Starting Chemo June 2013!?!?!

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  • Miasara
    Miasara Member Posts: 17
    edited June 2013

    Ingrid and Melrose thanks for advice on constipation. Its getting better.



    I woke up this morning with stiffness in my lower back and upper thigh area. It was really hard to walk. Can this be from neulasta shot I got 4 days ago? I've been taking claritan. I also got my period today. Tylenol seems to help but its still hard to walk. My husband had to get kids ready for school because I couldnt function. Not sure if its from chemo or shot. Thinking of calling onco tomorrow. Have a good night everyone.

    Good luck to those starting tomorrow.

    Mia

  • OceanWarrior
    OceanWarrior Member Posts: 96
    edited June 2013

    Slow day here for me.  Finding myself tired but thats about it.

    Netter - thanks for sharing your hair cutting party pics.  I have to say, you did it in style and were in control of the situation.  You look lovely with the buzz cut in my opinion.  I'm leaning towards that myself.  My head starts to tingle just thinking about it.

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited June 2013

    Ok ladies just finished my first round of chemo 4 hours ago so far so good. I so afraid to go to sleep and wake up sick. Want to say THANKS to all of you who talked me through Mel that was great advice Ingrid too and especially Paula. When will I get nauseous?? And they lady with the bone pains my onco nurse said take an aleve with claritan after neulasta

  • flaviarose
    flaviarose Member Posts: 442
    edited June 2013

    Hello Everyone,

    I had my first treatment today, TCH.  You guys are right, the anxiety before hand is worse than the actual treatment.

    I had decadron and benadryl first, and the benadryl made me so sleepy I slept through most everything else.

    I came home feeling fine, at some supper, and that was a mistake, because 4 hours later the food is sitting undigested and making me feel icky and queasy.  A little headache.  Fear headache will get worse so nervous about taking the Zofran, since it says on the bottle that headache is a side effect... eh....  I drank all day, but since supper I haven't wanted to drink anything.  Soon will go to bed and take an ativan.....  I've never one for pharmaceuticals.... I also took some tylenol....  and tomorrow I wil take Claritin since I will be going back for neulasta.

    In terms of ports - I had mine placed May 10th when I had my lumpectomy.  It was a little uncomfortable at first, but not really painful.  It is much better.... still sleeping in a chair...... bed just isn't comfortable..... I was nervous today when she went to put the needle in the port and asked about numbing cream that I had read about here - she said that they don't generally do anything, but that it shouldn't hurt much - and it didn't.  It hurt much less than an IV or giving blood.  Much less.  One quick pinch and that was it.

    Thank you for being here - I've been reading all month....

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited June 2013

    Ckmoss...

    I find it ironic that your nurse has never heard of it, yet thinks you don't need it because you are "only" doing 4 rounds.!

    My oncologist never heard of taking Claritan to ward off bone pain, and said "it's not so bad if you are one of e few people to get it"



    I think my oncologist and your nurse need to be told to sit through a few rounds of chemo and to not bother doing anything about potential side effects and see how they feel about that. By the same token, if they had said they heard if icing or Claritan or some other "ward off side effect thing" but felt it would interfer with the chemo than I would accept their answer.



    Always ask your oncologist if they think you can do icing, Claritan, ...if there is a "I don't think you need it" I say go for it! If they say "don't do it" than I would ask why not.

    Just my opinion.

    Pat





    Puppy mama, sorry you have to wait (not that anyone really wants to start! Lol). July will be here before you know it. You can learn so much by reading these boards, smart move!



    Pat

  • raindeer1217
    raindeer1217 Member Posts: 90
    edited June 2013

    Hello hello! Haven't been on much not for lack of feeling well. The opposite actually. Surprised how well I feel considering 7 days after chemo.



    For the gals approaching chemo, it's doable. It's not easy there are certainly side effects: mine were: major queasy, some puking, bone aches from the infusion, sore throat, slightly itchy eyes, heart burn, tired, plams peeling, tonight getting some mouth sores breaking thru.



    All managable, doable and endurable.



    I was back to work full time 9-10 hour day running a very busy Insurance Agency, after taking Friday the day after chemo off, hung low for the weekend as the queasy tummy with throwing up was the worst. Come Monday I was ready to buckle down and push past the side effects.



    Major advice - as many others are saying. Drink drink drink and keep moving!!



    You all can do this, it's certainly not a walk in the park.



    Our minds get the best of us and the fear and stress of the unknown can play tricks on our reserve and confidence.



    I hope that I continue to do this well through my remaining treatments, the nurse called me today and told me that I must be careful as my white blood count is nonexistent, I feel ok not myself but not critical by any stretch.



    Rest assured other Junebugs!!

  • raindeer1217
    raindeer1217 Member Posts: 90
    edited June 2013

    Hello hello! Haven't been on much not for lack of feeling well. The opposite actually. Surprised how well I feel considering 7 days after chemo.



