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  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2016

    rosie(squared), and the other newly-diagnosed ladies on this thread, know that you WILL get through this. You'll hear this expression around here a lot: we are in your pocket. We've been there, individually or collectively, at all steps and stages; you can come to us for answers or for reliable sources to look for answers. Some of us pray in various faith traditions, some send healing thoughts or energy--but we all are there for you!

    For me, the scariest parts were the week after my routine mammo report and the two weeks between diagnostic imaging and biopsy. Got the routine mammo report the day after the mammo, the BIRADS 4 designation while I was still lying on the ultrasound table, and the diagnosis the day after the biopsy. But even though I had interim answers pretty quickly, those weeks between procedures were unnerving and scary. I got some moral support & encouragement from online and real-life acquaintances before and shortly after my surgery, but I wish I had found this place sooner than when I first posted three weeks later.

    Welcome to the sorority nobody wants to pledge--but now that you're here, know that you have dozens-to-hundreds of sisters who will help you on this journey.

  • StaceySue2U
    StaceySue2U Member Posts: 281
    edited February 2016

    Researching and looking at pictures etc. is how I'm keeping myself together, too. That and keeping busy, walking, etc. And daydreaming about how nice I'll look after reconstruction. That consolation prize really does help keep me going :)

  • rosierosie
    rosierosie Member Posts: 71
    edited February 2016

    I just got back from the surgeon I have DCIS non invasive State 0 grade 1 he going to give me a lumpectomy and left sentinel lymph node biopsy w/ poss left avillary dissection wide excision of left breast carcinoma w/ need localization I reading off the paper work. plus after surgery I will need radiation . I am still confused but he told me it was caught it time I feel blessed if though its cancer he said I never miss a mammography I will have surgery March 4 thank you so much for lifting my spirits

  • Annette47
    Annette47 Member Posts: 957
    edited February 2016

    Rosierosie -

    That’s actually really good news, given the situation. DCIS is VERY treatable.

    I would however, encourage you however to come down to the DCIS forum (further down the main page) and read some of the stickied posts there, as well as read up on DCIS in the main section of Breastcancer.org, as it is much better to be educated about your diagnosis and treatment options.

    One question you should be asking your surgeon is why they are planning on a sentinel node biopsy - that is not standard practice for a lumpectomy for DCIS only. It is usually done along with a mastectomy as once the breast has been removed it can no longer be done, but with a lumpectomy, it is more usual to wait until after the final pathology from the lumpectomy. If that shows nothing other than pure DCIS (which given that yours is low grade is very likely), then there is no need to undergo the small but real risk of lymphedema from the SNB. If the lumpectomy showed a small invasive cancer (unlikely with a grade 1 DCIS), then they could always go back and perform a SNB at a later time.

    They wrote the part about possible axillary dissection just to cover themselves on the off chance that the SNB shows cancer in the lymph nodes, but again, with a diagnosis of DCIS stage 1, that is VERY unlikely.

  • rosierosie
    rosierosie Member Posts: 71
    edited February 2016

    How should I approach the surgeon about this, I believe he said he does it out of precaution so he check for anything unusual, is this dangerous thing to do he is a reputable surgeon thank you.

  • JACTsMom
    JACTsMom Member Posts: 55
    edited February 2016

    Rosie, I also have DCIS stage 0 grade 1 and my lumpectomy is on Tuesday. I was originally scheduled for sentinel node biopsy also but I cancelled that portion of the surgery. Initially I'd insisted on the SNB being done along with the LX even though my surgeon actually said it wasn't necessary. With the amazing information from this site and my own research I realized I wanted the SNB simply because I was afraid and didn't have all the facts needed to make the right decision. I'm so grateful now to not have to endure an unnecessary surgery with possible life long side effects to say the least. If it turns out I NEED the SNB next month or next year or 10 years from now well so be it.

