cancer is not a disease, but a survival mechanism
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Sorry if I've posted this article before, this is really fascinating:
http://www.naturalnews.com/z022578.html
Anyone have any thoughts?
For those who haven't read this article, I am posting today on March 14th, to consider that this author is missing the point that "emotions"
that are disturbing can create acidity. If we hold onto anything in our past that is negative, I propose this can occur. This is only one element in the BIG picture that can lead to anerobic fermentation and a tumor developing. Please, let's look at the BIG picture here.
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Thoughts? Thoughts? How about outrage? Or will that cause cancer?
Lisa, I just can't find any scientific research in this. And, research has shown this attitude to be flat out wrong. But maybe that's okay for some people.
"Cancer patients typically suffer from lack of self-respect or worthiness, and often have what I call an "unfinished business" in their life. Cancer can actually be a way of revealing the source of such inner conflict. Furthermore, cancer can help them come to terms with such a conflict, and even heal it altogether. The way to take out weeds is to pull them out along with their roots. This is how we must treat cancer; otherwise, it may recur eventually."
I had to stop there, and just scan after that.
I call it crap. Notice, I am not flaming you, please. I just find nothing substantial or evidence based in this article.
We can all pull out lines and anecdotes that make sense to us, because we want validation of our positions. But I just feel like this is poison. If this makes perfect sense to you, so be it. Just don't tell me that I caused my DISEASE. And don't tell me cancer is not a disease.
Those are my thoughts. You asked.
Anne
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Yea, I usually appreciate your bent on cancer, Lisa, but this sounds like blame. We dont need that.
Personally I was feeling more evolved, empowered and happy than ever when I was struck down. So there goes that theory.
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Dear Annie and Bliz,
Thankyou so much for responding. In my continuous quest for a "cause" or "causes" I look at all approaches to help heal my mother and prevent it myself. This article resonated with me because my mom who is one of the most talented people I know, was constantly belittling herself and saying she wasn't intelligent like other people she knew. She makes the best home-made rolls you've ever had, but couldn't accept a compliment for them. On the other hand, she would brag about how organized she was, and would fish for compliments at times. Quite a contradition. I've asked her to dig really deep and try to find out in her subconscious what has driven her to say and think the things she does. She doesn't always have the answer. Self-reflection is hard for her. I analyze my self to DEATH, to the point of exhaustion. The HolySpirit is trying really hard to help me!
Thanks again for your comments.
Peace,
Lisa
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Looking desperately for reasons or causes wont prevent it, unfortunately. Currently 1 out of 7 women will have BC in their lifetime. I am sure it cuts a wide swath through all types of personalities, lifestyles and genetics.
Being supportive, in general, is probably the best you can do for your mother. Trying to change her personality, at this point, could just lead to more frustration and unhappiness on her part.
I hope it never touches you personally. The big news is there is no magic bullet. For all the advances of the medical and even alternative community, we do not really know why certain people get it and others don't.
Sometimes we over intellectualize the things that are too difficult for us to bear emotionally.
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I am one of 5 sisters. The only one in the family (besides mom) who has been dx with cancer. My paternal grandmother was one of 6 females. Each one lived well into their 80s and 90s and not one ever had cancer. I resent the implication presented in this article that i brought it on, but that appears to be the common thread in these sorts of writings. None of the theories are ever backed by solid scientific evidence - for every anecdote in favor, I can find another person who died by believing in quacks.
We all want to cure cancers - the thousands of cancers. No one wants any further deaths from cancer. We want to hope there is something that will cure when all else has failed. Unfortunately, placing too much credence in some of these theories may result in some people not getting the proper medical care.
Who knows the whys and hows of cancer? May medical science find cures and provide additional long-term treatments.
Blessings to your mom.
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Lisa,
Your mom sounds a lot like my dear (departed) mother-in-law, who died with complications of rheumatoid arthritis, and auto-immune disease. Did she "cause" this disease to happen?
