I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • Belinda44
    Belinda44 Member Posts: 718
    edited March 2013
  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited March 2013

    Bartender I'll have a double and a half of anything that loosens you up to the point of supreme carefree happiness.  Warm regards for it in advance.

    Jackie

    (((( Suzie ))))))

  • Belinda44
    Belinda44 Member Posts: 718
    edited March 2013

    Well, I have procrastinated too much today : ).  Had the day off and have done too much reading and catching up on the internet.  Company arriving tomorrow afternoon for the Easter weekend.  Need to do some more cleaning, cooking, etc...  Will be fun!

    So, to all, no matter who you are or what you celebrate....

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited March 2013

    Yes, happy whatever to everyone. To all in the Judaio-Christian tradition - try not to eat too much!

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited March 2013

    Athena - you've made me hungry for brussel sprouts - REALLY.

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited March 2013

    Yes, Happy Passover and Easter to all! My Jewish husband isn't even aware of the holiday :-). Me, I'm doing an Easter egg hunt with the grands tomorrow. 

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    Athena- I hope so too, but one can't be forced to take medication. DD says he has to realise he needs to take it. At the moment he is in denial about what happened (the Police had to be called). Apparently he has been drinking a fair bit, so that must be what set it off.

    I'm all clean now - no more housework for today. Washed my newly treated hair for the first time (you have to leave 2 days) - looking forward to seeing how good it is when it dries.

    Stellar - I didn't realise there was a competition to gain the most members.

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited March 2013

    Suzie, I've missed a lot today. So sorry about your family situation. ((((hugs))))

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    Thanks girls - hugs back

    HAPPY EASTER!!!!!

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited March 2013

    IM SO EXCITED AND HAPPY!!! My DH is taking me, just me, on a cruise leaving on my birthday, June 2! My onc gave the ok and it will only push an infusion week back by one.



    Now have to try not to worry about anything getting in the way!

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    What a lovely surprise Chickadee - you both deserve it!!!

  • lewing
    lewing Member Posts: 1,288
    edited March 2013

    Chickadee, you sure as heck deserve that cruise.  Where are you going?  Will you let us come along vicariously (as long as we promise to give you and your DH a little, uh, privacy)?

    Suzie, so sorry about your daughter's injury and your SIL's problems.  How hard on your whole family.

    Yorkiemom, your husband must come from the same branch of Judaism as mine!  He once took noodle kugel to a Seder.  (We did go to a lovely Seder Monday night - old friends of mine from Detroit who've retired here - lots of fun to see their family traditions and how they differ from ours.  And we may do another this weekend when my daughter is here.  I hadn't realized how much she'd come to expect and enjoy the whole ritual, even our nontraditional version thereof.)

    Finally . . . Jackie, I cannot BELIEVE we have a great-grandma in our midst.  Many congratulations to you!

    Gotta run to pick up take-out for my daughter, who's arriving later tonight (and missed dinner because she had to run to catch her flight out of Chicago).  It's going to be so good to see her.

    Linda

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    I'm trying to look at it as a great chance to get to know the baby  - we haven't seen him in person since he was 7 weeks old - he's now nearly 1.  We are both going down there in May for his birthday - that will still be on no matter what else is going on.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    Got the washing in. I did clean the upstairs bathroom before lunch even though I thought I was done with housework, so now I think a nap might be the order of the day - I can pack tomorrow afternoon. It should be cooler where she lives, so I can also look forward to that :)

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited March 2013

    Stellar, why on earth would it NOT be fine to say one does not wish to reproduce? I do have a child, and I am glad that I do, but I also still have PTSD from the screams etc. Until I was 28, I was convinced that I would never have kids. To each her own.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited March 2013

    Athena, here you go: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cob6IJ2XHis

    Skip the first 10 minutes or so. The other thing that surprised me is that he can actually sing. I think we have been American Idoled to death at this point and just assume that singers can't actually sing.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2013

    Falling asleep watching TV never did get that nap - cleaned the pool and put the cover on instead. Now Steve won't have to worry about it while I'm gone.

    Lovely dinner - home made fish and chips and salad with a gorgeous Sth Australian chardonnay.

