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  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    I am right now putting together a little talk about the First Ladies (hopefully, at some point, it will be renamed First Spouses). And in fairness, one should not pick a president based on their spouse. Along with (hopefully) attraction to the person, the First Ladies basically fall into three categories: they married for the adventurous life their spouse represented (Dolley Madison, Lou Hoover, Lady Bird Johnson come to mind), others married men who shared their political aspirations (Sarah Polk, Mary Lincoln, Helen Taft, Florence Harding, Rosalind Carter, Hillary Clinton to name a few), others just plain loved the guy & would have married him no matter what they did.....these ladies often resented politics and were very reluctantly dragged into it (Elizabeth Monroe, Jane Pierce, Bess Truman, Mamie Eisenhower, Jackie Kennedy, Nancy Reagan being some examples). So, as much as I don't like Trump, it is based on his lack of knowledge concerning the job & jingoistic jargon, not his wealth or wife (and the poor children of presidents have it even worse, many had troubled lives in part due to their parent's fame. At least you choose your spouse, you do not choose your parents!).

  • rainnyc
    rainnyc Member Posts: 1,289
    edited April 2016

    Such an interesting viewpoint, Ruthbru. I can think of many reasons to condemn Trump, but honestly, I do feel his wife is off-limits.

    For perspective on a president who comes from wealth, FDR and JFK both did. As did George Washington (though he was not at Trump levels for his time).

    Where are you giving your talk, Ruthbru?

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    We have a museum in our town & in the summer they have 'Front Porch Chats'; where, on Sunday afternoons in the summer, local people give talks on a wide range of topics. I was on the Board for quite a few years (finally getting off this year, whoo hoo!) & always do one talk each summer on some presidential theme....Lincoln and Theodore Roosevelt both have their own talk. Last year, I did presidential trivia and people seemed to enjoy it, so this year I thought I'd do it from the First Ladies side of the coin.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    Hm...Melania age 45, attracted to Donald age 69 for who he is or his money? (24 year age difference) As stated in my above post, I know we vote for the president. But the whole family takes center stage when the president is in office. Yes, we can mention First Ladies of another era, but modern day First Ladies since Jaqueline Kennedy have been right there beside the president doing their part, enhancing and advising . Of course, it would remain to be seen what Yougoslavian born Melania Knauss would bring to the table were she to become FL. I don't feel I am attacking Melania, i am looking at the whole picture. A lot of people don't do that, then when the reality is different than the expectation, they are the first to say, wait a minute, this isn't what I thought it was gonna be.
  • PatRN10
    PatRN10 Member Posts: 332
    edited April 2016

    Yes I do disagree but do enjoy having a respectful conversation with you guys without everyone getting all upset ! Maybe our experiences in BC give us that. So many jump off the deep end if a differing opinion appears.

    Just a question for the Hilary supporters; What do you make of her confiscated e-mails in which she told her daughter and the Egyptian President that the Benghazi attack was terrorism then she went and said to the families and the public it was the video ?. Personally I think she lied because it went against the POTUS's message that :ISIS, (the JV team) was on the run.

    What about her treatment of the women that Bill victimized and/or assaulted like Juanita Broaddrick? As the Democrat woman in my post from Time Magazine (not exactly a conservative publication) said; Hilary is no supporter of women.

    Trump may not be the most polished politician and make gaffs but I think that is what people like about him.

    We will have to wait for the FBI report.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    Also in regards to presidential nominees, once they've become the nominated candidate of their party, they all use their spouses to campaign for them. If the spouse is liked by the public, all the better for the nominee. You really can't separate them. Campaign advisors are thrilled when a spouse is well received by the public.Just as people loved Jackie's pillbox hat and restoration of the White House, Betty Ford's outspoken, modern day views, Barbara Bush's pearls and matronly appearance and the classiness of Michele Obama, they are going to look at the next First Lady to see what she.....he.....will bring to the table. And for Melania, it may be that $150-an-ounce caviar-infused moisturizer she markets under her name.....


  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    It is entertaining when someone just says whatever pops into his or her mind; but it probably won't work so well when they are dealing with evil dictators who have nuclear weapons.


