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  • dogeyed
    dogeyed Member Posts: 884
    edited December 2012

    Let's see, I can comment on a few subjects:  rats, mersa, hearing, and other stuff I cannot remember.  First rats.  DUNES, I saw a little piece of documentary on TV about some stats they did in a few little towns in England.  They counted up all the rats, and they counted up all the feral cats.  Very few rats.  Then they did the same thing in a few more towns, but this one they kept the feral cats away from the area.  Rats practically ran over the place.  Moral of story:  Aside from burning down the alleyway, get some feral cats from the shelter that are about to be euthanized but otherwise in good health (usually cage fever), and put them cats in that alley.  INSTANT decline in rat population.  Eventually call animal control and have them pick up a few ferals that may have a better chance of adoption, and enough left to keep rats under control.

    Mersa absolutely terrifies me.  My brother's son had bone cancer when he was 17, they replaced femur and hip bone with titanium, a year of chemo.  A year or two later, mersa infection got in there, broke the titanium all up, my nephew was so sick and limping with crutches.  Had that slime in there, gave him meds, cleaned it all out, he walka now with just a limp and a cane.  But for crying out loud, he had Medicaid, the whole thing near 'bout would have been covered, new operation, etc.  But he's like me and husband, won't go by choice.  My father is a retired physician, surgery, so he has no problems going, he's had bunches of ops.  Perhaps life IS too hard.  Dad lost his hearing, two diff kinds of chemo, don't know which. My ears are going. I feel so sorry for my Dad.  Such a fine man, worked his whole life helping others, and he's just so sad now. Oh, he smiles right much when the whole family is around, but not like before.

    Our daughter in Florida's husband lost his mind, attacked our girl like she was a slut, he's filed for divorce papers coming next week.  She's the kind of person that bends over backwards to make people happy.  Nice property, she spends hours planting stuff, but soon she had give away her prize-winning hens and roosters, her goats, the sorrow her husband has put on her is a real heart-breaker.  So, we're trying to help her, offered our home (it's a mess), advised her to look at "Roommates Needed" ads in FL and small inexpensive ads that allow dogs so she can at least take two of them.  They went to counseling, psych said this man was very sick and needed a lot of treatment. 

    I told her the second she gets those divorce papers, to take her most valuable items that will fit in the car with two dogs, clothes and PJs, etc., and check into a hotel that allows dogs (we got two within a mile of our house...), and then go look at some rentals until she gets one she really likes, then in one day, her and her "move team" will take every blasted thing of hers out of there and digs up as many plants as she wants, leaving anything in the house she doesn't really need but he might.  I told her if her husband freaks out, she should have a lawyer for all this crap and tell husband he obviously doesn't want her there what with divorce papers and this is all her stuff, so what does he care if she gets her stuff outta there.  Anything else, she can get her attorney and police.  She had to call the cops on him anoher time.  If I wasn't so worn out and sickly, and so FAR away, Richard and I would have been in their driveway today beating his bully butt all over the place.  She has no family except us and her sister, who hates her for no known reason, other than huge childhood tragedy and nightmare.  I almost didn't put this in, but only us'uns know us.  So, husband (it's his daughter) is VERY depressed and I am VERY worried, senseless death has visited this famly before.  May we all pray for her safety.

    It's a little early, but i want to get off.  i am just SO tired.  Happy Holidays, sisters, and this dumb year will finally be done.  I forgot to get Richard a gift, but HE REMEMEERD t get mine it' ALWAYS the other way, so he'llwait until I can get to the store.  Love to allmy Rompy Roomers, with a speial cheer for Fuzzy and Dunes.  GG

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited December 2012

    Hi Gals!  Glad we all made it through Christmas.... ! 

    And you talk about rats....  I thought WE had it bad, this past Summer, when our plumbing under our tub just QUIT!!!!  I mean it would not drain! 

    So DH and I thought if we take the little vanity sink pipes apart, and stick the hose down THERE, the high pressure will force whatever blockage there is..... through!!!!  Good plan!!!    Well yes, it WORKED!!!  Only thing was, we happened to go outdoors, and looked at the other side of our house, by the bathroom wall, and saw all this water coming out from under the wall!  Down the sidewalk between the houses!!!  I yelled "HONEY!  IT'S COMING OUT FROM UNDER THE HOUSE!!!!"  I ran to shut off the hose, and we could not beLIEVE what had happened!  I mean a FLOOD!!!

