I Come to the Garden...

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  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited May 2013

    Will do, and will also pray for you as you prepare for the evening.  May God open Carol's heart to receive him and may He give you wisdom and guide your words.

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited May 2013

    thanks Chabba.  this will be a 1st for me, in this circumstance.  Tad bit nervous, but know that God has my back!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited May 2013

    Eph, I am so sorry I didn't read this before you headed over there yesterday.  I will pray that the seeds you planted germinate and grow.

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited May 2013

    Well, she says she's coming with me to church on Sunday!

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited May 2013
  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited May 2013

    That's wonderful!, You Done Good, Girl!

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited May 2013

    Keep praying, please.  Carol went with me to church on Sunday & she was quite amazed that the walls didn't fall in on her!!  She was also amazed how friendly & loving everyone was.  She went with me last night to my Life Group too(small group that meets weekly to further delve into the message from Sunday, share prayer requests, etc.) 

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited May 2013

    I will continue to pray for Carol and youry ministry to her.  Bless you.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited May 2013

    That was fabulous!

    My prayers are with you and Carol.

  • Hindsfeet
    Hindsfeet Member Posts: 2,456
    edited May 2013

    Has anyone heard from 3jaysmom? She wasn't doing so well when she last came here. I'm concerned. Praying

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited May 2013

    No word lately.  I was thinking about calling her last night, I will have to try later this afternoon.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited May 2013

    Hi guys, since I lurk from time -time, I knew you were wondering about me..

      I've not been doing very well, lots of complications with my heart, which as of yesterday, they tell me is now enlarged, Please pray for me, as many treatments are up in the air with this news.. they think chemo has reached it long arms to me, as the heart was the "consistency of old leather" as the surgeons notes said.. they said a direct result of a year of chemo, but i;m still nhere, if not too happy, at the moment..

      I would appreciate the continued prayers for me, most especially for my faith to grow.. but like i told someone else here, it only has to be the size of a mustard seed, and that, I can manage.. I know He'll provide, i'm the problem, I know i'm impatient for His answers..

      Think of you all, and pray daily for you. even in my sick bed, i can do that!..3jays

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited May 2013

    We will keep you in prayer.  So good to hear from you.  So sad to hear that you are in your sick bed.  Pop in to say hi whenever you can.

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited May 2013

    3jays, my thoughts and prayers are with you. 

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited June 2013

    I come to my pray warriors asking for prayer for Matt.  Physically he's okay but emotionally his relationship is tearing him up.  Please pray for God's wisdom for him this evening as he makes a difficult decision.   Oh, and I am pretty torn up myself, so please pray for strength on God's wisdom on my part as well.  Thank you all in advance.

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 5,065
    edited June 2013

    My prayers are with you and Matt.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited June 2013

    Thank you so much.  

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited June 2013
  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited June 2013

    OH Meece...Frown

    Praying...♥

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited June 2013

    Just a little update.  AFter watching the children so Matt & FDIL could go out alone and talk, they came back here and we had a heart to heart with them.  Matt has some residual effects from the stroke that FDIL has refused to acknowledge and  think he is using the stroke as an excuse.  There is no way the marriage can be successful if she won't support him through this, and it had been causing them to argue a lot.  We told them they need to center their life on God and they will get through this. It will be easier, but not easy.  She will be going with him to his VA dr. appointments on Tuesday and I have encouraged her to talk to the doctors and ask questions.  The waters are still rough but they are going to work on it.  They will need continued uplifting in prayer as they and the three children involved work through this.  As always, thank you! Meece

  • Hindsfeet
    Hindsfeet Member Posts: 2,456
    edited June 2013

    3Jays I stopped by the garden to check on you. I'm so happy to hear from you. It's no fun being laid up. I can't begin to understand what you are going through except to say when I was on herceptin my ef dropped 20 to 25 points. I was always out of breath. It really zaps your strength and motivation. Almost a year off of it I'm about back to normal. You don't think about how important the heart is when you are doing treatment. My cardio doctor said to me to stop treatment or have heart failure. I feared I had damaged my heart. So...I am sorry your heart is enlarged and not doing so well. it's scary.

    I will definatly be praying for you. You are an amazing lady!

    Let me behold Thy face dear Son of God, My soul is in need of this. 

