The Brand New Respectful Presidential Campaign Thread
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Deb...basically grits are ground corn (a type of corn) but damn they are good with eggs, buttered toast and bacon!
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Deb its really just dried granulated cracked corn............and Susie is right with the cheese it's kinda like a grit casserole.......not for the faint of heart............hey Bren don't worry.........it's ok to like the Clintons........we ain't gona hold it against your honky backside..........ha...........Shokk
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Deb: Good to see another northern gal lol - although I am an adopted Maggie.
I have never had grits in my life. I like collard greens and watermelon is my favorite fruit. I love fried chicken, although since my husband does the cooking I never get to eat it.
My specialty is Italian Beef! A Chicago thing me thinks.
Nickster
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Can I put in my two cents? Right now, I do not prefer a particular candidate I like because none of them sound convincing enough. I am a registered Democrat who believes in the right to bear arms so I am a little of both I suppose. But basically a liberal with conservative leanings at times.
I am having trouble with believing that the American public is ready yet for a female president or one of color. It would wonderful to think they are. And seems that McLean is just throwing a poor pity me party about being a POW. Looks like he is OK now! I am not a racist or prejudiced or against veterans. I still remember when they still had signs on motels in Wildwood, NJ in the 60's no Jews or Blacks allowed. I have experienced prejudice first-hand in college when a classmate kept looking at the top of my head saying he didn't see any horns. He was serious and he was raised in Manhattan not Bohunk, Midwest USA under a rock! Let us not get into that discussion. You will not win with me on that score because my people have been oppressed for over 4000 years and still have people thinking Jews control the world money! I am not thowing a pity party here either but look at history. The Black Americans can only claim oppression since the 1400's and the Israelis are still fighting for freedom against the Arabs. But that is not what this is for in this thread. Just wanted to let you know where I am coming from. I also get diarrhea of the fingers at times.
I truly think that everyone has something in their background that they want to keep hidden and if you rattle their past enough it will shake loose. I am glad that there is not too much in the way of mud-slinging. I pray that whoever is elected, they take a look inward at their constituents and help those on American soil. The Social Security system needs an overhaul, FEMA sucks, the big industries are downsizing left and right and good people are losing their homes. For a simlpe hernia operation, patients are going into debt. And it is not just seniors who have to choose between food or meds.
Whether Bill Clinton was a good 'person' or not is irrelevant. When he left office, there was a huge surplus and the USA was out of debt. The country was working, as in employed. Within 3 months of Bush taking office they ate through the surplus and owed over 3 Trillion dollars again. Why? Nobody will take responsibility. I support our men and women who are fighting because I fear for their lives and what it will do to their families (We personally have two members of the family over there one is being deployed in October). I do not support the reason why we are there.
OK, my soapbox time is over. I will not be back but needed to get my feelings about the election off of my chest. When it comes time to vote, it is our right to cast a ballot for whomever we choose and I for one value that. I also value the fact it is personal and we do not have to share with anyone.
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Oh, and on the subject of food. Would like to let you know that eating corned beef on white bread with mayo is not acceptable. It ahs to be on rye with either mustard OR with russian dressign and cole slaw. And to those of you from New York, why do eat it warm? Yuck! BTW, california style corned beef is like being almost Jewish!
Cherryl, I learned all about grits (no cheese please, I am lactose intolerant), sausage gravy, fried okra and sweet tea when we went to the furniture markets twice a year in High Point in the Triad area in North Carolina. Shirley, never ate fatback but it sounds like a pork product. I don't keep Kosher and if you are from the Philly area, our specialties are scrapple, pork roll (sometimes referred to as Taylor's ham), pepper pot soup (you really don't want to know what is in that!), REAL cheese steaks, the hoagie, Tastykakes and shoo-fly pie from Amish country. Topped with Joe's Beer (as it was known at one time). Out in Lancaster, typical meal is fried chicken, pork roasts, chicken and dumplings, spaetzle and gravy, string beans with bacon and 3 bean salads.
Now I am hungry and I think I will have a bagel and Philly cream cheese!
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Beth...McClean is throwing a pity party about being a POW? His name is McCain...and he is not looking for sympathy over being a POW, I cannot believe someone would have so little respect to even say something like that and not even get his name correct. Do you even know who is running for president?
Bohunk USA, midwest under a rock? You have a lot of nerve lady!
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Never ever should have read back a few pages. Just wanted to share with you a story about me. I am 3rd generation American. I am Jewish. I am married to a man who is about 10th generation American and Methodist. When we met, he was surprised I ate pork and shellfish. Our family never kept Kosher and here is why:
My grandmother kept strict Kosher. Never mixed milk and meat, separate dishes for each, no shellfish or pork. When she went in the hospital to have my aunt (1926, a real modern woman my mommom was!) her MIL came in to take of my GF and completely messed up the kitchen and mixed up the dishes. After that my GM felt it was too much work to "re-Kosher" it all (meant burying all the dishes, pots, utensils etc. in the ground for 30 days...today you run them through sani-rinse in the dishwasher) so she gave it up. Then her MIL wouldn't eat at her house anymore! Talk about prejudice.