I stand by my previous thought that we are looking for ways to explain or validate what we want to hear or what we already believe. And to me, sometimes there are just no explanations. Cancer happens. It sucks. But I'll bet when a cause is found, it won't be tied to our personalities.
Anne
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I think if I wasn't a bc survivor myself, I'd agree with most of what was stated in that article. I think it's way too simplistic, however, to say that people develop tumors because "poor self-image, unresolved conflict and worries, or past emotional trauma that still lingers in his/her subconscious." C'mon, who DOESN'T have these elements in life? To my mind, this fails to explain why some people develop tumors and others don't. In fact, I think my mom could debunk this thinking singlehandedly. Her case of bc happened decades ago and she never grew another tumor. I think both she and her mother, also a bc survivor of many years before passing at age 85, would have had multiple cancers if this author was on target.
What I can agree with is the assertions that mainstream medicine is way off track. I think it's possible, perhaps likely, that prevention of cancer might turn out to be dirt cheap, or even free. Such a remedy will not see the light of day in today's social climate of greed and gross consumption of materials. People have been around for a long time, much longer than scapels and pharmacies. Whatever the answer turns out to be, I think it will derive from something old as dirt.
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I had a woman I work with tell me I caused my own cancer because I had unresolved issues with my mother and my sister. She was lucky I didn't punch her.....Sorry, no disrespect toward anyone here, but I think the article is bunk
Deb C
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Dear Ladies,
I love the stimulating conversations that arise from this board! It will bring us closer to that elusive "cause" and thus the cure of cancer. In my continued quest, I have been re-reading about the theory that fungus causes cells to become cancerous. Anyone been through this site? http://www.alkalizeforhealth.net/tableofcontents.htm
http://www.nexusmagazine.com/articles/CancerIsAFungus.html
There is a ton of info. in each part of it. The research in the early 1900's on the fungus link is compelling. If anyone wants any of the technical stuff, let me know and I'll post it! Happy reading!
Warmest Regards,
Lisa
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Hmm.. actually some thoughts of this article really resonate with what I am thinking, although maybe some of the quotes just did not come out right.. ( self respect, unfinished business ) I get the main idea and I agree with it. And I do not feel like blamed, as I am sure every body ( not only c patients) have some emotional problems, maybe our bodies deal with it differently then others and develop this reaction and yes I do see cancer as a reaction .. a severe one ! But to what ??
There was another article somewhere that tumors were actually appearing after the underlying emotional issues were resolved but by removing them and hitting the body with chemo and rads we were running down the body. Now I do have a hard time stomaching that but was an interesting view ( I think it was from Dr. Mercola)
Different thoughts/ way to approach on this centuries plague should be cherished, as no one knows what causes it and how it goes away. I think it is a 'perfect storm' and when all the variables come together bamm !!! it is there. So I will use conventional treatments after I am convinced of their benefit but will also approach it holistically.
I do think that there might be some 'emotional constipation' that blows up as c, and that our bodies which seems to have passed who knows how many quality control measures before being born could not possibly act so irrationally, nurturing the c tumors without a valid reason ( although it is a terribly warped reasoning I agree)
I am willing to listen to my body and have been trying to change the things that I think might have caused it. I had a very unhappy marriage for the last 10 years, got divorced in nov'06 ( after 20 years of marriage).. but then we fell in love witheach other again and are engaged and am very happy now I think the divorce trauma fueled the c that was already brewing.
I do not have an optimal relation with my mother, that is the next step I am looking forward to work on, as I feel there are a lot of unresolved issues in that area. (surprise !!! ) I am really afraid of doing so but will hit those head on.
Lisa I too go into 'analysis paralysis' and beat an issue until I can find why, although this comes out and bites me I feel better checking things out in detail so I understand your quest and praise you for your efforts to help your mom.
In essence.. I am open to all views on what is going on that is causing this epidemic, I pick and choose what I believe in as no one can tell me what to do but myself in the end.