  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    Oh my:

    Sarah Palin took to the stump Friday in Wisconsin in support of Republican front-runner Donald Trump and had heads turning when she spoke of "seducing" illegal immigrants with gift baskets.

    The remark was directed at Trump rival Ted Cruz, who joined with Glenn Beck in July 2014 to hand out care packages with soccer balls, teddy bears, and other items to illegal immigrant children at the border. The move was reportedly intended to be a statement against President Obama's non-enforcement of immigration laws.

    "What the heck are you thinking, candidates?" Palin asked Friday while speaking at a Milwaukee County Republican dinner. "What the heck are you thinking when you're actually asking for more immigrants — even illegal immigrants, welcoming them in."

    "Even inducing and seducing them with gift baskets: 'Come on over the border and here's a gift basket of teddy bears and soccer balls,'" she added.

    Based on the reaction on social media, Palin's speech was "awkward" at best, with the 2008 Republican vice presidential candidate not receiving the welcome she was accustomed to just a few short years ago. Then again, it wasn't really a Trump crowd.

    "At least they didn't boo," Palin said afterwards, according to NBC News.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited April 2016

    Ruth,

    I agree with you. It is great entertainment and even better press, but are people thinking beyond that in their support of Trump? Wanting to stick it to the political establishment may be understandable in the moment, but the stakes are much higher than that.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    btw, Ruth, I wish I could come see your Front Porch Chat and I think your First Lady talk will be well received.


  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited April 2016

    Following along on the thread...though I can't figure out who I am going to vote for in the California primary yet! My politics fall closer to Bernie than Hillary on the spectrum, and I am addicted to Rachel Maddow (not as fond of the rest of the MSNBC commentators, but Rachel is just so smart and watchable), and yet, Bernie as a candidate doesn't excite me at all. Haven't been able to figure out why.....I keep wishing Joe Biden had entered the race. I've never been much of a Hillary fan. I will certainly vote for either one in the general election.

    In addition to being a buffoon, and an idiot and someone I'd worry would be trigger happy, Trump's ramblings about Muslims hurt. Personally. My two grandchildren are Muslim. They are the lights of my life and have great futures ahead of them. DGD is one of the smartest people I know. DGS is athletic, kind and thoughtful. Would he round them up? Keep them from re-entering the country if they went to visit their other Grandma who lives abroad? And oh by the way, I am Jewish and had relatives who died in concentration camps in Europe. One of my best friends from elementary school is Japanese and her parents were in internment camps. Yes, it is personal. We shouldn't brush it aside as just talk. No one can convince me that any of Trump's actions would be anything but destructive for this country, and for the world. What is even more worrisome is that I find Ted Cruz to be just as scary.....in a more subtle and perhaps more secretive sort of way...

    Meanwhile, on a lighter note, I wish I could be there for your talk, Ruth. It sounds like fun! I wonder where you would place Michelle Obama in your categorization? Now there is a woman I wish would run for President....

    Octogirl

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited April 2016

    I think Melania Trump is the least of our woes if that man becomes POTUS. After all, Bill Clinton had an affair IN the oval office and then said "I did not have sex with that woman" claiming that only intercourse is sex? Ummm, not exactly First Man classy (and that is putting aside that he was POTUS at the time!!!) and yet, I am thrilled to vote for Hillary (because she will likely be the nominee) due to HER views on the issues. Bill can handle his duties as First Man and will likely be very involved in President HRC's decisions regarding matters of State that she could share with him legally.

    FWIW, I also agree about the ridiculousness of trying to beat the Benghazi/e-mail dead horse again and again. It is not going to net any results that have not already been discussed so let it go already. The money spent on this is out of control.


  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    Yikes, that would be pressure! We'll see.....

    I would say, that along with loving him, Michelle would be in the 'married a guy who would make life an adventure' group.

  • badger
    badger Member Posts: 34,614
    edited April 2016

    Yes Ruth, the circus is in town this week in advance of the primary Tuesday. They're all here.

