What are you doing for fun??
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Oh wow! It all sounds great! And I am enjoying every minute of it.
It's finally sunny and warm in CT too...and I'm lovin' that.
It's warm enough that the wasps are out in full force. One of them woke me out of a sound sleep a couple nights ago by stinging me on my bald head!!! OUCH!
By the way...that wasn't the fun part...... the sunny warm weather was! -
Had a great week-end in the Tenn. mountains at a garden show where my sister had a showing of her gallery things. It rained most of the day, but we were under a tent so it wasnt too bad. We still had about 300 people who showed up, but the gardens were amazing, as was the house that we had our tent set up. Built in about 1810, restored to original, filled with period furniture,except for updated kitchen and baths. Just beautiful.They spend all their time in the house and gardens. It was a nice break. Spent more money than we made but that was fun too....
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Wow, so many neat places and stories here! Marywh, I remember seeing a picture of Pigeon Forge...very beautiful. (Well the mountain scenery, kind of guessing the nonmountain party is a lilttle touristy.) Would love to see the Smokies sometime....
Surfdreams...Performing dolphins? Wow!
Tina, sounds like a dream vacation. I remember reading Bill Bryson's description of trying to cross a street in Rome. The traffic must be something.
Susan, sounds like you could challenge Martha Stewart!
I shared this on a different thread, wanted pass along this hilarious article on better choice for our state birds. http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/science/2013/05/state_bird_improvements_replace_cardinals_and_robins_with_warblers_and_hawks.single.html
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English Major,
Loved the article although the California quail is quite well loved here. Children are enchanted by this bird with the little curl of feathers atop his head. You see them quite often crossing the road in groups, feathered headdresses bobbing as the walk. The condor, while impressive, is too predatory looking.
Caryn -
Lol English major! I guess I misspoke. I am performing the dolphin watch. Although yesterday we did see dolphins playing and jumping completely out of the water in the gulf.
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My chemo regimen offers up about 10 days every three weeks of energy-filled days, during which I: garden, visit friends for breastfasts & lunches, write on my blog, go to theater, read books in the sun, and plan events for my book, "Breast Left Unsaid" because the proceeds go to BC research. But mostly, I just enjoy doing a great meal plan, going to the farmers markets and Whole Foods, and then cooking something awesome for me and the husband for dinner. On the days when food is my friend - man, I love to cook. Next on my list though are Earthboxes (growing veggies) and getting back to painting; watercolors mostly. Less than a year ago I was an HR executive in NYC traveling the world. This new life arrangement is not what I planned - but I try to make the very best of it. http://breastleftunsaid.com
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Rome, Day 13 Facebook Status:
If the neighborhood street saxophonist who has played the theme from "The Godfather" over and over again for 12 evenings doesn't vary his repertoire tomorrow, I'm gonna make him an offer he can't refuse.
Rome, Day 16 Facebook Update:
During yesterday's perambulations we happened upon a guitarist playing a spirited version of "Tico Tico," a jaunty tune I remember from my childhood. I was so grateful that it wasn't the theme from "The Godfather" that I tossed a few coins in his case. Guess what he began playing as we walked away?
Tina
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Tina, I love your updates!
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Tina, you are in Rome! How great is that? And how yummy the policemen there!!!
I just started spring cleaning & a bit of renovating in the house. Feels good. Waited for a year postponing everything that needed be done, thinking "the next wife can do it?" Well since I am still here (LOL) & retired, I have to do something, right? DH is happy to see me getting back to my normal self, highmaintaining (!) about everything..
Oh the memories I have of Rome. Tina, you lucky girl.. btw Englishmajor traffic here is much more enjoyable than in Italy, if you like the adrenalin pumping rollercosters, but wait we are already riding on them, LOL.
surfdreams, I would want to visit Mexico some day, enjoy the weather and watching the dolphins playing.
hugs, Ebru
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Tina, So very funny! Rome is on my wish list for sure. Been to northern Italy, but not as far South as Rome.
Mexico... yup. Want to go there too. I would love to take a cooking class with Ms. Kennedy who is quite the authority on Mexican traditional cookery. And I have a good friend in Oxaca that I would like to visit. And of course, Baja.. the Mediterranean of our continent.
Heck! There are very few places I don't want to visit!
Ebru, the next wife... too soon for that. You are indeed still here. Funny though, after my mets were found, I did a major declutter because I didn't want my husband or daughter to have to do it. Three years later, still here, so I have slowed down on that type of stuff.
*susan*
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Oaxaca is a wonderful city. I love the markets there and the crunchy grasshoppers with chili and lime ( truly a delicious snack). Some lovely architecture there too as well as seven different types of mole. I took Spanish classes there and went to a lovely woman's home who taught us to make mole negro from scratch. Wonderful but too labor intensive. I cheat with the stuff in jars
Caryn -
Susan
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Today I drove my son (which he had been waiting since the last year to feel mommy's OK) a 3 hour round trip, to a birthday. The traffic wasn't that bad, I'm so grateful cos it's the weekend=worst traffic in Istanbul. We played our music & sang outloud. None of the parents knew about my dx where we went, so that was cool. Mommy wasn't treated "sick" or no pity looks / talks whatever. He was so happy..