Thanks for sharing.
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I believe there are illnesses that one can cause oneself. But I believe that cancer is random. My family medical history is more like a chop suey. Most of my aunts and uncles on my mother's side died of heart disease. My mother died of pancreatic cancer at the age of 56. My father died of complications of old age. My oldest sister died from alzheimers last year at age 68. I have been on medication for my blood pressure since I turned 40. One would think that in all probability I would die from some sort of heart problem or stroke. I was dx with IDC March, 2007. Luck of the draw?
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Hi Lisa,
Thank you for more interesting information!! As far as information not being documented that is just not true. In his book "A More Excellent Way" by Henry W. Wright he talks greatly about the relationship issues and cancer. One interesting aspect of it is women who have been diagnosed with cancer in their left breast had long standing issues involving their mother, sister(s) or both and the right breast involving friends or unrelated women (mother-in-law). I can only speak for myself to say that I had major issues with my mom and sister all my growing up years and into my adulthood. Guess what breast my tumor was diagnosed in?? I won't keep you guessing!!! THE LEFT BREAST!! I think everyone has to start being less sensitive about these kind of findings and do some soul searching. I actually find it healthy to discuss these issues!!
Keep up the good work, Lisa. By the way, the article on butter was great. It so validates some of the information I have read on diet. Dr. Jordan Rubin who wrote the Maker's Diet certainly concurs!!
God bless,
Genesis
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oooh, cancer in both breasts, for me, Genesis! I must be ready for the psychiatrist's couch!
Seriously, the left breast/right breast theory is IMO the biggest bunch of metaphysical doo-doo I have heard yet. And I don't need to do any soul-searching regarding this particular theory. Soul-searching implies I did something emotionally to cause my cancers.
Call me insensitive, then. But cancer is not my fault.
Anne
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So I can blame my mother-in-law for the BC in my RB? Since I have a mom and plenty of sisters, I'd best be getting my affairs in order.
Poppycock.
We all want answers, but beating ourselves up for living, for God's sake, is not the right way & it won't answer anything.
Who are the people who come up with these 'theories'? What is their background? Education? History? Looking into several of them, I don't think I'd trust them with anything as little as a cold.
What unfinished issues does a much-beloved 12 year old girl who succumbs to brain cancer have? An innocent 5-yo boy with lung cancer? A nun? Please.
Maybe it all explains your cancer, but it doesn't explain mine.
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This is what I found, I had read this somewhere and found it quite interesting. Everyone is scrambling to find an answer to why. Although shit has hit the fan for us wouldnt it be nice to find the pieces of the puzzle so we can make sure they never align again perfectly ?
I certainly am appreciating any kind of information on this subject, and what makes conventional medicine anyway ? Holistic, naturalistic therapies which have been tested and have statistics created on them.
http://www.breastcancerref.org/old_site/newsletter/Jan03a.html
Breast Cancer
Research and Education FundNewsletter 2002 (Volume 1 Issue 5)
"Many women with breast cancer experienced emotional stress before their diagnosis. This stress may relate to a conflict with a spouse or partner, with a parent or child, or with one's work. In my experience working with women with breast cancer, I have seen numerous women who felt trapped in a relationship, with no apparent solution or way out. Their creative energy has been sacrificed to please or cater to a husband who had the controlling hand in the relationship, and women may feel unable to break free. Healing from breast cancer often involves addressing this emotional conflict.
Dr. Hamer, a German medical doctor, found that an emotional conflict having to do with a mother-child relationship may manifest as a tumor in the left breast of a right-handed woman, whereas a conflict involving one's partner may manifest as a tumor in the right breast of a right-handed woman. I find this to be the case some of the time, but certainly not always."
Pardon my naivity but why the anger ladies ?
Oh and this Dr. Kaur also has a nice summary in that page:
Dietary Strategies for Breast Cancer Prevention by Sat Dharam Kaur, N.D.
