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Probably going to end u with the dreaded marks....but just read this and no surpise at all:
Family Ties” vs. “Modern Family”: If you want to know why Republicans are
from Mars and Democrats are from Venus, or why Republicans are the “Family Ties”
party and Democrats are the “Modern Family” party, just look at our NBC/WSJ
poll. Fourteen years ago, back in 1999, the poll asked this question: What
should be a more important goal for society -- promoting greater respect for
traditional values, or encouraging greater tolerance? An overwhelming majority
of Republicans (by 76%-16%), a majority of independents (54%-31%), and a
plurality of Democrats (49%-41%) all picked traditional values. But when we
asked that question again in our new NBC/WSJ poll, there was a significant
change: Almost two-thirds of Democrats picked tolerance (64%-31%), and
independents moved, too (narrowly siding with traditional values, 48%-43%). But
the Republican percentage remained virtually the same from 1999 (77%-18%). This
movement by Democrats and the non-movement by Republicans might very well
represent the biggest difference between the two political parties, especially
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What a beautiful, beautiful bird.
A little something else. I note the one Senator who just couldn't bring himself around.
*** The Gang of 16: Yesterday, by a 68-31
vote, a group of bipartisan senators defeated a GOP filibuster on the
Democratic-backed gun-control measure, so now Senate debate begins on the
legislation. Sixteen GOP senators voted against the filibuster, while two
Democrats (Mark Begich and Mark Pryor, both up for re-election next year in red
states) voted for it. But we want to focus on the 16 GOP senators for a second,
because they tell a larger story beyond guns. Here are the 16 who voted for
cloture: Lamar Alexander (R-TN), Kelly Ayotte (R-NH), Richard Burr (R-NC), Saxby
Chambliss (R-GA), Tom Coburn (R-OK), Susan Collins (R-ME), Bob Corker (R-TN),
Jeff Flake (R-AZ), Lindsey Graham (R-SC), Dean Heller (R-NV), John Hoeven
(R-ND), Johnny Isakson (R-GA), Mark Kirk (R-IL), John McCain (R-AZ), Pat Toomey
(R-PA), and Roger Wicker (R-MS). If you’re the White House, these are the
universe of 16 GOP senators willing to work you – on the budget, immigration,
and guns. Of course, there’s one VERY BIG exception: Marco Rubio, who’s working
on the bipartisan immigration proposal, voted FOR the filibuster. But for the
most part, these 16 senators have been ones most open to going to a dinner with
the president (in fact, we think all but three have been to a dinner with him
already), and they all seem to playing a part in one of the compromise working
groups, either immigration, the budget or guns. File away this list, you’ll need
it quite a bit if you are covering Congress. -
A Bible Lesson.........
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=S1-ip47WYWc#!
Thanks Chaplain.
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If somebody evil wanted a list of who had guns all they would need to get a good start would be a list of NRA members. Those paranoid of such things should probably cancel their memberships.
gardengumby ... looking at property can be great fun. It's great that you have time to explore your options!
pip ... sounds like things have worked out perfect for you too. I envy you getting to design a new kitchen! And not having to live in the house while it is done is even better.
Big storms missed my house too. Lots of large hail and flooding all around us but we were in a little tunnel between the two storm systems and just got some rain.
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GG - I lived on Whidbey Island once, near Clinton. I hope that is the wet side of the island, as even if it might not get as much rain, it was very damp. I think Langley was drier maybe? Beautiful views of the Olympics!
Just saw the most disgusting tv ad on CNBC. Basically urging one to sign a petition protecting their 2nd Ammendement rights as Congress was about to take their guns away. I guess they can find 1 million people with that ad, but funny, they don't seem like the type that would be watching a business channel. Rand Paul and Ted Cruz were mentioned, so who knows if they lent their name to it.
E - hoping for boring. Still, one big drag.

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Kam - Clinton is definitely NOT in the rain shadow - quite wet there - in fact, it probably gets more rain, because the clouds are pushed around the Olympics to the east and west. Up around Oak Harbor it's a lot drier. Sequim, though is probably the part of the state that is best known for being dry (other than Eastern Washington, of course).