  • iammags
    iammags Member Posts: 216
    edited February 2016

    I confused. I was under the impression that staging usually doesn't happen until after the tumor has been removed. Is that right? I have two lesions. One DCIS grade 3 and IDC grade 2 but it hasn't been staged. I am having a lumpectomy on March 2nd and I'm having a SNB as well. Maybe because one lesion is invasive? I'm confused. There is so much info to keep track of!

  • JACTsMom
    JACTsMom Member Posts: 55
    edited February 2016

    "All DCIS is considered stage 0 breast cancer — the earliest stage possible. "Stage" describes how far the cancer has spread beyond the site of the original tumor. Even though DCIS is always considered stage 0, it can be any size and be located in any number of areas inside the breast."

  • JACTsMom
    JACTsMom Member Posts: 55
    edited February 2016

    I assume because you have IDC also that the SNB is necessary for you but I'm not the one to ask.

  • JACTsMom
    JACTsMom Member Posts: 55
    edited February 2016

    Oh and yes you are so right! Sooo much info to keep track of. I feel confident in where I am today with my case but when treatment time comes that's another thing.

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    iammags:

    When stage information is provided based on the results of clinical observations, biopsies, and imaging tests, it is called "clinical staging." The actual stage may be revised after surgery if there are certain additional findings.

    Final or "pathologic staging" is done after the pathology of the tissues removed by lumpectomy (or mastectomy) plus any axillary lymph nodes (if applicable) is complete. At that time, definitive pathologic staging will be finalized, based on things like actual size of tumor(s) and nodal status.

    BarredOwl

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2016

    Invasive tumors can't truly be staged until after surgery: staging of IDC reflects a combination of tumor size and lymph node involvement, which can't be known until the tumor is removed and at least the sentinel nodes are biopsied. But DCIS is considered stage 0 even before surgery, unless and until proven otherwise. As long as it remains within the ducts, it cannot metastasize to the nodes, which is why SNB isn't necessary unless invasive cancer is found. JACTsmom and rosierosie's biopsy reports both indicate DCIS only, so there is no need for them to get SNB at the time of lumpectomy. But iammags, because your biopsy showed both DCIS and IDC, the cancer treatment is driven by the invasive cells--and in this case, IDC can metastasize so you would get SNB.

    rosierosie, talk to your surgeon and express your concerns. Could be that he won't do the SNB if the lumpectomy reveals only DCIS, but is trying to get your consent to SNB at the same time if it appears while you’re still in surgery that the tumor actually contains some invasive (IDC) cells (or as soon as possible after the surgical path report if IDC is found by the lab). The “axillary node dissection" is in case the SNB if performed reveals positive nodes with the likelihood that cells may have spread beyond the sentinel (s) to the non-sentinel lymph nodes in the armpit. You may well not be getting all the procedures listed, but he probably wants to let you know you might end up needing them and get your consent should that be the case.

    But ask, tell him what you want or don't want or why, and take notes--better yet, ask to record your visit. If he gets defensive about that, explain that you are still in shock about being diagnosed and might get confused about or forget some of what he says--it's to help you clearly understand in case you have to go back and listen to it later.

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    Many new members diagnosed with DCIS find this post from Beesie to be extremely helpful. It is a good idea to bookmark it and read it over and over, because there is a lot to absorb.

    A layperson's guide to DCIS (scroll all the way up to the top of the page to read the original/first post):

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/68/topic/...

    BarredOwl

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    Rosierosie:

    Some hospitals have been slower than others to update their practices regarding sentinel node biopsy (SNB) for apparently pure DCIS (any grade, with no evidence of invasion) when treated by breast conserving surgery (lumpectomy).

    Lymphedema is a complication that can occur in some cases with SNB (estimates of incidence vary), the risk of it showing up is a life-long risk (it may appear years later), and once it appears, it is a life-long condition. Although the baseline risk may not be large with SNB, if it develops, the impact of lymphedema is significant.

    You can raise the question of sentinel node biopsy for apparently pure DCIS in your case by telling your surgeon that you understand there is some risk of lymphedema, and that you are wondering if in light of your pathology and imaging findings, you could reasonably elect to have lumpectomy (without SNB) as a first procedure, obtain review of the final pathology, and only if invasion is found, then undergo SNB in a second (later) procedure.

