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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    HAHAHAHAH AE XXXXX

    Comrades .... one for me one for you UB xxx

    Hey I got a glass of water in front of me...I just have difficulty drinking fluid since start of treatment ESPECIALLY water ..blerghhh..so.... I have 2 big cartons of smoothie in the fridge...is this still constituted as fluid... I need to drink I am aware...but I need to drink a ton ...blerghh

    Smoothie  .... is this ok xxx

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited March 2008

    Okay, Karen, you can't eat fish because it ALL has mercury, only once a week.  Said by me, who doesn't really like fish very much.  Sardines in mustard, Walt LOVES.

    Lemon curd is God's best thing.  I swear, you can get it here at Pier one or on the net.  When we were at Herrod's, I fell in love with the baked meringue.  So we bought about six, packed them, got home with crumbs.  HAHAHA   But now, at our Trader Joe's, you can get them.  Anyway, you take a meringue baked crust, add lemon curd, then REAL whipped cream, not that crap we have in the can, and put any berries all over it and, and, I am drowning in saliva!!...ahhhhhh

    AND it is IMPOSSIBLE to get real english marmalade here.  I have even tried the ones that they swear are MADE in England, and they have too much sugar, no bite.  Next time I am in England I will eat scones, (they are not the same here), clotted cream, lemon curd pies and all the marmalade I can hold.  Makes me hungry just thinking about it.

    Yes, I think cursor, toothpick, pencil, whatever, it just disppears, but I have a new, cordless mouse, just to lazy to install it.

    I love you all, I love the food ideas.  Yummmy, yummy,

    Hugs to all, Shirlann   

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    Lisa ...I still got freaking ...

      

                         

              BOOTFACE tx to go   

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    Shirlann MUM XXX

    I LOVE LEMON MERIGUE PIE ...OH MY ...I AM DROOLING...!!!!!!

  • geebung
    geebung Member Posts: 1,851
    edited March 2008

    Congratulations on the good bone scan results Lisa and so glad you got some reassurance. Great idea to try Effexor - I have heard good things about it.

    (((((Sue))))) - sending you hugs and loving thoughts. Each tx means one less - I am counting down with you. I can't wait for you to be finished with this stinking bootface. 

    Yes Lisa, I will have internet in the mountains but it will be some time before I move there. 

    Am rushing because I slept in. Love to everyone. 

    Jane. oxox 

  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited March 2008

    Hi SueSmile! Sue! After tomorrows tx , you will be down to one hand!!!!!!!!

    Its gonna go fast after that. Drink a big glass of water , then have alot of tea , then some water maybe alternate it. I don't know what else will work. I drank crystal-lite iced tea and hawaian punch. I know it is so hard to drink that much water feeling the way you do.xx

    How bad was the storm last night Sue? Glad you still have power. And when you are done with the "fine young lads" that Lisa sent you , clean them up and send them my way!Cool!lolxxxx

    Lisa , congrats on the bone scans! Come on girl , get out of that funk! Your future is as bright and beautiful as you. The only thing you are lacking , is a warm sunny spring day. And it is coming soon!

    xxxx

    Oh Jane , I think you guys got it! I will still say a little prayer. It sounds fabulous. Make sure you take pics to share with us. xxxx

    Hi to all my sisters. I must go make dinner.bbl Melody

  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited March 2008

    Jane , does it look anything like this?

  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited March 2008

    Lisa , what is the doseage of the effexor your doc gave you?

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited March 2008
     

    Yes, Sue, try some flavored water.  I used Crystal light, raspberry flavored tea in my water.  Like Mel said...after tomorrow...we are down to one hand!! So...did you like the road to HAPPY?? I think we all need that...me especially! I know Mel...I do need to be shaken right out of my funk!! I hope the Eflixer helps.  I pick it up tomorrow.  I tried to get it today...one capsule, but my insurance would not cover it.  So the pharmacist needs to get the ok from my oc to change it to a tablet, 2 times a day..then the insurance will cover it. Grrrrrrrrrr...always something.  Now I have to remember to take pills twice a day..oh my!! I just need some help with the moods.

    So Mel...you like the nice fire fighters I sent to Sue?? haha...she could send them over dirty....and YOU could clean them up! haha...shame on me....this is a first, cause I have zero sex drive!

    AE, I love that Sue and UB are our warriors!!

    Jane....I am sad, every time we are on here...you are rushing off or sleeping.Cry

    Where is our Lucy and Ulla?? I know what Lucy is up too...haha!  Lucky girl!