    For the gals approaching chemo, it's doable. It's not easy there are certainly side effects: mine were: major queasy, some puking, bone aches from the infusion, sore throat, slightly itchy eyes, heart burn, tired, plams peeling, tonight getting some mouth sores breaking thru.



    All managable, doable and endurable.



    I was back to work full time 9-10 hour day running a very busy Insurance Agency, after taking Friday the day after chemo off, hung low for the weekend as the queasy tummy with throwing up was the worst. Come Monday I was ready to buckle down and push past the side effects.



    Major advice - as many others are saying. Drink drink drink and keep moving!!



    You all can do this, it's certainly not a walk in the park.



    Our minds get the best of us and the fear and stress of the unknown can play tricks on our reserve and confidence.



    I hope that I continue to do this well through my remaining treatments, the nurse called me today and told me that I must be careful as my white blood count is nonexistent, I feel ok not myself but critical by any stretch.



    Rest assured other Junebugs!!

  • annika12
    annika12 Member Posts: 433
    edited June 2013

    Cut my hair short to donate it.....really like it short to bad it's only for two weeks before I will buzz it all off!!! Feel like Im getting ready for the race of my life (Im a runner) but got a fever and a slight cough so hope Im all better by Tuesday for day one of A/C!!!! great to hear everyone's experiences though I wish non of us had to. Taking notes

    and praying for all of you!!

  • Gingergirl1
    Gingergirl1 Member Posts: 36
    edited June 2013

    Hi Melrose - I just wanted to clarify that it is not standard practice in Canada to ice the nails. When I went for my first tx I asked if I could have ice on my nails and she said that I could try it. But they wouldn't have if I hadn't asked. They used ice cubes in bags, which didn't work so great. I was in a large treatment facility. I think icing is a great idea!

  • maureenb
    maureenb Member Posts: 81
    edited June 2013

    Hi Everyone-  I'm new to the group and this is my first post.  I am also starting chemo this month.  Tomorrow, in fact.  I am very scared-  mostly about feeling sick all of the time but also the loss of hair/eyebrow/eyelashes.  I will be taking carboplatin-taxotere-herceptin for 6 treatments, 3 weeks apart and then Herceptin only for the remainder of the year.  I feel like you never really have time to deal with what's going on today before you get hit with what's coming tomorrow.  That's been the hardest thing to me.  I was diagnosed in April (total surprise/found it myself) and after meeting with an onc, my first order of business was to get this tumor out!  After interviewing 2 surgeons and 3 PS, I ended up going with my second choice simply because my first choice surgeon wanted me to wait for 4 weeks to do surgery.  I am really not a good "waiter".  My second choice surgeon could do it the following week, so I opted for that.  I think my bilateral NSM went pretty well...  the non-cancerous breast looks pretty good now at 4 weeks out, but the cancerous one looks  TERRIBLE.  Purple bruising, scarring, scabbing, bleeding nipple...  Ugh.  It has been a lot to deal with.  THEN when that's still scaring me-  THE POWER PORT PLACEMENT.  Supposed to be easy-peasy.  After my cool pain meds wore off I discoverd that the whole area was very sore, more bruising, and the worst part-  the three little nodules in the top of the port that are designed to show the nurses where to go-  are so tightly pushing against my skin that you can see WHAT COLOR THEY ARE!  It looks like if I just scraped one with my fingernail, it would pop out.  Plus every time I bend down it feels like my throat is being constricted.  Swelling, I guess.  So-  not over the port, here comes chemo.  I have hardly taken medicine in my life and have been thankfully pretty healthy with no real surgeries.  This is a biggie.  Anyone out there on this same regimen?  Would love, love, love to hear everything you'd care to tell, good, bad, or ugly.  Anyone else starting in June, maybe we can compare notes?  Would love to have some sisters to go through chemo with.  