    So we took the wall apart, down at the bottom of the bathroom wall, to get under the tub!  We had blown the "drum-trap" clean off the pipe!  So the water was just going out the bottom of the pipe!   This house was built in 1886, and did NOT have an indoor bathroom, I'd imagine!  So it was added on later, with the tub cemented in, and those old lead pipes, which rusted, and finally fell apart, (after we BLEW them apart) 

    The lower part of the wall was off for about 2 months, covered of course, but NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP OUT MICE.... LOTS OF MICE!!!!   After the plumber got everything fixed, and house put back together again, I noticed little bits of grain, in front of my back cupboard/pantry!  Okay, I cleaned it up.  Then again!  Couldn't figure out why there was always something THERE!!!   I finally took the food and shelves apart, and found, much to my dismay, a regular playground for mice!  So much food stored there!  AND A BIG MESS!!!  They thought, "Oh, she's inviting us in!"  So they called all their friends, and they partied!!  I even put the vacuum hose under the cupboard, and one mouse ran over my foot!  All I did was YELL! 

    I finally got everything cleaned out, food put in jars, and plastic containers, and yes, I DID it.... I bought D-con, and that was the end of the colony of mice.   I always think they are so cute, when I see them scampering around in my back garden!   And my little Sheltie just watches them.... she knows they are faster than she is. 

    But I would not like rats....  We have little Foxes, Raccoons, and "things" that are always fooling around in the water-way next to us.  It is an irrigation ditch, that never runs except in the Summer, occasionally, that the farmers out North use to water their fields.  I think the foxes might live in the tunnels under the streets, that the ditch runs under. 

    Sas-shatzi, you still amaze me.... Your realm of knowledge is so helpful for all of us here!  I had never heard of MERSA...!  So thank you for all the information...again.

    Dog-eyed....so sorry about all that you are going through and your family.... I hope this new year, kind of helps you guys out a little better!  I don't know WHAT I would do if someone hurt one of our Daughter's!  I don't think I would be very rational! 

    So bye gals!  Glad I found you all here!  Take good care!

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited December 2012

    The feral cat thing really does work. Only one problem: the idiot June. She lives across the alley and she captures the feral cats and has them taken away. She also throws out huge hunks of hoagie rolls, supposedly for the birds, but the hunks are too large, so they lay there for the rats. Yet, she will pound on my door to come take pictures of rat holes and such. This is how she earned the nickname the idiot June.

    I had mice getting into my cupboards earlier this year. I took everything out and did find what they were going after: a small tube of decorative icing. I removed it but they kept coming. I sprayed outside the house where I thought they might be finding a way through. No results. I put non-talc baby powder on all the shelves. No more mice. After a few days I put the dishes and things back in (after washing it all of course). I left the baby powder. Still no sign of rodent activity.

    Another thing that seems to keep mice away is dryer sheets. I don't use dryer sheets in my laundry anymore because of their cancer link, but I keep them around to line shelves and even my laundry basket. I actually found mouse droppings in it, so I lined it with dryer sheets. For some reason, mice won't walk across dryer sheets.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited December 2012

    Dune, yes I've heard that mice will go after any kind of food!  And they will chew through anything possible.  They even chewed into the bottom of a styrofoam cooler I had in the garage, that was for dogfood.  I switched the container to that hard plastic... little devils!  They would need a dentist, if they tried THAT one! 

    Sorry about your Dad dog-eyed.... Does he wear hearing aids?  I know men usually don't!  And they will become with-drawn, because they can't hear!  I felt so sorry for my Dad after Mom passed away...No-matter how much they fought, they were still together.... And then when she died, he lost his reason for living...  And watching him, without her, and him being in a different State, was just no reason for him to go on.... It IS really hard seeing your parents hurting....and nothing you can do about it.

    Where IS everybody??? Take good care gals...

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2012

    Chevy--thanks, a lifetime of learning, what can I say. MERSA is the lay pronunciation and abbreviation. The medical is MRSA. Methacillin Resistant Staphlococcus Auerus. A mouthful. As with most medical terms. That's why they get acronyms. I feel sorry for newbies. The explosion of knowledge since I came into it in 1969 as an 18 y/o Whew. A newbie has to learn the correct term, the acronymn, the slang. For example, Coronary Artery-Bypass Graft, CABG, cabbage. To me it's effectively three languages. Drugs are even worse.

    MRSA is scary, but when it first became resistant if a nurse caught it, they were prohibited from working again. Nurses were freaked. Now it is so commonplace. Eventually say 100 years. Most people will be carriers. I'm not, swabbed before brain surgery in Mar 2012. I held my breath until the result was in. Negative. First study that talked of carriers was done in an ER. They volunteered to be the test site. Nice that they did. But it established that there could be a significant number of staff as carriers. That hospital and Er put themselves in the position to having to test on a regular basis and treating staff. Good, but highly unusual that a facility would be soooo conscientious.

