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  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited July 2013

    Joan - I wish I had known just how often I was going to have to practice keeping quiet in my later years!  I'm getting very good at it but I sure do feel repressed at times :)

    Sheila - you ok?

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  • Joan811
    Joan811 Member Posts: 2,672
    edited July 2013

    Diane, I really need help on this one...DD is becoming very high strung and is not treating DH well at all....and he and the kids really need this move to be a positive experience.  I get so uncomfortable when she barks at him and tells others he needs to get his act together and get a job....He doesn't want to move....it's all new to him....if only they could meet in the middle on things.  Moving is stressful enough. 
    I am not even sure I should be giving up a trip and planning my fall around them...who knows what will happen.  Her in-laws are about 40 minutes away in MA and she want nothing to do with them and says that in front of DH.  I'll bet she will recruit them when desperate.

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    Awwwww Joan.you sure have a mess goin on.sorry

    Yeah moving is very stressful

    Lots of people involved while the stress level rises.

    Be good to yourself..things do have a way of workin out.still thinkin about how close we came to finally meeting.It will still happen.you bet it will.

    It's still fugly humid here in nj.

    Hello to all my wonderful sistas.

    Stay cool.

    Xo grannydukes

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited July 2013

    Joan....Got your pm.....will answer today........however...I have a daughter who leads her husband around by the balls.......daughter #2.....I have to drive to the shore with her on Friday, (or drive myself)....cause daughter #3,(who I always go with ) said......"you can go with daughter #2.............I am sure granddaughter said the back seat is too crowded with 3 people......



    This is how the ride for 100 miles and 2 hours will go.....take the expressway", "don't take the back roads"...."slowdown", "watch that guy", "get in the left lane", "put both hands on the steering wheel", "how fast are you going", "go into that toll booth", "get away from that truck".........till I want to tell her STFU, and slap the shit out of her........



    She thinks he has the perfect marriage, well I guess so when she rules the roost, wears the pants, and gets her way all the time.......my SIL is a Saint.......She is a Director or a major Pharma Co., and forgets to take her Director's hat off when she comes home....huge "know it all", and drives me nuts.............was never like that.....now no one does anything right but her......we clash cause I don't give in........I am the parent, not the child..........as long as I walk this earth......



    So I understand what your saying.............and imagine 100 miles, and 2 hours.....if there is no traffic.........pray for me....lol.

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    Ducky..you poor thing but I too know what you are talkin about.

    Sometimes I find its just easier to stay home

    My son has a camaro that I can hardly get in but if and when I do I say the rosary all the way.he too has no balls except behind the wheel.That bitch who thinks she shits roses does nuthin but demand..

    What happened to our kids?

    Not to even mention our grand kids.grrrrrr

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited July 2013

    Tired of trying.............gonna start pleasing me.......screw them all and the horses they rode in on............guess you need a trauma for people to care........very sad.......a day did not go by that I did not call my Mother........times they have changed.......

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited July 2013

    Tough position to be in Joan.  Good luck!
    VERY MUGGY HERE so sick of it!!

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  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited July 2013

    checking whoa Joan tough....ducky....power and control go to their heads and they can't stop it when they are home....she better be respectful to you, you could sell the house down the shore, they better watch out...

    Went to the lung specialist and he is confused as to why I can't breathe, so now on friday I have to do a swallow test with barium and an echocardiogram he wants to rule out a heart issue....chemo can cause problems with the heart, WTF, really.....got a new oxygen tank, hopefully I won't break this one, lol

    Have a nice night!!!

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    What is it with younger women these days.  My new DIL wears the pants.  She tells me what she will "let" DS have or do.  I would have never disrespected my mother-in-law the way she does.  My MIL wasn't very nice, but still, she was my MIL!

    Got excited when a call came through from my Dr today.  I thought the last blood-letting came up with an answer.  Unfortunately it was only letting me know that the MRI of my brain was approved by insurance and I should call the imaging place and make an appointment in the next 30 days.  Not a half hour later, the imaging place called me!  Wanted me in tomorrow at 11:30, but I have a chiro appt at 11 and don't want to miss that.  So I go in on Thursday morning instead.

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    Good luck Meece.

    Ill be prayin for you

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    Thanks!

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  • Valjean
    Valjean Member Posts: 1,898
    edited July 2013

    I'll be keeping good thoughts for you, Meecie.

    Sandy, I sure hope you get an answer soon on the breathing problem. Come on, docs, figure it out!!

    ((K-hang in there. ♥))

    How are you doing, Sheila?

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    Where is Sheila???

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited July 2013

    Good Luck Meece!!

    I miss Sheila too!

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited July 2013

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    I didnt post this on this thread cause I don't know if Veggy comes her

    I don't even know my name today

    Veggy was admitted into the hospital yesterday with a possible clot on her brain

    Please say a prayer for her.

    She has been through soooo much since she became stage4.

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    I don't think she's posted here, but thanks for letting us know.  I have run into her in several threads.

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited July 2013

    Gran on one of the other threads I think she said "her lung".....

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    Yes it's her lung..sorry..u can tell how upset I am

    It's my brain that is not working

    Just want as much prayers I can get

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  • annettek
    annettek Member Posts: 1,640
    edited July 2013

    In my prayers ...

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  • Makratz
    Makratz Member Posts: 12,678
    edited July 2013

    ((((Veggy))))

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  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited July 2013

    Veggy......wow...

    Meece take care, and it is this generation!!!

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  • raincitygirl
    raincitygirl Member Posts: 3,143
    edited July 2013

    Best wishes in the morning Meece - looking back, I didn't find what has brought this about.  Be well, my friend.

    Sheila!!!!!!!!

    Went back to doc today after a little relapse post anaphylaxis - they said to expect 2 weeks recovery.  Yikes.  I hve things to do.

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  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    Thank you!  CAn't wait to get it over with.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2013

    Waiting for a ct scan today then I'm checking myself out of here. All I am doing is sitting on my butt doing nothing with an extremely rude roommate. I need a nap!

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited July 2013

    Hey Veggy........just tell her to STfU.......oops, that's another thread......Lol.......

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited July 2013

    Veggy---I'm glad u are goin home

    For sure you will get the sleep your body needs.

    6more days but who is counting?ME.

    Will see u when I get up there..for sure..

    Good morning everyone

    Meece thinkin of you.

    Xo Grannydukes

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2013

    I'm home now!

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  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited July 2013

    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

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