  • maureenb
    maureenb Member Posts: 81
    edited June 2013

    Hi Everyone-  I'm new to the group and this is my first post.  I am also starting chemo this month.  Tomorrow, in fact.  I am very scared-  mostly about feeling sick all of the time but also the loss of hair/eyebrow/eyelashes.  I will be taking carboplatin-taxotere-herceptin for 6 treatments, 3 weeks apart and then Herceptin only for the remainder of the year.  I feel like you never really have time to deal with what's going on today before you get hit with what's coming tomorrow.  That's been the hardest thing to me.  I was diagnosed in April (total surprise/found it myself) and after meeting with an onc, my first order of business was to get this tumor out!  After interviewing 2 surgeons and 3 PS, I ended up going with my second choice simply because my first choice surgeon wanted me to wait for 4 weeks to do surgery.  I am really not a good "waiter".  My second choice surgeon could do it the following week, so I opted for that.  I think my bilateral NSM went pretty well...  the non-cancerous breast looks pretty good now at 4 weeks out, but the cancerous one looks  TERRIBLE.  Purple bruising, scarring, scabbing, bleeding nipple...  Ugh.  It has been a lot to deal with.  THEN when that's still scaring me-  THE POWER PORT PLACEMENT.  Supposed to be easy-peasy.  After my cool pain meds wore off I discoverd that the whole area was very sore, more bruising, and the worst part-  the three little nodules in the top of the port that are designed to show the nurses where to go-  are so tightly pushing against my skin that you can see WHAT COLOR THEY ARE!  It looks like if I just scraped one with my fingernail, it would pop out.  Plus every time I bend down it feels like my throat is being constricted.  Swelling, I guess.  So-  not over the port, here comes chemo.  I have hardly taken medicine in my life and have been thankfully pretty healthy with no real surgeries.  This is a biggie.  Anyone out there on this same regimen?  Would love, love, love to hear everything you'd care to tell, good, bad, or ugly.  Anyone else starting in June, maybe we can compare notes?  Would love to have some sisters to go through chemo with.  

  • MaineRottweilers
    MaineRottweilers Member Posts: 156
    edited June 2013

    Let the drip beging!  First of six Taxotere/Carboplatin ----and Herceptin (17).  I couldn't fit everything in my chemo bag so I have a little red wagon to drag into the treatment room.  See you on the other side.  Good luck everyone.

  • annika12
    annika12 Member Posts: 433
    edited June 2013

    Maureenb- I had a rough port placement to, didn't count on that!!! Good luck today!! For me also the hardest part since diagnosis is the lack of control. You are told where to go and when and where to sit and lay and what bodypart to show!! Glad that is over and now time to rid ny body of cancer and on to healing and a long life :)

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    Thanks Gingergirl for letting me know that icing is not standard in Canada.  Just glad that the infusion facility you are being treated at is letting you do it.  The interesting thing is that the infusion center where I got my chemo, some of the nurses knew about icing but not all of them did.  I discovered that the patients who did ice usually just put their hands and feet in containers of ice.  Brrrrr.....   Hope you are able to continue to ice and find a way to make the icing work for you.  Hope you are feeling okay after the first round.

  • maureenb
    maureenb Member Posts: 81
    edited June 2013

    Does anyone know how to make my diagnosis and treatment appear at the bottom of my posts like most of yours do?  

  • maureenb
    maureenb Member Posts: 81
    edited June 2013

    MaineRottweilers-  good luck today!  Sounds like we have the same mix on the same day.  Smile 

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    Maureen, so sorry to hear about your port problems.  I love my port.  Use it for everything, blood draws, ivs, etc.  Was in the hospital 3 days after 1st chemo and only had 1 stick, could move my arm and was very comfortable.  Mine is different, kind of looks like a doorbell??????  I was shown it before they put it in.  Was sore for about a week.  I pray it will all work out for you!

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    Good luck to all infusers today and through the week!!!!  Prayers for you!!!!

  • Sweetie1972
    Sweetie1972 Member Posts: 84
    edited June 2013

    Thanks netter

    Almost done with infusion day 1. Okay so far except first vein blew.

  • ckmoss
    ckmoss Member Posts: 613
    edited June 2013

    Thanks for the info from you both! I believe I am going to do and stay on the safe side.

    Last night around 5am ..had gotten up because of horrible port pain..went to take my dog out..when I got back in my shirt on  MX side was soaked..I thought Id somehow dipped it in something while getting a glass of water..I went to change clothes and was coming from my incision..doing a drip drip drip..like just a second apart..Major freak out!!..Woke husband..he wrapped me in towels..which were getting soaked..went through about 8 ..finally it quit..well pretty much..Ive had horrible time getting in touch with nurse (no callbacks) so my husband went storming up to their office this morning (he works at hospital that is attached to their bldg) and they told me to be there in 10 min..it seems that where glue met skin..tiny hole opened like a dam ..he said was good that it came out..also had a bit of red around it..so gave me antibiotic and said very important to change gauze// He said port looked good..except had tiny blisters where tape was..nurse fixed that..he also..GLORY !! ..changed me from lortabs to percocets.

    One other nice thing my husband did for me...MelroseMelrose...I had let him read your tips above on what needed for chemo..I didnt know but he later wrote them down..went to Walmart and purchased almost everything on your list!