Here's another that happened to me:
I used to work as a CSR for a major bank. Many people in the dept. were black and I was the only Jew and one of 5 white people out of a total of 30. We were chatting in between calls and talking about in-laws (that goes beyond race issues and affects anyone in a solid relationship). I was complaining about the parking in my ex-in-laws' neighborhood and said they lived in Mt. Airy (which is a 99% black neighborhood in Philly). One of the guys looked me seriously and straight in the eye and asked if my in-laws were black. I said no but they couldn't afford to move. He just shook his head and apologized and I never to this day figured out why he apologized. My ex-in-laws are not nice people anyway and I feel bad for their neighbors!
I think 3 posts are my limit! But one more thing relating back to Shirley and Amy's tete-a-tete. None of us know where or how we grew up. Some may have been better off than others. Some had parents who lost jobs or never earned enough to feed the family well and thought to be uneducated. Some had what might be considered to be too much and are thought to be spoiled and lazy! What it all boils down to is that the majority of "Americans" came from somewhere else. Because wherever their forebears were from was not where they wanted to raise their children. So they came here, over many generations and still today. It is up to each individual to make their own way of life.
I still stand behind a quote I heard many years ago (and I am paraphrasing): I may not agree with what you say but I will fight to death for your right to say it!
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Paulette, I am not a Republican and I made a mistake about his name. Yes, I do know who is running. Just watched Die Hard again with ds last night. Call it being in a benedryl haze this morning. I apologize for over-generalizing about the POW. But every commercial I see he talks about being a POW. The Vietnam war touched all of us in one way or another and anyone in any war should be applauded. I do know who is running but I seriously don't pay any attention to the GOP side because I can't do anything about since I am registered Dem. When it gets down to it, it is up to the delegates at the convention who will pick the candidates.
And I am not putting down the midwest either. But I was trying to make a point about in 1977 someone still was being brought up thinking Jews have horns! The majority of Jews live on both coasts, that is a true statistic.My brother, in 1987, went to school at Amherst where one classamate from Iowa made a comment when she saw matza at Passover time in the cafeteria had no idea what it was saying she never met a Jew before. So that is where I am coming from. I was trying to make a comparison that Manhattan is more cosmopolitan than a small town in the midwest. I was not attacking and don't pick apart what I am saying! Out of context it means nothing but you sure picked up on it.
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I never had grits until I moved here to KY. My dh's restaurant serves them and I decided to try them and they are really good. I put cream and sugar on mine. Another thing I like that I had here is biscuits and gravy, yum.
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Shirley- you have passed judgment on Reverend Wright, based on a 20 second snippet of his 30 year career. You are one of the most judgmental people on here. I never said that you were worse than a skinhead, what I said is the type of racial bias like yours, that is covert and sometimes not even known to the individual can be worse than the type of racism from a skin head, because that type racism is so overt and in your face you can't miss it. Covert bias can easily be given an excuses like-- I'm not prejudice against muslims, I just wouldn't sit next to them on an airplane. I'm not prejudice against blacks, I just wouldn't want my child marrying one of them. Again, your concrete thinking goes isn't seeing the nuances of the discussion.
I understood the point you were making about your mother Shirley-- any I also understood that you haven't had any slaves so why should you understand why some people might have more trouble moving on than others. Again, I'm sorry you had a bad childhood and your mother, like other poor whites and blacks had to work in that generation. My grandmother and her 3 siblings were very fortunate in that they all went to college in the early 1900s because my great grandfather had a store-- he had a store before they build a catholic church and the priest told the parishoners not to patronize Jewish businesses and to go to a neighboring town to patronize christian businesses. Still, they were lucky because they had many more opportunities than they would have had they been segregated because they were black or put in concentration camps if they lived in Germany. Guess what, I had a sucky childhood too-- molested, raped, beaten, and told I was stupid and worthless. I was tied up and tortured, but never use it as an excuse or expect that others should feel sorry for me or be able to overcome their childhoods just because I did. I got my education and moved away and put myself through a a master and doctoral program, got a ton of therapy so that I could become the type of person I respected and I never looked back. I never used it as an excuse-- not once.
Shirley-- you are ignorant if you thought I meant that having a cultural identity means no one else can partake and enjoy in such foods or activities. I think you're purposely finding reasons to be angry and take things personally, unless this is just how you are offline as well. I never said I couldn't be sarcastic-- I know I can be. I often feel like I'm talking to an 8 year old when trying to discuss things with you-- like you hold your hands over your ears and say, "i can't hear you...."
I'm surprised anyone would say McCain is throwing a pity party about being a POW. I don't like most of his politics, but I have to admire and respect anyone who could survive 5 years of that. I don't think that experience says one thing about the type of president he might or might not be-- but it does show he had more endurance than the energizer bunny back then. After 40 years and being 72-- who knows now.
I want a president who is a good, honest person-- because I do not agree with this do as I say, not as I do crap, or the lies whether about getting a blow job from an intern or authorizing torture are still lies. They said, when Clinton lied no one died and that's true, but as president you have to set the example, not elude law because it wasn't a matter of national security.
