Rant away about COVID, the vaccine, etc.
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Love your post moth! It saddens me that community, public health, the greater good, or whatever term you like, is no longer a matter of consideration for so many. Too, too sad.
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KBL - Look at that! I commented on your post.
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runor, thank you for your reply. I was trying to understand what's behind your reluctance to get vaccinated, and while I don't agree with much of what you said, I think I better understand now.
There is much to reply to in your post but at this point I will leave that to others. As a data junkie, I've been trying to provide facts and data in response to various comments, questions and objections; I think I've done that. If we disagree about the significance of the numbers, I'd rather not get into a back-and-forth about that - those discussions never seem to end well and in the end, no one ever changes their mind.
Time will tell how all of this progresses. In all honesty, I would be delighted if you are right and I'm wrong, and "we can get back to normal life when we can get rabid rulers back in control", despite a significant percent of the population (particularly in parts of the U.S.) choosing to not be vaccinated.
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Hi KBL- I don’t believe that you want anyone to die. But in order to arrest this virus we need to get to worldwide herd immunity. I believe that means that 80% of the world population is vaccinated. Until that happens, the virus will continue to mutate, necessitating more boosters. It has been proven that breakthrough cases have happened with the fist iteration of the vaccine, but the vast majority aren’t hospitalized, much less died. I believe in freedom of choice for many things but only when your choice doesn’t put others at risk. Of course I don’t mean you, individually, but it’s the sum total of all the people who choose to not vaccinate, that will prevent herd immunity. I believe that other viruses will crop up in the future and our collective ability to effectively respond will determine our future
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SerenityStat, this site moves so fast sometimes that I miss posts. I will go back and read what you wrote. Can you tell me what page that was on.
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KBL you say that we have "succumbed to the pressure" and it reminds me about people saying we are sheep. I can also say that you have succumbed or are following your articles like sheep. What is the difference? How is that not taking the moral high ground?
I'm not sure if you were hoping for more agreement than you are getting but no one has personally attacked you or your opinion but have supplied some actual evidence that you don't want to hear. Everyone has been respectful so I don't understand why you are getting upset.
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" if you truly cared about everyone, you would care about the unvaccinated too."
KBL, I do care about the unvaccinated. I don't want anyone who is unvaccinated to become infected and I don't want anyone who is unvaccinated to die. I shudder when I read posts, either here or on FB, where people gloat or talk about karma when someone who was unvaccinated died; I think it's terrible when someone who is unvaccinated died. I worry most about those who are unable to be vaccinated due to comorbidities.
As for runor, I hope my posts have not appeared to be attacks - they certainly were not meant to be. runor and I may disagree on this but we agree on a whole lot of other things.
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Jetcat, if you’ve posted before, I apologize, I haven’t seen your name. I appreciate you coming here and responding.
You know what I haven’t heard about? I do realize that right now, the vaccinated are not getting as sick or not being hospitalized, but I haven’t heard who is exposing them and making them sick. Is it another vaccinated person? Are the unvaccinated getting it from only unvaccinated or are they getting it from both vaccinated and unvaccinated? The way things are being put out, it makes it seem like the unvaccinated are giving it to the vaccinated. Are the unvaccinated the only ones exposing children? I would think the vaccinated with breakthrough cases can also transmit. What happens if you’re vaccinated and thinking you’re safe and give it to a child? The unvaccinated are not the only ones transmitting. I haven’t heard anyone say that. If I missed it, let me know.
The Duke case that I cited had something like 304 cases with only eight being unvaccinated. What are the chances the vaccinated gave it to the eight unvaccinated?
I keep hearing about the unvaccinated causing all of the hospitalizations. Are only unvaccinated giving it to the unvaccinated? Of course not. So should we blame the vaccinated for giving it to the unvaccinated and other vaccinated?
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Moth, I just read your post before I hit submit on mine. Bravo.
