What are you doing for fun??
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Charlotte,
Florida sounds like a good plan, considering the frigid temps you've had. My father owned a garage at the corner of Kenmare and Elizabeth Streets for well over 20 years, so we always enjoyed Chinese New Years. San Jose has a very large Vietnamese community and they celebrate the Lunar New Year too so I sm enjoying the festivities here. What high school did you go to? I went to Columbus as did my late mother Even the mention of Fordham Rd. brings up a flood of memories.
Not rubbing it in, but I had a lovely picnic on the beach yesterday. 70 degrees, sunny and windless. Picture perfect and soooo relaxing. We were a bit cruel and texted a photo to my brother and SIL in the frozen tundra of northern NJ.
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Caryn, go ahead and rub your lovely weather in, my sister sill has the air conditioner on while I have a large heating bill.Columbus was considered one of the nice high schools, I went to Roosevelt when the population was mostly minority and only about 30% white while I was there they started having a police presence and locked all the bathrooms except for the ones by the offices. I'm starting to plan a summer vacation to San Fransisco DH and I want to see the Muir Woods, Big Sur and some of the city. Last time I was out there was the summer of 69. My parents sent me a plane ticket to go home. Can;t tell my kids what I did then LOL Glad I survived those times. I intend to survive these times too.
Charlotte
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Last week was the BEST week!. In the religious schools here in Israel when the first graders are on their way to reading they have a "Prayerbook Party". The kids are given their first prayerbooks, and the "party" is songs and dances they've prepared for the parents. So on Sunday one of my DGDs had her party and then on Monday another one had hers. The children are so adorable, and they are all thrilled to get their VERY OWN prayerbook.
On Tuesday I went up north for a few days for a retreat run by Beit Natan, a support organization for women with cancer. I've gone to their yearly retreat for a few years now, and as usual my only complaint is that it's too short! The hotel spoils us, and the support sessions and activities were terrific.
This week helped me be ready for what's coming next week - liver biopsy Monday, new chemo (Navelbine) Thursday. Back to real life.
Leah
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Leah, the Prayerbook Party sounds fantastic! What fun that must be - and the joy of the children is always so wonderful to see. And glad you went to the retreat - that sounds great too.
Sorry real life isn't going to be fun this week, but sending prayers and good thoughts your way. Hoping the liver biopsy says all is good for you!
Sending hugs,
Terre
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We have been "exploring our backyard". Yesterday I took a tour of the Fisher Building in Detroit with my DH, his brother and Aunt. It is a beautiful 1920's Art Deco building designed by Albert Kahn. We went up to the 19th floor to get a view of the city and this guy was posing for photos. I believe he is a Peregrine Falcon.
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Poor guy looks cold!Leah
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Shutterbug, sounds like an interesting day; I love seeing old buildings and their architecture, inside and out, as well as viewing a city from above. Dh and I try to check out interesting things around the Ohio Valley area where we live, too.
It's surprising how birds survive in winter weather. About an hour from me in Pittsburgh, there is a webcam on a pair of eagles that many people watch. The eagles have already laid two eggs this year. I saw a photo this morning of the nest covered in snow. You can barely see it, but underneath all that snow was the mamma eagle!
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We also love old buildings. Flew down to Florida sat to visit my sister. We went to see an the Bonnet house estate in Ft Lauderdale. It was built by an artist and has many interesting features and nice gardens. DH and I have been to many of the estates along the Hudson River in ny. I like to imagine that we are guest of the Vanderbilts, etc
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Good luck to you, Leah. Hope the biopsy and the Navelbine won't be too bad, I am thinking of you, I bet the little kids getting their first prayer books and then performing for their families has got to be just too cute and a lot of fun! That is a great age. Take care and please let us know how you made out.
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Got back from Florida Thurs. Weather on the east coast played havoc with the flights. Was supposed to land back in Newark (never use LaGuardia) around 5Pm and got in at 10Pm at least I did get home to the snow and ice from the 80 something degree and sunny Florida. Sister kept me busy doing tourist stuff, did a 3 hr boat ride along the intercoastal waterway and the north river saw mansions and huge yachts. Maybe in my next life will be monetarialy rich. My favorite part was when she took me to the Semilole Indian reservation in the everglades. Another boat ride this time an air boat through the Cedar Swamp. and a visit to the Ah-Tah-Thi-KI museum. I highly recommend a visit if you're in the area very handicap friendly although I don't need a wheelchair it is easy to navigate if you do use one. There is a boardwalk about 1 mile through the cedar swamp. (plenty of benches to take a rest on)They do have handicrafts made by the Indians but not inexpensive. Got a really good nights sleep after all the vacation stuff and made it to my appointment on Friday. Hope everyone else is finding some joy in their lives.