    Mice, little buggers can get in the wierdest places. Dunes rats yuck.

    Chevy, we are here, but we post irradically and this is Christmas/New Years week. :) 

    Gail, does your DD know where the nearest shelter is ? Sorry that your Dad has gone through what he has, not fair is it?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2012

    I have been very depressed and bitter since the tissue expander was taken out. I can't stand myself. I can't stand to look at myself. I force myself to take care of the site. I feel hideous. I haven't gone anywhere and I just want to stay home. My friends have tried to reason with me but it pointless. I just may have to grieve this whole thing out.

    I made the doctor take the drain out yesterday. I had to promise not to use that side for a week.

    If you don't hear from me, don't worry. I need to take a break.

    Hugs

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 2,439
    edited December 2012

    Hi, ladies. Hope you all are doing well with the holidays. I just had to add one more rat story, related to public health. One of my best nurse friends worked in Egypt in the obstetrics ward, which had tons of cats running around, really freaked the US folks out. So the recommendation was to get rid of those cats because they were a health hazard. So the hospital got rid of the cats. Now they have rats. Hmmmm..... which would you rather have running around while delivering a baby - cats or rats??? I have to laugh at how life can be so relative to context.



    Chevyboy, I remember when you were dealing with the hearing loss on the tamoxifen thread. I have often wondered if you had chemo before the tamoxifen - I have been doing a lot of research on tamoxifen, and still cannot find much on hearing loss, but I DO find a lot on several other chemo drugs that can cause hearing loss, and some of them occur quite some time AFTER end of last chemo.



    Dogeyed, I share SAS's concern - DD needs a safe place to go to IMMEDIATELY is she is ever even SLIGHTLY in danger. Leaving a bad marriage is the most dangerous time for a woman as it can really trigger the guy's anger and reduce his logic and perception of reality. Prayers are with you and her. And with the husband - so many folks have anger issues that they do not know how to cope, only know how to lash out.



    I see lots of sorrow and pain here, also lots of hope and love. I am heading to my kitchen table to paint today - I have been denying myself that little pleasure for the past several weeks as I "got ready for the holidays" with food, cards, gifts, housecleaning, etc. Now the place is a mess, and my watercolors are calling me. Have fun today everyone!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2012

    Gail, so glad Linda carried through my thought, like you could read my mind, but Linda did :). A friend was shot dead in our hospital parking lot by estranged husband. Once DD makes an escape plan, leave no notations around any place. A shelter will have all the do's and don'ts.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    Hello hello hello!! Big Hugs all around. I've been with mom for the past few days. Yesterday they sent her home from the hospital....and then she was sent right back. They should have never released her. She's very weak, not eating, INR of 5.2, huge fall risk, on narcotics, scheduled for Dialysis at 8 am, lives alone in "assisted living". Are ya frigging kidding me? It was a terrible car ride back to her place and it was just me and her. She can't bear any weight on either foot and is constantly in pain. Me and the girls are here to see her now...she's resting. Im working with her Social Worker. Oops be right back...

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited December 2012

    Linda.... Hi there!  No, I didn't have chemo..... but from all that I have read, Tamoxifen is LIKE a chemo drug.  And it is listed with chemo drugs.  I only know that my hearing loss happened overnight... no warning, or anything... Then a couple days later my right ear "plugged up" also.   I just don't want anyone to stop any drug, before checking it all out first.  Except my Oncologist had never heard of such a thing!  It isn't happening to everyone taking it... maybe age has something to do with it... but I just know I would not keep taking it.  These are some of the links I found.....

    http://www.ehealthme.com/ds/tamoxifen+citrate/deafness

    http://www.aro.org/archives/2005/2005_773.html

    http://quizlet.com/14278758/cancer-chemo-drug-list-pacific-pa-2014-flash-cards/

    http://www.canceractive.com/cancer-active-page-link.aspx?n=2046

    Veggy.... you know, I saw my friends breast after all hell broke loose, and she was also very depressed about it.... and I don't blame you.... Have you talked to another surgeon, or a plastic surgeon?  I know a lot can be repaired.... Did you have implants?  I don't know what happened to you... Maybe sas-shatzi has a suggestion?    Geez, just don't forget to come back here....  there has to be something else that you can do, to help you get through this....  Family is sometimes almost the worst place to talk about what scares us.... because they are even more afraid.

    Fuzzy... All this stuff going on with your Mom, and the hospital, is just unbelievable!  It just never ends!   Can you just go raise hell?  I did that once.  My Mom was in so much pain.... although not responding, but yelling out, and it just broke my heart!  She was getting morphine, but I BEGGED them to give her more!!! Just to HELP her a little!   They said it would just slow everything down!  But I was crying and said "I know, but she is in so much pain!"  They came in and increased her drip.... and she calmed down.... but we lost her that night....  God, I just couldn't stand to see her like that.   Your Mom will get better..... just stay with her.