OK, so I have a question re: background checks for gun purchases. What do they propose to look for? Is it just violent crime or something else? Someone asked me that the other day and I realized that I didn't know. I hate it when I am thinking something is good, and then I realize that I haven't truly done my homework. So now, I'm being lazy hoping that one (or more) of you have done it for me. (I'm not against cribbing anymore...
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GG, the background checks are performed by the National Instant Criminal Background Check System or NICS. It is part of the FBI. It is a system that checks the criminal history of individuals to see if they are convicted felons, have been adjudicated mentally ill, or are otherwise ineligible to possess a firearm (there are several other criteria, but those are the two most-commonly mentioned). If you go to www.fbi.gov, hover your cursor over "Stats & Services" and select "Gun Checks/NICS" from the drop-down menu, it will take you to the NICS homepage. All the regressive hysteria about not prosecuting people who fail background checks and are deemed ineligible to purchase a firearm completely miss the point that the person was not able to purchase the firearm. DUH! In addition, people might fail background checks because of inaccurate information, identity theft or mistaken identity, or the simple fact that they didn't know they weren't eligible. Even if they knowingly tried to buy a gun knowing they were ineligible, it is at most a prosecution for false statements (18 USC 1001). With prosecutorial resources thin and growing thinner to the point of transparency, I think Federal prosecutors devote more time to prosecuting bank robbers, drug traffickers, Medicare fraud, public corruption, and other crimes more pressing than false statements. False statements is usually an add-on charge.
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E - Make sure you bring a BIG BAG on Monday. I am taking a zebra leg with me for lunch. Break a leg, my dear!
ETA: Blue, is that Ingrid Bergman?
Adorable cheetah and cub!
Been having a really nice time --with Mother in town-- going out and about buying things to redecorate my den. I LOVE home decor but Ialways like to mix styles and not follow rigid rules.
Thanks to my body finally recovering from cancer treatment (Tamoxifen) - and to estrogen-- I am also tolerating the warmer weather better, which is a blessing. I have more energy, drive and can control my body heat. I don't just get uncontrollably hotter and hotter. For the past six months, I have actually felt cold for the first time since hormone therapy. I feel like a new person, thanks to the estrogen.
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Athena, Lucille Ball. Wasn't she a beauty!
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Lucille Ball had beautiful bone structure, but I always wondered why her lipstick never followed the natural line of her upper lip.
Athena -- so happy you're feeling better these days. Here in Niagara, we've just gone through rain, rain and more than enough rain, along with coolish wind. Spring next week, so I hear
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HL - thank-you. One of my friends was wondering about the effect background checks would have on people who might feel the need to get mental health treatment, but be afraid that if they did that it would then mean they could no longer pursue a hobby such as hunting or target practice. I think the answer would "probably" be no effect.
Lucille Ball was a beautiful woman. I didn't enjoy her humor much when I was young, but find it hilarious now. The lipstick thing - I think she was a woman who would have jumped at the collagen treatment that so many movie folks seem to go for now. She seemed to wish her lips were more luscious than they actually were, which is too bad, because IMHO lipstick that follows the natural lip line is much more beautiful than pretending your mouth is something that it ain't... JMO, mind you.
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I have no problem with background checks. They do them before you get hired for a job. I had to have a background check to get my Concealed Carry Permit. (I don't carry a gun, but want to be prepared if that need should ever arise), and to buy my gun.
I disagree with being able to go to a gun show and buy a gun without any kind of check. I've been to them. Most sellers don't even ask for ID. They just want to see cash. I also think its unnecessary for citizens to have assault weapons.
I do believe there's good in most people though...even liberals..lol, and most of them have no problem with background checks or registering their guns, but what about all those young people who are mentally ill, or bullied and at the end of their rope, (the ones who usually do these mass school shooting)? Most have never had a record. So a background check wouldn't help.
We need to do more about bullying in schools and getting help for those who have mental problems.
