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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    Sue, you...little stinker! haha....someone just came into my office...so I am going now..lol

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    aww...Karen...a 1st b'day party...those are soooo special...aww...takes me back!  Have fun!

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Oh Karen , Jay Leno bald!!!! I never pictured that , because he has such thick hair. That would be a sight huh?! But ya see Karen. I DO have a very round head and big eyes. And , I probably can look like a barrel after the holidays! My tastebuds are back full force and EVERYTHING taste good to me. Help!

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    I hear ya Melody...I am trying to shed 10lbs before my surgery...but with me going into menapause and having my tastebuds back...even though I eat really healthy..it's hard as heck to lose any weight!  I even started to run again..GRRRRRRRRRRRR..fustrating!

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Oh good luck lisa , you can do it! Running is such a good thing. But , if your anything like me , this is a hard time of the year to diet. I am really gonna try now though, maybe if I get the right mindset I can drop a few lbs. before Christmas.

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Karen , you are so beautiful. Like I told Sue , she will never look like UF , and you could never look like Jay. You two will look more like Jamie Lee Curtis or Demi Moore. Ohio has harsh winters , we end up looking like UF!lol

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    Demi Moore..that is what my sweet daughter said to me when I shaved my head..she was being kind!!

    Melody...running is great...but tough on my knees...I have done it for years!  I have actually been watching my diet for over a month...with very little coming off.  I am going to try to do some large muscle exercises and some light weights..need to be careful for LE...but I am so sick of how I feel.  I am not used to any extra weight or feeling and looking so out of shape!

    Bad thing is...with this work now..then I will be down for 4 -5 weeks again....oh my.

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    I feel for you Lisa. When you don't have as much to take off , it is harder to do. I think you can do it. You sound like you are "in the zone".

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    My age doesn't help either...lol...Surprised  I would love to be back "in the zone"....that is my goal.  I have a g/f...who has put on a little weight due to stress and age..and we are both bound and determine to motivate each other and work out together when I am all healed from my surgery...and she has her soon to be ex out of the house...lol!! We walk 3 miles 4 times a week now...power walk..but I know that running works so much better for me.

    Ill keep you updated later on these goals! haha...

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    I think Jay Leno is a hunk!!

    lololololololol

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    I know what you mean Lisa. I was 49 before June 9th came along , see , I can't even say my age out loud! And I think I am literally afraid to try to lose weight because of my age and now taking tamox. If I get back on my "regiment" and I don't lose , I will be soooo depressed. Good luck to you and your girlfriend. She already lost alot of weight with her soon to be ex gone!lol

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Sue! True cofessions: My "first" that I vodee-oh-doed with ,  looks like Jay Leno! ewwwwwww!

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  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited November 2007

    dear sue ,,i felt sad wen u said that ur day started to be worse..why is that,,honey hold on,,

    dont be worried about ur other breast soreness i felt the same and it is normal due to hormonal effects and changes as the onk told me..

    regarding to the readings ,,through anything bothers u as far as u can ,,u dont need to be bothered any more..

    i kept inforcing myself to read bothering,awful,terrifing things till i reached to the edge of being crazy ,,depressed adn totally crashed ,,this was pre and post the mastectomy ,,then my husband took the magazines and the laptop away from me and i promised him to stop reading everything about cancer and traetments and and and ...i found another way to help myslef keep well informed and as i cant stopp the reading habbit i started to focouse on me..i am that kind of strong women who consider themselves as wining fighters all the time,,anything make me feel like a looser will destroy my self image which will weaken me more than i am already wen started to face this beast..so i started to focous on my fighting weapons..i found the magic word FOOD ,,i started to read everything about food fighting cancer,,how they work wat r they ,,wat it is chemical action on our bodies,,this realy helped me after i turned to be crazy ,despirate.devistated ,crashed women becoz of my bad choices in wat i should read.. i wish my words will help u and i will send u some links to if surfe and spend some nice time  on them...

    plz sweet sue keep as strong as i feel u..as ur strength helped me so much in my last few days ,,,

    u know wat??i was reading all the posts that i missed during the last few days,,and all wat i need to tell u is that ,,i do feel u ,,love u..and want to protect u from anything that i tried before u an found it was not good so i can save u from soe extra pain,,,sorry for this long post ,,i just felt like missing talking to u ,,and forgive me if it bothered or bored u

    kisses and hugs

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  • Ulla
    Ulla Member Posts: 840
    edited November 2007

    ooops i forget to send u the links ,,sorry again and here r they

    http://men.webmd.com/features/10-best-foods-you-arent-eating

    http://www.healthcastle.com/fruits-vegetables-breast-cancer.shtml

    http://www.healthcastle.com/garlic-cancer.shtml

    http://www.healthcastle.com/breast_cancer_diet.shtml

    http://www.holisticonline.com/Remedies/Biot/biot_immunity-top-15-foods.htm

    http://www.askdrsears.com/html/4/T040300.asp

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    Sue darling...are you off to bed??

    Melody...lol to the jay leno look alike being your first..haha!

    Amen to my g/f  losing him...omg..she filed for divorce last March and he is still in the house..will not leave...until they are divorced...I could not live like that!  She knows she is always welcome at my house anytime just to escape!

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    Ulla xxx I love you.....you are such a warm loving and considerate kind girly ...lol... I always love to hear from you...and I understand EVERYTHING you advise and you give me strength. I shall do no more horrible reading...it makes me isolated...I will come here and get support....and look after myself better...you are VERY wise xxxx

    I love you all here ..... we are as one!!