    Headline in today's Wisconsin State Journal: Pro-Cruz crowd icy toward Palin. Story says she was met with tepid applause and stone-faced silence Friday night at a Milwaukee County Republican gathering. Meanwhile, Gov. Walker is "all-in" for Cruz. I am not a fan of our Gov but won't cloud this discussion with that topic. I will say, though, he's probably kicking himself for dropping out of the race. In this field, he might have had a chance.

    Politifact deems Trump to be low on the Truth-O-Meter, but high in the polls. My BIL voted absentee for Trump. I asked him why. He shrugged and said, "I don't know." Geez!

  • PatRN10
    PatRN10 Member Posts: 332
    edited April 2016

    Hi kaybe, I have been following the thread.

    I used to think along those lines about the casket ceremony at Andrews but this is a very telling interview with Megyn Kelly and the families :0(.

    I know many of you don't like Megyn or FOX (LOL or Faux) but these families have no reason to lie. Pat Smith and Charles Woods are very credible and Charles' notes from that day are very detailed.


  • ceanna
    ceanna Member Posts: 5,270
    edited April 2016

    I have continued to read, with interest, the posts on this thread. At this point, I cannot support any of the candidates from either party and am disappointed, that in order to vote in November, I may have to choose from the "least of the worst." I pray that by the time the November election rolls around, we will have a consensus candidate and not all out rioting!!

    As I have commented before, I am neither Dem or Rep but hope I make my choice on the trustworthiness and accomplishments of the candidates.

    It grieves me to see so much of our political process deteriorate to fighting, arguing, and name calling on both sides. I always felt confident that being a liberal meant that people are open to new ideas and willing to listen to all sides, but the reverse is becoming the norm. Students on college campuses call for bans on speakers who don't agree with their "liberal" view instead of listening to, learning from, and respectfully debating them--even labeling signs supporting another candidate as hate speech. Candidate rallies have turned into pep rallies for violence, and the name calling is worst than childish--we teach our children not to name call and be respectful. What became of actual debates on the issues instead of labeling the other guy as "wrong" if we disagree? While I may not want to sit through the many hours of the Lincoln-Douglas debates, isn't that far better than the Burr-Hamilton duel?

    How did the phrases "liberal democrat" and "conservative Christian" even come about? I know many people who don't fit either category who are respectful liberal Christians or conservative democrats. I detest labels and their over-generalizations, and to me, party platforms should be things of the past like deals made in smoky back rooms. Each candidate should stand and be heard and not shouted down or denied free speech. If each candidate would comment about specifics and their ideology, and commit to their views, it would be invaluable to every voter. I can make a choice based on their views, but cannot make a choice when everyone is calling each other names.

    When we label all people who might disagree with our choice as too "liberal" or too "conservative" or "lying" or "wrong," it tells me that our society in general is in trouble. There have always been three sides to every story--yours, mine, and the facts. Most "facts" theses days seem debatable because they become fuel for the "me first" reporting so common these days. When comments are expressed before the details have even been uncovered, that is opinion, not fact. When first hand accounts are dismissed because they disagree with a third hand opinion, that is bias.

    I respectfully submit my thoughts to you. Peace.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    All the name calling, the fighting, the chaos, I feel it is the only way many candidates feel they will get media coverage. So I blame the media largely for they way these political rallies and debates are covered. They easily hype up any dissension and discord because that's what viewers will zoom in on. Then it snowballs from there. That's why, unfortunately, someone like Bernie Sanders with good ideas and logic doesn't get the coverage. Instead, it's, oh, Trump made reference to menstruation! the size of his member! his wife posed nude! his adviser is being sued for assault! women who get abortions should be punished!


  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    I was in Boston last fall & I spent part of a day at the John F. Kennedy Presidential Museum. In part of their coverage of the 1960 campaign, you could sit and watch the Nixon/Kennedy Debates. What struck me so much then, and even more so now, is that you had two grown up men having a civilized debate on issues. There was no name calling, yelling, interrupting; just a thoughtful discussion of issues (and sometimes even agreeing). The tone could not have been more different that what we see today (between people of the SAME party and are presumably on the same side!). I know things were going on behind the scenes in that (and every) campaign that weren't so above-board (on both sides), but the face both Nixon and Kennedy wanted to portray to the nation was that of dignity and intelligence (as would befit the highest office of the land, IMO).

