Thinking Out Loud.....

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  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited March 2011

    I agree, abuse in any form should be a vow breaker.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited March 2011

    Thanks raj.

    Laundry still not folded. I'm having good time here with my friends.

    God Bless All My Friends.

    I love you all♥

  • Raj20
    Raj20 Member Posts: 1,112
    edited March 2011

    Luv you too ! OMG it is almost 3.oo midnight here !  See you all tomoro ! I will go to sleep now .. its is only 3 hours left  for sunrise. Bye all . have a nice good day.

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Sleep well Raj!!

    Abuse should never be tolerated.  You girls rock for getting yourselves out of that situation!!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2011

    I stuck with it until my pastor told me that it was okay, that God doesn't condone that behavior.

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited March 2011

    Deb glad they are paying attention now...

    Went to the Drs. TM up from 91 to over 100 that to me means the falsedox is not working, he said no necessarily, whatever...so now, time for a bone scan he says head to toe, have never had one they were using the PET scan as a basis. Also am getting chest area done also sternum, etc.  Pain at the top of my lung where mass is and actually the lymphnodes in the chest and stomach area are itching....anyway, guess we will be changing treatment....he said that after 2 hormonal therapies they change to something else, they do have a new treatment that is actually a pill of chemo or I will get infused.....The twins graduate in 2012 and I just want to make it to there, so it isn't time yet.....only a couple of people will be told, my gf whose used to go with me, it is getting kinda hard on her so I won't be taking her anymore, my dil is dealing with a new baby and my son can't deal with it, soooo it is me and my cousin doing this alone...that part is what I miss having a husband/companion to go through this with me, but it will be ok, don't want the boys to know...

    RCG sorry your trip didn't turn out the way you wanted.....hope everyone is ok...love that you are talking to us from India, keep it up Raj.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2011

    (((((Sandy))))))))

    I am so sorry fo rall that is being heaped on you.  The bone scan is not a big deal.  You will get an iv and then you just need to lie still for awhile as the images are taken.  My Cancer Onc and his center never did a bone scan.  Only when I complained of back pain did my new onc decide she wanted some base lines.

    I will keep you in my prayers.

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Sandy we are all here for you!  You are going through so much.  I wish I lived closer so I could go with you.  Please vent here anytime.  We love you girlfriend!

  • deborye
    deborye Member Posts: 7,002
    edited March 2011

    Sandy~I wish I lived closer. Please release your frustrations, we are listening.

    My best friend from high school seems to be attracted to abuse men.  She had to drop off FB for a while, he didn't like her on it, I guess he was jealous.  I would like to rip him a new one.  I never met him, she is in such a crazy relationship. 

  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited March 2011
  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited March 2011

    thanks guys, you are the best and my support, feeling really alone here, my friend just called, she was with me though the last chemo but I see her face this time around when she asks questions and the answers aren't what she expects, she can only go the drs. at certain times so I am taking her out of the loop, her daughter is getting married in september and she really doesn't need to be involved in all this.  she is an only child and so am i so we try to be there for each other.....my kids I don't want them involved they really don't want to be involved and my daughters I don't want involved, they don't really like me anyway so don't want to be involved now....sounds strange I know but you know....thanks again...

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Sandy, have you talked to your friend about this?  She may really want to be ther for you but not know how to deal with all of this.

    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Good night all.

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited March 2011

    ((Sandy))  HUUUUUGS to my sister.♥

    You know we are here for you for eachother anytime.

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Good morning ladies!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2011
  • chrisct
    chrisct Member Posts: 2,662
    edited March 2011

    (((((((Sandy)))))))  ((((((((Deb's friend))))))))

    I think we have another one for Linda's tank!

    My eyes are burning from cutting up an onion for stew...  I'm such a baby.

    (((((((((Everyone))))))))))

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Onions kill my eyes.  I have to cut them fast or if I have to chop up alot, DH does it for me.  He eats them raw...YUCK!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2011

    Make a cone shaped cut into the root end and get the core out first.  It will help some with the tears.

    Sorry that'

    s as big of picture as I could find.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited March 2011
    Of course you could always buy a pair of these.
  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    LOL!! I will try that.  I had someone tell me that while she was at culinary school, she learned to cut onions in the walk in freezer.  The cold helps apparently.  I think I could use those onion goggles!

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited March 2011

    The goggles really do work.  I had a kitchen helper at the center who was highly allergic to them.  Her eyes would run and she would start getting a rash.  Actually had to leave the room while I cut them.  I got her the goggles and she cut all our onions from then on.  Actually enjoyed doing it.

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Really!!!  I need to get them.  I will have to google the goggles!

  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited March 2011

    Still waiting Linda?

  • chrisct
    chrisct Member Posts: 2,662
    edited March 2011

    LOL - onion goggles.  I'm too lazy to use onion goggles.  I'll just suffer and complain - my best thing. :)

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    No.  I got the all clear last night.  I hate drs.  I called my Onc on Monday to ask what the results are. Still haven't heard back from her.  Called the MRI dept and asked them where they sent the results to.  They said breast surgeon.  I called them and left a message and they did not call back.  I called them back again on Tuesday and yelled.  This time they did call back.  The MRI people told me 24-36 hours for the results.  I waited 6 days!  Yikes!  Thanks for asking.

  • chrisct
    chrisct Member Posts: 2,662
    edited March 2011

    Grrrr.  I hate inconsiderate doctors and staff!  I know they are busy, but the waiting drives patients crazy!  Glad you got the all clear!

  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited March 2011

    Thanks!  Off to guitar lessons and then a 7 pm soccer game.

  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited March 2011

    That is good news!  Congratulations!  But what insensitive idiots sometimes...

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited March 2011

    We will be needing a second tank soon.Laughing

  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited March 2011

    ((Linda's all clear)))♥

    I got an A at MH today.

    I'm really feeling weak and weird. I made an appointment with my DR tomorrow at 10:30 AM.

    I need to travel out of town.

    But somebody has to get the bottom of this. Its been over 10 days. I don't like to go to DR's except the ones they are scheduled appt.

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