    Sas-shatzy.... I have never heard about MERSA, like I said, but I'm aware of it now.... I just know I don't want to go to the hospital unless I HAVE to....  It's a wonder, that more publicity isn't out about it!  Or maybe it would scare us all!

    Dog-eyed.... Once, when someone I knew  ran away, she deleted all her  friends #'s from the phone, tore out all the pages from her day-timer, and only gave her closest friends and family her new cell number.  She was also in contact with the battered women's shelter.... could call 24 hours a day.  You just can't trust ANYone, when running away from a bad situation.... She did not tell anyone where she was staying...!  I hope it turns out alright!



  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited December 2012

    Is MRSA the reason we now have to spray each machine at the gym immediately after using it? If MRSA is immune to all the antibiotic drugs, does using that spray stuff really help protect us against MRSA?

    Veggy, I'm sorry you are feeling so down. I'm bumming out myself today, but I don't have a good reason for it. My lovely external hemorrhoid that developed from taking the pain meds has decided to make another appearance, despite the fact that I haven't taken any pain meds in a long time. I found another A+ practice exam and only got 12 out of 100 right! They were the weirdest questions I have come across, and I found it very frustrating. I sent an email to one of my instructors asking if that particular test truly mimicked the real one. It is cold and the wind is howling, and sometimes wind makes me grumpy. I'm in bed. Screw this day!

    If I do succeed in falling asleep I hope I get up in time to watch Doc Martin. It's really my ony "show" anymore, and it comes on Thursday nights.

  • SherylB
    SherylB Member Posts: 450
    edited December 2012

    Chevyboy, As a side note, MRSA methcillin resistant staph aureus is found in the community too. There are two types with different DNA. I found this out when my nephew wound up in the hospital with a sore that wouldn't heal and it was MRSA.  The best protection for everything!!! is hand washing and insist before anyone touches you that they wash their hands or use the alcohol gel.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    Holy crap....believe it or not....this whole F'D up hospital thing for mom may have been a giant blessing!!! I learned a lot today and mom might get to move into another assisted living facility! That's huge!!! And, after her PT assessment, we can order medical equipment to help her too! Thank you all for being so awesome and supportive. Gosh you all are so amazing!

    Veggy....I hate what this recon crap turns out to be. Im down and pissed with ya. How the hell did this happen???? Why???? But, we're in this together. I love you and you will not be alone. Do you Have pain on that side too? I do and now they want to take away my pain meds. I have an appt tomorrow and I really want to discuss this. Im sooooooo sorry I have bone pain and pain from surgeries....soooooo sorry that it sucks so bad That tylenol or ibuprofen doesn't work....totally pisses me off.

    Tomorrow is my two year check up (a month early). According to one of my docs, they gave me a 20% chance to live this long...glad I didn't know That on the beginning!!

    Sassy....I was ready to contact the medical board, patient relations and the Quality Improvement Association. Lucky for the doc, she admitted that she was in error and really handled the conversation and situation with compassion, understanding and empathy...I usedmore than one of your terms!



    GG...I just wanted to send ya a little love. Wow. I have so much to say about your daughter. I know that you and I are on the same page. Is she capable of making the right decisions? Sometimes these situations are mentally "too much" or damaged from brutality....my first husband was "the nicest gentleman" to every one who "knew" him...but, I was totally controlled by him. He'd never lay a hand on me but...after court one day he hinted toward blowing my head off...that was enough for me....I was never alone after that...he was very mean in that head of his.

    OMG. Baby puppy is dreaming g right now!! I swear I could listen to that alllllll day!!! So cute!!! He's got this tiny little bark...Kinda squeeky!! LOL

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    BTW...MRSA is worse if it goes to the blood or lungs. Its more treatable when its only on the skin. Hand washing and the gels are basically the only defenses. Somehow, that's better than modern medicine! But, you catch it with skin to skin contact. For "healthy" people, you may have it for ever and Never know it. For people in facilities, like my mom, its much more deadly.

