MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish
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speaking of mental--wherever that traffic light at the top of the page is must have a ton of CRAZED drivers.
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cindyl; YES!!! I just want a few moments of being comfortable. I'm either freezing literally my teeth can be known to chatter, or flashing. and if I bundle up because I'm so cold, a flash isn't far behind! aargh!
I got the Bragged last night and have taken it twice. fingers crossed... I went to a local organic store, but you can get it at the Vitamin Shop; if you have them.
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Eph, LOL. Hubba, hubba, Santa Baby! The Traffic Light Tree is a sculpture by Pierre Vivant, situated within a roundabout (of course, but nothing can control traffic in one of those) in London.
Mar, Your house looks good, but where's that 6ft. neon pink candy cane I gave you last year?
LinsaKR, Thanks for the Apple Cider Vinegartip for hot flashes. I remember reading about that one and never did try it myself. Am so interested in the "experiment" with juneaubugg, to see if she gets some relief.
Juneaubugg, We all have been through various degres of discomfort from the flashes/sweats. Yours sound severe, whereas I only felt like my head was trapped in a sauna! Hope vinegar does the trick.
Over the weekend I was out and saw the flags around town lowered to half-mast due to the Sandy Hook shooting. With no disrespect to the tragegy there, I said to my husband, "Well, in America, you could fly it like that every day." Every day there is some tragic shooting (and I mean something other than in home invasion or defense scenarios,) although the magnitude of the CT shootings is "over the top" even by U.S. standards. So, it should be apparent even to those who want to own guns that a good number of them are getting into the wrong hands, be it the mentally ill or the criminal (and all the overlap in between.)
Happened to see a repeat of a Daily Show last night where John Stewart was announcing that NYC recently had a day where no one had been killed. It was an anomaly.
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Thanks for the shoes, Eli~. I would love to have a pair in real life. I'd wear them to Serve Christmas dinner. I think it would get a reaction from my kids. I love to shuffle things up! I can already hear the "Aw, Mom!!!"
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Yes. It's baaaack! Just as old Bob Crachit carried young Tim on his back, I will be sliding thru' the streets this winter while hoisting my slight chemo-killing "partner in a pouch" effortlessly across my shoulder. (You will see I have reconciled with my pouch for the moment, because it is no longer contributing to ripping my lips off my face.) I'm at a lower (hopefully still very effective) dosage. Other than a minor off-taste in my mouth, nothing out of line to report so far. God Bless Us Pouch Wearers, Everyone!
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I am glad you are back in your fighting gear, Eli~.
Try this festive bag for your "partner"
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Eli so glad you made nice with your chemo killing partner. Now if he can just behave and not rip your lips off anymore.
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Lovely, Meece! That would be chemo chic!
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Hot Flashes! I put flannel sheets on our bed, and found that it helps me sleep. With the other type of sheets I'd soak through, then the sheets would get cold and I'd wake up hypothermic (maybe a slight exaggeration), but the flannel sheets seem to absorb the hot flash better and they don't get cold, so at least I'm not waking up sweating AND freezing every night.
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Thank heaven it's a sculpture!
So you have decided to make nice with Adolph, E? Tis the Christmas season. I hope he behaves himself & your mouth continues to mend.
shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh E-don't read! (It's so icy here this morning, it's "snow"day for schools, etc. so my co-workers & I decided to do the same--boss is out of town, mice will play!!!)
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Eph snow day sounds fun, It is 81 degrees here in Texas, as usual the Texas weather can't make up it's mind if we are too be cold or hot.
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shhhhh Sherry-not so loud! But am looking forward to warmer temps when I start my cruise on Sunday!!!! Yippee!
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All dressed up for Christmas... well, at least I have the hat!
Eph - a cruise? Nice! Is this a Christmas cruise? Hope you warm your bones up!
Elimar - so, you shall call him Tiny Tim and hug him and squeeze him and pet him. Okay, maybe that's going too far.... just re-watched "Finding Nemo" the other night...
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So of course my DH decides to look at me instead of the TV and is wondering why I'm looking at porn!!
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Let him wonder, Police Force Barbe, many-faceted woman of mystery.
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Oh, y'all! That was just a picture of me super-imposed on what they call a "mask". Sorry, didn't have much choice about the "bod". Hope your eyes didn't burn!
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Eli - hope that you are feeling better every day and that your tag along doesn't cause you too much trouble this time around.
Eph - so jealous of your cruise. Where ya goin?
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This is what happens when domesticity removes every natural impulse. In the wild, jugulars have been ripped out for way less.
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I can't see the first pic...
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Western Caribbean for the cruise : Bahamas, Jamaica, Grand Cayman & some island near Beleize. Bittersweet-leaving town becuz my sister, DD & I can't stand the thought of this 1st Christmas without Mom, but on the other hand it's exciting to go somewhere new & wonderful.
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Well, I'm not sure what is going on with the first pic (of a dog) because i saw it, then refreshed page and saw empty square outline, then refreshed again and didn't even see the outline of the pic. Must be a hosting problem so I'm going to give it time to fix itself before I mess aorund further.
My mouth continues to heal, and I'd say I'm at 90% now, so I think I've passed the test with this chemo. It really was not the chemo creating the problem. That was the CT dye reaction, and the allergic reaction took A MONTH to work out of my system. Why it was like this, I don't know, but I just reported the facts as they happened to me. Pretty weird. I am happy, happy I tell you, to be back on the chemo because I want the extra KILL POWER this chemo can provide. I still hope to achieve a Complete Response, despite having to take a week off. I told my body to try REAL HARD!
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Eph, Did you say that it's longer than 7 days? I have not seen a cruise where Bahamas is combined with those other ports. It sounds so great and I wish I could stow away and come snorkelling in the Caymans (although how I would do that with good ol' "Tiny Tim" hanging onto my neck, I don't know.)
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it's just 1 island in the bahamas (I think it's owned by the cruise line;) Good ole Tiny Tim would probably not appreciate a dunking, but I haven't swam in a warm ocean in 11 years so I'm ready to snort salt water while snorkeling!!! Edit to add: no - it's 7 days.
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Eli....glad you're doing better....and in fighting form!
Love ALL the festive photos!....especially the cheesecake! :-)
Love and blessings to all! -
Greetings fellow survivors & survivors-to-be! I'm a two-time BC survivor -- both hit when I was in my 40's & 50's. I've written a book about my experiences, DON'T LET ME DIE IN A MOTEL 6, which I'd like to give away FREE to any ladies who need a good laugh. Trust me, there is a time when all the treatment will be over, and you'll be back in the World Of the Well. Just Tweet me at @AmyWolf_Author. Thanks, and good luck to everyone. NEVER SURRENDER!!
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E-love the reindeer hostess up top! Her outfit is quite stylish!
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Oh my, looking at those poor pets.... if looks could kill!
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Eph: Your cruise sounds heavenly! Unfortunately I'm headed to the frozen lands of Canada where my MIL lives. The good news is we leave on boxing day for NYC, where we'll take in a couple shows, eat good food and enjoy the sights.
Eli: Glad your mouth is on the mend and your cancer killing robot is back in action.
Amy: Thanks for the offer. I'll send you a PM, and I agree, NEVER surrender!
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Elimar - my rat terrier gets cheezed off enough at me when I put a sweater on her when it gets really cold. I'd hate to think the looks I would get with those on her.
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luvmygoats, Not to mention what your GOATS would do. Ahahahahahahahahhaahaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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