I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Chickie - so sorry to hear of the difficulties you are experiencing. Sunflower's suggestion of ginger tea is a very good one. Ginger helps your stomach a lot.
Blue - take care of yourself. We'll miss you. Take care of your nose.
Signed last night, and after we signed hubby realized they left something out - it was to our benefit that it be left out, but he's an honest man, so called about it. Now we're in escrow hell again.
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(((((BLUE))))))
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{{{{BLUE}}}}} a very, very loud LOUD "OUCH" - also a hug. Damn, haven't you got enough to keep you busy!
Please take good care of yourself...ice packs on nose, of course you know that -hope little furry fellows are keeping you warm.
SNOW. the day b4 the first day of Spring - and we're due a foot of snow. Sure that's why the goddesses made lanz flannel nightgowns & sheets, and huge mugs of hot tea...
thanks riverrat for great advice - on bronchitis watch, but how do I know if I have it?
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Sunny, I want your snow! All we have here are very dark, dull days. Oh, I spotted a flake or two this morning buit that was it.
I hope it stays cold. After the long summer of 2012 which lasted about six months, no estrogen, and hot flashes worse than hell, I have become a doomsday prepper for summer. So a few days ago, as I mentioned earlier, I bought two summer dresses (think of them as....kerosene lamps) and two summer T's (canned beans?) Now I am window shopping online for summer sandals (batteries and water?). I would love to find a nice parasol (Ma' gun 'n ma' bible!).

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(((((((((((Blue & Chickadee))))))))))) - sorry you are suffering.
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Blue - think you might want to sleep closer to the floor for a while - hope you've got something for the pain and swelling. Sending love and hugs, S.
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Wow!!! Blue. Quite dramatic. Hope you are much better really soon.
We had a little sun this afternoon, not enough to suit me, but I'll take any that comes along.
Jackie
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I'm not sure I believe it, but it appears that the house has closed and we are no longer home owners. Now that it's over I can quit fretting
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{{{Blue}}} - maybe it's good your nose broke your fall - sorry
Ouch!!!Sunny - my gf has had a cold for going on 3 weeks now and still sounds horrible. It must be the super cold bug of the century. She still feels crappy too.
Jackie - your post of Al Gore reminds me, as we hit the 10th anniversary of that horrible war in Iraq, what this nation could have been with Al Gore as POTUS. All the grief and financial trouble this nation could have been spared and probably on our way to dealing with Climate Change. Elections matter, and so does the Supreme Court.
For all of you wishing for snow - you can have it!!! I do believe we are in a drought here in California. Much like last year. Everyday is sunny blue sky and 40-50 degree days, rather than blizzards and endless snow shoveling. I don't miss it, in fact, it is so good for my personal health. Today we walked in the woods, which would not have been possible with a normal winter. This weather also allowed me to get to my surgeries and chemo on the dates they were scheduled! I know it isn't good, this drought, but it certainly has been helpful. I even got bold and planted 12 kale plants Friday, into the ground.
GG - Congratulations....I think this will help you move on to the next step in your life.
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Blue, missed your earlier post. Hope you recover soon! ((((HUGS))))
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Blue- recover soon. Stay low.
GG- hope you're out of enscrow hell and into closing heaven soon.
Sun= normally, the snow would sound lovely. I'm heading up to VT on Wednesday for wedding preps with my DD, my California girl who gets cold at 70 degrees. Hope you don't have bronchitis. Need a doctor to know , and if you have it, antibiotics. Hot ginger tea helps in the meantime.
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Big hugs to Blue and Chickadee.
Chickadee, even when you're having a miserable week, your sense of humor still shines through. Loved your line about fighting constipation and winning a little too easily.
Yeah - I know exactly what you mean. Been there x 4 during Taxotere. Never did figure out how to manage the transition from one SE to its opposite.
(Know what, though? It's miserable, but you'll get through.)
I'm worried about your weight loss, hope food and drink are sitting better with you this morning. I second Sunflower's recommendation of ginger tea.
Has anyone else seen thus uncanny Onion piece on rape by athletes? It comes across as a parody of CNN's Steubenville coverage, but it actually predates it.
http://www.theonion.com/video/college-basketball-star-heroically-overcomes-tragi,19097/
What a sobering lesson in "rape culture" we're all getting, huh?
