I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited June 2013

    (((((((((((((Athena)))))))))))))) - we're all there with you sweetie.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013
  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited June 2013

    Jumping up from the bottom of Athena's basket to pelt Libby with frozen brussel sprouts.  Rabbit for dessert?  I think not!  Might I suggest steak instead?  Or the GOP congresscritter of your choice?  Surprised 

    All paws crossed that Athena and Mary both get good results today.

    There is a segment of fundamentalist knuckledraggers in this country who value women only as servants to men and breeders.  Of course they don't like birth control either.  It gave women the power to control their own lives and they are having to compete with us for jobs and power now.  They think that taking away women's reproductive choices ... even if from rape or incest ... will allow them to put us back in their box and they can resume what they consider their 'rightful place' at the top of the food chain.  The American Taliban exists.  But they won't win because we are not giving up the rights the women who came before us had to fight so hard to win.   

    LOL at John Oliver .. he is a most excellent replacement for Jon Stewart!        

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013

    Waiting for boring results for Athena and Mary.

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013

    Ladies, Ladies, Ladies.....you must clarify!  Are you talking about 14 year old girls having and enjoying sex?  You know how some people jump to conclusions......you mention girl and it automatically means you're referring to a 14 year old! 

    I need some wine!

  • Wabbit
    Wabbit Member Posts: 1,592
    edited June 2013

    Since it is smart for women to finish their education before they even think about getting married and/or having children, that 'girl' could be in her 20s or 30s.  And they never seem to mention having a problem with the 'boys' having sex, so just who do they think their sex partners are?  goats?

  • Enjoyful
    Enjoyful Member Posts: 3,591
    edited June 2013

    Wabbit, that may be true south of the Mason-Dixon line.

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited June 2013

    Wabbit -- that's it, of course!  And they're aided and abetted by tv media that feature the fundie Duggars and their ilk.  Scary stuff, IMO.

    Girl = age zero to as young as you feelWink 

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013

    E you crack me up!

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited June 2013

    Linda, I'm a girl......an old girl, but that's a secret!

  • RetiredLibby
    RetiredLibby Member Posts: 1,992
    edited June 2013

    Sorry, sorry, sorry, Wabbit! Was only thinking "bite-sized and tasty for carnivore!" Wabbits off the dessert menu - how about chickens? Or possums, although since they are scavengers I doubt they would be tasty!



    Oh yeah, there is this religious fundamentalist belief that women should be punished for having sex outside of when the fundamentalist patriarchy says they can. And the ones who defy the edicts are whores and deserve whatever happens to them, including rape, being forced to carry unwanted or unviable fetuses to term, doing without medical care associated with said forced pregnancy, and not feeding or educating the product of said forced pregnancy. There is no logic there - there is just hatred and fear and control, because if one successfully defies the fundamentalist patriarchy, then everyone can and their control would end. It is especially important for fundie women to buy into this, because to do otherwise would require them to question their lives and choices. Sad.



    L

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited June 2013

    And the worst thing is that their offspring are mainly home- or fundie-schooled, and definitely not encouraged to seek higher education, for fear that their exposure to the real world might persuade them that maybe, just maybe, their parents' way is not the only way.  Oh, and more offspring means more white folks -- to combat the "really scary" threat of minorities becoming the majority.

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited June 2013

    I am trying to figure out if there is a connection between this distaste for women as several of you have attributed to right wing fundamentalists - and their ongoing verbal assault on the First Lady and her daughters.  Both are quite disturbing.

  • RetiredLibby
    RetiredLibby Member Posts: 1,992
    edited June 2013

    Lassie, I don't think religious fundamentalism is the primary motivation for the shocking language and hatred directed at the First Lady and the Obama girls. That is racism, pure and simple. Unabashed, unfiltered, undiluted racism. They so loathe the thought of black people in the White House that they have become quite unhinged. It is the same

    principle of "they should keep their place," but the reason is their race and not their gender. I agree, it is deeply disturbing to see the filth being thrown at the First Lady and those beautiful girls).



    As much as liberals loathed Dumbya and Satan Cheney (not to mention "saint" Ronnie), I don't recall any liberal (and certainly no liberal public figure) attacking their wives or children (no matter how offensively right-wing crazy Cheney's wife and daughters became).



    L

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited June 2013

    Sadly, your explanation makes more sense Libby.

    We have had this conversation before, but what happened to all that stuff I learned in Sunday school about kindness, tolerance, inclusion, compassion and just plain decent behaviour? Maybe that was only Canadian Sunday school.

    Meanwhile in Canada, many people all over the world might like this report. One of the researchers is the one who got Herceptin going.

    http://www.thestar.com/life/health_wellness/2013/06/18/cancer_breakthrough_new_drug_to_prevent_cancer_growth.html

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited June 2013

    Athena - may you get good news only. xxxooo

    Sunny - (I may have written this above, but I think I keep getting bumped out of BCO before sending and lose everything), but is Dulse, nutritionally, the same as Kelp?  I know Dulse has a lot of iodine.  I see an Endocrinologist in July (about taking Metformin) and will ask about hair loss vis a vis hormone blockers, thyroid (T4?), etc..  btw, I'm taking a 3 week intensive painting class.  Love love love it.  Not very good yet, but learning a lot.  Always think of you with artistic endeavors.

    Where has Yorkie been?