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Member Posts: 2,942
    edited December 2012

    Fuzzy - Was you mom in the hospital for 3 days at least? That will get her I think 30 days (not quite sure of the #) in NH for rehab.  Is she capable of going back to assisted living? I know there are different levels depending on what you contract for.  The social worker is your best friend now.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2012

    Fuzzy... No pain. I stopped taking the pills three days after the surgery. It's more like missing a part of myself that made me a female. Now that area is deformed and scarred. I hate cancer! It's barbaric. Did the surgery save my life? I don't really know. I found out that it had spread. If I had known it spread, I wouldn't have done the reconstruction. What's the point? Guess its time for another senseless pity party.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    Luv....she will be in there three days + this time. So, that's good news too! Thank you for that!! I don't know how anyone keeps this stuff straight. Yes, these social workers are really great. They really seem to understand that this is my mama and I can turn into a force. LOL

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    Veggy...yes. that's exactly it. I have a single breast...I don't know what That other damn thing is. Ugh. And, like you, im still fighting with it. Im super glad You don't have pain though. Mine is a shooting pain, then a deep ache. Lovely. Naturally all this laying around has done great things to the rest of my body as well. Yeah. I hate this shit.

  • ridergirl
    ridergirl Member Posts: 443
    edited December 2012

    Hello ladies hope everyone had at least some joy this Christmas.

    Fuzzy so sorry for what is happening with your mom. I'm sure she is glad she has you to help her, just don't forget to look after yourself too while you do.

    Veggy know there is probably nothing to say that will make you feel better, just know that you are loved. As far as the feelings you are having about your appearance, I haven't had surgery but was trying on some clothes that I got for Christmas today and when I looked in the mirror I didn't really like anything I put on but then realized that the reason nothing looked right is because I don't 'look like me' without hair. I know its nowhere near as big a deal as yours but even that was enough to mess me up.

    Dunes can't blame you for raising *&%^*& in your neighbourhood. The rat situation sounds nasty.

    Dogeyed my thoughts are with you and DD hope she finds her way out of there...and soon.

    Sorry to anyone else i missed can't remember everything I read lol

    Had almost a foot of snow fall here from last night til this aft. Today was not the best day, the snowblower ran out of oil, the washing machine sprung a huge leak and the cable/internet/phone were all out most of the day. I wanted to go boxing day shopping yesterday but the cold i've had nearly had me beat, spent most of the day in bed instead. Christmas night the fever was pretty bad but i was so determined not to go to the hospital even though mom was getting really worried, but with some tylenol and cool cloths we got it down at home. Feel much better today tho.

    Next chemo is not until Jan 4, gosh its been nice having a couple weeks where I could almost forget all this is really happening. Then what should be my last chemo near end Jan, but best of all my BFF is supposed to come visit later in January. She lives in alberta and I haven't seen her in a couple years now. We are both so excited!!

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    Rider....the hair thing is a big deal...I still think about it everyday. It would take me years to grow my hair back. Now I have this new hair to deal with and...well, I know why. The body parts is a separate issue, but they all got messed with because of the same problem. Im so sorry You didn't Enjoy your new clothes today: ( but That's GREAT about your BFF!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited December 2012

    I lost my hair too (again). I have a few strands left that haven't fallen out. I've been wearing a sock monkey hat, a bandanna with dreadlocks and some crocheted hats. I have lots of scarves that I am watching youtube to learn how to wear them and two wigs. I feel so fake in the wigs.

    Hope everyone's day gets better tomorrow. I love you guys.

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 2,630
    edited December 2012

    I love you more.....Hee hee

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 2,060
    edited December 2012

    It was an icky day. Here's hoping tomorrow will be better. I guess I will head up to bed and get on the computer there. I did manage to clean off my dresser and vacuum my bedroom. I hope to work on it some more tomorrow. I did my Wii Sports workout, minus the boxing. That's the most strenuous of the sports, but I didn't feel up to it yesterday or today.

    Yes, I'm getting sleepy. I'm going to go up now. Kiss

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited December 2012

    Lots of hugs needed. (((((Fuzzy, Veggy, Rider, Dune))))) and anyone i have missed.

    Wished I had a camera when we came in from seeing the Hobbit tonight. Both cats were sitting side by side in the middle of the driveway at the gate as though they were waiting for us. It looked so cute.

    Veggy do you have any photos of youe in the sock monkey or dreadlock hat - would love to see them.

    Should get to sleep as it's after midnight here.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited December 2012

    Good morning gals!  Alyson, I can just picture your cats waiting for you!  Smile   You should have taken a picture!

    And Veggy, yes!  Take a picture of your little hat!   I think I would get a whole ward-robe of wigs.... Man, they look so pretty when I see them on TV!  I had one once, but I finally let my hair grow, and wore it more like the wig....  Is there someplace that those of us that have had BC can get them for a more reasonable price?  I thought I read that somewhere...  I do crochet those caps...I don't have a pattern, just start chain-stitching in a circle, and hope it comes out to where I can wear it, Ha!   I just gave my DD one, and she is going to wear it, even to bed!  Darned cold here, lately!

    Dune, glad you got something done in your bedroom... That always makes me feel like I got something accomplished.  Hope you feel better today.