    Well...my tuna casserole just came out of the oven.  Olivia will be home soon...and then she is going to color my hair again.  This time....dark blond!! yeah....a blond again!!

    bbl

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited March 2008

    haha...I don't even have the name of it correct.  Not sure of the dosage.  I'll know tomorrow..but she did mention that it would be low.  What are the side effects of it??

  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited March 2008

    Hi Lisa. My doseage is the lowest possible. 25mg.. I take one in the morning. But he said I could take one at night also , cause I am getting hf again. I haven't noticed any se's. You will of course get a list of them with your script. I asked my onc about my itching when I have a hotflash , I guess its part of menopause. I wonder why it makes you itch? Does anyone know? I know after I miscarried I itched and my gyn said it was hormonal. Strange...

  • Shirlann
    Shirlann Member Posts: 3,302
    edited March 2008

    Hi beloved sisters, no, there should be no side effects from Effexor, EXCEPT, if you want to stop, you have to get off them verrry slooowly, AND, most anti-deps take 2 to 6 weeks to work.  You will just not notice anything dramatic, all of sudden you will hear yourself hum.  I mean it, it is that quiet.

    Lisa, CONGRATULATIONS on the bone scan, mine showed all my broken bones and a lot of arthritis.  Otherwise, nothing.

    Sue, peaches, only ONE HAND, that you can do.  Almost done, almost done, almost done.  The days do go by.

    Love, love, love you all, Shirlann (Cybermum)

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited March 2008

    Hi ladies!  I haven't read all the posts I need to catch up on, but I will in a sec.  Here's a funny I wanted to share with those of you who haven't seen it yet.

    MYSTERIOUS WATER LEAK PROBLEM

    Jennifer and Jim kept getting huge water bills. They knew beyond a doubt that the bills weren't representative of their actual usage, and no matter how they tried to conserve, the high bills continued.Although they could see nothing wrong, they had everything checked for leaks or problems: first the water meter, then outdoor pipes, indoor pipes underground pipes, faucets, toilets, washer, ice maker, etc. -- all to no avail.

    One day Jim was sick and stayed home in bed, but kept hearing water running downstairs.He finally tore himself from his sick bed to investigate, and stumbled onto the cause of such high water bills. Apparently this was happening all day long when they were not at home. Knowing that few would believe him, he taped a segment of the 'problem' for posterity -- see video:Turn up sound and click on: http://summitprops.com/WaterLeak.htm   

    Hugs,

    Karen

  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited March 2008

    sisters.....I am really feeling sad tonight........it's getting worse by the minute. 

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Lisa,

    I'm here!!! 

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    Lisa ....are you still there...xxx

    You must start taking the pills when you get them....we are all caring about you soooo much..You seem to have hit a brick wall...maybe now youve had your surgery and tx ....you feel like you have come through a storm and have been beaten up mentally as it all sinks in...

    Lisa I want you to know I am praying for you and holding you so close in my heart ....xxx

    It is 2am here ....

    Lisa .... is there any particular reason you are sad xxx

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    UH OH ...AE I am going bed in min...just wanted to make the most of my last day b4 tomorrow xxx  going bed in min xxx

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Sue - how did I know you would be up???

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Lisa- hang in there girlfriend.  You had allot happen in the past month - you hae every right to feel down.

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    hahahaha....my eyes are drooping now...I am lay on my bed and any min now my head will crash down on my keyboard..lol....gosh I cant keep my eyes open ...it is 2am xxxx

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Well then missy I suggest you turn the laptop off and go to bed!! lol

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008
  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Ok ladies - just thought I would share some "hair "pictures.  The first one was 2 months into treatment - Dec'06.  The second was taken yesterday at my nephews party - cute baby huh? No, its not him.

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Egads - that turned out big!!!  Ok here's the second.

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    AE XXX 

    you are absolutley beautiful and approachable and lovable and warm.... your hair is amaxing...just like you ...and well your nephew is edible LOLOLOL....

    The pictures make me feel a lot closer to you ...I love your new hair ...  xxxx  UB is very lucky man xxx

    Ok I am going bed...i just fell asleeep before...

    Nxt time I fire up here i wil be as sick as a dog xxx

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    AE XXX 

    you are absolutley beautiful and approachable and lovable and warm.... your hair is amaxing...just like you ...and well your nephew is edible LOLOLOL....

    The pictures make me feel a lot closer to you ...I love your new hair ...  xxxx  UB is very lucky man xxx

    Ok I am going bed...i just fell asleeep before...