  • Meow13
    Meow13 Member Posts: 4,859
    edited April 2016

    Ruthbru, did you visit Hyannis? I will be there in May plan to visit to the museum.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    Ruth, a very telling comparison of those Nixon-Kennedy debates to the ones today.It is somewhat tragic that the respectfulness towards other candidates has crumbled. Now it seems like a gladiator sport, the more crap you can throw and get to stick on your competitor, the better. It's simply awful. I've seen a little of the CNN show "Race for the White House" (loses my interest with far too many commercials), but it tells how Mike Dukakis apologized for attacks on Joe Biden and how Bush Senior didn't want to run attack ads. Sadly, manners are a thing of the past apparently.

    Kay, with all that lying Trump does on the spot, it makes me feel like he is making a mockery of the voting public. It's as if he thinks to himself, these dummies will believe absolutely anything I tell them. It feels to me that he thinks because he is rich and surrounded by all the symbols of success, that's all that matters for "greatness". I wonder if people actually think some of his wealth is going to rub off on them if he is elected.

    So very true about Megan Kelly and Trump's view of her and women

  • PatRN10
    PatRN10 Member Posts: 332
    edited April 2016

    Suersis. You are spot on.

    Cheers fellow junkies!

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  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    Ha!

    Meow, no we didn't get to Hyannis....ran out of time to do everything we wanted. But we did to the JFK birthplace in Brookline, which I loved most of all. It is just a normal house in a residential neighborhood. The family bought it back after he died and furnished it with original furniture, and period pieces (supervised by Rose,so pretty accurate) and donated it back to the National Park Services (so it is free to tour). The basement has a small gift shop & theater where they show the film the family made for Rose's 100 birthday. Very moving and well worth the stop, but check ahead for times they are open if you go (And give me about Hyannis!).

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited April 2016

    "It's as if he thinks to himself, these dummies will believe absolutely anything I tell them." - divinemrsm

    I believe that is exactly what he thinks and these two statements bear it out. (Not in quotes because I was too lazy to look up the exact quotes)

    - I could stand in the middle of the street and shoot someone and still not lose votes.

    - I love the poorly educated.

    It really is beyond me and almost surreal .

    Yes, in the arena of low, coarse and crude "debates" the Republicans win in a landslide. The Democrats have definitely lost that one, so far.

    Here's is my Hyannis story.

    During JFK's presidency, we were vacationing on Cape Code. It was the summer before he was assassinated and I was about to enter second grade. Kennedy was known to attend Mass at a nearby church. He often greeted citizens who waited outside the church for him to exit. My mother was very keen to go to the church to see JFK, however, he attended an early Mass and we would have had to get up early to see him. My father, just wanting to sleep in on his well earned vacation, refused to get up early for something that mattered little to him. My mom was a timid driver and was not comfortable driving in an unfamiliar place, so we didn't go. As you can imagine, my mother never let my father forget that she missed her chance to see JFK 😱

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    It is always fun to hang around people who THINK (whether you agree with their conclusions or not)! ThumbsUp

  • rainnyc
    rainnyc Member Posts: 1,289
    edited April 2016

    Hydranne, well said. I'm enjoying this thread partly because it is a distraction from all things breast cancer, and partly because it is interesting to hear people articulate their points of view, even if I don't agree with them. Or even, especially when I don't agree, since like many of us, I move in circles where many people I see every day think as I do (though some of my friends are very much feeling the Bern, and I am not).

    And because it is interesting to hear memories of how our lives intersected with elections and presidencies in the past.

    And because Ruth knows everything about presidential history!