Did anyone see the new documents that prove Bush not only authorized tortune-- but mandated it. I'llpost the article in my next thread.
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When I went to Danville VA to meet my stepfather's family when I was 3 - they said to my mom and dad..unknowingly..
"I ain't ever seen a Jew before"
And my mom pushed me forward and said...
"Here's one...do you see her horns?"
LOL
I agree that no one knows where anyone else has walked and I find it unbelievable that people here are talking about others in the 3rd person as if they don't exist...if you want to berate someone..at least do it to them and not about them as if they are not reading...
This thread is not respectful in my opinion..but oh well..that of course is just my opinion
Love Marisa
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Disclosure Of Torture Memo Fails To Grab Traditional Media's Attention
Jason Linkins
The Huffington Post
What if they disclosed a torture memo and nobody cared? This week, an 81-page memo, authored by John C. Yoo, who was a deputy in the Office of Legal Counsel at the Department of Justice at the time of its creation, was declassified and made public. The memo, which, among other things, was used as the rationale for authorizing the torture of government detainees, has long been held to be a savage reimagining of the structure of the Executive Branch and its authority, hostile to the traditional checks and balances that circumscribe the President's authority. And that's stating the matter diplomatically. A less kind observer might conclude that the memo was a legal abomination which tortures the accepted body of Constitutional law along the way to glibly authorizing a Grand Guignol of authoritarian power that our nation's founders would find abhorrent. With these high stakes as the prologue, you'd have to imagine that the disclosure of the memo would be of pre-eminent importance to the media.
You'd be wrong. The extent to which this story, the questions it raises, and the impact it has on our lives failed to resonate in the sphere of the traditional media is distressing and disturbing. Non-traditional media did much better, but the fact that this matter did not acquire a portion of the mass-media megaphone makes one worry that by this time next week the matter will be forgotten. But in many quarters of the Fourth Estate, the waters of Lethe are already being poured.
On cable news, mentions of the memo's declassifications were few, brief, and undetailed. CNN's Headline News noted that the story was "one of the most popular stories at cnn.com," but apparently, that's not enough to warrant a lengthier report. MSNBC featured a brief mention on Morning Joe, and a near-noontime mention that was three sentences long and followed by a lengthy report on the hospitalization of an American Idol performer.
Only Fox News took the matter to the level of discussion, but even then, the report was largely short-sighted and full of equivocations and unsubstantiated claims. The major takeaway was that the memo noted that "constitutional protections do not apply to foreign prisoners being held outside the United States" and that interrogation "becomes torture when severe pain and suffering cause permanent or irreversible damage...death, organ failure, or the permanent impairment of a significant bodily function." (As you'll see below, the full ramifications of the memo were far more vast.)
Later in the day, Fox added, "Numerous presidents have ordered the capture and questioning of enemy combatants during virtually every major conflict in the nation's history. Recognizing this authority, congress has never attempted to restrain or interfere with the president's authority on this score." This sort of implies that if an action was taken in the past, it imbues a "rightness."
Along the way, Fox salted the coverage with equivocations. "A number of major Republicans and Democrats said this is a terrible mistake." None were named, and the wisdom of their position was unexplored. "Some constitutional scholars say the 81-page legal opinion must be placed in historical context...[it should be viewed as] a period piece." That's a classic "some say" assertion that again suggests that "history" trumps a moral foundation or factual evidence that indicates torture is ineffective. Finally, Fox lets Kit Bond have the last word, and it's a stupefyingly inane one: "Some are more interested in recycling old news and scoring political points with the ACLU."
Print coverage was more detailed but, at times, equally frustrating. The Associated Press led with a bland, but detailed story that stressed the memo's rationalizations on "harsh tactics." But while a later AP story on the declassification includes the ACLU opinion ("The recent disclosures underscore the Bush administration's extraordinarily sweeping conception of executive power.") but frustratingly limited its focus to warrantless surveillance, not torture.
The Washington Post gave the declassification A1 treatment, and featured quotes from several critics, but does very little to advance the critical argument: there's no lengthy analysis of the legal underpinnings of the anti-Yoo side of the matter, just strenuous objection. On the other hand, Yoo is allowed to contend, with no scrutiny, "Far from inventing some novel interpretation of the Constitution...our legal advice to the President, in fact, was near boilerplate."
For solid pushback, WaPo customers needed to seek out Dan Froomkin, who devoted the bulk of his White House Watch column to the matter, and provided plenty of legal analysis from critics. And Froomkin absolutely got it right:Yoo's memo is a historic document. It is the ultimate expression of Cheney's belief that anything the president or his designates do -- no matter how illegal, barbaric or un-American -- is justifiable in the name of national self-defense.
It is also an example of how enabling zealots to disregard the rule of law and the customary boundaries of human conduct leads to madness.
Outside of Froomkin, the best pushback from WaPo came from a participant in Dana Milbank's chat:The (sadly) funny part of the Yoo memo is that it purports to uncover an exception to anti-torture treaties if you are torturing the prisoner in order to extract information about pending attacks. That is actually the exact reason for these agreements. It is like arguing that speed limits do not apply if you are in a hurry.
