I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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I'm all for cancer being extremely rare, if not wiped out completely. I do recall how few people I actually knew had cancer before I got diagnosed. I am amazed now that I could say what I just said in 2007.......that it seemed rather rare. I certainly thought it would not happen to me, but like so many, when diagnosed, I came here and even though a lot more people 'showed' up in my close vicinity, it was a HUGE eye opener so see this, as well as many other blogs, devoted to those with a cancer diagnosis.
Have a SIL who is undergoing testing as we speak. A tumor about golf ball size was found in in her rt. lung I believe. Don't have a lot of information yet. Amazed that she said it was not caused from smoking ( really ) and don't know how she knew this. She is a fairly heavy smoker and has smoked since at least high school so over 50 years now. She was told a few years ago that she was in beginning stages of emphysema. I think that would likely put enough stress on the lungs to possibly help a tumor form.
Still, until some definite word....it is just a guess on my part. It could be a non-cancerous tumor. It is causing her a good deal of pain. She had rotator cuff surgery and though the tumor is on the opposite side......she thought she was having sympathetic pains on the other side and the Dr. had X-ray studies done and the ( they say it is fast-growing ) tumor showed up. Not sure how they are getting some of this information, as the cancer specialist is known for not 'discussing' things with you until all the tests are in and he can have a rather deep discussion of just where he feels you are through complete testing and some options for how to proceed. He is her brother's Dr. as well since the brother has non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma.
Had a nice day today, as I cooked most of the day for my family. Snow is on the way here. Tonight maybe as well as more tomorrow and possibly the next day too. Winter is on the way back, though it didn't truly leave. Just the first wave of ice and snow.
Hope you all had a fantastic day.
Jackie
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Glenna - hope you're feeling better. Kids are germ machines, much as we love/adore them, they ARE germ machines! Hope all works well for your son.
Such a perilous time for people looking for work. Don't think anyone has any "answers" for this situation, just know how difficult it is for so many.
TOPIC of discussion around here, natch, is the Blizzard we're expecting this afternoon - lighter snow now, but when the temps go below 0 and the wind is 40 MPH, all sorts of "warnings" about "wind chill" and dangers of the cold.
Hope all are safe, and WARM, and enjoying the beauty of the snow from a warm inside.
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Afternoon Buddies,
My day sucks. That is all.
Sunnyflowers ... we had a few flurries this morning ... it has now turned into rain. It's about 36 degrees out, so just a little too warm for snow. I would much rather it was snowing than raining.
I heard from Enjoyful that she was accepted into the trial in Boston. Hopefully she'll be along soon and can explain what all that entails.
hugs,
Bren
PS ... Glenna ... so sorry to hear you picked up a cold on your travels. Hope you are still able to receive your chemo and that your counts are where they need to be. Glad you had a good time in Calif. My son and his family live in San Diego and they've been sending me pictures of them on the beach over Christmas break. I am so jealous! Sending you love and hugs.
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Wow !!!! A beach would feel really great right now. We had a couple inches of snow overnight and just spits stuff since them. Nothing accumulating. It looks great till you walk out the door and the then the wind just whips up and you are drawing into yourself to compensate. Ick....we are still going from warm to cold in very short time periods. Too quick to suit me.
Hooray for E. Can't wait to hear her news.
Jackie
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Happy, happy for E!!
Bren, sorry you're having a yuk day.
Jackie, I think it's about the same here in KC. We're going out in an hour for an early dinner at a new cajun restaurant. Got my snow boots, long squall coat, gloves and heavy duty scarf at the ready. Still expecting to freeze my butt off.
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Here in Jersey, waiting for the snow to start, and finishing some legal work so I can get back to noveling.
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Thanks Bren, such good news re: E.
Snow. That's about the only subject around here now. Schools closed today AND tomorrow. Logan Airport closed, seems the coast is going to get the brunt of the blizzard, we're gonna get snow - and COLD. Down to about 4 here now, windy, very VERY cold. I've been here for several years, and I can't remember it being this cold so early in the year. Plows are using sand, too cold to use the salt they sometimes use. But too windy to plow, it's just going all over.
Cocoa and marshmallow fluff time. Stay warm everyone in the path of this one.