    Here's my childhood memory: I was a small child when Kennedy was assassinated, and I have only hazy memories of that time (the adults being upset, nobody paying attention to me, the flag at half mast). In contrast, I was keenly aware of the Watergate scandal and what it represented in terms of the betrayal of the presidency. I vaguely remember watching the Watergate hearings on TV at school, and my father pointing to the NY Times and telling me (rather thunderously), "Read this. It's history being made." I vividly remember the Saturday Night Massacre, when Nixon tried to get Attorney General Richardson to fire the special prosecutor, Archibald Cox, and Richardson resigned. So Nixon was rather demonized in our home. We were on vacation when Nixon resigned, in August, staying in a cluster of cottages that families could rent. There were only two TVs in the place, so the adults gathered around one and the kids around the other. And watching that brief speech, when Nixon said that he would resign the following day, I can remember, for the first time, feeling sympathy for the man and some understanding that while he'd gotten himself into the mess, he still suffered badly for it.

  • DivineMrsM
    DivineMrsM Member Posts: 9,620
    edited April 2016

    Last night, Saturday Night Live's opening skit was a news woman interviewing one of Trump's supporters (a Trump-ette). You can access the video scrolling to the bottom of this article:

    http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2016/04/03/snl-ope...


  • octogirl
    octogirl Member Posts: 2,804
    edited April 2016

    Two childhood memories (which illustrate that I came from a family of left-leaning solidly Democratic political junkies):

    In 1963 I was nine years old, living in Houston, Tx. My father was very involved in Democratic politics, and was invited to be one of the folks who greeted Kennedy's plane when he made a brief stop in Houston the day before going to Dallas. He got Kennedy's autograph on Air Force One Stationary! I was so proud of that ...So...do we still have that autograph? No..I remember taking it to school a few months later for Show and Tell, but beyond that: sigh, no idea what happened to it....

    Memory number two: 1968: driving across the bay bridge to San Francisco, after we had moved from Texas to California....We were on our way out to dinner...my parents in the front seat, me and my sisters in the back, listening to LBJ's speech on the radio...when he announced that he would not seek re-election, both of my parents (who were staunch opponents of the Vietnam war by that point, and had never been fans of LBJ during their Texas years...) started clapping and cheering and yelling..and my father pounded the steering wheel so happily and excitedly that I thought he was going to drive right off the bridge into the bay!

    Octogirl

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited April 2016

    The memories these posts are bringing back! I was in 3rd grade when President Kennedy was assassinated and I remember all of the teachers crying and that started all of us kids bawling. I went home and my Dad had come home from work because his boss told everyone they could leave. He was crying. My mom came home a bit later and she was crying. I remember the funeral on television and what that was like. Very emotional time in my house filled with staunch democrats for sure.

    As for Nixon, I was in a mall when he resigned and the one store that sold television sets was packed and we watched his speech. I remember feeling sorry for him too even though I knew he was guilty of so many wrong doings.

    Trip down memory lane. I also remember my father watching the Nixon/Kennedy debates on t.v. Nixon was sweating bullets and my Dad said he looked like a convicted felon! LOL

    My dad has passed but he would be very amused by what is going on these days I am sure. He always thought Trump was a self-serving jerk though.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    I was very young during the 1960 election, but I do know my very Republican dad voted for Nixon because "he didn't want the Pope telling us what to do" (I don't know who my mom voted for. She hated conflict so tended to keep her opinions to herself. She came from a much more liberal family, in 1968 we were visiting relatives in California when her 89 year old uncle declared that if he were younger, he'd be marching in the streets with the protesters.....which horrified my dad, and thrilled me). Anyway, I also remember my family watching JFK on TV at the end of the Cuban Missile Crisis, and my dad making the comment that Kennedy had really grown up that week. So by then, Kennedy had gained his grudging respect.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited April 2016

    If you are in Boston & go to the JFK Museum, there is an absolutely fascinating exhibit (downstairs, so I don't know if it a permanent or rotating exhibit). All the discussions during the Cuban Missile Crisis were taped. So you go to Day 1, and there are pictures & descriptions of each person whose voice you will hear: Robert Kennedy, Attorney General of the United States etc. When they are talking on the tape, their face lights up. so you can follow right along. They also have maps, models etc. You really get a sense of how close we were to all-out war.

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