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Fellow catters as I write this I am watching over my old boy, Charlie, who is very very ill. I had him at the kitty hospital for two nights for fluids and medicines. They wanted to do an ultrasound but really he is showing signs of liver failure (he is jaundiced) and has severe pancreatitis that may be related to a cancerous growth so I decided to just bring him home, keep him as comfortable as possible then let him go when the time is right which may very well be tomorrow.
He is so happy in his little kitty bed, I have the door open to let in fresh air so I think a much better choice than the trauma of emergency vet care. I am getting purrs and biscuits but no interest in food.
Charlie's nickname is "Chuck". A family joke was to always ask "whats up, chuck?" because he has always been a specialist at hacking something up - upchucking as it were.
I know you all understand where we are. What amazes me is since my diagnosis is my inability to handle emotions and stress as well so it takes a lot of agonized waffling to come to a decision about things. I sure didn't use to be this way. I am getting used to people thinking I am a little nuts. I will try and post a pic of my sweet boy soon.
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I'm sorry to hear that. We kept all our cats home so they would be with us for their last moments too. The last hours/days will be a devastating yet very precious time.
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Rah, my heart breaks for you. May Charlie slip away peacefully feeling your love for him.
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Rah2464: So sorry to hear about "Chuck". Losing a pet is like losing a beloved family member and may he just go to sleep in the comfort of his home surrounded by love.
I hear you about making decisions since your dx. You are not alone in this respect. Equivocation is something I have experienced as well since dx. Hate it but don't care if someone regards me as nuts.
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Rah, It's the most difficult time with a furry family member. I hope Charlie passes easily surrounded by love in his familiar and loved home. Love certainly has a price tag in the end. (((((Rah)))))
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Rah, I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers coming your way.
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Thank you from the bottom of my heart , my sisters! Love to you all - your words of comfort have helped so much.
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Rah2464 I had to make that same choice for my 20 y/o kitty Chloe the last week of my radiation treatment. That was so so hard, so I am walking with you as you give your Chuck the exit he deserves. I know that's how I would want to go, surrounded by the people I love, in a comfy bed. Much love to you
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Charlie in better days. Also known as
Upchuck
Chuckles
Charlie bell
No-drama chuck
I think the more nicknames you have the more loved you are. I think the name upchuck is pretty descriptive of his biggest talent. Charlie appeared one late Spring evening (it was so cold) huddled in a fence row. My then dog Caesar, found him and started barking like crazy. He weighed 1.5 lbs at the vet. I never did find a momma cat or any other kittens, but it was dark outside so who knows. Still a mystery how he found us because he was a pretty good distance from the road for such tiny legs. He loves loves loves to nap in any sunshine spot he can find. Just goes all in.
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Thank you Edj3 - so sorry to hear about your dear Chloe. Much love right back at you
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Great story about Charlie. He was lucky to have been found by Caesar and lucky to have a lifetime of naps in sunbeams. Think of him when you see them.
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Chuck is beautiful. Sending hugs Rah!
And here's a little laugh for everyone.
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Betrayal what a wonderful sentiment thank you. And Santa thanks for the hugs and the oh so true laugh
You are all lovely, generous, thoughtful beings and I thank you for the words of support and comfort.
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Charlie is so beautiful.
Hoping you and he are absolutely surrounded in love.
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Rah - Charlie is such a big, beautiful boy. I think you are doing the best, surrounding him in love as he makes his journey. He looks as though he has a wonderful soul.
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Poor Chuck!
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Too cute, Spookiesmom
Rah, somehow I missed all those posts. I am sorry to hear about Charlie.
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Rah, chuck is soooo handsome. Sorry if I missed but how long have u had him? Im glad you found each other. He is obviously loved and had a wonderful life. I'm so sorry
Going back to what you said about not being able to handle emotions and stress as well along with waffling. Im right there with you. This is just different. Losing a pet is an indescribable pain. Hugs to you deb
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Thank you, DebAl. We had Charlie for 14 years.
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Good morning, cat lovers. My tiny cat, Midnight Louie, woke me up a 5 this morning. He just wanted to purr. I was able to go back to sleep for a couple of hours.
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Grace has gotten into an odd habit the last month. In the middle of the night she will jump up on the bed and meow to wake me up to either cuddle her under covers or just to get a few scritches before she settles down again.
Princess is still being Princess and cuddling down by my feet once I settle in for the night.
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Good morning, cat lovers. Miss Felix had a jealousy fit, yesterday. She was sitting on the couch with cat daddy and I. Midnight Louie jumped on the back of the couch laying behind my head. Felix was hissing and howling at the top of her lungs. Cat daddy had to put her up and carry her into the bedroom with him. She would not stay and went to closed door to continue hissing and howling. Midnight Louie must of thought this is stupid let me out on the lanai and then all was quiet. They are as bad as children.
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I love reading about the adventures of Miss Felix and Midnight Louie.
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Oh Miss Felix being a drama queen.
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Good morning. They are at it again.
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Announcement: for the first morning *ever*, I awakened my cats, instead of the reverse!
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Ms Felix and Midnight Louie would be bored without each other. It's probably the most excitement in their day.
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