Gosh, I wanted to stay away from this topic and data wars. I took a peek and found the turn this discussion has taken has it a stone wall. What I know is that vaccinated people are far less likely to become seriously ill or die from Covid than are unvaccinated people. I won't quibble about numbers and percentages. It's not cruel or piling on to say that if more people were vaccinated there would be a reduction in fatalities and hospitalizations. If that statement has been disputed here I missed it. Pivoting from the topic under discussion to other worthy endeavors doesn't invalidate the value of vaccination to oneself or loved ones. Being an all around humanitarian is not a prerequisite to have strong feelings about the value of vaccination. It can be a“selfish" choice that also happens to help others. At least it doesn't hurt others and the risk is yours. I value my septuagenarian life with Stage 4. I resent the hell out of Covid and what it has done to all our lives as we head to our respective corners. What we seem to forget is that “No man is an island".
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I have to be honest. I’m missing posts because I’m writing at the same time. I go back to look at something I posted, and I see a post I missed. I’m going to take a step back and stop for a minute so I can read them.
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Jetcat, one additional piece of recent info is that it appears with the Delta variant having a higher R rate, it means that we need a higher vaccination rate for herd immunity. I'm seeing estimates in the high 80s or 90s.
It actually is a moral issue, I think so I have no problem discussing it from a morals philosophy perspective. I think it's immoral to knowingly expose to others to harm.
Regarding the collateral harm to others - it's a difficult thing to untangle. Suicide stats in my province went down in 2020. A new study from US Veterans showed the same. https://www.military.com/daily-news/2021/08/25/sui...
There definitely have been hardships for many. It's been very difficult to balance everyone's needs during lockdowns, school closures, workplace closures etc.
Vaccination is meant to *relieve* all that suffering. But it only works if we all do it.
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Information. Here's a pound of hamburger. You make a patty and serve it in a bun. I make spaghetti sauce and add tomatoes. I am morally wrong for doing this, says you. Information is an ingredient and in this situation, as I have said endless times, I attempt to weigh the information and come to a conclusion. I think far too many of you have abdicated your responsibility to THINK but instead jumped on the bandwagon of Oh My God People Are Dying. News flash - yes they are - and they do every day, and they were before this came to your attention. And there are problems in this world that kill millions of people but because they don't affect us white westerners (like malaria for one) we get to not pay a lick of attention until something comes along that targets us as well and then holy fucking shitballs, we have us a pandemic and let's just freak right out and put the brakes on because the rest of the world can daily face death from a thousand stupid causes but not us!
The actions taken must be warranted. To me, THEY ARE NOT! I cannot explain this to anyone and instead of hearing when I say I am all for taking measures, just not these measures, I provide an easy target to kick and boy oh boy, isn't that fun!? Deliberate deafness to anything, which you accuse me of over and over, is equally laid at your feet too. There is 100% as much chance, at this point, that you are wrong about what you believe and we may yet live to look back with deep shame at what dumb fucks we were for the brutality we unleashed. If you cannot, with the humility you ought to have admit that there is that chance of being wrong, then you are beating your chest, declaring your virtue, jumping with the in crowd but certainly not thinking. I have repeatedly stated that I DO NOT KNOW how or where this is going to end and information might yet come to light that would change my mind. I have stated over and over that I am not anti-vax. I am accused of having math that sucks and that is very likely true as my math skills are pretty bad. But I think what was actually being said is that because you disagree with me, I suck. I don't think like you think, so I suck. We can't discuss anything without my morals, ethics, or math being called horrible, irresponsible, reprehensible. My god. The assertions that I don't care if people die is just shit. Pure shit. But the nuances in between TOTALLY EXTREME GLOBAL ACTION and NO ACTION AT ALL don't seem to be in very many intellectual wheelhouses. We should do something. We should not do THIS. That is my position. -
"far too many of you have abdicated your responsibility to THINK but instead jumped on the bandwagon" This is very insulting.
How do you know who thought about what? How does this not describe your position?