    I wrote out a sheet called "Cat Care" - attached to fridge with magnets - who wants to bet he doesn't read it - poor Poppy. I'd board her at the vet, but I bet he has no vacancies due to school holidays.

    Also wrote him out a microwave vegetable cooking guide and stuck it to the shelf under the microwave.

    Food shopping tomorrow, followed by packing, then I'll rest.

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited March 2013

    Pail Krugman - required reading, IMO:

    <nyt_headline type=" " version="1.0">Cheating Our Children

    <nyt_byline>

    By PAUL KRUGMAN

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    <nyt_correction_top>

    So, about that fiscal crisis — the one that would, any day now, turn us into Greece. Greece, I tell you: Never mind.       

    Over the past few weeks, there has been a remarkable change of position among the deficit scolds who have dominated economic policy debate for more than three years. It’s as if someone sent out a memo saying that the Chicken Little act, with its repeated warnings of a U.S. debt crisis that keeps not happening, has outlived its usefulness. Suddenly, the argument has changed: It’s not about the crisis next month; it’s about the long run, about not cheating our children. The deficit, we’re told, is really a moral issue.       

    There’s just one problem: The new argument is as bad as the old one. Yes, we are cheating our children, but the deficit has nothing to do with it.       

    Before I get there, a few words about the sudden switch in arguments.       

    There has, of course, been no explicit announcement of a change in position. But the signs are everywhere. Pundits who spent years trying to foster a sense of panic over the deficit have begun writing pieces lamenting the likelihood that there won’t be a crisis, after all. Maybe it wasn’t that significant when President Obama declared that we don’t face any “immediate” debt crisis, but it did represent a change in tone from his previous deficit-hawk rhetoric. And it was startling, indeed, when John Boehner, the speaker of the House, said exactly the same thing a few days later.       

    What happened? Basically, the numbers refuse to cooperate: Interest rates remain stubbornly low, deficits are declining and even 10-year budget projections basically show a stable fiscal outlook rather than exploding debt.       

    So talk of a fiscal crisis has subsided. Yet the deficit scolds haven’t given up on their determination to bully the nation into slashing Social Security and Medicare. So they have a new line: We must bring down the deficit right away because it’s “generational warfare,” imposing a crippling burden on the next generation.       

    What’s wrong with this argument? For one thing, it involves a fundamental misunderstanding of what debt does to the economy.       

    Contrary to almost everything you read in the papers or see on TV, debt doesn’t directly make our nation poorer; it’s essentially money we owe to ourselves. Deficits would indirectly be making us poorer if they were either leading to big trade deficits, increasing our overseas borrowing, or crowding out investment, reducing future productive capacity. But they aren’t: Trade deficits are down, not up, while business investment has actually recovered fairly strongly from the slump. And the main reason businesses aren’t investing more is inadequate demand. They’re sitting on lots of cash, despite soaring profits, because there’s no reason to expand capacity when you aren’t selling enough to use the capacity you have. In fact, you can think of deficits mainly as a way to put some of that idle cash to use.       

    Yet there is, as I said, a lot of truth to the charge that we’re cheating our children. How? By neglecting public investment and failing to provide jobs.       

    You don’t have to be a civil engineer to realize that America needs more and better infrastructure, but the latest “report card” from the American Society of Civil Engineers — with its tally of deficient dams, bridges, and more, and its overall grade of D+ — still makes startling and depressing reading. And right now — with vast numbers of unemployed construction workers and vast amounts of cash sitting idle — would be a great time to rebuild our infrastructure. Yet public investment has actually plunged since the slump began.       

    Or what about investing in our young? We’re cutting back there, too, having laid off hundreds of thousands of schoolteachers and slashed the aid that used to make college affordable for children of less-affluent families.       

    Last but not least, think of the waste of human potential caused by high unemployment among younger Americans — for example, among recent college graduates who can’t start their careers and will probably never make up the lost ground.       

    And why are we shortchanging the future so dramatically and inexcusably? Blame the deficit scolds, who weep crocodile tears over the supposed burden of debt on the next generation, but whose constant inveighing against the risks of government borrowing, by undercutting political support for public investment and job creation, has done far more to cheat our children than deficits ever did.       