Two days after the release of the document, this represents the sum total of WaPo talent deployed to opine on this matter. Compared to the New York Times however, the Post has contributed volumes. Mark Mazzetti's April 2nd piece is more or less the equivalent of the Post's aforementioned A1 piece, and it was followed up today with a well-written, probing article. But the topic hasn't seemed to capture the imagination of any of the Times' editorial columnists (this is perhaps for the best, as Wednesday was Maureen Dowd's day and I hardly think anyone really wants to see her wheedle and deedle her way through the topic). Perhaps more gallingly, the Times website actually has a topic page related to Yoo that does not include today's article on the subject. By contrast, the blogosphere treated the matter with the concern that was warranted, and provided much more substantive analysis. As you might expect, Glenn Greenwald at Salon gives the matter lengthy attention and arrives at some important conclusions:
John Yoo's Memorandum, as intended, directly led to -- caused -- a whole series of war crimes at both Guantanamo and in Iraq. The reason such a relatively low-level DOJ official was able to issue such influential and extraordinary opinions was because he was working directly with, and at the behest of, the two most important legal officials in the administration: George Bush's White House counsel, Alberto Gonzales, and Dick Cheney's counsel (and current Chief of Staff) David Addington. Together, they deliberately created and authorized a regime of torture and other brutal interrogation methods that are, by all measures, very serious war crimes...
This incident provides yet more proof of how rancid and corrupt is the premise that as long as political appointees at the DOJ approve of certain conduct, then that conduct must be shielded from criminal prosecution. That's the premise that is being applied over and over to remove government lawbreaking from the reach of the law.
Remember how simple and glib the takeaway on Fox News was? Where the memo was said to limit the lifting on Constitutional protections to "foreign prisoners" and stressed a facile definition of what constituted torture? Contrast that with the fuller conclusion reached by Kevin Drum:Basically, the president can authorize any action at all as commander-in-chief in wartime. Congress can't bind him, treaties can't bind him, and the courts can't bind him. The scope of power the memos suggest is, almost literally, absolute. And since this is a war without end, the grant of power is also without end.
Marty Lederman, at Balkinization, hints that the disclosure of the Yoo memo may only be the tip of the iceberg - a fact that the traditional media missed:The memo cites numerous other, as-yet-unreleased memos that appear to contain equally outrageous legal analysis....Those memos should be released immediately. More importantly, I think Congress should strongly consider NOT CONSIDERING ANY ADMINISTRATION LEGISLATIVE PROPOSALS UNTIL ALL OF THE MEMOS HAVE BEEN DISCLOSED AND (APPROPRIATELY) REPUDIATED BY THE DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE. There is simply no excuse for Congress to have allowed itself to be manipulated like this, and to be kept in the dark about the extent to which the Administration has ignored legislative statutes and treaties. They must use some of the leverage at their disposal.
See also: 1115.org, Emily Bazelon at Slate, Marcy Wheeler at Firedoglake, Yglesias at The Atlantic. Additionally, take note of this item, posted last night on Unfogged: "I ignore news I'd rather just go away as well, but it's still funny that there's not a single mention of John Yoo either on Insty, or Powerline, or Hewitt." Funny, but not surprising.
It should be noted that there are print organs treating this matter with the attention it deserves. I'd point out Esquire, which provides Yoo a forum to respond to this week's news, and Harper's Scott Horton, who asserts, "these memoranda have been crafted not as an after-the-fact defense to criminal charges, but rather as a roadmap to committing crimes and getting away with it."
But if you want a sense of the very real urgency the disclosure of these memos warrant - how this affects our day-to-day lives, we return to Greenwald:While Yoo's specific Torture Memos were ultimately rescinded by subsequent DOJ officials -- primarily Jack Goldsmith -- the underlying theories of omnipotent executive power remain largely in place. The administration continues to embrace precisely these same theories to assert that it has the power to violate a whole array of laws -- from our nation's spying and surveillance statutes to countless Congressional oversight requirements -- and to detain even U.S. citizens, detained on American soil, as "enemy combatants." So for all of the dramatic outrage that this Yoo memo will generate for a day or so, the general framework on which it rests, despite being weakened by the Supreme Court in Hamdan, is the one under which we continue to live, without much protest or objection.
This is a terribly critical point to note. The rationale put forth by Yoo, which the Bush administration cleaved to with full-force, is an ongoing rationale. This story is well on its way to fading from the sight of the traditional media, but its larger ramifications will continue to loom and continue to affect our lives. Just as the media has abandoned a larger inquiry into the faulty strategic underpinnings that sent us into the Iraq War, a blind eye is steadily being turned to the lack of moral underpinnings that form the Bush administration's vision of executive power. We cannot let this happen. Attention must be paid. -
OMG - Marissa ... Danville is down the road from me. My neighbors are upset cause I'm a Yankee, livin' in sin and won't become a Baptist.
Geez Amy ... Bush authorizing and mandating torture isn't new news.
My hope is that I will finally after 8 long years be able to listen, watch or read the words of my American president.