Linda
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Linda -- if I hadn't of opened that link and saw it for myself. It is quite shocking to me as I'd think it would be to everyone. Hard to believe that college friends and adults around this young man all were saying the same thing....condoning rape for the most part. Was there some sort of mitigating factor??? It is hard to watch these people ( all male ??? ) all but pat this young man on the back.
Of course, those in Stubenville only got a hand slap too. Sounds like something that could come back and slap us in the face and it needs too. I am sitting here thinking about the lives of a couple of people I know who got taken apart because of AGE only....meaning that the girls were VERY willing, and only because they got caught did it get tuned into rape. It is not right for anyone, at any time to take advantage of another.
Jackie
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Jackie -- You've exposed the GOP's primary failure -- they can't add! I see 5 reasons given by Priebus. Of course, he left out several more......

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Hi Everyone,
Sunny and very very cold out. I wish it would warm up. Can't wait for the dogwoods to start blooming.
Blue ... I am so sorry about your night terrors. I have them too. They were so bad when I lived in Utah, I had to move my bedroom from the upstairs loft to one of the bedrooms downstairs in the cabin. I would wake up screaming on the stairwell or near the bannister in the loft. I would be screaming so loud it would wake up my neighbors.
I was lucky ... I never fell down the stairs. I am really sorry about your nose. It must really hurt. Did you have to see a doctor and get it reset?
Chickadee ... I am so sorry the Ixempra is so hard on you. It's got to be rough taking it along with the Xeloda. My friend Brenda is on the Xeloda and having a hard time with the nausea and joint pain. Can't imagine how tough it is to be on both chemos at the same time.
My heart is with you.
hugs to all,
Bren
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( ( ( Blue, Chickadee and Sunflowers ) ) ) I hope you all feel better soon. - Sunflowers, I sent you a PM.
GG, I'm glad you've got that behind you. Now you can concentrate on planning for your future adventures.
Athena, you can have my snow and freezing cold weather. If I could ship it to you I would!
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Interesting article about research into Vitamin D and breast cancer:
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Thanks for that article lindasa. My own experience concurs with their results. D levels a month before dx - 18.
Sunny and Blue - I hope you are feeling better xxo
Seems as though the 10th anniversary of that stupid war is bringing new things to light:
http://larouchepac.com/node/25559
More Blair Lies on Iraq To Be Exposed by BBC's Panorama Program
Her Majesty's top lackey, Tony Blair, and the lies he created to launch war against Iraq will be exposed in the BBC's Panorama program. Produced by the BBC's award-winning investigative reporter Peter Taylor, the report will be broadcast on BBC1 on March 18th, two days after the tenth anniversary of the 2003 Iraq war. According to an exclusive report in today's Independent, the documentary will include "fresh information about the intelligence deployed by the Blair government to justify the invasion of Iraq."
Taylor's program threatens to bring back into the limelight the entire "dodgy dossier" on Saddam Hussein's supposed weapons of mass destruction, which was "sexed-up," filled with lies as justification for the war against Iraq. In July 2003, after Blair's government found out that it was British weapons inspector Dr. David Kelly who had blown the whistle to BBC that Blair's WMD dossier was "sexed up" (as Kelly put it), Kelly was found dead, allegedly a "suicide."
Taylor, who is said to have excellent intelligence sources, recently interviewed on a BBC program, the Iraqi defector known as "Curveball," who admitted that he had totally "fabricated" the intelligence that claimed Iraq had weapons of mass destruction: These had been quoted as "facts" in February 2003 when U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell cited them in his speech before the UN Security Council as justification to launch the war against Iraq.
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Blue, you should think about a lower bed.

Chickadee...I too love ginger tea to settle the tummy. I hope you start feeling better soon.
GG...congrats on the closing. Sadly, after getting assurances to the contrary all weekend, our buyers asked for a 2 week extention. We said no. Had to cancell the wonderful house that we were buying too. Oh well, today is a new day.

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The GOP’s Smart Plan to Avoid Change
http://nymag.com/daily/intelligencer/2013/03/gops-smart-plan-to-avoid-change.html
The Republican National Committee released a major report today that amounts to the party’s formal response to its 2012 election defeat. The report determinedly avoids confronting the party’s most fundamental problem: Its attachment to an economic agenda that most voters correctly identify as serving the needs of a wealthy minority. Rather than confront the problem, the report is a detailed and generally shrewd plan for working around it.