    Let me look long unto Your matchless grace shall overflow and your great love embrace me.

    The ways we wander lead far afield

    our dreams are but moths in flight

    Our lost horizon all converge in Thee.

    (((HUGS)))

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited June 2013

    Survived the 1st anniversary of my mom's death last week.  I miss her so much! God has been good through my grief, but I sure wish it hadn't happened in the 1st place.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited June 2013

    {{Joni}} You are a strong woman.  You've been on my mind lately.  Enough to actually have you in a dream last night.  Still so sorry about your loss. Take care.

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited June 2013

    Garden Girls, I am SICK with a summer cold.  Almost feels flu-like but not nausea or vomiting (thank goodness).

    I am supposed to speak this weekend at our church service up at a local lake about how God has been my rock through the years.  I need to be able to at least speak with out sounding too stuffy.  Prayers please.

    This is what I am going to say: "My Dad’s Mom died in June of 1991. She was 89 years old. She prayed for me every day.


    In late July, early August of that year, I woke from a sound sleep with a frantic feeling; my heart was pounding, I was close to sobbing. NO ONE WAS PRAYING FOR ME!
    And just like that, God reached into the heart of this majorly back-slid Christian. I was stunned that he even knew I still existed, but I had NO DOUBT that he was calling.


    Within just a few weeks, I found RVCC. I embraced the worship immediately (back then we were still using hymnals, as well as an overhead projector!), but not the extracurricular activities, like Fix for 6, a precursor for Life Groups.


    Eventually, I joined an all-women’s Bible study, worked sporadically in the nursery. I sang in the choir and got married in the building in 1994. Brought my daughter home from China in 1996 and this church helped raise her. I led a women’s study in my home a couple years. I led worship. God took my sin-filled life with all of its ugly scars and pain, the one I felt was totally unredeemable, and brought me healing, strength to fight battles, and His unfailing love.


    Our church called a new pastor in 2009. A young man and his wife and baby girl, all who I instantly loved! The day after Russell arrived in Medford, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. The 7 months of active treatment that occurred are a blur, but I had occasion to re-read e-mail updates that I sent out to a group I’d labeled “My Prayer Warriors’” last year. (Prayer seems to be a running theme, doesn’t it?) I was struck with how calm, how confident, how sure I was that God was in control of the whole nightmare. He met me in the midst of the biggest battle to my life and provided me courage, strength and faith. I was amazed!

    Fast forward to 2012. My mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer. During the 90 day from Mom’s diagnosis to death, I really thought I wouldn’t be able to carry on without her. The thought of her no longer a phone call or a drop-in away was too much; I would fall into major crying jags, unable to see my way out of them. With the brief exception of 1982-1985, we had always been less than 2 or 3 miles away from each other. We did lots of activities together, we vacationed together (sometimes), we partied together; we were best friends.


    In the fall of 2012, after Mom’s death. I started going to a life group. Other than the couple I led myself, there were only a couple groups that I had felt comfortable in- I ordinarily don’t get involved or I lose interest and make excuses to not go. This group, however, was different. The people have a direct pipeline to God because once I opened up about my grief, I was prayed over and for. No one can convince me that my hurting heart was healed because of time passing. There will never be enough time to lessen my loss. But prayer has worked miracles.


    I have just passed the one year mark of Mom’s death and can say that I literally feel more at peace, more lightness of being. I miss Mom terribly; little things will happen & will cause me to lose my breath or cry tons. God, again, met me in my grief, held me close, provided gifts I was too blind to see, and has surrounded me with love-from family and friends. He has healed my broken heart."

  • Laural136669
    Laural136669 Member Posts: 287
    edited June 2013

    I will be praying for you, Joni. What a great testimony to share...I know the people will be blessed and God will use your story for His glory. Shine bright!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited June 2013

    Joni, that is inspiring.  I will be praying for you to feel better by speech time.

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited July 2013

    Making the 11 hour drive to see Patch and Lala tomorrow.  Please pray for traveler's mercies as we cross the dessert.

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited July 2013

    speaking went well!  Only cried a little bit!

    Here's to safe travels Meece! Happy grandkid squeezing!

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited July 2013

    Saw Third Day, Peter Fuhler & Colton Dixon in concert last night!  It was an awesome concert & very God centered!  It was just VERY hot!! 100 degrees.  This fat old lady was melting!

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