Bren
Also, what I do know about our childhoods, is that we sure don't know what goes on behind closed doors, regardless of race, religion or economic status (mine included).
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I know it's not news, Bren-- I just hope it's enough to get him tried as a war criminal after he leaves office-- but that's probably wishful thinking.
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Marissa, you're right, it's not respectful. Amy does not respect any opinion if it disagrees with hers. And she continually slams and berates others.
Amy said to Shirley: You are one of the most judgmental people on here. I never said that you were worse than a skinhead, what I said is the type of racial bias like yours, that is covert and sometimes not even known to the individual can be worse than the type of racism from a skin head, because that type racism is so overt and in your face you can't miss it.
You are calling HER judgmental. She is worse than a skinhead? Who is intolerant here? How are you being respectful? She is ignorant? My my.
My guess is that if there were no political, controversial or tv threads that you, Amy, would be outta here. It'd be nice to see you HELPING someone, making a friend, posting about BC, maybe help a newbie? Your political thread has turned out, again, not to be respectful since you don't tolerate others opinions very well. Can you help yourself to NOT jump in and attack. Other do not really CARE what you think of them or their opinions. I for one do not respect the way you come at others and blast them, especially for someone who is supposed to be trained in this stuff. (Here is some sarcasm: did you get your degree by mail order?) PLEASE PLEASE ( I am sure you will blast me back for this post but can't you just leave people alone and discuss?)
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HMMMMMMMMMM I Really like {{Shirley}}
not nice Amy!!!!!
Puppy
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OMG Bren - we haven't been there in years - they are CRAZY!!!!!
Always trying to give me "sugar" (kisses) lol
Memories.......
One idiot named his dog the N word..my mom was so horrified!
And they did call us Yankees..and my dad is a trader now because he's a Yankee!
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Okay, just to clear the air here. I do not call anyone an "oreo," or use the N word. I don't call my white friends "honky." I have heard all these words spoken by other people, whether in jest or to define a political point being made. I don't profess to know what it is like to be black, but I DO PROFESS TO LISTEN TO THE STORIES AND EXPERIENCES OF PEOPLE THAT ARE DIFFERENT FROM MYSELF AND NOT INVALIDATE THEM BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOT BEEN MY EXPERIENCES!!!
I did not ASSUME that Shirley hadn't read about other cultures or ethnic individuals. I was responding to her question--WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE ME DO? She had asked this many times throughout this thread and the debate thread. My ANSWER to her was to SUGGEST some books to read. Geesh, people, get a life!
I also find the direction of this thread very disrespectful. And I"m sure you'll tell me I'm just as disrespectful. Interesting, that rather than having a real honest discussion about race, it was reduced to a comical commentary on food choices. It seems that some in this thread have difficulty talking about race.
And Cheryl, rather than not giving a rat's ass about what you think, I actually do care what you think in terms of race and your experience. I can't help it if my friends in CALIFORNIA (yes, we are a state like no other--on our own island at times) define how some African American, Latina, Asian, Native American have "sold out." That is their term, not mine. And I certainly don't think that because a person of color wants and gets a good education, wants and gets a house in a good neighborhood, wants and gets the very best for their children is a "white" thing!! That's universal. You find that ALL OVER THE WORLD!
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RM- you're so sweet to offer me advice about posting. I know how much you care about me so it really means a lot coming from you since you're always so kind to me.
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Hi Grace,
I thought the little break of joking about food was a welcome relief for a little bit. I don't believe anyone on this thread takes the issue of race, our future commander in chief, poverty, education, etc., as comedic issues. Just a brief respite from the intensity.
Amy ... while your wording and comments are at times hurtful, I actually understood what you meant. I read your comment in context and took my emotion out of it. If I am correct, and if you had left the prior posters name out of it, the gist was unconscious imbedded beliefs that we are not aware of, versus in your face extremist.
I do not believe I had a racist bone in my body ... however, living in the area of the south that I do now, I am confronted with it on a daily basis. This is a generalization and certainly not true of all: Most of the Black people here don't like the White people and vice versa and neither of them like the Brown people. And none of them like the Yankees and Jews. Do not confuse what I'm saying. I am saying this is in this poor County of south central VA, which is apx a 60% Black /30% White /10% Brown community. My little area is White. Didn't know that when I bought my house. I just wanted the land and I could afford it. My neighbors still complain about the Brown people who used to live in the area, but have since left. We have a very poor economy here. It's just fine if you have a good job, working at the local hospital or community college or govt. service agencies. The main economy ... furniture factory business is gone. Tobacco, farming and cattle are also gone. Travel an hour in any direction and you have a whole different picture.
I guess my point is our various views of race are based on our personal experience, and while I may not see myself as racist in any way, shape or form, someone else might perceive that I am based on the way I write, my lack of education in expressing myself, where I live in the country or my political views.
The other thing I truly believe since living in this part of the south for the last couple of years is that what may possibly be defined as a race issue, appears to be a cultural and economic issue is this area. I may be naive. But that's my take on this little part of VA.
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I think you express yourself well, Bin. You understood exactly what I was saying. In your post when citing the percentages you are taking the given that we know you realize not every single person in those percentages fits into that and there will always be exceptions to the rule.