    If the surgical pathology shows no invasion, you would be able to avoid the SNB procedure and its accompanying risks, including the risk of SNB-associated lymphedema.

    Again, most lumpectomy patients with apparently pure DCIS can avoid SNB completely, or at least defer it until it is clearly medically indicated. Invasive cancer is found in only about 10% to 20% of cases overall.

    A possible exception in which SNB may be considered for apparently pure DCIS treated by lumpectomy is the case of excision in an anatomic location (e.g., tail of the breast), which could compromise the performance of a future SNB procedure.

    Note that with a lumpectomy for apparently pure DCIS, if clean margins are not obtained, a further surgical procedure(s) may be needed anyway (re-excision procedure to obtain clean margins). So, presumably you are willing to undergo a second procedure in general, and have no contraindication for a second procedure (which entails another round of some type of anesthesia, etc.)

    For a more information, see the recent discussion with JACTsMom here:

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/68/topics...

    BarredOwl

  • MomOfTwins98
    MomOfTwins98 Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2016

    Hi RosieRosie

    Your diagnosis is the earliest possible stage - When my BC was diagnosed, it was from a biospy as the Mammo missed it and ultrasound was not sure but my OB felt the lump so I kept going. When it was first found, they did stage it and said it was Stage 1. At the time, I didnt understand what was happening and thought that was it...found out that the stage is set at that time but can change. I met with the suregon the same week and he told me the same thing. In my case, they found an additional tumor (both IDC) during a breast MRI, before surgery, which was actually being done to check the other breast (which, thank goodness, was fine) and then in surgery, found two DCIS. (all 4 in same breast). However, they were close together and all were taken during lumpectomy and SNB. My surgeon told me they always do a SNB just to be sure it has not spread to nodes but, with only DCIS, I do not know. My stage stayed the same as Stage 1, Grade 1 from before and after surgery and I even needed a second surgery as re-excision as my margins were not clean after the first one - after second, got it all!. (I went to Dana Farner for a 2nd opinion and she also confirmed that) - Because my Oncotype was 18, I also asked at DF about treatment and she told me "no chemo" - It is so much information to digest and understand as well as terms that I had never even heard of - Education is the best weapon and, believe me, I asked TONS of questions. I also had two needle localizations (one for each tumor) - sounds like you have a great team and with DCIS, it is very treatable...they say cureable. So glad it was found so early. I did require IMRT whole breast radiation and, while it wore me out, I continued to work full time and take care of my family through the entire thing so it is doable - take one step at a time and I know you will be just fine!

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    Hi Momoftwins:

    Since you had known invasive disease (IDC) from biopsy and did not have pure DCIS, it seems that you appropriately received sentinel node biopsy. As you have appreciated, your situation appears to be distinct.

    The information I provided above to Rosierosie for patients with apparently pure DCIS and receiving lumpectomy is based on current consensus treatment guidelines for breast cancer promulgated by the National Comprehensive Cancer Network (Professional Version 1.2016), which are quoted here:

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/68/topics...

    BarredOwl

  • Fearless1956
    Fearless1956 Member Posts: 106
    edited February 2016

    rosierosie---You've been provided with a lot of good information from many on this thread.  Soak it all in and take things one day at a time.  And remember to breathe.

    I also was diagnosed with DCIS last October and can still remember the devastating feeling I had just to hear the word cancer.  My 80 year old mother had only been diagnosed 6 weeks before and I was supposed to be helping her and then I get diagnosed as well!  Crazy!  It felt like a double whammy.  I had similar fears and anxiety as you about what was to come with treatment and also worried about the financial piece even though I have insurance (if it can truly be called that in this day and time of outrageous deductibles and co-pays).  I've been able to work out payment plans with my surgeon, hospital and RO.  I understand that the news and dealing with the diagnosis of cancer is tough going early on.  The day will come that you will get over the initial shock and the day to day of living with a cancer diagnosis will become your "new normal."  I'm now on the other side of surgery and radiation and my "new normal" is not near as bad as I thought it would be.  Hang in there and keep moving forward in your journey!!!  You are a survivor!!!