  • fab1
    fab1 Member Posts: 70
    edited June 2013

    Hi girls

    I've yet to start my chemo, I've been reading your updates on those who have started. You have all been soooo brave..i just wanted to let you know im thinking of you all and pray daily that things get easier for each of you. Just remember it will be over soon. X

    Melrose thank you for all you have shared with us!!! You have made this journey bearable ! X

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited June 2013

    As many of you will find, this time in chemoland is full of twists and turns.  There are going to be good days and not so good days.  If you find yourself a little teary and emotional on some days, it is part of chemoland experience.  Always try to be easy on yourselves; eat well, drink lots of fluids, rest and take a walk everyday if you can.  The other thing to remember is that is all new to you as well as your families and friends.  Many of them have not travelled this road.  They may not always get everything right but it's okay.  You will soon learn that it doesn't matter how those dishes are stacked in the dishwasher; the fact that they are and in the next step to getting cleaned.  Try to keep the communication lines open with your loved ones and friends so that they can learn with you how to deal with things.  It is team effort here--- you, your medical team, the infusion staff, your family, your friends and people that meet along the way here.  Just knowing that you aren't alone and can come here to chat, vent, ask questions and to get support will help carry you to the other side.  I know at this point in time, the last chemo may seem so far away but the time will pass by before you know it.  Wishing each of you wonderful weekends and minimal side effects!!!! 

    If you are new here, "Welcome!"  The road you are on has been travelled by many before you and there are many here with you.  You are among friends.

  • AMBNH
    AMBNH Member Posts: 119
    edited June 2013

    Hello ladies.



    Had my first of 8 chemo treatments yesterday. A/C was the cocktail of choice and it went smoothly.



    I've been following the orders to a T and so far no nausea. I managed to give myself the Neulasta shot without passing out or misfiring! Took Claritin right after.



    I actually bought a small notebook in which to write the daily medicine schedule b/c it's too easy for me to forget.



    One tip from my dentist is to rinse my mouth 3x per day with antacid liquid like Malox. I got the CVS brand. He said to do this throughout chemo because it raises the Ph in your mouth and that helps keep canker sores from forming.



    We shall see how I feel tomorrow, 24 hours after the Neulasta injection.



    Hope you all have a nice, restful evening! Thanks for your supportive posts. This helped reduce my anxiety 10 fold! :)



    PS. Head shaving girls night for me. Eff cancer-I'm doing it my way!

  • Tasharka
    Tasharka Member Posts: 16
    edited June 2013

    Ok I completed my first treatment today. They had a horrible time accessing my port. It was horrible pain until they realized they needed a longer needle. The nurse said probably port was lower in the chest right because of swelling. I hope that's the case and goes better next time. The infusion part went very smooth and so far I'm feeling very pretty good.

    Hope everyone has a good weekend!!

  • mummommama
    mummommama Member Posts: 70
    edited June 2013

    Hello! I'm still new, still learning the etiquette of discussion boards (and am a slow learner!) I will find out about my chemo this week. I'm sure it's inevitable but the tumor was sent for analysis to a lab in California where the DNA is tested. The results of the DNA test inform the decisions about which chemo to use, and even in some cases that it's not necessary. 

    In the meantime I'm letting my hair grow out, stopped wearing makeup, gained weight, stopped getting the highlights in my hair and just going all natural, I guess. Returning to the granola roots of my youth. And like so many of you trying not to freak out.

    ckMoss, I had a similar problem but mine turned out to be an infection in the spacers. A week of IV antibiotics and surgery to remove them, and another week of oral antibiotics and I think the infection is gone. (talk about twists and turns - and chemo hasn't even started yet!). I hope you were able to get your leak sorted out. 

    Melrose, thank you for the welcome! 

    My husband and I just moved to a completely new city, far away from family, in December, 2 months before my lump and the pursuit to find out what the heck it was. New location, away from family, new jobs, new culture, new disease! 

    I hope to learn from you all. Thank you for leading the way and for sharing.

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    CK & Tash, So sorry for your problems.  Makes mine get smaller all of the time.  12 days until #2.  Can't hardly wait, lol!!!!!

  • Netter
    Netter Member Posts: 107
    edited June 2013

    I just made up a pitcher of water with lemon, lime, orange slices, strawberries and grapes.  Delicious and makes all of that water more interesting!

  • jjl
    jjl Member Posts: 68
    edited June 2013

    I'm having the hard time with my first AC. Vomiting 2ce already. On and off nausea. Just pray for get better tomorrow.

  • lstewart51
    lstewart51 Member Posts: 43
    edited June 2013

    Hi all,I'm on day 10 I haven't had too bad a time been able to eat all right tired but nothing too bad ,but today glands in my neck are sore hopefully that's normal and will go away. Next treatment is scheduled for Mon.

  • dlm425
    dlm425 Member Posts: 209
    edited June 2013

    Jjl you should not be sick at all I had Ac yesterday I took Emend before I went. I took zofran after and ativan for nausea and anxiety. Was not sick at all a little quizzy. Today had my neulasta shot and I feel fatigued but still no vomiting i hope I don't start now when do you know your at of the woods? I don't feel right I feel like a war is about to start inside my body

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