The thugs on the streets will always have their guns. Sad thing is, many of those guns get back onto the streets through the police depts.
Remember though, that over 4000 died on 911 and not a single firearm was used.
A lady in my church just lost her only brother to murder this week. He was taking the trash out at the end of his shift at McDonalds. The door locks automatically and one needs to knock to get back in. A man tried to go in that door to rob them, but of course, it was locked. So, he shot my friends brother several times and killed him.
Something's needs to be done to stop this insanity! But what? We have plenty of laws on the books. They're being broken! If someone wants to kill, more laws won't stop them. They just don't care!
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GG, you are correct. To be denied a firearm on the grounds of mental health, you must be *adjudicated* mentally ill, meaning found to be so in a legal proceeding. Getting therapy for mental health issues would not qualify, unless they revealed in treatment that they were planning to harm people. I think then that the therapist is supposed to contact law enforcement. I don't know that part as well, but I will ask DH.
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Paula - it sounds like you are saying that if we cannot fix everything we should do nothing. I am definitely NOT in favor of making laws just to make laws and I (personally) believe there are many laws on the books that could and probably should be removed. However, I do believe that background checks before gun sales should be standard. That large clips and assault weapons should be banned. Will that solve all of our problems? Of course not. Will it possibly stop someone from getting killed who would get killed without those laws - I think the answer to that is an unmitigated yes.
Sure, a lot of people died on 9/11 without firing a single shot - what does that have to do with gun laws in this country? Were laws enacted after 9/11 to hopefully prevent that particular type of event from happening again? Obviously the answer to that is a resounding YES. But there have been a lot more than 4000 people killed since 9/11 by the use of firearms - a LOT more. We have to take off our shoes and get patted down (practically) whenever we board a plane, but can go to a local gun show and purchase practically whatever we want without so much as a looksee. There is something wrong with that picture.
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This sounds promising:
But quietly, lawmakers have been working on several plans that would lead to some of the most significant advancements in treating mental illness in years, proponents said. All stand a good chance of being in the final gun-control bill the Senate is now taking up.
The legislation would, among other things, finance the construction of more community mental health centers, provide grants to train teachers to spot early signs of mental illness and make more Medicaid dollars available for mental health care.
There would be suicide prevention initiatives and support for children who have faced trauma. The sponsors of one of the bills estimated that an additional 1.5 million people with mental illness would be treated each year.
The issue is one of the more distinguishing — and unnoticed — aspects of the gun-control debate, which has been stymied by partisan squabbling.
Unlike other initiatives that the Senate is likely to vote on — expanded background checks, a restriction on high-capacity ammunition magazines and a ban on certain semiautomatic weapons — mental health unites lawmakers Republican and Democrat, urban and rural, even those with safe seats versus those who may face competitive races.
One bill, sponsored by Senator Debbie Stabenow, Democrat of Michigan, has been joined by some of the Senate’s most conservative members who are strongly backed by the National Rifle Association, including Marco Rubio of Florida and Roy Blunt of Missouri, both Republicans.
Another bill, which has the support of Senator Tom Harkin, Democrat of Iowa, and Senator Lamar Alexander, Republican of Tennessee, unanimously passed a Senate committee this week, something that could hardly be said about any of the gun legislation.
“This is a place where people can come together,” Ms. Stabenow said. “As we’ve listened to people on all sides of the gun debate, they’ve all talked about the fact that we need to address mental health treatment. And that’s what this does.”
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Thanks Lindasa -I also owe much of my good health in the last few months to the estrogen pills I am taking - I would probably not be here without them, and that is not an exaggeration.
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Right, GG. People are killed in car accidents by drunk drivers and people who disobey traffic laws and signals. Does that mean we shouldn't have traffic laws? We should just let everyone drive wherever and however they want? Should we do away with driver's licenses because people drive without them anyway? It is a specious argument to say that gun regulation won't prevent gun deaths, therefore we shouldn't regulate guns. Food and medication regulations don't prevent deaths -- therefore we shouldn't regulate food or medication. Not. When it is harder to vote than it is to buy a gun, there is a problem.