- eat a primarily vegetarian, organic diet.
- consume 6-9 servings of fruit and vegetables daily (one serving is equal to ½ cup steamed vegetables or 1 cup of salad).
- consume 2 tbsp. sea weed daily or use dulse powder regularly in your cooking.
- consume at least 50% raw food, depending on constitutional type.
- be aware of the glycemic index of foods and tailor your meals so that they do not create a dramatic rise in blood sugar levels. Eat several small meals daily, avoid carbohydrates with a high glycemic index.
- keep your diet alkaline by loading up on vegetables and keeping grain and protein amounts lower. Monitor urinary pH and target it to be between 6.8 - 7.2.
- use phytoestrogens regularly - freshly ground flaxseeds, soy, pumpkin seeds, red clover and mung bean sprouts - to displace the body's strong estrogens and xenoestrogens.
- consume foods from the brassica family daily - cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli etc
- consume a high fibre diet - 30 grams of fibre daily.
- use turmeric and rosemary regularly.
- use flaxseed oil (unheated) daily and use extra virgin olive oil in moderation. Use only olive oil in a small amount of water for cooking. Minimize other fats to 15% of your daily caloric intake.
- avoid all sweeteners except stevia and fructose in small amounts
- avoid canned and packaged food and preservatives
- store food in glass, not plastic
- avoid coffee and alcohol - these interfere with the liver's ability to detoxify
- high potassium/low salt diet
Dr. Sat Daram Kaur lectures in Breast Health at the Canadian College of Naturopathic Medicine and specializes in the prevention and treatment of cancer in her naturopathic clinic. Submit your questions to Kaur's Korner by contacting us at the BCREF office.
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Put me in the, this is c__p category. You can find just about anything to support a hair brained theory on the Internet. What we don't need is more shame and guilt piled on. That would have to be more devastating, in real time.
Some will search for answers to explain away the randomness of cancer, but it is obvious, we dont really know why. You can very easily find something to counter any theory.
Seems more important to me to support others with cancer than to throw more guilt laden "theories" on them.
There is not a person alive today that doesn't have issues of some kind. It reminds me of fortune telling or tea leaf reading or that guy that talks to the dead. Just enough info for the guileless to latch on to it.
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Well I'm NOT buying these theories to blame myself or family members for my cancer. I do agree that a compromised immune system has a role in some individuals to allow them to be more suceptable to getting cancer. Certainly a poor unhealthy life style contributes to all kinds of diseases including cancer. However, I still believe the numerous toxins in our environment and daily products that we use are contributing to many diseases.
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Well OF COURSE that crazy "theory" will be right some of the time! Some right handed women with issues will get a left breast cancer. Some will get a right breast cancer. Coinicidence, maybe, but surely not a SCIENTIFICALLY RESEARCHED CAUSE!
Pardon my shouting. I don't know who the "Breast Cnacer Reserach and Education Fund" folks are, but this ain't real research.
I sure hope people who do "everything right" to prevent breast cancer never get it. Poor folks might blame themselves for causing their cancer.
Sorry for the sarcasm. This stuff really pushes my buttons the wrong way. I can't even have an intelligent discussion on it.
People need to be aware of alternate strategies and make their own decisions. I do respect that. But some of what is passing as research is just wrong.
Anne
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"There is ample evidence that negative thoughts and feelings can be harmful to the body", says Lorenzo Cohen, director of the Intergrative Medicine Program at the M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston. Studies by Janice Kiecolt-Glaser and Ronald Glaser at Ohio State University demonstrate how even minor psychological stress can compromise the immune system. The researchers found that a marital spat delays wound-healing and that the stress of caring for an Alzheimer's patient leaves the caregiver more vulnerble to illness even years later.
This is taken from the Sunday March,9th "PARADE" a newspaper magazine.
Let's search deep within our hearts, and forgive and forget anything ever said, or done. From us, or to us.