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Hi All: It's been snowing here in Niagara since noon yesterday and the wind is causing lots of snowsqualls/whiteouts and accidents. It's supposed to move on some time after midnight, on its way to the northeast US and maritime provinces. We'll be delighted to see the end of it, but really do not wish it upon you folks.....
I like winter, BUT I hate too much snow! Not really a cocooning-type person!
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Blue, LIKE, LIKE, LIKE the whale picture! And totally agree with the sentiment!
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Blue, I saw that segment on the Ed Schultz show a couple of hours ago. Loved the last line of the link: " The arrogance is breath-taking " . There is something I think about jack-ass and hypocrite being synonymous isn't there????
Jackie
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One picture for the day.

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Hoping all you Easterners are staying safe, warm and dry. Take care.
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Thinking of all those who are having to put up with huge storms in their areas. Very cold here but nothing else just now. Later, in the next few days we are predicted to get about a foot of snow. Have not had a deep one like that for four or five years. Having our 4-wheel drive is great but at those amts. it is challenging anyway. In past years I've helped friends who could not leave their houses, but not many left here now. I think most of them stock up when the big snows come......just thrilled they are not an every winter affair.
Jackie
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Just finished digging out. It is beautiful, but very, very cold.
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5 degrees on thermometer "real feel" according to weather is MINUS 24. Coldest it's been here in something like 50 years. YEST, supposed to rain on Sunday.
Great day to be indoors looking at the sun shining on the powdery snow.
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-29C here. But the sun is shining. Beautiful day if you don't HAVE to go anywhere and can just it enjoy it....like me.

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Coldest it's been in Jersey for 30 years.
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Scary weather! And I hear another massive cold front is going to blast down next Monday!
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The idjuts think this cold weather has nothing to do with global warming.
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Something I just finished reading....great reading for me sitting here and wondering what 'game plan comes next from the GOP -- extremist side, for trying to derail this Presidency. Unless something horrid were to happen, I think in years to come how sad to look back at the enormous waste of this time in history. Something akin to how I felt over the Clinton impeachment travesties.....so much time, efforts and money wasted.
Obama May Be Best Economic President Ever
Obama May Be Best Economic President Ever
By Froma Harrop[img src="http://www.realclearpolitics.com/dev/mt-static/images/expand_down_40w_v2.png"> - December 31, 2013
Lend me your ears. I have come to praise President Obama and bury the myth that Republican presidents are better for the economy than Democratic presidents. Not only do Democrats produce superior economic results but they blow Republicans out of the water in the comparisons.
Let's turn the mic over to Bob Deitrick, a principal at Polaris Financial Partners in Westerville, Ohio. Deitrick crunched 80 years of numbers. Politically, 1929 to 2009 were exactly divided -- 40 years under Republican presidents and 40 under Democrats.
He put his extraordinary findings in a book, "Bulls, Bears and the Ballot Box."
Because President Obama was in office for only three years at the time of the writing, Deitrick and his co-author left him out. But Deitrick now has enough of an Obama track record to have recently declared in a Forbes interview, "By all measures, President Obama has outperformed every modern president."
His findings were so lopsided in favor of Democrats I had to ask him whether he is one. He said no. "I really was apolitical until 2000," start of the George W. Bush era. That's when he saw massive mismanagement of the economy at the expense of his middle- to upper-middle-class clients.
"The average retail investor got slammed, where hedge funds were allowed to take advantage of everyone else," he told me.
The best overall economic performance pre-Obama was that of John F. Kennedy and Lyndon Johnson (whom Deitrick put together because of Kennedy's early death). No. 2 was Bill Clinton, with Franklin D. Roosevelt in third place.
The top six included two Republicans. Dwight Eisenhower ranked fourth, and Ronald Reagan sixth, edged out of fifth place by Harry Truman.
Were it not for Herbert Hoover, George W. would have ended up last.
Reagan was a "stimulus addict," in Deitrick's view. His economic growth came through massive spending on defense and deep tax cuts. The price was a tripling of the national debt.
Ordinary Americans did better under Clinton, who also left behind a budget (SET ITAL) surplus (END ITAL). Thanks to a growing economy and higher taxes on the rich, Obama has lowered the deficit to 4 percent of gross domestic product, down from over 10 percent at the end of the Bush years.