  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2016

    rosierosie, I’m going to re-post a photo here I posted on a much earlier thread. Shortly after my diagnosis, a week before my surgery, I was still feeling quite numb. Went to a business meeting downtown and took public transit, since it was a nice warm night and I was still in the best physical shape I’ve been in 20 yrs. Got off the train and began walking home. And then, on the sidewalk, I was stopped in my tracks by this:

    image

    Nobody knew I would be walking down that sidewalk at that time--certainly nobody who knew me closely enough to be aware I had cancer was inclined to write on the sidewalk. I pulled out my phone and took the shot just to make sure it was not a mirage.

  • etnasgrl
    etnasgrl Member Posts: 650
    edited February 2016

    Wow ChiSandy, that is AWESOME!!!!

  • RDA123
    RDA123 Member Posts: 100
    edited February 2016

    hi. I was just diagnosed with dcis. Wondering what percentages they gave you all for recurrence of lupectomy vs masectomy?

  • rosierosie
    rosierosie Member Posts: 71
    edited February 2016

    I am so confused about the sentinel lymph node biopsy do I have to have it, what questions should I ask the surgeon he want me to have it I have dcis stage 0 grade 1 should I get a second opinion or just relax

  • MomOfTwins98
    MomOfTwins98 Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2016

    Hi Robinda

    According to Breast cancer.org information, it states "Lumpectomy followed by radiation is likely to be equally as effective as mastectomy for people with only one site of cancer in the breast and a tumor under 4 centimeters. Clear margins are also a requirement (no cancer cells in the tissue surrounding the tumor)." Here is the entire link http://www.breastcancer.org/treatment/surgery/mast...

    This is the same information I was given by my surgeon when I was first diagnosed. Chance of recurrence is based on so many factors and, in the end, there are no guarantees, but the MO and surgeon should be able to give you all that information so you can make the best educated decision. As so many here have said, please take a notebook, write down all of your questions and then write down all of the answers. It helps so much when you can go back and go through all of the information and digest what has been given to you. If you have a care navigation nurse available to you, talk to him/her. They really are a wealth of information and act as an advocate for you as you try to sift through it all

    Rosie...maybe ask WHY he feels so strongly that you have it. Again, my situation was very different but, if he is suggesting you have the SNB, he/she must have a reason and you have the right to ask and understand the reasoning

  • bluepearl
    bluepearl Member Posts: 961
    edited February 2016

    They just want to make sure, I think. I don't see the need but I am not a doctor either. I know some people can have breast cancer in a lymph node and none in their breast, so maybe just checking. In any case, congratulations on not having invasive cancer and celebrate!!!!!


  • ChiSandy
    ChiSandy Member Posts: 12,133
    edited February 2016

    Definitely ask your surgeon why, if you have such an early non-aggressive (some even say “indolent,” or “lazy”) cancer that is confined to your ducts and by definition can’t spread to your nodes, he insists on a sentinel node biopsy if you’re getting lumpectomy. Tell him you don’t want to risk lymphedema and you don’t want to be under anesthesia and have any more incisions than you have to. But also tell him you understand that if invasive cancer is found, either while you’re still on the table or by the pathology lab after your DCIS is removed, you are willing to go back in for that sentinel node biopsy because it could prevent your having to get a full axillary lymph node dissection in the event the sentinel nodes are negative.

    If he still insists you need it, I would thank him politely, ask for copies of your charts and imaging, and get a second opinion. Any reputable and honest surgeon would not object. He might say, “well they’re going to come to the same conclusion” but should still give you your records and not stand in the way of a second opinion....at a different facility, preferably part of a different health system. If he refuses, go to a good breast cancer center within a travelable distance and start over. It’s YOUR life and YOUR body (not to mention YOUR co-pay). Sad to say, but some doctors are just cut-happy. When one is a hammer, everything looks like a nail--especially when this is the way he’s always done things and nobody’s challenged him because they’re afraid to.