Peace and Harmony to all you beautiful ladies,
Lisa
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Dear Ladies,
I know you believe
you understand
what you think I said.
But I'm not sure
you realize,
that what you heard,
is not what I meant.
This is one of my favorite sayings of all time. In my opinion, this article reflects what I believe happens when we react to something that happens to us, whether we hear it, see it, smell it or any other of our senses' perceive it. We have emotional channels running all through our body's meridians. If we have a short circuit, the energy becomes imbalanced, and an area of acidity can develop because of impaired flow. As the female, we tend to hold up these "areas" in our breasts. Please, please check out http://www.tapping.com/. I have not had any responses by anyone about this technique to release this blockage. It can be used on anything. I'm trying to bring to light, all the things we can do to improve the harmony in our physical and mental body. It is never my intent to imply that there is "blame", or "victim" mentality used to describe why one contracts cancer. It is a holistic approach to re-balance the body, one we must take charge of once we are convinced of the course of treatment.
"If people let government decide what foods they eat and what medicines they take, their bodies will soon be in as sorry a state as are the souls of those who live under tyranny." Thomas Jefferson
The only difference between winners and losers, is that loser try and fail
... try and fail... try and fail and give up.
Winners try and fail ... try and fail ... over and over again
until they succeed.
Don't give up!A man and a woman were walking along a beach
where thousands of starfish had washed up.
The woman kept bending down and
throwing starfish back into the water. The man asked her,
"Why do you bother throwing some back,
there are thousands, what difference are you making.
She bent down again and threw another into
the water, replying, "It made a difference to that one.""The doctor of the future will give no medicine,
but will interest his patients in the care of the human frame,
in diet, and in the cause and prevention of disease."
Thomas Edison"Let thy food be thy medicine,
and thy medicine be thy food."
Hippocrates, the Father of Modern Medicine"Most of the important things in the world
have been accomplished by people
who have kept on trying when
there seemed to be no hope at all."
Dale CarnegieThere's no way to health, health is a way...
"The illusion of freedom (in America) will continue as long as
it's profitable to continue the illusion. At the point where
the illusion becomes too expensive to maintain, they will just
take down the scenery, they will pull back the curtains, they
will move the tables and chairs out of the way and you will see
the brick wall at the back of the theater." -- Frank Zappa {rockerIn Light,
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By the nature that we are human and have physiological responses to everything in our environment, it stands to reason that some of the responses will have a detrimental effect on our bodies.
By the nature that we are human, we will all die of something. For some of us it is cancer. For others, heart disease. For others, stroke, or accidents, or infections. I could go on and on.
All we can do is live the best life possible for us. I choose not to live in a bubble. I can't prevent the cancers I've already had. And I still have a better chance of dying from heart disease than of cancer.
Heart disease is probably a "survival" mechanism, too. Any illness can be read as that. Fill in the blank. My point is that you can take a gazillion steps to improve your diet, acidify your body, whatever, and still die of something. Do what you need to live well and live strong. But live life with the courage of your convictions.
Anne
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Okay so my mother had her left breast removed....she didn't have any unfinished business with her mother, her mom was the love of her life, she was devasted when her mom died at an early age (67)with a stroke....my mom never had sisters, the only sister she had died at 3 months old, and that was before my mom was born. I can't believe that people buy into this stuff...I leave the causes and cures up to the scientists and doctors who know what they are doing. I can't worry about what the cause of my mom's cancer is at this point, she is stage 4....I am only interested in how to get rid of it again. I haven't got time to waste on needless research into things that are meaningless to my mom at this junction in the road. She has cancer, the cause is irrelevant now.
We always seem to want to have a "culprit" we are not satisfied that it is just merely the biology of our own bodies working against us, you can no longer prevent it, than you can predict when it will happen...if it is going to happen to you, it will happen....My cousins one year old little boy was dx with cancer (had extensive abdominal surgery and chemo) and then 6 months later he had a reoccurance, I can hardly say he had conflicts with his mother at that age. I just think it is far fetched.