    Rider!  Sounds like without bad luck, you wouldn't have any luck at all!  Wow... !  Everything was going wrong.  Our DD also called to say her refrigerator was blowing warm air.... Now THAT'S not a good sign.  She had to take everything out, and put it outdoors, but God only knows it will not spoil because it's only 10 degrees out.  Maybe 30 when the sun comes up.  She is getting another one delivered tomorrow...  Ours went out last month.  The freezer was fine, but the refrigerator part just quit!  I think it runs in the family.

    Glad you can look forward to your friend coming.

    Sas-shatzi.... What would you do if your fingers had the WORST eczema, that drives you just plain nuts?  This  "little problem" has been with me for about 7 months...!  Two Docs.... "okay it's eczema"... "Soak hands in room temp. water twice a day, then rub this ointment Clobetisil, or Fluocinonide on them, and then put on Eucerin lotion. "  When they are red, and peeling and cracked, like for instance NOW, it hurts.  I wear little polyester gloves whenever my hands aren't in water...or in cotton lined gloves.   I wear them to bed after slathering lots of my own lotions and creams on them.  I make my own, because they feel better than the ones I buy.   I make creams with  natural  Shea butter, cortisone, vaseline, zinc-oxide...40%... Neem oil, even Tea-tree salve, bag-balm, Mentholatum, and yes, mink-oil.    They all make my fingers feel better..... but nothing makes it go away.  Even preparation H! 

    I'm going to ask for a prescription of Prednisone.  I even take either Claritin or Zyrtec.   If my Daughter can give her cat Prednisone, I can SURELY take it, right?    I've taken it before.... Lots of times.... mostly for rashes, and hives. 

    Okay, if any of you gals have nothing else to do today, but let me know what I could do, let me know....Wink 

    Hi Fuzzy!   How is your Mom doing???  Get ready for a better year folks!

    (Edited to remove 4,000 exclamation marks...  Have you EVER seen anyone use so many?)

  • Linda-Ranching-in-the-mTns
    Linda-Ranching-in-the-mTns Member Posts: 319
    edited December 2012

    Howdy to all --- This is one very active thread! We went 'home' to visit my 83-yr-old-BC-survivor Mom in KC -- it was the first visit since July... before all the surgeries. Anyway, we are finally back in New Mexico (where I SO belong :) -- and I thought I'd check in here -- there were 4 pages of posts I missed! Sounds like for the most part everyone is plugging along and keeping thier spirits up -- Happy Holidays!

    I don't know if any of you subscribe to daily messages (uplifting/point-of-view-changing) - But I belong to two that I generally get some good from: The Daily Om and Mary Morrisey. 

    With all the cancer-related changes in my life, it is helpful/empowering for me to consider the larger picture and the possibility of growth from what others (and me a couple of years ago) might view as 'tragedy'. Anyway -- today's "Om' was particularily on-target for me -- so I thought I might share it with all of you... (see below) ... and Mary Morrisey is offering a free online course tomorrow about deciding what you want in your life -- and setting in motion the mental/emotional path to reach those goals... the link to the Mary Morrisey (free) course is: 

    http://www.marymorrissey.com/event/vision2013/

    Below is from today's 'Daily Om': (you can sign up for your own daily messages if you like -- just google "Daily Om"

    When we experience change in our life we can control our response and reaction to the changes that are happening.



    Transformation is a universal constant that affects our lives from the moment we are born until we leave earthly existence behind. At the root of all growth, we find change. Occasionally, change and the circumstances leading up to it are a source of extraordinary joy, but more often than not they provoke feelings of discomfort, fear, or pain. Though many changes are unavoidable, we should not believe that we are subject to the whims of an unpredictable universe. It is our response to those circumstances that will dictate the nature of our experiences. At the heart of every transformation, no matter how chaotic, there is substance. When we no longer resist change and instead regard it as an opportunity to grow, we find that we are far from helpless in the face of it.

    Our role as masters of our own destinies is cemented when we choose to make change work in our favor. Yet before we can truly internalize this power, we must accept that we cannot hide from the changes taking place all around us. Existence as we know it will come to an end at one or more points in our lives, making way for some new and perhaps unexpected mode of being. This transformation will take place whether or not we want it to, and so it is up to us to decide whether we will open our eyes to the blessings hidden amidst disorder or close ourselves off from opportunities hiding behind obstacles. 

    To make change work for you, look constructively at your situation and ask yourself how you can benefit from the transformation that has taken place. As threatening as change can seem, it is often a sign that a new era of your life has begun. If you reevaluate your plans and goals in the days or weeks following a major change, you will discover that you can adapt your ambition to the circumstances before you and even capitalize on these changes. Optimism, enthusiasm, and flexibility will aid you greatly here, as there is nothing to be gained by dwelling on what might have been. Change can hurt in the short term but, if you are willing to embrace it proactively, its lasting impact will nearly always be physically, spiritually, and intellectually transformative.