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Okay. Back. I would love if someone could answer my question. Any stats of the vaccinated giving COVID to children, older vaccinated, other vaccinated, unvaccinated? It’s been made to look like only unvaccinated expose children or others.
Thank you for the link, SerenityStat. I’m going back to look at it right now.
As far as the other comments, I can’t answer each one specifically because there are so many. I was not feeling attacked, I felt Runor was.
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KBL, your question about vaccinated possibly also spreading was asked & answered before (either here or on the rants).
Yes, vaccinated people can get it and can be symptomatic and infectious, or asymptomatic and infectious - esp with the new Delta variant which is both more aggressive and more transmissible. But the RATE at which they do is is way lower than unvaccinated people.
You seem to want to prove the point that "the vaccine doesn't work so why bother taking it'. That is not a position which is backed by evidence. The vaccine is not a guarantee of immunity. It is a risk reduction. Just like our cancer treatments are not guarantees of a cure - they reduce risk of dying of cancer.
Can vaccinated people transmit covid? Yes. Because vaccines don't guarantee immunity https://health.clevelandclinic.org/can-vaccinated-...
How do vaccinated people spread delta? https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-021-02187-1
& bottom line the unvaccinated pose more of a risk because they're more likely to be infected - FIVE times more likely to be infected https://www.cnbc.com/2021/08/24/cdc-study-shows-un...
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Abdicated our responsibility to think? Hardly but I temper it with a dose of humanity and compassion. Stats and facts are great but the human factor (and all its confounding complications) also needs to be considered in this very human crisis.
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As I said, things are rolling so quickly. I am marking this page, Moth, and will really come back to read. Just one question. If it’s in the documents you provided, please let me know so when I read them, I will find the information. How do they know the rate of vaccinated transmitting is less? How is it possible to know that
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What I can see is what I have long known: people believe what they want to believe. They can make up all kinds of excuses, despite the evidence. And because it is BELIEF, it's like faith. You don't need proof of anything to have faith. So all the evidence in the world that vaccines work, and that at least to this point there is no evidence of long-term harm from them, is not going to change their minds.
People believe what they want to believe.
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KBL, when discussing Covid, it naturally includes illness, recovery, community concern, and death. It doesn't include any of the moral topics you brought up in your post. However, if you think we should be talking about defending De Santis or not, or what our response to Afghanistan was, or many of the homeless camps around the country, then I believe those can be separate threads. As far as monoclonal therapy goes, by all means let's discuss that here.
Just because the majority of people commenting here don't agree with your view doesn't establish that majority as right. That kind of thinking is like adopting whatever is in the majority is always right. I don't understand why right and wrong is even injected into the conversation when nobody expressed their desire to be right.
Anyone here could equally think that you are digging in your heels as well, which it wouldn't matter because we are all free to express our opinions as long as it does no direct harm. If you feel threatened by an adverse opinion then there's not much anyone can say to make you not feel attacked. We are exchanging opinions and facts. As someone mentioned, they should be differentiated. My opinion is still just an opinion. I still think it's unfair for you to bring up any kind of measure for morality, especially if it's unrelated to the topic at hand. Being upset about illness and death from Covid is not a moral high ground in my opinion. Illness and death should also not be equated to housing the poor or any of the other topics you brought up. Everyone is trying to keep to the topic. Everyone is ranting as you expressed you wanted them to.
As a minority (ethnicity) I find it off putting that you feel threatened because there is an obvious majority opinion in this thread. If I walked around like that in my normal life, I would be a depressed person. I have been placed in many situations as the minority, even in my chosen career as a women in tech, and I felt I was right. With your acceptance of majority rules, I would have been wrong. So, you could just ignore those opinions and feel you are right.
