I lost my son

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  • Sandra1957
    Sandra1957 Member Posts: 1,701
    edited June 2006

    Prayers to you and your family.

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  • sherry7
    sherry7 Member Posts: 200
    edited June 2006
    Pam, our hearts go out to you and your family.
    Heavenly father surround this family with your healing white light, lift their hearts and fill them with the good memories of this son who was taken so soon.
    In Jesus name I pray, Amen

    love and light, sherry
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  • Sherryg683
    Sherryg683 Member Posts: 8
    edited June 2006

    I am so sorry, words cannot express. I can't imagine how you must feel. I have a 17 year old son and he is my heart. Please know you are in my prayers...sherryg683

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  • sharon68
    sharon68 Member Posts: 115
    edited June 2006

    Pam ...I'm sorry to hear of your tragic loss....please accept my sympaties and know that my heart goes out to you & your family...may the Lord wrap His arms around you and hold you tight....I'll be lifting you up in prayer....Sharon F.

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  • jackie1368
    jackie1368 Member Posts: 1
    edited June 2006

    from Puerto Rico, in our church, we are going to be praying for your family. May God be with you.

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  • Megibytes
    Megibytes Member Posts: 10
    edited June 2006
    My heart just sank to the pit of my stomach Pam, I am so sorry.

    Love and sympathy,
    Megi
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  • MomInMarin
    MomInMarin Member Posts: 7
    edited June 2006
    Pam,

    May God's comfort allow you to carry on, remembering the love and not the loss... I am so very, very sorry and will pray for you and your family to find peace and understanding at this most difficult time.

    We are all here for you, Sister-Friend, if you need a couple hundred shoulders...

    Take good care of yourself.
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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited June 2006
    A couple hundred shoulders are great, but I think arms would be better. It has been one week already since I last saw my baby alive. The worst part I think are comments of insensitive people. Worse than the cancer questions, I assure you. My oldest son, Miles told me he needed to talk to someone. He gave me an analogy. "Mama, it's like we have both been in the deep end of the pool, treading water, and we are both so tired, but if we lean on each other we will both drown." We are going back to our home tomorrow and begin packing up. I cannot imagine how horrible this was, and I hope none of you ever have to.
    Please continue your prayers and words of support. They mean so much. Pam
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited June 2006
    Pam I wish I could be there to hold you. That is the problem with cyberspace. People you have grown to care for you can only try to touch with words and prayers.
    So because I can't be there to give you a hug or a shoulder to cry on I know the pain of losing a child , no pain compares .
    I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers that God will comfort and keep you in this terrible time of pain~ Lighting candles for you and your family Pam pm me if you ever want to talk.

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    With Love,
    Carrie
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  • susanmcm
    susanmcm Member Posts: 1,324
    edited June 2006
    Oh Pam, I just saw your message. I am so so sorry to hear this. I wish I had better words to comfort you. You are in my prayers.

    Much love to you and your family,
    Susan
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  • ferq
    ferq Member Posts: 68
    edited June 2006
    Pam,
    I just read your post & my prayers are with you and your family..I am so sorry for your loss..(((((hugs)))))
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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2006
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  • joey50210
    joey50210 Member Posts: 20
    edited June 2006

    I am so sorry for such a terrible loss, there are just no words to express how sorry I am for the pain you and your family are going through.

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  • katz03
    katz03 Member Posts: 94
    edited June 2006
    Pam

    I am so sorry for the horrific pain and sense of loss that you must have. Made worse by the fact it was a violent attack.

    On March 23rd this year my 18 year old son was savagely attacked by a gang and his head was beaten by thugs with rings with spikes. He was covered in blood and chased with knives. He had stitched in five places in his head.
    Thank God I still have him but he is still severely affected and does not leave the house unless it is with us in the car.

    I was almost in your situation so can feel with you some of your pain. It hurts so much doesn`t it and more so for you. So hard for your other son too. Your son who you sadly lost is at peace now and I pray they catch his attacker or attackers and bring them to justice.

    So so sorry. May God cover you with his comfort, peace and healing.