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    Anyway -- (Linda here again) -- I wish the very best for each of you in the New Year! I find that these 'mind-expanding' ideas really help me to see that I have a daily (actually a minute-to minute) choice in EVERY situation -- do I chose 'joy' or 'despair'? 'Acceptance and enlightenment' or 'anger and frustration'. This ability to see each circumstance as an opportunity to CHOOSE -- brings me peace and a feeling of being more in control of at least my 'inner' world!

    Happy New Year to all!

    Linda

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited January 2013

    Sheryl, So glad you broke the news about out of hospital MRSA--medical term "community aquired MRSA". Read the question late and decided, let's leave that alone for a bit. 

    Sheryl and all, this is another thing that makes me absolutely nuts. WHY IN THIS DAY OF RESISTANT BACTERIA, IS THE USE OF CULTURING NOT ROUTINE. LACK OF CULTURING GOT US HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. Historically, cultures were routinely done up until the 70's. Then they were seen to be an added expense when such great broad spectrum antibiotics were available. So, someone was sick>>antibx>>didn't get better>>change to another broad spectrum>>finally, a culture woould be done when a person failed several antibx's.

    Each use of an antibiotic incorrectly, do to lack of due dillengce by the prescriber, caused the bacteria to develop a resistance to the antibiotic.

    Each time a person was  prescribed an antibx that did work for them, but the person stopped the drug before taking all the doses, slowly allowed those bacterias to gain resistance.

    These two sentence summarize why we are in the mess we are today. 

    MRSA first showed up in the 70's. We now have other superbugs. MRSE-Methicillin Resistant Staphlococcus  Epidermis, VRE-Vancomycin Resistent Enteroccoci. Other bugs are becoming more resistant all the time. Hospital aquired bacteria are becoming more prevalent. Biggest not stated above is Clostridium Difficile also known as C-diff, C-difficile.

    Sheryl your nephews course of events could have been avoided with a simple CULTURE AND SENSITIVITY. Culture is read at 48 hrs, sensitivity(test against defined antibx's) is read at 72 hrs. It would have confirmed that the broad spectrum antibx, they put nephew on in ER was ok--meaning nonresistant. If the Er drug was resistant, they'd change the drug at that time. This does not mean the initial drug was prescribed wrong. It just means the bacteria your nephew had was resistant. Absolutely, a key difference.

    To all:In the presence of a wound or infection in a mucus membrane(eye/nose/mouth/throat/urinary& or reproductive tract--vaginas/penises/urethras) that is serious enough to seek emergency care, request the following.

    1st, tetanus consideration for wounds

    2nd,culture for AEROBIC( lives in oxygen), and anaerobic(lives in the absence of oxgen) organisms--AND sensitivity.

    3rd, ask for number to call for culture& sensitivity results(73-80hrs) and new medicine prescription should sensitivity show cultured bacteria is resistant. They will likely tell you that they will call you. Be bitchy. C&S's are read and reported to the doc's timely--day done. But if the doc's office is closed, you won't get a call for days, in the meantime time could be lost as it sits on the fax machine.

    Dunes this answers your question re: cleaning of gym equipment. CAMRSA-Community aquired MRSA is a problem in gyms. Moist environments with lots of sweaty bodies, using the same equipment. But due diligence on cleaning, being aware when you have broken skin areas--see below. LOs Angeles Raiders (?, Calif. team)had an outbreak in their locker room several years back. They went public as a means to make other athletes, professional and amateur, aware. They brought in the CDC to make recommendations. Don't know if there was a follow up publication for the public re: recommendations. If there was, it would be a good list to follow. Google it.

    The Community Aquired is worse than Hospital Aquired. Suggest googling it. Try the Mayo Clinic web site. They have VERY good teaching stuff.  Sheryl that's why I wanted to lay off CAMRSA a bit. CAMRSA is much more virulent (bad).

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2012

    LINDA --welcome back--your words of inspiration are sorely needed here--bring them often sweetie!

    I'll add to Linda's words is that we need humor. Our Veggy was until recently the person here ( along with others) that kept everyone afloat with humorous pics that beat down BC and found the funny in the absurdity of our situations. This Christmas I just found out about Jeff Dunham. google him>>then you tube. Laugh for hours.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2012

    Chevy, You did the right first thing in going to a dermatologist. Did they do a biopsy of the skin site or just a diagnosis by visual inspection? No biopsy. Go back and ask for a biopsy. Goes directly back to my post on culture and sensitivity>>>DIRECTLY. You can have a fungus that appears as an eczema. Both are treated differently.