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gardengumby~~I didn't say, if we can't fix everything, do nothing. I said, I believe in background checks, and stopping the sale of assault weapons to individuals. I also said, something needs to be done to stop the insanity, BUT WHAT? In other words, I don't have the answers either.
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Paula - I agree with the truism that someone who wants to kill will find a way. But many gun crimes are crimes of opportunity. In addition, with stricter gun laws parents of troubled teenagers may feel legally obligated to be careful about their firearms use. Crime will never go away, and nor will murder - not as long as animals walk the earth. So we can only fight for a lower degree of violence.
As long as the NRA convinces people in our culture that they have more right to shoot a bullet than to visit the doctor....tell me, which of those two --shooting a bullet and visiting a doctor-- lies more squarely on the side of LIFE and LIBERTY and which lies on the side of death?
To the extent that we can move further away from the death end of the life -death continuum, and further to the life end, then our society's most vulnerable citizens will be safer. We as country will be the mightier for it.
ETA: I crossposted with several. My paws are clumsy typing props.
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GG - 9/11, used as a "red herring" in gun debate. Don't cop to it, really, best to ignore.
Blue - love, loved the clip from the West Wing - watching a great actor "proof text" ( finding just what you want to find) in the bible is fabulous - still amazes me why so many think that particular book should be used, instead of the Koran, Buddhist scriptures, so many good sources to select from, most of the others don't contradict themselves as often as the bible does either. Thanks again for the link - rreally hope all watch that video.
Spring, did someone say Spring - ice pellets all day, about 2 inches on the ground, wicked driving, time for hot tea

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Paula - I know that you said you were in favor of background checks and other things in the bill - but at the same time it felt to me (by the reference to 9/11 and the notable lack of guns in that instance - as well as the reference to bad guys always having guns) that your point was that an enactment of gun control will not fix things - the conclusion made by most people who level those arguments is that therefore gun control should not be passed.
Do I know how to solve the problems of our society? No. I don't. I do feel very strongly that reasonable discussion is important and can help us make some baby steps toward improving our society. I understand that many people who are uncomfortable with some (many) of the changes that have occurred in the last 40 years think that if we could just return to "Leave it to Beaver" or "Father Knows Best" that all would be well with the world.
What they don't seem to remember is that things were also very messed up then. They may not have been AS messed up for white guys - but I remember pretty clearly just how difficult it was as a female to be accepted in my chosen field. Remember how you used to have to ask the pharmacist for condoms? Did that actually help reduce unwanted pregnancies? Blocking access to birth control to people who are going to have sex anyway doesn't do anything other than cause either more abortions or more undesired pregnancies.
I know this is far afield of the gun control issue -but it is a societal issue - and according to many the root cause of the need for additional gun control is the society - the violent society of the US. But the point is that the 50's wasn't the glorious golden age that some people want to think it was. It had problems - many problems - just not the exact same problems we are in the middle of now.
The single biggest thing IMHO that would help us solve some of the problems of our society is to get the nut cases who call themselves the media off the air. When people are making millions by constantly spewing hatred it helps no one other than those who are getting rich on hate. Hatred doesn't help, it hurts. There is a lot to be said for middle ground and cooperation - each side finding points of agreement rather than disagreement. The way to peace is not to pound your opponent into a pulp, but rather to find ways - to look for ways to get along despite your differences. Differences make life interesting, not threatening.
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GG and Paula -- such good points. In all the studying I have done it is love, understanding and working together to solve issues that bears, in general, the right kind of fruit. I think as I think Athena said....we have to push on the side of good living and life, rather than the things that foster the opposite.
I sometimes listen to speakers or read their words and wonder why certain issues like 2nd. Amendment or current President seem to dissolve every bit of common sense they have. Why I often say......if they could really HEAR how they sound --- just once for five minutes, maybe we could inch at least a little closer.
Still GG is right....there will always be crime and murders and lunatic events....but if done right.....so many, many less. I sure want to see and feel a whole lot less.
Jackie
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