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We're heading to Spain in late April: Barcelona, Madrid, Grenada and Seville! Flights and hotels are booked. Insurance is arranged. Now we must make lists of must-sees and learn some Spanish.
While many must-sees are immediately obvious--we love art, museums, history and food--I'd love to learn of any off-the-beaten path discoveries any of you have made in those cities.
Ready to shake off Winter,
Tina
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Tina, I don't know anything about travel outside the U.S. with the exception of seeing Niagara Falls from the Canadian side. But do you have any travel websites that you like? The two I use most often are TripAdvisor and Fodor's. The Fodor website often has articles about off-the-beaten path in large cities and things to do for free. I just came across a few that I sent to my niece who's visiting Paris this month. TripAdvisor lists viewers' picks and reviews for 'must-see' attractions in all kinds of cities and towns.
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Tina,
Despite my extensive international travel, I have never been to Spain. I have heard it is a wonderful country with great food and wine. I do, however, speak Spanish quite well but more of the Mexican/South American variety. There is a website called language 101 which offers good basic language lessons and has great stuff for travelers. There is a free version that should serve you well. ¡Esperoque tu tienes un buen viaje!
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NYCchutzpah – Sounds like a good time! I bet the walk down the boardwalk was beautiful. Did you see any alligators? Last time we were visiting family on the Gulf side of Florida they took us to a park that had just been built with a river and a swimming area. There was an alligator hanging out right in the middle of the swimming area! They swore sightings were rare, but there was no way I'd swim there now!
Tina – That trip sounds magnificent. I hope you take lots of photos so we can live vicariously through you.
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It is time for me to have some serious fun!
My last oncologist visit didn't include great news. My last scan shows progression to my bones, from what had only been mets to my pleura. I have crossed a new line. Dr. Christina looked at me and proclaimed "I don't know exactly when, but we will be doing a chemo before the end of the year. Could be June, July or November, but absolutely before the end of the year." I had planned a trip in September. My mother had extracted a promise from me with a classic mother guilt statement of "I want to go to Paris one more time while I am still healthy." My Husband and I had agreed that we would do a big trip but just couldn't agree on the destination. (In the past 18 months, I have been billing out about 50-55 hrs per week. I am exhausted and have a bit more ready cash than normal.)
Clearly, waiting until September wasn't no longer prudent, so I got to work and planned a trip. My next scan is on April 3rd, I get the results on April 10th, and on April 11th my mother and I get on a plane to Paris. I have rented an apartment in the same neighborhood as all of my cousins. Ten days later I put my mother on a train to London to stay with more cousins, and I fly to Malaga where my husband will meet me. Our time in Spain will include Malaga, Granada, Cordoba, Seville, Valencia, and Barcelona. A full month in Spain, renting apartments, shopping in the markets, visiting Moorish and Roman ruins, drinking wine and eating olives while sitting overlooking the Mediterranean Sea. Tina2 will overlap my time in Spain and we won't be in the same place on the same day. How random is that?
And because Spain was not my first choice of destinations and Turkish Air is cheap and I have more family there, and because Ebru is there, from Barcelona we fly to Istanbul for a week. There is a direct, non-stop flight back home, and after my 6 week adventure, home will be a great place to be. As Ebru mentioned in her "I am back" thread, we will spend time together in Istanbul, and evidently I get a coffee ground reading. Perhaps she will even have a meal with me during that week.
I would have preferred a September trip; still would. However, my blood markers went up 23% in one month. We made the correct decision to just plain go. I am so very excited!
*susan*
p.s. how lucky am I to have relatives in such interesting places?
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Hey Susan - so sorry about your crap news. Sending you hugs and good energy! Your trip sounds amazing. And you get to meet Ebru! How fantastic! And Paris! I want pictures and a full travel report. I've always dreamed of going to Paris and still might get there one day. And you are lucky to have relatives in interesting places! I have a cousin in Port Angeles, Washington State, and friends all over the US, Australia, and New Zealand, but none in Europe. I am so happy for your trip!