I know that I have some bias in me, I think that most people do without realizing both positive and negative. When I meet an asian, I usually assume she's bright and hardworking, based both on personal experience and stereotype. In that case, I don't believe it hurts anyone unless it sets up unrealistic expectations for success. I also know this is a bias. When I know someone is gay, I feel a kinship-- even if I normally wouldn't even like the person-- etc.
My first experience with seeing racism first hand was when I was 20 and I drove down to Atlanta with a friend for spring break to visit her BF. When we were picking him up from work there was a preschool next door and the kids, parents and teachers were picketing-- I can't remember why but it was something about racial equality. This older gentleman who looked just like the Colonel Sanders from KFC looked over at us and said, "Lincoln should have never freed the slaves." My eyes almost bugged out of my head because this was the kind of thing I'd seen on tv, not in real life.
On our way our of town to go home we were at a stop light and bumped into the KKK who were handing out brochures. I didn't even know they still existed so I took a brochure just to have something to take back to my friends and classmates from hicksville for proof.To say I was appalled was an understatement.
When I moved to Philly later that year & first started working in my career, I had an assistant who was somewhat lazy and not punctual. I was glad when she left and when someone called about giving her a reference I told the caller that she wasn't timely and when asked if she was ambitious I said no. I didn't realize I wasn't supposed to give references that were negative and to just give the dates of employment-- I was excited because it was my first time to be called for a reference and I was only 21 or22. Next thing you know there's a threat to sue me and the company for racial discrimination. What made me mad was that I never even knew she was biracial-- I had assumed she was white so even if I was discriminating against her-- it couldn't have been racial LOL. I was really,really mad for a few months afterwards- because I had no idea such a thing could happen and every time I heard about racial discrimination in the work I assumed it was a similar situation-- until I learned more about the glass ceiling and the history of discrimination against blacks. Then I was even madder at the exemployee,because what she did was a slap in the face to people who endured such discrimination.
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Actually, Amy, I wish you an extremely healthy future, no bc and wish you didn't have fibromyalgia. One could see that I only get upset with what you say to others and to me, not your political views. If everyone's views are to be accepted then calling various posters "rigid," "judgmental," and acting like you are the only one who can see the Emperor has no clothes on .... well, that is not playing nice. Differing views make this country up ... we are not pasteurized and homogenized.
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See RM, I have the same thoughts about you-- I knew we had something in common.
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Amy - Your experience is the point I was trying to make. We, as indviduals, do not know what others experiences are. We have not lived their lives or experienced their history. As a White person coming from where I did, I had not experienced the culture I now live in, just as I had not experienced the religious prejudice while living in Utah. I love the Commonwealth of Virginia and I'm blessed to have been able to live in many different areas of the U.S.
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"Who defines what "black culture" is - well meaing empathic white people like you?" from Cheryl.
Certainly not. I have not anywhere in this thread tried or implied that i was or did plan to define black culture. Not my area of expertise.
And too all in general: I just want to say that I agree with Brenda, that we all have different experiences, that come from where we live or what we have learned, or who we have listened to. It doesn't mean that those experiences are false, or if they didn't happen to me or you, that they are untrue.
For years this country has fed their children a one-sided view of our history of this country. It's time we learned that there's more than one perspective in our history. The United States history is not all good, there's some nasty stuff we have done in there. We need to know about that. We need to understand that. And once we look and learn about others it's a mite bit easier (although never pleasant) to be yelled at on the street by someone who doesn't look like us--like Brenda's encounter with the guy in the parking lot. That kind of anger doesn't come from nothing, it comes from our history and it comes from walking on the backs of others to move ourselves up to the top of the heap.
By the way, on another thread a comment was made that the "other" thread looked like it was going to fall apart. LOL
If they mean this thread, I don't think so. We still have lots to talk about. When I look back and read what has been written, much of what each of us is saying is the same idea, just said differently. I think we can return to being respectful and accepting of each others' opinions. It doesn't mean anyone is more right or more wrong. It doesn't mean that we can't have a little humor also--I did get that from the thread, Brenda! LOL
So, can we continue on with the plan that we will comment only on issues and not make personal remarks about the poster or attack the opinions as not valid. We can learn from each other, which is what I have wanted to do all along.
Now, did anyone catch Brian Williams interview w/Hillary at the MLK assassination site? He asked her if the conversation about race would be better if it was a black man or her leading. She answered that the conversation needed to be ongoing, and not to ever stop. She then added that we needed to talk about gender and religion, and all the other ways people are discriminated against. [I"m not quoting here, just summarizing the last part of sentence.] What do you all think?
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Since it is out in the open I believe all three of them could handle it...of course, here again it will come from three different perspectives.
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As I had said earlier, we live in a country that allows us to speak our minds without recrimination. And I stand by the other comment, I may not agree with you but will defend your right to say it.
I know this may be trite, but in "Stripes", Bill Murray says (paraphrasing here) that our ancestors were kicked out of every country and came here. Our past and heritage shapes us but does not necessarily define us. I understand firsthand about the South and dealt with several companies there. The male managers didn't like me because I was a Yankee, a woman and a Jew. Triple threat.