Here's an interesting calculation: Suppose that in 1929, you put $100,000 in a 401(k) fully invested in stocks. Under the 40 years of Republican presidents, you would have ended up with only $126,000. Under the Democrats, you would have amassed a retirement nest egg of $3.9 million!
If you added Obama, the Democrats' number would be much bigger.
Deitrick believes that presidents largely control the economy -- through the bully pulpit and the power to appoint leaders, enact executive orders and issue vetoes. (Not everyone agrees they hold most economic cards.)
Deitrick is a disciple of Marriner Eccles, the rich Republican banker whom Roosevelt named Federal Reserve chairman. Eccles held that putting more money in middle-class hands is key to recovery and that trickledown economics helps mainly those providing the trickle.
Speaking of income inequality, the gap between the top 1 percent and bottom 99 percent widened 20 percent in the 40 years Republicans ran the Oval Office. In the Democratic presidential years, it narrowed 16 percent.
Obama's greatest successes, Deitrick says, are the auto rescue plan and the Wall Street reforms, which revived faith among investors. The annual compound return on stocks has averaged between 25 and 30 percent (depending on the index) since the lows of March 2009.
Deitrick says he's perpetually shocked that Democrats don't trumpet their economic triumphs. You don't have to be a Democrat to wonder why.
Jackie
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Ah, Blue, the droolers have to say *something.* Understanding that climate change (i.e., global warming but we have to call it climate change because they don't get it) brings more extremes of weather, not that it means there won't be winter anymore. *sigh* In fact, November was the warmest November since recordkeeping began in 1880. Not only that, but the gardening climate zones have shifted north. Planting and growing patterns and seasons are warming --ask any gardener. Plants formerly hardy only in southern areas are now hardy farther north. But we all know that facts that don't align with their world views are summarily discarded.
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Another very interesting read to begin this yr.
http://act.prospect.org/page/m/1093c81d/182e93d8/201d7d0b/44112d31/4074655494/VEsE/
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What RL said re: extremes. But guess issue is too complex for the simplistic minds to deal with. Perhaps, thinking of how the migration patterns of birds have changed, the birds now being seen YEAR ROUND in places where they never stayed year round b4. Much more than just increased bird feeding doing this.
Extremes = climate change. Any farmer will attest to this.
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This is exactly what we heard here last night! Scared the bejesus out of us! Ray mentioned it at work and this is the explanation. Never heard of this before.
"If you live in Southern Ontario and you have been hearing loud bangs, it was likely an ice quake.
Residents across Toronto and beyond are being awoken
by loud bangs as if someone / something is banging on the rooftop.
Experts believe that ice quakes or cryoseims are responsible for the
noises as temperatures dip below -20 overnight.They are rare events that occur after precipitation
and bitterly cold temperatures. Water seeps into the ground, freezes and
then rapidly expands. The explosive expansion occurs when the pressure
gets too great.Just something to think about the next you hear a boom in the night."
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Hi Friends,
I wish it would warm up ... I wouldn't mind a little global warming right about now! It was in the low 20's when I walked the dogs. I was so damn cold and the wind was howling ... don't know what the wind chill factor is.
I cried my eyes out all morning. Another sucky day. Sometimes I just get so very weary of being part of the working poor in this country. Had to borrow $500 to get my tooth fixed this afternoon. No dental insurance. Credit cards are maxed and I don't know what to do anymore. I've sent out hundreds of resumes and applications ... can't even get a freakin' phone call back, much less an interview. I'm over- and under-qualified for everything in this poorest area of Virginia.
Enough whining and tears for one day.
hugs,
Bren
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Bren - I'm so sorry. I'm hearing more and more stories like yours everyday. Let's hope that this economy turnaround soon helps out your situation. As far as dental insurance, I don't think most of us have it, but if they do, the pay outs are pretty bad - making it not worth purchasing. I only recently had access to employment linked dental and eye insurance. I've run the numbers; it just doesn't wash.
E- I don't know much about what trial you are getting on, but I'm so glad that it worked out for you.
Blue - "cryoseims,".....does it sound eery? Very interesting.
So, was wondering for all of you dealing with the snow and the cold, do you ever have power outages? Do most have generators and/or wood stoves? How do you deal with this?? Usually when we get power busting weather, it is not that cold, but even at 32, my house got down to 42 inside after 2 days without power. I can't imagine if I had gone any longer. (I know have a generator.) Stay safe!
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