    In the absence of a Biopsy/C&S, the doc is doing what I call "PAINTBALL THERAPY". THROW A DRUG/TREATMENT AT THE PROBLEM AND SEE IF IT STICKS(CORRECTS PROBLEM). Should have copyrighted that phrase in the darks ages when I first thought of it.

    Eczema, topical prednisone or rather methylprednisolone. Yes, there are stronger topicals and they might be worth a try. But starting with the least strong working up to the stronger topicals. All else fails, then oral stuff can be tried. Remember though even topicals can be absorbed systemically. Once you get a shot or take it orally then you have a full affect on many systems.

    I have found that I get eczema when something is happening in my body. So, think about each body part. I find when my sleep is off--insomnia, my eczema shows up. I did some work somewhere else. I will go and find it. It's a last ditch response to skin that won't heal as we are talking about it now.
    Saving to prevent loss--still writing  SAS

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited December 2012

    OMG---do not ask an obsessive complusive(OCD) nurse how to prevent infections LOL. I posted this in Jan 2012 to someone else. It was in response to hospital aquired infections. Reposting here we need all the help we can get. Still looking for chevy's answer.

    Jan  9, 2012 03:18 AM sas-schatzi wrote:A few seconds ago sas-schatzi wrote:

    No one to my knowledge has tested charts yet. They are NEVER washed. They must be a hotbed of bacteria. Think of all the hands that touch them. I believe they need to go through a high temperature wash after each use. If a patient is there over so many days the chart should be changed and sent through a high temperature wash with chemicals etc.-------Periodically, you will see studies that show lots of other things that have been tested, even Doc's ties(awful), stethoscopes, handheld cells, phones, EKG leads, computer keyboards. Other nurses used to laugh at my OCD of cleaning at the start of each shift. I was not only trying to protect the patients, but US.

    Started with noticing zits, in a certain pattern on my face. I went through puberty, basically, without zits. Then noticed a similar pattern on the other nurses. Cell phones in hospital were handed off to each other at shift change. My research showed a really good study out of Israel on the topic. The four studies from Usa were all lazy studies. They all sited the Israel study versus doing any of their own microbial studies. Except one that sited a study of the Bacteria on EKG leads. Hand wiping EKG leads did little to remove bacteria. The study recommendation at the time was for disposable leads, but they weren't dependable enough at the time. Imagine my horror when waking up after my failed chemo that almost killed me, and they had put on telemetry leads across still healing Mastectomy wounds. Off they came--pronto. The nurse taking care of me reacted in disgust that I was so uncooperative with my CARE.

    I felt like Felix Unger in the" Odd Couple". I'd have a talk with all newbies about cleaning the cells and beepers before handing them off. Even for break coverage, let alone at shift change. Cleaning their medication binders, the computer and Pixis keyboards.

    Also. nix on fake nails-----horrible. First reports came in 1998. It took several years for it to become the rule. It only happened after Joint Commission on Hospital Accreditation made it a "recommendation" and that they would be looking for policies  on it.

    If a doc comes in with a dirty lab coat send him on his way, No hand washing by anyone---speak up. Hand washing should go up to at least 4-5 inches up the arm

    Jewelry even wedding bands should be outlawed.

    Watches should be done away with in hospitals. They have clocks in every room. They just need to have a sweep hand to do pulses.

    All this stuff can be googled. I should think where else this can be posted. People can't protect themselves against that which they don't know about.

    All IV poles and commodes should go through a big wash container. Suggested this for the new hospital for OR tables, they did it.

    Anyone throwing dirty linen on the floor should be retrained. Each room should have it's own linen container ----not taken from room to room , or carried down the hall.

    Each person should be given there own BP cuff------This is becoming more common.

    Each person should be given a new phone----This is also becoming more common.

    Shoe covers should be used by in hospital personnel, changed after leaving a room that has a known infection----now only done with serious infections that are in isolation status. Not even required by many hospitals for OR people.

    As there are many more hospital acquired infections, a return to things that were done in a previous time are being looked at for control of the spread of hospiatl acquired infections.

    Lastly, I believe that all immuno-comprimised patients should be in reverse isolation for our full hospital visit. That's all of us that are receiving chemo or recently received chemo, but are numbers are "UP". Our immune systems are not the same after all the chemicals dumped into us. We need greater protection from what we are exposed too. Numbers being "up" doesn't tell the whole story. This one I can't prove by studies. Wish I could. But been there did that , seen it to often that we are more prone to infections based on our life saving drugs like Tamox and AI's.

    Well this chapter is at an end.

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