    Katz and Sarah
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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited June 2006
    Dear Sisters,
    The worst is in. The death of my son was ruled a suicide although I will never believe it. My soul is so empty. Have an appointment with cardiologist tomorrow. He took me off Herceptin two weeks ago, and I returned to find my baby gone. Everyone says I have to go on. Cancer is nothing compared to this. Thank you all so much for your love and prayers. Pam
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  • joey50210
    joey50210 Member Posts: 20
    edited June 2006
    Dear Pam,

    Although we do not know one another when I read your post I just wanted to say again how truly sorry I am for your loss. We all struggle for words to comfort you when in truth I do not believe there are any. Please just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this most horrific time in your life.
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited June 2006
    Dearest Pam,
    My heart aches for you , I am so sorry.
    Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

    With love,
    Carrie
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited June 2006
    Dear Pam

    Holding you close
    in my heart and prayers Pam

    xoxo
    Patti
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  • rockongal
    rockongal Member Posts: 31
    edited June 2006
    Dear Pam,
    I don't know you, but I just wanted to send my sympathies to you & your family.
    Prayers & hugs,
    Kim
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  • jz20022001
    jz20022001 Member Posts: 480
    edited June 2006
    I am so sorry to hear about your son. My mother committed suicide 28 years ago (age 50) and it was far harder to deal with that than cancer. Take care of yourself and your health.

    Catherine
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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2006
    Pam,

    As I told you before, I can imagine no pain greater than to burry a child, as it is an unnatura process.


    I have know 6 or 7 women who under all kinds of circumstances have gone through this.

    I seriously hope I never live to see something like happen to me.

    I can't imagine the pain, the anger and the great courage it would take to surviive something like that.

    I can offer you little except my most geniune wishes for peace. I know you heart now breaks.

    love, light and peace
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  • barbaraelizabeth
    barbaraelizabeth Member Posts: 3
    edited June 2006
    There is suicide in my family. I also had breast cancer. I would take breast cancer 100 times to see my brother again just once.
    I am so sorry. I will think of you and your son. I am so very sorry. Yes, you will go on -- you change, but the awful pain does soften. It doesn't go away but it softens. Please be very kind to yourself.

    Barbara
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  • csp
    csp Member Posts: 2,765
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    Thinking of you tonight,
    Lifting you and your family in my prayers

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    Hugs,
    Carrie
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  • beachcottage
    beachcottage Member Posts: 4,688
    edited July 2006
    Dear Pam

    Holding you and Miles
    close to my heart

    Holding your hand
    in spirit my friend

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    gentle hugs
    and love

    xoxo
    Patti
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  • pconn03
    pconn03 Member Posts: 643
    edited July 2006
    Pam:
    Can't pretend to know the depth of your sorrow and agony. I just wanted to put my arms around you in spirit and let you know I am holding you, Miles and your whole family in my heart and prayers at this awful time.
    God bless,
    Pat
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  • PuppyFive
    PuppyFive Member Posts: 2,808
    edited July 2006

    GOD, how i wish i could help you pam, all i can do is pray that you recover quickly . godspeed sweet lady. debbyfive

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  • TheShopMama
    TheShopMama Member Posts: 577
    edited July 2006

    Ladies... Sisters.... Thank you so much for your comforting words, candles, prayers... and hugs. This is such a wonderful place to be. I am due to start back on Herceptin next week. I asked the doc how my heart function could be back up if it were broken.... Please keep us among your prayers... Love, Pam

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  • kimmytoo
    kimmytoo Member Posts: 206
    edited July 2006

    i just saw this and wanted to let you know that your family will be in my prayers.....

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2006

    The heart does amazing things ~ even as yours is broken I believe your son is helping to mend it. Keeping you, your son and your family in my prayers.

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  • cowgirl
    cowgirl Member Posts: 777
    edited July 2006
    Pam,
    You hang on to God, he hears your cries. My prayers have not stopped since I heard your sad news, I wish we could wrap you up in our arms and hold you till the pain was gone. Just know that we are here for you!
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