Paid the toll of it afterwards though. When back home, I went straight to my bedfor a 4 hour nap after popping a Tramadol.. was totally worth it though
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Ebru
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Ebru,
Love that image.... singing in the car was always one of our favorite things, generally with the windows rolled down with the wind and sun streaming into the car. I think that your son wasn't the only one who was happy. :-)
*susan*
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Ebru, that sounds like so much fun. Stayed close to home today as Nascar is in town..Ds works at the race track and always look forward to hearing his stories. Last year somebody went out and bought a 16 ft. above ground swimming pool and set it up in 1 of the parking lots, got into trouble for it but didnt make them take it down...Race fans are a breed of their own. This year its the new hamburger they have out there. 5 pound 12 patty with 1 pd of cheese on it, for 35$. Yuck!!!
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Marywh, I read your post above just after breakfast and nearly lost it. I hope they have a defibrillator handy by the burger stand. Maybe an enterprising cardiologist should hang out by the customer line and hand out business cards.
Ebru, your day sounds delightful. Because I know what you and your son look like, it was very easy to picture you singing in the car and it makes a lovely picture. He is so adorable. What a smile!
Caryn, after marywh's description of the mammoth burger, your crunchy grasshoppers seem like a far healthier alternative!
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I love how both the everyday pleasures and the special trips and occasions are so special to us! Double yuck on the mammoth hamburger. I can't even imagine it!
Two weeks from today, my younger dd is getting married! Hard to believe that after a two year engagement, it's finally upon us. Picking up her gown after the final fitting on Tuesday as well as mine, which only needed hemming. Older dd is maid of honor and dress fir perfectly. All of the other bridesmaids are set! I will miss the last day of school since that will be our rehearsal/walk through at the venue followed by a luncheon. Saturday is shabbat, so we get a break but my parents. brother and SIL will be in town by then. I have a vintage white mesh handbag (I collect mesh handbags) that my daughter will use. Can't wait. BTW, I have an onc appointment on the afternoon after the wedding. That might be restful after the hectic weekend.
Caryn
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We are heading home from Rome tomorrow after three incredible weeks in Rome. Corny as it may sound, this has been truly the trip of a lifetime. We are now hopelessly spoiled in terms of weather, which was sunny and pleasant for all but several days, and our relatively high-class (and high-ceilinged) four-room accomodations away from noisy crowds in a perfect location close to a bustling open-air market where we could find all sorts of goodies to cook. We've been all over the "Centro Storico" and beyond, walking miles and taking taxis to conserve energy when necessary. If any of you want tips about a trip like this, just PM me. We've spent a fair amount of money, but it was well worth it. And having an apartment is so much better and actually more economical than a hotel for a long stay; we were not just able to cook, but to do laundry, too.
I also finally made a long-delayed decision that was made easier by taking this trip. We are going to sell a small property we own together and earmark the money for future adventures like this one. The 1854 row house has been in my family for many generations and has not increased in value since I bought it from my mother years ago so she could have some much-needed cash. It's brought in some income over the years from a street-level retail space and two apartments, but it's a money pit in terms of maintenance. We have never done more than break even on it. It has great sentimental value to me, which is why I've resisted selling, but it is no longer a tax advantage to us and I realize now that the place could fund multiple jaunts like we've just enjoyed.
I keep seeing on this board how quickly our disease can turn and I don't want to get lulled into a false sense of security by my current stable status. I want to experience all I can while I can!
Greedily,
Tina
P.S.There was a huge soccer match this evening: Roma vs Lazio. It is our understanding that the working class supports the former and establishment Lazio. Car horns are starting to blare in the street, so I guess the game's over. Wonder if I can tell who won by which cars are honking?
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Tina,
I always get an apartment or do a house-swap when traveling. To walk through the markets and not be able to bring the ingredients home seems just cruel! I have had the most wonderful conversations with fish mongers [pantomime gutting the fish], sausage makers, wine sellers, and produce stall owners over the years. People LOVE to give advice on how to prepare food, even when you have to use jestures and facial expressions to get the point across.
I am so pleased that your trip was all that you had hoped for. Safe travels home.
*susan*
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Susan, we found a new-to-us vegetable in the market: agretti. Do you know it? It looks like soft, thick grass with muliple cylindrical leaves on a central stem. ( Google images; it's tough to describe.) My partner cooked it for two-to-three minutes as we were advised. We liked it. It tastes rather like French green beans!