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KBL- I haven’t posted much but this topic is so hard to ignore. My knowledge of breakthrough cases comes from the Provincetown, MA situation - my home state. Basically, over July 4 weekend, the influx of unvaccinated visitors carrying the Delta variant created spread to both vaccinated and unvaccinated (over 70% of MA residents, minus ineligible, were vaccinated). The vaccinated people who contracted the virus were largely asymptomatic, however they were proven able to spread the virus. Again , literally zero of the vaccinated breakthrough cases were even hospitalized. If they came in contact with unvaccinated, they inadvertently spread the virus to the unvaccinated. This could be children vulnerable medically, etc.who don’t have any protective immunity.
This is a massive numbers ‘game” as both Beesie and Moth have shared. We love our individuality and freedom but sometimes the overall good has to prevail even if it requires a leap of faith. I don’t understand all of the science or math but, when in doubt, I think of my sweet little 2 year old niece and I would do anything to help provide her with a healthy life.
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Wrenn. Seriously? Have you not read the posts? I have taken pains not to be personal. I have taken pains to describe my position from my perspective always saying that I am open to information. I have read some very nasty things hurled at me. Extremely insulting. And NOW you're going to notice an insult?! You may notice my insult but please, in the name of equity, go back over the posts and also note all the other remarks that are also insulting and mean, chiefly aimed at me. Some that probably you yourself wrote. I do absolutely stand by my assertion that in this whole global event there has been way too much reacting and knee- jerk decision making made without adequate consideration and thought. There was a LOT at stake here in taking the measures we did. Was it worth it, was not weighed. Was it warranted, was not weighed. Could we do something different ,was not asked. There are as many costs to people and society that are not being tabulated, not getting daily news coverage, just not glossy enough for mainstream media dogs. If you save one person but mangle 5 in the process have you done anything good? Anything worth congratulating yourself over? I see mangled outcomes but if all you look at is the news and BH you are blissfully unaware that there is a massive network of effects in place. If you focus on' case counts' you are safe from the bigger picture. Every time I hear a case count mentioned I yell the same thing, "What does that even mean? What does that tell us? How was that data gathered? Who was tested? Of those who were tested and positive, how many of them were sick and how many were just fine? " These IMPORTANT and useful questions are not answered on the nightly news. Instead we just see Bonnie Henry, in need of some lipstick, blush and under eye cream yapping on about whatever the hell she yaps on about. And I am as uninformed at the end as when she started talking. I do see a citizenry that has abdicated its responsibility to think. Just as all of you see me as abdicating my responsibility to follow instantly invented rules and put aside concerns for my own health in favour of your health.
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I just had written a whole post with questions, but I'm too tired to respond when I get answers. I think I'm out for tonight. Have a good night, everyone. I will come back to Page 14 tomorrow to look at SerenityStat's link and Moth's link.
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I am a selfish individualist pretty much, but one thing that does hit my altruism button is the fact that as a Stage IV patient who has to visit the infusion room every three weeks, I do care about the other patients who have no choice about coming in contact with me, some of whom are much more vulnerable than I am.
And, I care about the nurses and doctors and others who have been taking a lot of risks to be there and provide care this whole time.
So while I am a little bit selfish and rebellious, and I don’t think I’m a hero for being vaccinated, I do have some sense of duty in my selfish little heart. Of course, there’s some self interest there, too - do I really want to be in a hospital every three weeks unvaccinated?
I know there’s some chance that as a vaccinated person I could still carry the virus, but I do hope the odds have been lessened by the vaccine.
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I do want to respond.
I never said I felt threatened being in the minority here ever. If I did, I wouldn't continue to post.
Also, I guess my post about morality was taken literally. Did I actually think people would respond to that? Of course not. Morality was brought up, so I responded with those questions. Did I really want an answer? Of course not.
I do want to relate my experience yesterday. I had my CT scan. The tech asked me if I was vaccinated. I said no. She didn't flinch. When I asked if it was okay to wear my mask I'm the machine, she said I could take it off if I wanted to. Not all people want to be 40 feet away from me for not being vaccinated, thankfully. I left the mask on. I was only asking because of the metal. -
For you, MountainMia. One of my favorite poems.