    Nxt time I fire up here i wil be as sick as a dog xxx

  • portiasproudmom
    portiasproudmom Member Posts: 2,125
    edited March 2008

    Sorry it's taken me so long to read all the posts.

    Lisa, I'm so sorry you're feeling so down.  I'm sure the Effexor will help.  I take it, but at a pretty high dose.  She needed to raise it for me because it just wasn't working as well as the Lexapro.  I'm feeling pretty good again now at the high dose.  Hang in there sweetheart!

    I love the pics of you, Valerie!  Your nephew is adorable and so are you!!  Your hair looks so full and thick!  I can't wait until mine is that long.

    Well, my first day of rads was totally non-eventful.  My boob feels a bit hot tonight, but it looks fine.  I also saw a lymphedema specialist to get fitted for a compression sleeve.  I'll feel better about flying if I'm wearing one.  I don't want to risk getting le.  I feel so badly for those of you who suffer from it.

    Love and hugs to all,

    Karen

    PS  Congrats on the house, Jane!!!

  • geebung
    geebung Member Posts: 1,851
    edited March 2008

    Valerie - I love the photos - you look great - your hair is so thick and lovely! What a cute baby! I used to read that book to my kids when they were little! Love to you and your dear husband.

    Sue - I am thinking of you and sending you loving thoughts. I so hope you have a better time than the last tx.

    Lovely Lisa - I hate to think of you being sad. You have been through so much. I think it's a great idea to take some pills for this. I hope you can start soon and please hang out here as much as you like and pour your heart out if you feel you need to. Love you. 

    Karen - I loved the video - so funny! 

    Thanks for the congrats on the mountains cottage. There is so much to be done before we can move there. I think it could take some months before it happens. Melody - thank you for that lovely photo - that exact view is within walking distance of the cottage!

    Must go to bed! I have been meaning to get up and walk but i go to bed so late that I can't wake up in the morning.

    Hugs,

    Jane xxx 

  • livesstrong
    livesstrong Member Posts: 1,799
    edited March 2008

    Ladies - thats not my nephew!!! LOL   The baby belongs to the girl standing behind me with the glasses.

    Mine is an 11yr.old brat!!!

    AE

  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited March 2008

    AE .....LOL

    I just re read your post ...lol show me a pic of your real nephew...the brat one pretty please...some time LOL xxx

    Well just got back from Manchester blerghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    GOD I FRICKING HATE GOING THERE....I TURNED THE AIR BLUE TODAY .... AND THE NURSE JOINED IN WITH ME...

    She wasnt a very caring nurse ..she was very strict Frown 

    FIVE MORE TO GO ....

    I hope you all having a good day xxx

    Karen I LOVED that video ...I am going to show my boys in a min THANKS ..... I hope your second day of rads is going well.....xxx

    Well hi to everyone Laughing  I will be back later ...XXX

    The storm Mel ...hit bad in the south west of England...I live in the Northwest ..and it hit Wales and all coastal areas hard...but I think it is media frenzy sometimes ...I hate the media !!!  Well the english media tends to be appalling .... xxx

    Zippy is not too well .... I have had to go to vets on way home and get him some more specially expensive blow a hole in your pocket cat food... He hasnt said hello to me for 2 days :(  since I put another flea collar on him...and he has been ripping his fur out again.... he is such a stress ball!!! I love him so much ...and i get really anxious when he is off colour ...please say prayer for Zips...

    Well ladies ..... I loves ya all ... I am off to judge how nauseous I feel ....hahahaha ....Cry

    Oh and they have knocked the second dose of this 2nd round down by 20%  .... so thats nxt Tues .... MAKES ME SO MAD MAD MAD MAD MAD MAD ANGRYY MAD MAD MAD

    I AM MAD THINKING ABOUT UB NOW MAD MAD MAD ....MAD ...and Lisa feeling low MAD MAD MAD ....and Karen and Ulla having rads ...and AE with biopsy MAD MAD and Jane with lymhedea MAD MAD MAD MAD ..... and MEL ...whose MAD lol....and Wren whos having fills MAD MAD MAD ...and Sheila ....cos shes just a gem xx and Shirlann for worrying bout us all  xxx MAD MAD ANGRY WITH BOOT FACE....and Nancy for treatment MAD MAD ...and ALL OF OUR SISTERS ...FRICK THE HELL OUT OF OUR LIVES BOOTFACE

    M  A  D   A N G R Y  R A G I NG ....SSSSAAAAADDDD

    XXX

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