 2009

    Happy Thanksgiving my Northern Ladies!.........

    Having a rough day today......Feel sad and down and it is so darn rainy!........I went to the doc today to ge tmy hand checked out...No breaks!...YAY!......But still feeling down and can't get up.......No one understands the fear and sadness I have......Well, ecxept you guys......You all have been there......I haven't taken my Lexapro in a week so I guess that is part of the problem but I also know part of it is that we have lost another sister and one is on the brink of passing........It is all so hard!......i am tired of telling people I am ok when I'm not!.......I don't think I will ever be ok ever again......I am scared of recurrence, scared of mets and scared that my dd will end up the same way.....I am terrified of losing my sister Fran who was stage 3 at dx and my sister Pauline hasn't had her mammos regularly.......I guess I am just one huge worry wart!......I am so glad I have this place to let it all out.......Thanks ladies!.....I love you all so much......

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2009
    Hollyann, look above and see the thousands of HUGS coming your way.  Oops, duck so they don't hit your head and open your arms wide to catch a few.  There you go - all better!  When you feel down just reach out again and pluck some more.  I'm filling the sky with them for anyone who cares to catch a few.  There's lots to go around for everyone.
  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2009

    GROUP HUG

    GROUP HUG

    GROUP HUG

  • kmccraw423
    kmccraw423 Member Posts: 3,596
    edited October 2009

    Lucy - Faith is right - GROUP HUG

    Picture - group friends.  fotosearch - search  stock photos,  pictures, images,  and photo clipart

    I know what you're saying as does every sister on here.  You make such a difference on these Boards.  Your warmth, generosity of spirit and caring are sorely needed - here on the Board and the lives you touch outside the boards.  And stop telling people you are okay when you're not!  It will do them good to get a reality check.

  • faithandfifty
    faithandfifty Member Posts: 10,007
    edited October 2009

    We do need each other.

    Dream once wrote a post about our needing to be strong for one another, when we have the strength..... as our day, too, will indeed come, when we will need the support of others.

    I'm not as poetic as she, but the sentiment is true -- even in my watered down approach.

    We lift one another up while we are able.

    We hold one another's hands across the miles, because we make a difference.

    We wipe away the tears because we understand.

    We're in this together.

    I've come to believe that has made me "better."

    Have a tremendous Tuesday.

    We're all here for each other.

    xx00xx00xx00xx

  • coonie
    coonie Member Posts: 7,618
    edited October 2009

    ((((Sisters)))))

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited October 2009

    What would I do without all of you?.....I felt that group hug last night!......

    Patoo, love the hugs from above!.....I will definitely keep them close!...

    Faith, love the pic of the group hug!....That actually looks like my dark head in the middle!..LOL

    Kathleen, you are so sweet...Thank you for the kind words.....They mean a lot!.........

    I am feeling somewhat better today...Still feel like crying but I figured it is from where I stopped my Lexapro...NOT intentionally but it took that quack I went to last August 31st 4 days to reply to a fax from my pharmacist and then he ended up sending in the wrong dosage!.....I told Dr. Hoke, my GOOD doctor, that I would NEVER go back to the other doctor ever!......I don't know if I told you but the last time I went to Dr. Quack I was in terrible pain in my hips and feet and arms and do you know just because he didn't know what was wrong with me he wanted me to see a SHRINK!...YES a shrink!....FOR PAIN!.......He did the same thing to my husband...I guess just because we both take antidepressants that we are crazy and all of our pain and illnesses are just in our heads!.....

    Well I have rambled on enough for one morning........Please keep our lttle Hannah in your prayers...She is having more nodes removed Friday at 1:15 pm Pacific Time...They are taking 10 or 12 more.....Oh And Hanna's Nana says thank you so much for the love and support you all have shown the family and especially Hannha.....She can't bring herself to come here anymore...It upsets her to read things here...I told her I understood and would relay the message.....Also she said to tell you Hannah is triple negative......SO extra prayers for our Baby Sister.........

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited October 2009

    HUGS Lucy.  It sinks to feel that way.   I am a worry wart too so I know what you mean.  I hope you are feeling better today.

    I keep checking Hannahs website too.  She is an amazing young lady.

  • kmccraw423
    kmccraw423 Member Posts: 3,596
    edited October 2009

    Linda - what's Hannah's web site, please?

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited October 2009

    http://www.ourlittlesweetpea.com/

    She is amazing!  So strong and so young!

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited October 2009

    Sorry guys...I forgot to post Hannah's site......

    Makraz thank you for posting it.......I DO feel better this morning, especially after all the group hugs last night......You all are wonderful and caring friends.......



  • xpectmiracles
    xpectmiracles Member Posts: 439
    edited October 2009

    Lucy, before I started chemotherapy I was in the PS office. He told me we were going to need to wait to do the tissue expander exchange until after the chemo is done. I got very upset. After I gathered my stuff and was leaving I saw the doc at the front desk. He asked, "Are you OK?" At that point I thought that was the stupidest question anyone could ever ask me! Of course I wasn't ok! I had cancer and was facing chemotherapy and surgery. I rounded on him and firmly said, "No, I am not ok--I am NOT O--K--!!!", and glared at him! He let me cool off in the waiting room before driving home. He really is a sweetheart, though. When I talked to him the next week he said my reaction was "perfectly understandable."

  • hollyann
    hollyann Member Posts: 2,992
    edited October 2009

    Hugs Cheryl...I really need to just tell it like it is when asked if I am ok......Cause truly I'm not......I PRETEND to be ok just for the sake of my job (I work retail and run a cash register so it would not look good if I am standing there bawling while waiting on people)......For the most part i make it through ok though.....Especially when I have the support of so many wonderful ladies here........

  • arnie2two
    arnie2two Member Posts: 1,215
    edited October 2009

    Love all you lovely gals....sending hugs and good vibes your way...Have the grandkidlets here today but thinking of you all!  Prayers and hugs...

    xoxoxo

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