    Fiscal policy is, indeed, a moral issue, and we should be ashamed of what we’re doing to the next generation’s economic prospects. But our sin involves investing too little, not borrowing too much — and the deficit scolds, for all their claims to have our children’s interests at heart, are actually the bad guys in this story.

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited March 2013

    Good for Paul Krugman!!!!

    Been pretty busy so I'm only popping in here and there.  Saw all the good wishes for Passover and Easter.  We celebrate both, although now that the kids at 20 and 26 no longer hunt for eggs, hard to know what we're going to do. 

    One caveat though:  Matzot is not good eating.  Jon Stewart's been doing a rift on it all week, including making fun of our president for saying good matzo, and he's right.  Once you've had to eat that stuff for a week without a break, you don't really think of it as good.  And it does hit the stomach and somehow magically turn to cement.  Of course, since I'm not religious and am married to a goy, I cheat, but I still remember the first time in my youth - about age 17 - when I had a hamburger sandwich during Passover at Big Boy's in Cincinnati.  This was the 60ies.  Forget pot and sit-ins.  Eating bread during Passover was. for me at the time, the  ultimate in teen rebellion.

  • RetiredLibby
    RetiredLibby Member Posts: 1,992
    edited March 2013

    I love Paul Krugman. I worship him, as a matter of fact! And all of this flopping around by reactionaries who want to scream about the deficit as an excuse to disappear government reminds me of the regressive's primary season, when we watched the crowds flock from one attraction to another in the sideshow that was the candidates - the one-man clown car Herman Caine, Crazy-Eye Bachman, Hysterical Homophobe Santorum, and I-Forget-the-Third-One Rick Perry, before finally settling on Mr. 47% (R)money. They flock from reason to reason about why the deficit is bad in a desperate attempt to make the gullible believe that only the regressives can stop the impending end of civilization as we know it. *FAIL* Game over. Play again.



    Sandy, Big Boy in Cincinnati - that would be a Frisch's! I grew up in Dayton and the Big Boy chain was Frisch's there. It was Bob's here in DC metro. DH was at a training class with a guy whose wife was the daughter of the man who owned the Frisch's franchise in Ohio. It is a very small world!



    Happy spring holidays to all. Being "Jewish with an explanation," (culturally WASP, belief system Jewish, raised with no religious education whatsoever), I am just enjoying the nice (for the moment) weather, the pretty pastel clothes, and the exquisite sunrise this morning with blue sky and a most vivid hot pink highlights on the clouds. Wish I'd had a camera!



    Suzie, sorry about your daughter's and SIL's troubles. I hope they can get him back on track and their lives returned to normal. Enjoy your visit with your grand.



    L

  • alexandria58
    alexandria58 Member Posts: 1,588
    edited March 2013

    L - It was indeed Frisch's - and just seeing the name brings on a flood of nostalgia.  I also remember Bob's - we'd go there when we visited family in Silver Spring - but the hamburger sauce just didn't match up, imo.

    Suzie - hope all improves in your DD's life.

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited March 2013

    I remember only Bob's Big Boy and how big they really were.....as I recall, it took two people to eat them.  It is great going past the Taylormaid in the town where I went to high school. Nice to know something has survived since before me.  The town where I actually grew up is now bare of so very many of its trees and is little trailer town.  There was nary a one in my day -- in fact, only a couple of very, very small travel type ones way out in the back country.  A bit sad that there was so much change -- few will remember. 

    Going to be gorgeous today, though it rained overnight and the sun and warmth of the day will be introducing more tonight more than likely. 

    Jackie

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  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited March 2013

    Great Krugman article.  Unless you're willing to believe that all GOP congresspeople and "think"tankers failed Economic Theory 101 and are -- to a person -- STUPID, then the only option is that they (with malice aforethought) hoped to totally tank the U.S. economy during the Democrats' watch, and then "swoop in and save the day".

    Except that.......history shows all too clearly that smart thinking on the economy has never been the GOP' strong suit.  I guess it's what, in medical terms, would be known as congenital economic stupidity.  Of course, trying to pass Obamacare Repeal Bill over 30 times, and getting the same rejection each and every time, shows their stupidity is not limited to the economy.  <sigh>

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited March 2013

    Busy weekend planned starting now.  I may or may not drop in.  In case I don't have a chance Happy Easter/Passover!

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