Bren, by virue of living in different parts of our country you can see so many differences in how race is handled. Racial and religious discrimnation still exist and they will NEVER go away. I still have to explain being Jewish refers to religion, not a race.
Amy, how could you not know the KKK still existed? They started in New Jersey, not the South, and being in college I cannot believe that you didn't realize the prejudice still going on. They and the skinheads aren't going anytime soon either.
And why do we have to define a "black" experience? Do we define a Korean or Middle Eastern or Russian experience? We are the original melting pot. Remember Miss Lazerus (sp?) on the Statue of Liberty accepting the "wretched refuse" on our shores? What about what we as a nation, did to the American Indian? How do we answer for that? It was genocide pure and simple.
History has a bad habit of repeating itself. I have read where some theorized that today's society is resembling ancient Rome. And you see what happened to them.
As far as Clinton, Obama and McCain (got it right Paulette) handling discrimination, I would have to agree with you that each plan would be very different because they are different. One thing I have learned while growing up was tolerance of other people. Turning the other cheek tends to get the other one slapped but always worth a try. All three of them are well-educated and have empathy in their own ways. It remains to be seen what they would do and nobody has a crystal ball to see it. You (the general "you") never really know how you will react face-to-face with extreme prejudice.
I still say, the biggest problems we have are unemployment, insurance, social security and the elderly. Race relations are an ongoing dilemna. Let them come up with a viable answer to the four issues I pose here. That hits everyone, regardless of race, creed, familial status or gender.
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I believe that each person can define their own experience, and that they would have to label it by whatever definition they chose--be it white, black, russian, jew, etc. And each one would be different.
One thing I learned from several of my African American colleagues, was that they did not celebrate the 4th of July holiday. The reason was (in their opinion) that African Americans were not treated equally in this country, and until all groups were treated equally in this country, it is hard to celebrate "independence." Some individuals don't experience independence in the same way we others do.
And while unemployment, social security, health insurance, and the elderly are some of the biggest problems we have in this country, I would also add Bush's WAR which is disapproved by over 2/3rds of Americans in this country. And if they come up with a viable answer to all these issues, what makes us think that these will be solved for everyone equitably, regardless of race, creed, gender, age, religion, disability? They would have to be three mighty spectacular plans to choose from that--and to be spectacular and worth putting in place--they would have to include answers that provide equitable treatment to each and every group.
And here's part of an essay from Tim Wise on the "Myth of Reverse Racism." The full text of his article can be found at TIMWISE.ORG
Enjoy!
In other words, if voting for a white person because of their race is racism, then so too must be voting for a black person because of theirs. So see, those black Obama boosters are every bit as racist as we are, maybe more so, because they're breaking his way by about eighty-five percent, while whites are splitting between Obama and Clinton by about fifty-fifty. So if anything, the e-mailer said, it was blacks who were more racist and whites whose voting behavior portended open-mindedness. And now that Obama has won the Mississippi primary, almost entirely due to the votes of blacks--and among those who said race mattered, nine in ten voted for him--this refrain will only become more prevalent, one supposes.
Such an argument--which is really the political equivalent of "Why can't we have white history month, I mean, we have black history month?"--suggests how far we have to go in this nation simply to have a productive dialogue about race, let alone to really conquer racism.
Simply put, there are any number of reasons why whites voting for a white candidate because of race is altogether different than blacks voting for a black candidate because of the same. For African American voters, voting for Barack Obama--a man of color who actually stands a chance of winning the Presidency--is an opportunity to participate in a major historic moment. The pride and excitement caused by such a possibility (even for black folks who might not agree with all of his positions, and who might wish he spoke more about issues like racism and discrimination) is completely understandable and to be expected. Just as millions of women as women are understandably excited about the possibility of a Hillary Clinton Presidency--because it would be a history-making first and a real breakthrough in terms of gender (at least symbolically)--and just as many Catholics were likely inspired to vote for JFK because of a shared religious background, so too are many people of color likely to hop on board the Obama train as a way to make a statement. So if black folks say race was important to their vote, and they voted for Obama, it is this sense of achievement, and "firstness" that likely animates them. That, and of course the fact that they really do believe him to be the best person for the job.
Or if not the historicity of the moment, then perhaps black voters casting their ballots for Obama, and saying that race matters to their decision, were animated by a desire to elect someone who, because of his own identity, might better relate to their daily struggles. It would be nice, one imagines, to have a President who could understand because of some of his own life experiences, what it means to be a person of color in America. In that sense, identity and the experiences that such an identity likely gives a person, become bona fide qualifications and credentials in the eyes of persons sharing that identity.