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So happy for your great trip, Tina! Sounds wonderful! And I totally agree with your line of thinking as far as the sale of the property funding 'multiple jaunts' and not getting lulled into a false sense of security. It's easy to do when we feel well...so I say...LIVE LIVE LIVE!
And if it doesn't cut too much into your quality of life you'll have to spend a little time when you get home figuring out how to post pictures! -
Lol, I agree, pictures would be wonderful! Jo
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Yes, I feel like many every day pleasures as well as trips and special occasions are all often so meaningful.
When I was diagnosied 2 1/2 years ago, the first thing I stopped doing were home improvements. We'd fixed up our house over the years with one project after another, but my heart was no longer in it. However, recently I realized the family room needs repainted (a good summer project for DH) so I got some paint chips and we picked a couple of colors. As I walked upstairs last night, I felt a happiness in my heart that I hadn't had for quite a while, looking forward to updating that room. It felt good.
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DH and I like to take in a few concerts. Last year we saw Van Halen but enjoyed seeing Chicago/The Doobie Brothers even more. So last weekend, sort of spur of the moment, we went to see Styx/REO Speedwagon/Ted Nugent. We had really good seats; DH loved that. All three acts were just awesome, playing so many hit songs that are on the songtrack to our lives. For the first time, we went early, took a couple lawn chairs and sat in the parking lot with all the other tailgaters. We didn't take a grill or cook, just some snacks and drinks. I read the Sunday newspaper while DH watched the cars streaming into the parking lot. The weather was beautiful for the middle of May, perfect for the outdoor concert. It was very memorable. Here's a photo I took of us sitting in the parking lot:
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Divine, You are so very right. The everyday acts of normalacy give me great pleasure as well, though loud concerts aren't for me! My husband built two large raised planting beds. Every day I go out side to admire the blanket of light green leaves that are peeking through the black soil. To me, the idea that a tiny seed can become lettuce or basil is miraculous, and yet, every year it works! My heart feels lighter as I survey our tiny little back yard filled with plants that we can eat later this summer.
Tina, I have never had agretti. It is a much heard about, seldom seen, vegetable. You were mighty lucky to be in Rome during that short season. It is similar to the asparagus or English pea season up here-- two weeks and then it is gone. I love that you had a chance to eat it, in Rome!
*susan*
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Oh what fun those concerts sound. Havnt been to one in ages. I have always wanted to see Ted Nugent in concert, he is such an awesome guitar player, Glad you had such a good time.
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We were in Walt Disney World with the kids 2 weeks ago and that was wonderful. Since we've been back, we've just been trying to fill up our days with fun
This weekend, we've gone on a hike, rented paddleboats on a lake in the mountains, stopped for ice cream, ice skated and we might go on another hike this afternoon. The hubby and I had a fabulous date night on Friday, we saw Les Mis at the performing arts center...it was wonderful. I love weekends like this!
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Brandall,
that sounds like the perfect weekend! Date night. I should remember to do that some day.
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My son and his fiance were down from northern California this weekend, mostly to work on their wedding plans. I'm so happy that they're getting married this summer when I know I'll be able to take part and enjoy it!
They decided to get married in our backyard, and have the reception in the bride's family backyard, which is only two miles away.
(They were late high school sweethearts, but they're 25 now.) I've been consulting gardening companies to help me with some new plantings and to take out some overgrown bushes and dying trees, and it's been very consuming. And that's a good thing! Thinking about a wedding is so much more fun than thinking about cancer! It's a little overwhelming to think I'll have close to 200 people in the backyard (where do we put all the chairs!) but we know it will work with a little creativity. The trick will be to get everyone out of our house, into their cars and then over to the bride's house with as little chaos as possible. I've enlisted the help of a valet company. It will be worth the extra cost to make sure that people won't have to worry about parking or walk far to find their car afterwards.
I've never planned an event this large. It's an adventure!
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I've turned into an old softie when it comes to weddings, and love hearing about you ladies with children getting wed this summer. It really is nice to have the wonderful distraction of planning the event and best wishes to both exbrxgrl and sandilee and your kids on their wedding day.
I have no daughters. My sister's girl is getting married next May, so I'm going with my sister and her other daughter to Atlanta, Georgia later this summer to help the pick out the wedding gown. So looking forward to that.
Gardens: my DH plants a vegetable garden every year and it's always the highlight of my summer. I love all the produce: peppers, tomatoes, beens, romaine lettuce, ect. Oh and of course zucchini till it's coming out the ears.
As for the music concerts, TURN IT UP! I sing to all the songs I know at the top of my lungs. It makes me feel so ALIVE. Styx sang their song, "Come Sail Away" and one lyric is, ...a gathering of angels appeared above my head, they sang to me this song of hope..... and I just felt like it was a wonderful message to me, I was singing the lyrics so loud.
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Thank you for this thread!
I have just come in from gardening in a drizzling rain under the canopy of an old lilac in full bloom! The birds are singing and the scent glorious! Lovely way to be present today.
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