I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Just read an article printed last summer about Israel and guns. Maybe since many far right enthusiasts are such strong supporters of Israel, using the comparison might be helpful to try to garner support foir overhaul of our laws. Anyway, Israel is a highly militarized society, but has very few gun deaths outside of wars because outside of the miliitary, strict gun control laws are applied. Civilians cannot own assault weapons period, end of story. Civilians cannot obtain guns without rigous mental and physical testing, and are limited to one pistol. Here's the article.
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The NRA's mantra that guns don't kill people is nonsense. People without guns cannot commit mass murder. There need to be strict rules and a culture change so that guns are not accessible to people who are angry or mentally ill or too young to know what they are doing. There is no justification for ordinary people to have extraordinary weapons. Spoken as the granddaughter, daughter, sister and mother of military people. The second amendment was meant for an army. I just don't understand why the NRA has such power in the US.
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I understand that people enjoy shooting at targets or handling semi automatics. I get that. But why can't it be mandated that you have to go to a shooting gallery that follows strict rules and procedures that can fullfill this need. Why can't there be laws that state how much gun power a person can own and how it is stored. It is ridiculous to suggest that making our schools and public meeting places more secure against this type of assault as the solution.
Now we are hearing that the man forced his way into the school. So how did security measures help them? Does anyone really think that if there had been a gun in the office that it would have helped? This man had a purpose and the element of surprise on his side.
If anyone is watching CNN, Soledad O'Brien isn't holding back on the political jargon being spewed right now. You go girl!!
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I liked what I heard on Chris Hayes Up! this morning. We shouldn't call it "Gun Control" but "Gun Safety."
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Tweet of the Day:
@ivanwhite48: Only in America can gun ownership be a right and healthcare be a privilege.
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Very sadly but superbly on point, Lindasa.
Topsy turvy values.
I hope the media will concentrate nothing on the shooter - don't give him the glory or the politically correct explanations. Bury him in infamy, move on to gun laws and make the children and adults who died the story.
Belinda, we can always count on you for some great illustrations - thank you!
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I don't understand some Americans' concepts of freedom. My U.S. relatives -- in Florida, Michigan and California -- live in gated communities. When I watch "House Hunters" on HGTV, I frequently see houses that have bars on doors and windows. I just read a comment by someone who said that, after the Columbine shooting, his son's school began to look like a prison -- trees cut down, high fences surrounding it, and guards at the doors.
Now there are NRA idiot spokespeople saying that teachers should be armed. Who is to say that a stressed-out teacher wouldn't use it on a particularly vexacious student? I wonder what the excuses would be coming forth from the NRA about that?
Freedom, schmeedom!
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I'm not paying teachers with my tax money to be armed and prepared for a mass shooting. I'm paying them to teach. The NRA is running out of "excuses" and "solutions." And the forefathers argument is just silly. Those were different times...could they have imagined this? I doubt it. This is our country, NOW, and we can do what we think is prudent for this day and age.
Agree with above - Belinda - fantastic graphics.
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Athena it isn't about glory or politically correct anything. We need to open up the can of worms that is our mental health mess in this country. We have to make that part of the discussion.
I'm intimately familiar with trying to wade through the system that calls itself mental health.
IT SUCKS. ........and is woefully inadequate. The inmates have free run of the asylum.......because we don't, won't or can't talk about the brain damaged among us. -
It is because, as has been so aptly noted, some people in this country value to the right to own guns more than they value the right to healthcare. It's the one huge wrinkle in the otherwise (IMHO, of course) perfect document that is the US Constitution.
ETA: But I think right now that the priority should be given not to the mentally ill but to the victims of guns.
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We'll just have to agree to disagree. To me it's the elephant in the room.
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Chick -- I agree with you. Mental healthcare IS the elephant in the room. Treatment, when it is sought out and made available, is not mandatory, even though some forms can harm others.