But one thing we can almost guarantee is not among the reasons why a black voter might say race matters to their vote, and then vote for the black candidate, is deep-seated anti-white bias. After all, black folks have been voting for white people for years. They have voted for white Presidential candidates, white Governors, and white Congressional candidates time and time again, seeing as how they are often given very little in the way of a choice. So it's not like black folks refuse to vote for white people. Indeed, the kind of black person whose anti-white biases were that deeply rooted, would probably be the kind of person for whom Obama would be unacceptable too (given his biracial ancestry, generally moderate positions, and fairly bland approach to addressing racial concerns), and who wouldn't vote for him, in spite of a shared skin color. In other words, we can rest assured that when blacks vote for Obama, after saying that race mattered to their vote, they were casting a ballot for the black man, not against the white woman per se.
On the other hand, for a white voter to say race matters to their vote, and then to vote for the white candidate and against the person of color, is almost by definition about something else. It certainly can't be due to excitement at the prospect of electing the first white President, or breaking with tradition, since we've had forty-three white guys in a row. And it's not likely to be about the desire to vote for someone who can relate to their "struggles" as white people. After all, although there are millions of white people in the U.S. who are struggling to make ends meet, none of them are in that position because of their race, but rather in spite of it. So the "white struggle" as such simply doesn't exist. The class struggle is real--and if a white, working-class candidate stood a chance of winning the Presidency lots of white working class folks would turn out for him or her because of that shared experience, and understandably so--but it is simply silly to think that whites would vote for Hillary Clinton, after saying race mattered to their vote, because they think she will be more understanding about their plight as white people.
What this leaves us is the very real likelihood that when whites say race mattered to their vote, and they voted for the white candidate over the candidate of color, the vote so cast was largely an anti-black vote. It wasn't cast for the white person out of some form of in-group bonding so much as it was cast against the man of color, as an act of out-group rejection. And given the way in which the Clinton campaign has made Obama's presumed inexperience and "lack of qualifications" the big issue in the primaries--and given how the "qualifications" trope plays so neatly into longstanding white biases about black ability and competence--it is hard to imagine any non-racist reason for someone to say "race matters" to their vote and then to cast it for Clinton.
In the end it really is as simple as this: for persons belonging to groups that have been consistently subordinated to view the world through the lens of their group status is both predictable and rational. It would be hard, indeed, not to do so. One's identity as a subordinated group member shapes one's experiences to such an extent that it will naturally come to inform how one views the world, and how one operates within it. This has been true for all subordinated groups. Even those groups whose institutional subordination has largely ended in the U.S. (like Italian or Irish Americans, or Jews) often see the society through the frame of their particular ethnic experience--and certainly did so in generations past. So naturally, for persons of color whose subordination has continued to be institutionalized, engaging in acts of racial bonding makes sense. Voting for Obama may be one such act, for at least some black voters.
But for members of groups that have not been subordinated to "think with their skin" or their racial identity is quite a bit different, and more problematic. For dominant group members to engage in racial bonding only makes sense as a way to maintain dominance. It can't be about "getting a piece of the pie," since such persons already have access to it, and pieces galore; rather, it has to be about preventing others from getting theirs, from taking parts of the pie to which the dominant group had come to feel entitled. It is not to seek a place at the table, but to seek to secure the table you already have from the intrusion of others. White bonding, in other words, amounts to racism because it is redundant: it amounts to having those who are already largely in control, secure that control in perpetuity. It results in the maintenance of racial inequity, unequal opportunity and massive disparities in access and life chances. Black and brown bonding, on the other hand, is about gaining access, securing a spot, and collectively lifting up members of subordinated communities to a place where they can compete as equals with those who have always been in charge. There is nothing supremacist or racist about that at all, unless one presumes that--as Jesse Jackson and others have long said--there is no fundamental difference between a "Welcome" mat and a "No Trespassing" sign.
But there is a difference, in both practical and ethical terms. Those black voters (and for that matter non-black voters) who vote for Obama because of his race are striving for the welcome mat, however naive they may be in thinking that his victory would really open the door all that widely for others. Those white voters who vote for Clinton because of hers, on the other hand, are quite clearly continuing to hang the "No Blacks Need Apply" sign from their electoral window. And if we can't see the distinction between those two things, it becomes hard to imagine how we will ever conquer the larger racial inequities that continue to plague us as a nation. How indeed. -
One thing I would like the politicians to address is the gas problem. No viable solutions seem to be out there. It costs too much to buy a new car (hybrid) and I don't see any corn based fueling stations in my neighborhood!! And I've read that if the farmers only start producing corn crops, the price of corn will go way up (which has already started).
The government has put it's nose into the auto industry (thanks to them we have Federal Monroney stickers, caps on interest rate charges); they've stuck their nose into baseball, steroid usage, banking, etc .... I am all for free enterprise but our economy runs on fuel! It takes fuel to: travel, get our products from here to there, commute, operate machinery. We live in a fuel driven economy and it's time the government regulated the price just like they regulate the price of insurance and airfare!!!!!!!!!!!
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Can anyone explain or point me to a website that explains the three candidates health care plan? I saw an interview with Elizabeth Edwards that she and her husband are in favor of Clinton's plan and gave rumor to the fact that she had words with Obama regarding his and told McCain he would not qualify for his own plan because of his prior health problems. There are many issues out there right now, but this is a big one for me. Our bc sisters in Canada often reference their health care system in the negative so I want to make sure I understand who is for what.
Diane
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