My mom overexpresses Her2, that is what caused her cancer....she has to many Her2 genes in her DNA. We are all born with cancer cells, it just a matter of if and when yours decide to come out. For those who believe their cancer's are a result of unresolved issues with their mothers or sisters....if you think about it psychologically, it makes sense to try to "pin" the blame on something you can actually point your finger at and say, you caused me to get this....rather than remain in that cloud of unknowing that most people with cancer have to live with....who do not know what toxin, what food, what disease brought there cancers out in the open.
At the end of the day, no one knows what makes cancer happen. Even the best theories still do not have enough data to back it up. It is just something that happens. But saying it was brought on by a mishap in a relationship, is just stretching it a bit.
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Dear Michelle, You are so right!!! God bless you. You stated it beautifully. You helped me in November when I was concerned with my liver enzymes. You are a wonderful daughter. Kathy
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We are not talking about life's little spats with moms or sisters or friends or mother-in-laws. We are talking about major life long things in one's life. I personally have not been a good processor of these emotions. So for me I cannot dismiss that this could have been a factor. The statistics that I have read are overwhelming to support this theory. I take full responsibility for my cancer - I blame no one. I was not bit by the cancer bug. There were other things in my life that I did that are known to cause breast cancer as well (i.e. - birth control pills, whitening my teeth with bleach............) The list goes on and on!!!!! These things were not around a hundred years ago.
For some of you your trust of doctors is questionable. Why isn't there a much higher cure rate if the doctors and scientists know what they are doing?? They only do what they have been taught to do. Ask them how vast their training went in natural healing. Look, my daughter-in-law is not only a radiologist but her specialty IS the breast. I love my daughter-in-law dearly but with ALL her education she does not have the knowledge in natural healing.
God bless,
Genesis
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Without evidence-based research studies, any so-called statistics are meaningless. When discussing this with my husband he said, "How silly. Everyone knows breast cancer is caused by being born under the wrong astrological sign!" Of course! I was born under the sign of Cancer! OMG! Doomed! (Mom's a Scorpio, so that's trouble, too.)
If major, life-long conflicts are the cause of cancer, then someone please explain the 5 year old with lung cancer. The baby with a brain tumor. The men and women who live long lives with conflict galore with family members and never get cancer. Exactly. An anecdote does not make for evidence.
I can make a video and put it on the internet, but that doesn't make it true. I could say that prolonged, 25 years exposure to pugs (sorry, guys) causes cancer, but that doesn't make it true. At the moment they are the cause of plenty of irritation, but.....Likewise, I don't believe that using BCP, or having amalgam fillings, or eating canned food, or storing things in plastic gave me cancer. It hit me. Shit happens. I do what I can to take care of it, see my doctors, get mammograms, have annual physicals, and so on. If, god forbid, it comes back, I deal with it. Death doesn't scare me. My way isn't the only way, but it works for me.
Of course I trust a medical professional who has spent literally half his life researching cancer treatments over theories without any basis in fact.
I dare say that more have been cured, or rather put into remission, with care by medical professionals than with internet theorists.
Playing the blame game, be it on someone else or on yourself, is counter-productive and the angst it creates isn't worth it.
Hope is a powerful thing. I hope that one day there is no more blame, that we find not only what causes all the cancers but what will cure them or manage them as well.
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Dear Ladies,
The topic of this thread is "Cancer is not a disease, but a survival mechanism".
Research Otto Warburg, and see if you do not agree with the above statement.
http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/medicine/laureates/1931/warburg-bio.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Otto_Heinrich_Warburg
http://www.stopcancer.com/ottolecture2.htm
http://www.mnwelldir.org/docs/cancer1/budwig.htm
Lowered oxygen levels available to cells is caused by:
1. Acidic Diet (Lowers the body's PH and oxygen requirements go
down).
2. Lack of excersise (Lowers available Oxygen).
3. Stress and Negative Emotions (Causes shallow breathing and
tense muscles, which lowers oxygen availability to cells).
