I lost my son

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  • suzie14
    suzie14 Member Posts: 344
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    Needed to stop in and tell you that you are still in my heart.

    Take care............gentle hugs, suzie
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    Pam praying for comfort for you , you are in my thoughts

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    Carrie
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
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    For Pam

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    For Miles

    xoxo
    Patti
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
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    my thoughts
    prayers and heart
    are with you Pam

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    For Pam

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    For Miles

    xoxo
    Patti
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  • jt0703
    jt0703 Member Posts: 27
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    My heart goes out to you. I lost my only brother in a similar tragedy. There is a group called Compassionate Friends who were a tremendous help to my parents. Everyone in this group has lost a child, sometimes more than one. There is no salve to ease this wound, only time will make some days easier than others. Not a day goes by that my brother doesn't come to mind and it's been over 20 yrs. Thinking of you. jt0703
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited July 2006

    Dear Friends, Others always look at me with curiosity when I mention my friends at breastcancer.org. How sad for them they do not have this fellowship. Of all the cards and flowers and calls I have received, it is here I have found the most comfort. Just like when first diagnosed with breast cancer... there are not hundreds of rude questions or inappropriate responses. Just love and support. I pray each day for all of you... all of us. You are my "other family" and it means so much for you to care. My own words cannot express to you my gratitude and love. Please know I am here for all of you as well. Selfishly, however, I pray for your continued support for awhile.... and your daily prayers for Miles and myself. I know that God has something really big in mind. I will not lie and say I am happy for it, but I am willing and I know he will honor my faithfulness. Tomorrow (or today since it is 3 am), I have an interview with a free lance writer who works in marketing at the local hospital here. As we all know, breast cancer awareness month is coming up in October and they are planning now for events. I have always looked forward to the opportunity to be an "ambassador" if you will for our cause and I hope this turns out well. I also go back on my Herceptin tomorrow. God is keeping me busy. Sorry for being so lengthy... but I love you all. Pam

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  • cowgirl
    cowgirl Member Posts: 777
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    I know this will be comforting to talk about BC, you will not be happy for a while. I pray that you can find peace in this situation because you deserve that.

    Another Hug sent your way!
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    Your courage touches me so much.
    You are not being selfish, The Lord tells us to take all to him. You bless us by asking for prayers. I understand the loss of a child, not in the way
    you have lost , I know the hurt is deep.
    Good luck on your interview today and I am thinking of you.

    You and Miles are in my prayers always Pam and I pray
    the the pain will ease a little each passing day.

    Hugs,
    Carrie
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  • jz20022001
    jz20022001 Member Posts: 480
    edited July 2006
    Donna, sorry to hear about your loss too. My brother was engaged to a woman whose sister was murdered. I had met the girl and she was a beautiful 30-year old. Years later the guy's mother turned him in. It turned out to be her roommate's boyfriend.

    Catherine
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
    (((Pam))))

    With you
    in spirit
    and prayer

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    Praying
    for you and Miles


    xoxo
    Patti
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
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    xoxo
    Patti
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    For Miles and Pam ~
    lifting you up in prayer

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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    Keeping you both in my prayers~

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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    For Pam~

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    For Miles~

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    Carrie
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  • mcdds
    mcdds Member Posts: 51
    edited July 2006
    Pam, I was glad to see you post. I was wondering how you are doing. Know that you are in my daily thought and prayers. What a wonderful faith you have.

    Carol
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  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 2,808
    edited July 2006

    PAM,you and your precious family are in my prayers. OUT of all the bc sisters and brothers(and i love them ALL) YOU have really touched my heart. you are in no way selfish, YOU, are a wonderful lady,and MOTHER. debbyfive

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  • MargaretB
    MargaretB Member Posts: 1,305
    edited July 2006
    Pam, just wanted you to know I was thinking of you.

    Margaret
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  • Sachi
    Sachi Member Posts: 351
    edited July 2006
    Pam,

    You are in my prayers.

    Barb
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  • pconn03
    pconn03 Member Posts: 643
    edited July 2006
    Pam:
    We are all here for you. Sending prayers, love and hugs to you and Miles.
    Blessings,
    Pat
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  • sharon68
    sharon68 Member Posts: 115
    edited July 2006
    Dear Pam....continuing to pray for you and Miles for comfort and peace.
    Gentle hugs for you & Miles

    Sharon F
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  • susanmcm
    susanmcm Member Posts: 1,324
    edited July 2006
    Pam, I'm glad you came and shared your "lengthy" post with us. I'm sorry about the pain you are feeling and I'm impressed that you are able to respond positively to God's presence in your life. Hugs and prayers for you.

    Blessings,
    Susan
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  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 2,808
    edited July 2006

    GODS SPEED PAM. debbyfive

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  • cowgirl
    cowgirl Member Posts: 777
    edited July 2006

    Pam still praying for you! I have not forgotten your struggle!

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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited July 2006

    Dear Friends, Thank you so much for your prayers and support. Trying to take one day at a time. So glad to have Miles back home, but we still are struggling with communication.. I ask God to please help me deal with those well meaning idiots who can be so insensitive. And for strength with getting house cleaned out to move and sell. Bright spot.... only 3 more herceptin treatments to go! Love you all, Pam

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  • sams
    sams Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2006

    Sorry for your loss. take care of yourself.

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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    Oh geez Pam , Why don't people just take a minute and engage brain before opening the mouth! I know people mean well in difficult situations , wow some of the stuff well meaning people will say!
    So glad you only have 3 more hercetin treatments, so close , you are almost there sweetie~

    Praying for you and Miles Pam, that each day God will bring you comfort and strength
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    Hugs,
    Carrie
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  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 2,808
    edited July 2006

    GODS SPEED PAM AND MILES. debbyfive

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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    In my thoughts and prayers Pam and Miles
    praying the packing and move go smooth

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