  • YramAL
    YramAL Member Posts: 1,651
    edited June 2013

    MRI uneventful and done. I should have my results on Friday when I go for my checkup with my oncologist.

    Hoping to hear from Athena soon.

    Mary

  • RetiredLibby
    RetiredLibby Member Posts: 1,992
    edited June 2013

    Waiting with you, Mary!  I'm with Kam wondering about Yorkie and Chickadee!

    L

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited June 2013

    Hi Kam, I'm still here! Been reading periodically. I went on a road trip to a family reunion in Texas. Had loads of fun! But I'm also looking for a part time job, which involves all the usual b.s. of getting applications done and transcripts submitted. UGH. Almost hoping I don't get a job, except that I would kind of like to be back in the fray, PART TIME. I'm feeling more energetic now and really think I could handle it.  But in my profession it is hard to get hired part time, so we'll see.

    Athena, hoping you are feeling MUCH better soon! 

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited June 2013

    Yorkie - Laughing  Don't be a stranger!  You know, work is overrated, but part time might be ok.  I just remembered, you and I were both in the December 2011 surgery group together.  There's only maybe two others, besides us, that still post here at BCO from that group.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2013

    Kam - why Metaformin?  diabetes? bc prevention?  Not sure the later is living up to original "hype" -do have a friend who takes it for diabetes, and the worst SE means she ALWAYS has to have immodium near byFrown

    I had no hair loss 5 years of Arimidex - the SE's seem to be so different for each of us.  thanks for reminding me I need to have TSH checked, and must ask for T4 this time too.  Am hearing of several women who have had almsot "normal" TSH, and yet very low T4.  Wonder what that's about.

    What kind of painting are you doing?  Oil?  Watercolor? acrylic?  I really am a dabbler, and loving it.  Can't wait til everyone joins Retired Libby in having a Saturday Life.

    Good to see you, Yorkie  - now all we need are a few chickadee chirps...

    oooooohhhhhhh.....did everyone see what Blue wrote - "girls enjoying sex" - wow!  Speaking of breaking all the rules, and by girls I mean women of all ages...enjoying "it" -oooooohh...dangerous woids...giggle, giggle...

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited June 2013

    Kam, I so know that about work. But I have to say sometimes I miss the craziness. Does that mean I'm crazy? Probably! Wink 

    Sunny, has Chick been MIA also?

    "Girls enjoying sex?" Yeah, I remember that. Laughing

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited June 2013

    Metformin for recurrence.  I know it is in Clinical trials (or is it?), but you think it's "hype?"  The hype says it works for all Lum A and some Lum B.  At first glance, I'm not one of the Lum B's that it works for (or it might be to my detriment).  Lum B that are NOT pre-diabetic, or so it appears, have more recurrences with Metformin, not less.  My PCP (and I'm draggin my MO, reluctantly along), wants an Endrocrin to interpret my fasting glucose and fasting insulin (HOMA index > 2.8 would be safe for Lum B).

    Acrylic paints.  For some reason, I had in my mind, I wanted to do watercolor and not oil.  I knew nothing about acrylics, but as it turns out, this is the perfect type of paint for a beginner like me.  My teacher is wonderful...a retired art professor who decided my little town was a great place to live.  She's teaching us color theory - translation, I can mix any color I want from the 3 primaries - theoretically.  Can't paint (that will come with experience, I presume), but I know how to create a paint color - lol.  It's only 8 class, 6 hours a class and I'm already lamenting the end date.  The bad part is my Taxol-induced neuropathy.  Apparently, standing at an easel on cement, even for an hour, is worse than walking 7 miles on dirt.  Today I took celebrex for my neck.  It's a tough sport for me.

    Yorkie - what about the next trial?Cool

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2013

    Kam - how does one find out if Lum A or Lum B?  Nothing about that in my pathology - but then, the hospital I went to for surgery was not great Frown

    I've heard of fasting glucose, but not fasting insulin.  All I know is my fasting glucose is always high, but my AIC was 6.  I am getting SO SO SO SO tired of having to track all this stuff.

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited June 2013

    Luminal A and Luminal B are both ER+ subtypes.  Luminal B has 2 further subtypes - Her2 neg and Her2 positive.  What I said above about Metformin, atleast, applies to Luminal B Her2 negative, as that is what I am and I kind of filtered the Her2+ out.  Luminal B is marked by higher Ki67.  I think the cutoff is >13.5%.  A lot of pathologists do not report Ki67, but it was recorded on my initial biopsy (60%).  It is one of the factors measured in Oncotyping, but not reported out individually.  I'm not sure of this, but perhaps the Mitotic Count in the Nottingham grading system might indicate a high or low Ki67 - "3" being equivalent to high - but I'm not sure.  Ki67 is a marker for proliferation.  I've seen it referred to as the poor man's oncotype score (in combination with hormone receptor profile).

    The HOMA index combines fasting glucose and fasting insulin - otherwise fasting insulin isn't a test often used.  I just got it so we could figure out this Metformin thing.   I could probably figure out the calculation, but I just would feel better if an endocrinologist could double-check it.  By all measurements, my numbers are good (low everything) in the blood sugar dept, but given that all of my other stupid numbers are bad (cholesterol, weight, BP), I'm rather in disbelief that I'm doing well in the blood sugar department.  Makes me doubt my understanding of things.

    I think the Metformin thing has not been verified, but there have been some empirical observations that seem to indicate it reduces recurrence.  On the other hand, it seems iffy to negative for some Luminal B's.

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