One day several years ago, my DH was waiting on a subway platform. He noticed a woman at the other end of the platform behaving somewhat erratically. She kept looking at the tracks, then walking back and forth, repeating this several times. DH intuitively felt she was planning to jump. He saw the train coming and she was on the edge of the platform looking down. He ran to the other end of the platform and pulled the switch that shuts off the electricity to the tracks, and the train came to a stop just inside the station.
It turns out the woman had just been released from a nearby psychiatric facility. The police told my DH that, yes, she admitted she had been planning to jump, but No, she didn't want to go back to the hospital. The police could not make her, and so they had to let her go.
There are so very many examples of mentally ill patients harming either themselves or others (usually within their own family, but not always). It's well past time that we eliminate the stigma attached to these patients, and start considering their illnesses as serious and as devastating as cancer.
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Gun control does NOT equal a gun ban. However, the NRA's breathless hysteria about any kind of gun laws has many people convinced that it does. I'm terribly sorry you feel attacked, Riley. Part of the NRA's talking points is that we have plenty of laws that aren't enforced -- but we don't. We don't have enough, and we don't enforce the ones we do have.
There are Federal laws on the books regarding gun dealers that the ATF is supposed to enforce but that Congress specifically refuses to allow the agency to spend money on. Sickening. Here is an article from 2011 about lack of funding for ATF hampering crime-fighting efforts from Mayors Against Illegal Guns:
http://www.thewashingtoncurrent.com/2011/01/mayors-congress-failure-to-fund-atf.html
And the background check is a joke when you have the gun show loophole that allows purchasers at gun shows to buy a gun with no background check. Convicted felon? Step right on up.
DH is a Federal agent. He has been a Federal law enforcement officer for 24 years. He has carried a gun to work every day. He has drawn his gun in the line of duty hundreds of times. The last time he had to handcuff someone, he didn't put his gun away because it was so dangerous. He was a firearms instructor at his last job, and is a certified armorer for several brands and types of guns he used. He grew up hunting and grew up with guns in the house. We have guns, safely secured in a double-locked safe in a double-locked closet. I am not a fan of guns, but happen to be an excellent shot (women usually are because they have better fine motor skills).
DH believes wholeheartedly that we need more and better gun control. No gun show loopholes. If you want to buy a gun, you apply for a background check. You must show proof that you took a gun safety course from a federally-approved trainer. Then you must purchase a 10-year, non-cancelable, prepaid $10 million liability policy before you can purchase the gun. You must complete all these steps before you can be licensed to own the gun. You must take a continuing education course every other year to continue to own the gun. And ATF can track this easily in an existing database. And it would prohibit people from buying guns for other people (straw buyer). If you can spend $800 on a Sig or a Glock, you can spend more to legally own it. It is the same analogy as a car - you are licensed to drive a car, you must insure it and you must have your license renewed periodically.
While Indiana may have laws that mentally-ill people cannot buy guns, not every state does. I have read articles about mentally-ill people who tried to buy guns, were denied, and a judge overruled the law -- and they went on to kill people.
Here is an article from the same organization above (Mayors Against Illegal Guns) that talks about mentally ill people buying guns and how easy it is -- especially with the gun show loophole:
http://www.mayorsagainstillegalguns.org/html/media-center/wsj_011211_2.shtml
And the NRA is a huge part of the problem. DH resigned his membership decades ago when they became a right-wing crazy organization. They have actually advocated killing Federal agents in the past. This current barking mad drivel coming out of them about "Obama is going to take your guns" and calling Fast amd Furious an Obama plot to take away people's guns is criminally irresponsible.
Will bad people intent on doing harm always be able to get guns? Of course. But it would be a lot harder to get guns if they were more tightly licensed and regulated. Can somebody steal a car and use it to kill people? Of course. But does that mean we should throw up our hands and not license people to drive, or license cars, or not require cars to be insured?
Gun control and better gun laws does NOT mean a gun ban. It is a conversation that must be had now. DH doesn't think that even this horrible carnage will change anything, though. He thinks it will take an even bigger tragedy, like someone at a crowded shopping mall shooting someone, and 20 people pulling out their concealed weapons and firing away. In the end, there will be 50 or a hundred people dead and dozens wounded ... And then maybe it will stop.