    Ulla my day got worse as Lisa and Mel referred to looking like Uncle Fester when they were on chemo.....and I googled him LOL....if you read back you will see I was joking hahahaha..... google uncle Fester and read back...they cracked me up...and Lisa went and wet her pants whilst she was working ...didn't you Lisa Surprised  lololololol

    Ulla it is so nice to see you strong again...we will support each other thru our next treatment......thinking of you always xxx

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    Lisa it is my day off tomorrow...I like to make the most of the nights I have before my day off ...and go to bed later....I can slob it out in the morning hahaha  xxx

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    Ulla thanks so much for these links !

    You are sooooooooooo kind...I will read them tmw on my day off.... xxx and look forward to reading them

    Ulla what is the time difference in Sweden...are you an hour behind the UK it is nearly 11:30pm xxx

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    Oh Sue...I can so relate to that!! I do the same thing!!  I feel like a kid who gets to stay up past their bedtime!!

    I will try and email you tomorrow, and have my daughter help with pics..haha!Laughing

    Oh yeah...NO...I did not wet my pants...almost...but I made it to the restroom!! lol!Surprised

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Hi Ulla. You are such a sweet sister posting good and positive web sites for Sue.

    Yes , Lisa and I was having some "dark humor" about the way we see ourselves on chemo. I was gonna apoligize to Sue , who is going through chemo now , but she got me laughing so hard that I forgot to tell her.

    Sue , I try to stay up as late as I can on my days off too. Light some candles , play some music. Talk to you sweet sisters here.

    I ment to ask you how your boys are doing? I hope all is fine with them. I'm gonna get another cuppa....

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    I just got another cuppa Mel lolololol...hey we all do the same on the night before our day off....isn't that night prescious where we can completely relax...I don't get 2 days together...my days off are Sunday and Thursday xxxx

    My boys are great ...they are so thoughtful and are doing great at school.... xxx

    Melody what do you work at...

    and Lisa what do you do in the airport ... apart from hang round the restrooms xxx   LOL

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Sue , lolololollol!  You are one funny gal. I love youxxx

    I work at a place , that was recently bought by a company in uh-hum ,England... It is electronics. We produce pc boards. That is , printed circuit boards. My "title" is specialist/trainer and material handler. I train people,and set up and tear down jobs. And check on part problems ie- shortages , wrong parts , etc... It is very multi-tasking and stressful at times. I've been there 9 years and in this bussiness for 18 years. When things are running smooth , I really enjoy it. But , it is stressful and when the boss is away , I fill inYellSurprisedCryEmbarassed I love my job, I love my job , I love my job...

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    Ulla those websites look fantastic...I will have a good old read tomorrow  xxxx

    Well it is midnite now so I am going to watch a bit of TV  ...and say sweet dreams to all my crazy sisters.....I m so happy we found each other xxxxxx

    Shirlann and gb and Valerie ...I hope you are all having a good day.... and evryone else...I love you xxxxxx

    Please will you ALL PM me your snail mail addresses ...I would like to send you all a Christmas card...before last post.....it would make my year to pop through your letterboxes !!!!

    Much Love xxxx

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    Haha...oh my...my face is hurting from smiling and laughing so much today...thats a good thing!!

    Ulla...I hope you are doing well with your treatments as well!

    My days off are Sun/Mon & Thurs...so Sue, we are off on the same days!  Right now I work in the baggage service office for my airline.  So, I get to handle all of the unhappy people who have lost their luggage!!  We are crossed utilized here.  We do it all, from loading the bags on the aircraft to taking your boarding pass at the gate.  This position has been a godsend to me...since my dx!! I can actually sit at a desk.  I am ok now to stand all day, but going through my tx's I dont think I could have survived standing for 10hrs!! Sue...I don't know how you do it at work.

    Did I tell you Sue...my youngest works at our Subway here?

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    I can't believe Melody how we are so alike in many ways....and Lisa ...and everyone...we go together like jam and butter..lol...

    Much Love  xxx

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  • my3girls
    my3girls Member Posts: 3,766
    edited November 2007

    It is funny how we found each other!! Jam and butter...yummmy..especially raspberry!

    I avoided these boards way back in the spring..because I was afraid...see...and now I have found some very special ladies...that I love!!

    We miss you Shirlann and Val and all of you!!

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    Oh my goodness Lisa...what a coincidence...no you didn't ...thats amazing...

    I would love to work in an airport too....you are very lucky xxx

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  • sueps
    sueps Member Posts: 2,266
    edited November 2007

    OK I have been on this site since 7pm....I love spending my evenings here..lol..

    SO EVERYONE PM ME YOUR SNAIL MAIL ADDYS...PRETTY PLEASE....AND YOU ULLA ...AND EVERYONE ELSE SO I CAN SEND YOU CHRISTMAS CARDS.... THANKYOU THANKYOU lol

    I think Ulla fell asleep unless she is still googling Uncle Fester lol

    Sweet dreams Everyone XXXX

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Sue , Lisa and everyone , thanks for makin' my Sat. night a great oneSmile! I hope for a peaceful and calming nights rest for you all. xxx Melody

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  • honeygirl
    honeygirl Member Posts: 1,718
    edited November 2007

    Wait a minute , Sue , you are on the Christmas mailing list on here. Didn't you get the e-mail that had all our addresses on it?

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