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The vast majority of the report devotes itself to advocating a lengthy series of mechanical campaign fixes. The most interesting of them are a call to cut the number of presidential primary debates in half and to undertake a vast effort to eliminate restrictions on political donations. The aggregate effect of these changes would be to have Republicans spend less time communicating their ideas via moderated public debate, and more time communicating them via crafted propaganda. Whatever the civic merits of the idea, it appears to be a shrewd gambit to present a more appealing face to the public.
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If you cared a lot about preserving that policy focus, you’d urge the party to chuck overboard a couple issues ancillary to your economic agenda (opposition to immigration and gay rights, which Republican elites never really cared about to begin with), focus on building the most technically competent and best-funded campaign apparatus you could muster, and take your chances. That’s exactly what the report advocates.
Really, the best they can do is to hide what they really stand for and stop using wedge issues that they don't really believe in. Now there's a Party one can stand behind. NOT
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Gumby ... Best wishes on your closing. I hope everything falls into place for you.
PIP ... I am sorry to hear you fell out of escrow. That sucks. I had that happen once before and it really messes things up. I also threatened a mortgage banker that I was going to skip out of escrow if they didn't remove certain charges from my settlement statement. I put realtors in the same category as lawyers.
Athena ... You ought to be happy ... NOAA says we are in for snow and rain this coming weekend. arghhh.
Hope everyone is having a good day.
hugs,
Bren
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I have to say that our realator has been amazing. Our propery is very unique and has had a lot of obsticles which he has navigated quite well. This last move was completely unexpected. I hate it when I let my guard down and crap happens. However, when I visit my friends here, it is easier to put things in perspective.
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Pip -- So sorry to hear about this latest glitch in your plans to sell and move. I expect the greenbelt issue has put a few obstacles in your way. Well, as the late great Yankees catcher (whose name, amazingly, escapes me for the moment - ugh) said "It ain't over til it's over". In the real estate business, every day can bring something new.
With one of our few moves, we had put an offer in, and it was turned down. So, tails between our legs, we went back home with long faces. Much, much later that night, our realtor called and said "Do you still want to buy the house? The other buyers backed out." So, we actually put in a lower offer and it was accepted! Hah!
Hey, just remembered: Yogi Berra!
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Oh, my -- a busy couple of days! Blue, sorry about your night terrors and tumble out of bed. I have night terrors, too, but I haven't fallen out of bed for some years. I had a screaming nightmare a few weeks ago and just about gave the cats heart attacks.
GG, congrats on your closing -- you will feel better now with the weight of the house off you. PiP, I'm so sorry yours fell through. It could be that you'll get a better offer and a better new house. Or the same new house at a lower cost. (((((PiP))))) We are moving in 6 years ... I am not looking forward to the associated hassles. Especially the moving-the-stuff part.
I find I can only shake my head at the wilful blindness and deafness of the reactionary party. No, your messaging DOESN'T suck. Your policies do. Until you stop being the party of hateful bigots, sexists, racists, xenophobes, homophobes and angry old white men, you will continue to lose. I wish the 5 sane ones would start another party. Huntsman, Powell, .... Er, are there any more? Hagel is working for us now... Oh, yes, Bruce Bartlett. That's 3. I would listen to them.
74 days to retirement, but who is counting? :-D
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GG - congratulations on house sale. What a relief.
Pip - hope your sale goes thru soon too. SUCH a stressful time.
I'm feeling better, more energy. Know I had the flu cuz of chills, fever and ACHES. Yikes, and this was with the flu vaccination, shudder to think what it's like for folks who don't get the vaccine. Still coughing, but at least energy coming back, awake all day. Progress.
Still snowing, Athena, you can have it. I am SO SO SO ready for real Spring. Green shoots, leaf buds, but the maple sap is still running, so we know it's a while yet. Most of the people in my area tap their trees..I'm lazy & just buy the syrup.
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HL - 74 days! Yes. So I ended up getting about 85% of what I expected on my annuity check (while OPM processes)...far more than the 60-70% I was quoted. Savor the days, one by one! Is that 74 work days or calendar days??
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Pip, so sorry to hear that your deal fell through. I'm sure that things will work out in the end. We're still in moving and unpacking mode not to mention getting rid of things! If we could have had enough time to do a moving sale I know that a bunch would be gone. Instead it'll be a bunch of trips to the goodwill to empty out the storage facilities, probably. In the meantime I caught the nasty cold that's going round. My sick leave balance hasn't recovered from BC so I've got to go back to work to trow, regardless
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