"No man is an island entire of itself; every man is a piece of a continent, a part of the main; if a cloud be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as any manner of thy friends or of thine own were; any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind. And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee." John Donne.
"You cannot reason someone out of something he or she was not reasoned into." Jonathan Swift.
Trish
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Runor, I am only guessing, but your post took a logical stance to a topic that invokes an emotional response. Death and illness, especially on these boards, becomes very personal to a lot of us. I believe that is why people felt the need to directly address you. You may think you painstakingly tried to avoid offending people, but by nature of the topic there's no way some of us would not get offended unless we choose not to be.
I understand your logical approach because I am a systems engineer. I practice thinking logically all day. I don't think many of the users so far are in similar fields.
It sounds like you are white (based on your Westerners comment). I am not. I have a lot of practice in choosing not to be offended, so perhaps it's just a matter of exposure to offensive things. You may not believe me, but I have been in a bunch of offensive situations my entire life living as an American. I could be offended by your comment thinking everyone on this thread was White, but I am not. You have a right to your opinion. Although if I was offended, I hope you would be okay with me directly addressing you.
I am of the thought that if you deal it then you must accept the consequence. You made a statement that some felt warranted their responses. If you came back at me and said I was stupid, I wouldn't care, but some people just aren't able to do that. I don't agree with how you addressed the topic, but I accept your emotional response because that's exactly what KBL intended for this thread. Rant away.
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I share a lot of similar sentiment of the ladies who have already commented.
Just want to chime in about the need of booster and how some may think it means vaccine isn't working as it's supposed to.
I think the best analogy may be breast cancer, especially for those of us who are living with mBC. We all know at some point (with the exception of outliers), cancer will evade whatever treatment we are on, and we progress. however, does that mean the regime we have been on and no longer responding to won't work for other people? no, of course not.
Virus is the same. variants and breakthrough cases happen. Delta is more transmissible and carries 1000x more viral load than the original Covid strain. Also, delta wasn't there during the period of vaccine clinical trial, and most of the country had some sort of restrictions such as masks and social distancing. All this doesn't mean vaccine is not working as it is supposed to. Vaccine effectiveness against hospitalization & death have held up.
At the end of the day, I do not think any of us want to end up with severe covid and put our treatment on hold and let cancer progress.
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KBL, part of the answer to your question is probability stats
You're in a room with 100 children, 99 boys (metaphor for unvaccinated) and 1 girl (metaphor for vaccinated but has breakthrough case). All of them have glitter on their hands. Which is more likely to get glitter on you when you enter the room, a boy or a girl? The fact that unvaccinated people are way more likely to catch it, means they're more likely to transmit it by virtue of simple numbers.
The other part which gives us this understanding of who spreads & how comes from genomic sequencing of the variants and epidemiological tracing. This is the type of analysis that public health officials undertake when they're dealing with a contaned outbreak and they identify the index case & follow up with their contacts & test their samples and see how the virus spread. It takes longer and is more difficult to do because you do need more closed systems - Australia and New Zealand have been doing more of that sort of thing with outbreaks, but there are other similar studies worldwide done on restaurant outbreaks or seniors' residences etc where there is more control over mapping the contacts. This is where some of our knowledge about superspreaders comes from - some people appear very efficient at spreading, while others are not. Still lots to learn.
runor, fwiw, I don't think much of DBH at all but it's because I think she's done pathetically little & too late at every step.
But I want to know, so what in your opinion is that golden mean? What is the something that should have been done, but which is not this stuff that is being done? I don't think we knee jerked; I think we didn't far enough. What is it that you think should have been done? and runor, it's not a matter of being open to information about the value of a life of a person. There's nothing for us to say about this.. It's just a matter of your own values. If you're fine with a certain death toll from the pandemic because you don't feel the saving of those lives justified certain public polices, just own that opinion. It's not an attack or personal for people to say they reject that viewpoint. I mean, we can disagree. That's what a democracy is.
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I am so glad to hear that our medical professionals are willing to risk their lives for the unvaccinated
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