    Don’t be intimidated by him just because you hear he’s “highly-regarded.” Highly-regarded by whom? What’s he going to do to you if you challenge him--sue you? Arrest you? Smear you on the Internet? Of course not! As long as you’re awake, clothed and not on the operating table, and he’s holding pen & paper and not a scalpel, he has NO power over you. He works for you, not vice versa.

  • BarredOwl
    BarredOwl Member Posts: 2,433
    edited February 2016

    Rosierosie:

    People whose biopsy showed IDC (invasive from the outset) are treated differently from a person with pure DCIS. The fact that people here who were diagnosed with IDC at the outset received lumpectomy plus SNB would be irrelevant to this question if you have no evidence of invasion.

    We cannot be certain of what is in your pathology report, your clinical presentation, and your exact diagnosis. Your surgeon is familiar with your clinical presentation and all reports (e.g., whether you have enlarged nodes by imaging, whether you had a palpable lump or not, other pathology or imaging findings), and we are not.

    Thus, you need to (a) confirm your understanding of your diagnosis, and (b) ask the surgeon some questions to understand why he recommended SNB for supposedly pure DCIS, which is not standard:

    (1) Tell your surgeon that you understand that your diagnosis is "apparently pure DCIS that is low grade", and that you understand that with sentinel node biopsy, there is some risk of lymphedema.

    (2) Then, ask your surgeon to list the specific reasons that support his recommendation for the SNB in your specific case. Write the reasons down. Read it back to him and request that he confirm it is correct.

    (3) Ask for an estimate of the risk of finding invasive disease in your case. Write it down.

    (4) Ask if in his medical opinion you could reasonably elect to have lumpectomy (without SNB) as a first procedure, obtain review of the final pathology, and only if invasion is found, then undergo SNB in a second (later) procedure. If not, why not?

    With his responses to these questions, you may have a clearer idea about things. If you are unsure, a second opinion is an excellent idea.

    Your surgeon should be a breast surgeon whose practice focuses on treating patients with breast cancer or at risk of getting breast cancer. If your surgeon does not focus almost exclusively on breast cancer, I would recommend that you seek a second opinion.

    BarredOwl

    [P.S., If you are too shy to ask these questions, please take a family member or trusted friend with you to ask them on your behalf. You are entitled to a clear explanation of the basis for any recommended surgical intervention.]

  • RDA123
    RDA123 Member Posts: 100
    edited February 2016
  • MomOfTwins98
    MomOfTwins98 Member Posts: 69
    edited February 2016

    Good Morning,

    ChiSandy is right - you have every right to a second opinion When I decided to get one, my cancer center was very supportive and helped me get all of my records and a contact at Dana Farber. They actually encouraged me and helped facilitate it. Perhaps you'll feel better hearing from another - hope it helps. In my case, they concurred and that made my decisions that much easier

  • Alex82NY
    Alex82NY Member Posts: 6
    edited February 2016

    Hi RosieRosie,

    Stay strong. My mom was just diagnosed with Stage 1A breast cancer back in November, had a double mastectomy followed by immediate reconstruction and all pathology came back stating that no lymph modes were compromised and tumor was very small- she is practically cured/cancer free. She is starting to see the oncologist for the first time with some treatment options to make sure all cancer cells are eliminated (which I just posted about in the Just Diagnosed board). I was extremely nervous, but let me tell you Rosie that breast cancer treatments have come such a long way and strides are made every day. I know it's scary and a hard pill to swallow as it was for my mom (age 56), my family, and I (her son). You will be fine and will say a little prayer for you for good heath and so you can feel at ease.

    Alex

  • Danni1016
    Danni1016 Member Posts: 16
    edited February 2016

    So happy to know they took good care of your mom. Thanks for the update.

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