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susan, I was worn out just reading your itinerary! Lol I've never been away from home for such a long stretch of time, it sounds like quite an adventure you have planned. Please post some pics of your travels. So glad you are moving ahead with vacation plans
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I am wildly excited, and wildly frugal. I have managed to buy all the transportation and lodging for this trip for much less than a week at Disneyland or World. I should consider setting up a website for all the pictures that I will take! I even bought a new camera for this adventure. Got to love Costco for things like cameras. My dear friend is calling this my "Buy Now" tour, and I love this name.
*susan*
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This sounds like a wonderful adventure, susan! I'm so excited for you!
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Sounds wonderful Susan. Looking forward to seeing your photos
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Susan that is so exciting! I am going to call you when I need advice on frugal travel - that sounds like the way to go! I always compare my adventures to the cost of a week @ Disney (something I have never done, nor have any desire to).
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Susan, your excitement about your trip is coming through loud and clear. I am so sorry we won't be able to connect in Spain, but I am sure we will again nearer to home.
This morning my excitement is of a rather different sort: realizing that I have maxed out my credit card on flights, hotels and rail reservations. Yikes!
Tina
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OOOOPS!
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I love reading of everyone's upcoming adventures! Susan, sorry that bad news spurred you on to plan this trip but so glad you are going before you have to start chemo! I'm having chemo as I write and talked to my Onc this morning about our planned norway trip. I mentioned working around or taking a break from chemo if necessary. He said Norway was a priority! We're lucky to have relatives to stay with as well! A lot of $ we can save to spend on tours and food
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Wow..Norway! Spain! Turkey! Paris! I'm so thrilled for you all. I currently have friends and coworkers in Mexico (6 month Spanish immersion course), Hawaii, Rome, Paris, and the UK. We may go to the big grocery store in Levin this weekend!
(Levin is about 15 km up the road and about 20,000 people as opposed to the town where we live which is about 5,000 people. So they have a much better grocery store.)
We're going to be moving house in a couple of weeks, so sadly, we're not going anywhere. But I desperately need something fun, so we are going to a hot air balloon festival in Levin. (Told you it was a big city!) It's on over Easter weekend and we'll get up early and go see the lift off on Friday and Sat, and the night glow on Sat night and move boxes in between.
So I'm counting on all of you to let me travel vicariously through your tales and photos. I am very excited on your behalf - after I finished radiation for Stage I, I came to New Zealand on vacation, met my (now) husband, and ended up moving here. I felt like - if not now, when? Tina - no shame in a maxed out card for doing something so fun!
Hugs to all,
Terre
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Susan, I'm so sorry that you have progression in your bones. It sounds as if you and your doctor have a good relationship and will come up with a plan to treat. I admire your sense of adventure and trip planning skills. I will also be looking forward to your pictures and travel blog. Michele
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I volunteer at a kitten rescue place. And it is fun. Here's a "very fierce" kitten attacking...something invisible!
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Susan, you will enjoy your flight with Turkish Airlined, yummy food and great hospitality. So excited to meet another sister soon!!!
I am determined to spend some quality time with you, though also respect your plans with family
Btw as I was glued to my Lazboy for sometime, I watched some great movies:
Another World
I Origins
Men, Women & Children
Midnight in Paris
Hugs Ebru
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I already love Turkish Air. First, they are affordable. Second, I had a choice of 32 different eating preferences! So many options especially for Indians: vegetarian no nightshades, vegetarian no onions, halal (of course), fruitarian, all the preferences I have heard about for religious diets. I chose "Turkish." I almost ordered one of the other just to see what I would get, but I love Turkish food, so I decided to be the "simple one."
I too hope to spend some good time with you. The first cousin who is my mother's age, will spend a day with us, but then she is off to Scotland to join her sisters. The second cousins are much like you used to be (and perhaps your age?) They work many hours. He is a director of a large venture capital group, she runs and owns her own architecture firm. I assume that their many children spend the day in school. I think we will find time to spend together. :-)
Istanbul is going to be a wonderful place to investigate. I can't wait.
*susan*
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Susan - I hope you have a wonderful trip, and what a bonus that you get to spend time with ebru!
I am excited for some upcoming trips as well. In May, I'm getting to go as a chaperone (read for free) with a college group on a France & Italy tour. Never been to either; so, I'm super excited! Then the next month, I've booked two places in Hawaii with my timeshare points. The first trip is all planned out for me, but I'm really enjoying getting to plan out what to do with the other. They will be here before I know it.
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