4. Toxins in environment (Causes acidity in body and lowers PH,
which results in lower oxygen absorbment to cells).
5. Reduced Oxygen Levels in our environment for breathing (Poor
Indoor Oxygen Levels).
ALL of these things will contribute to the body creating the cluster of cancer cells in the body to SURVIVE. I can't believe the basic cell will sabatoge itself. The mind surely can (Cognitive Function). The body is controlled by the mind first. Look at the Placebo Effect. It works 20% of the time. It is controlled by our thoughts. All of these parts (mind, body ,spirit), when working in harmony, will create health, not imbalance (disease). Please, someone out there with an open mind, help me in this line of research. Someone besides Genesis, Eric and Lynda Carpenter and myself that have used these principles to get well. I've read hundreds on the internet, and talked to several personally. There has to be someone else on this thread who can confirm my beliefs. We are so close. Don't give up and blame cancer on "Life". We will lose all hope then.
Blessings and Peace be to all,
Lisa
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Confirming "beliefs" is not the same as confirming a scientific theory through decades of research following the scientific process. It's like saying that any group with "cancer research" in its name is doing true research and your donations go to finding a cure. Wrong!
Beliefs follow faith. Reliegious beliefs are not researched facts. You accept certain things in good faith. That's what you're doing with the "survival mechanism" topic (yes, I know the thread's topic). And that's okay. We all have our beliefs and value systems.
So, given your list of what causes lowered oxygen levels and that lowered oxygen levels MAY cause cancer, I'm surprised there's not more cancer than there is!! And yes, cancers were around a hundred years ago, without pollution, toxins as we know them today, yadayadayada. And, you may well be onto something, Lisa. That's exciting. Now, let's see funded research for cause and effect, and find appropriate treatments.
I don't feel we lose hope by saying "life causes cancer." Not at all. Cancer happens, and we can live long, productive lives with it (at least many of us can. Some are not so furtunate.) Our lives CAN be in harmony, and we can get cancer. Or hit by the bus. Or MS. Or not.
And still have harmony, without searching for an emotional reason of why our cell's basic survival skills got whacked.
And we'll still die of something.
I promise, I'm done with my rant on this thread.
Anne
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After having experienced my mom dying from lung cancer, my first wife dying from pancreatic cancer, and my current wife having been diagnosed with breast cancer stage 3a, I have my own hypothesis surrounding cancer.
Cancer can be genetic
Cancer can be triggered by exposure to carcinogens
Cancer can be triggered by emotional, mental, or physical trauma that reduces the strength of your immune system.
Cancer can be triggered by your very diet.
And that all of the above, together, will most likely produce some form of cancer.
I also believe:
Cancer can be treated with either western medicine or with naturopathic methods, both having their strengths and weaknesses.
and I have come to one inescapable conclusion. Once you are complete with your treatment, whatever you choose, and you continue the lifestyle that created the environment where cancer can grow, I would be willing to bet that your chances of a reoccurrence are going to be astronomical. Do everything you feel is right to avoid that situation... So ladies, do us, the spouses, a big favor, do whatever you feel is right, to change your lifestyle, so that you do not have to suffer this disease again.
Erick Carpenter
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I'm sorry...."do us, the spouses, a big favor"...???? If I am to believe the whole stress/relationship crap as it relates to cancer, then perhaps it is our SPOUSES who need to do US a favor?
Honestly, I thought this sort of thinking went out with the dark ages. Women, in particular, have been coerced into behaving like vacant little stepford robots by ideas such as this one. Lord save us if a woman is strong and opinionated....let's tell her it'll cause cancer. That'll scare her into acting like a "lady".
I am not generally combative or rude, but this whole thread has my fur up.
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- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
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- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
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- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
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- 9 The Political Corner
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- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
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- 586 Alternative Medicine
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- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
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- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
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- 591 Pain
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