I can't get out of my mind the sound of the screams the children must have made as they were gunned down. I wish that Wayne LaPierre and his posse of lobbyists could hear those screams too.
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Another shooting http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/breaking-news/gunman-opens-fire-in-alabama-hospital/story-e6freoo6-1226537675498
It might be safer to live in Afghanistan
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This is a teacher that was gunned down but she managed to save all her students before she was killed.
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Just saw some pics of a few identified victims - gorgeous babies. I am VERY angry.
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Excellent, excellent, EXCELLENT article from Salon.com that frames the debate and offers solutions much better than I did in my post above:
http://www.salon.com/2012/12/15/yes_we_can_have_sane_gun_control/
Please click and read. It is very, very on pointl
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I wonder if one of the children killed was the child of a member of the NRA - would that person still say it was ok to own guns.
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I wonder that too, Suzie.
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I hate hearing the reasoning that teachers should be allowed to carry guns for cases like this. I don't want to live in a world where teachers have to carry guns.
Mary
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The people who want teachers to carry guns are the same people who call teachers greedy, lazy, overpaid union thugs. So, they want a greedy, lazy, overpaid union thug who only cares about money to carry a gun in the classroom with their children. They are, by and large, the same people who think it is OK to kill medical personnel who perform certain legal medical procedures but who don't want to pay for prenatal care for poor women or feed poor children once they are out in the world.
I don't listen to people like that.
Ever.
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I am so glad I don't have to walk down the street and be afraid - that is what you face over there. The US should look to civilised countries as an example. Don't get p'd off with me, but as it stands now, you do not live in a civilised country.
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HL - that was an excellent article. thanks for posting the links. Hope it goes viral. But then, expect many would add it to their wild "conspiracy" lists, still amazes me people can concoct conspiracy about almost anything. The United Nations, so so so sad...
Many of my friends hunt. I don't know anyone who owns an assault weapon.
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The lights are on but nobody'a home.
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Well, lots to mull over here. Riley...I hope you stop feeling picked on. You have valied points as I think everyone does. I think about how many policemen get killed in the line of duty....while they are carrying guns to protect themselves and hopefully well trained to use them.....but too many die anyway.
I do go along with the fact that the people I know ( or hope I know ) are really responsible about their guns and they are small pistols or shotguns for hunting. Still, I'm not wild about guns. For one thing, they can be taken from you while you are trying to protect yourself. So.....it is a thing where we need more stringent rules about how guns are kept safely in homes by the "rightfully registered owners" and I also see no reason for anyone to have any gun that will fire many rounds at once.
I also agree that anyone who wants to do away with someone does not necessarily have to do so with a gun, but for the most part, the gun is faster, easier and will keep the shooter away from someone who might actually be able to wrestle the gun away.
My bottom line.....we have to find enough civility in each other some way, to figure out what it will take to quit killing each other for any reason. We have to walk right over the top of the LaPierre's of this world and get this done because little kids who deserve to go to school and be able to be secure while there, obviously can't do that. There are a whole group of parents ( probably about 40 ) who will not have the Christmas they were planning for this yr. and many others in these same families. Will these parents always feel a horrible void every yr. at X-mas time. I do hope our President can do something at this point. I hope he will try as hard as he can. I'd like to think there is enough humanity left in people to feel something for these children who only meant to go to school.
Jackie
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Chickadee - I am not saying that something doesn't need to be urgently done re: mental illness, but RIGHT NOW, in this specific case, the priority is respecting human life. I am concerned that when we talk about mental illness, societal ills, etc... in these massacres, that merely plays into the hands of the NRA and its ilk who would love to see the discussion be about anything except guns. Even if that isn't our intent.
Many of the victims or their loved ones may have been mentally ill too - this isn't fair to them either. The tragedy of insufficient or lack of access to good health care for the mentally ill is continuing and affects everyone but we can and should deal with that on an ongoing basis.
But I am waaaaaaaayyyyy past looking at the perpetrator as the victim right now.
We need to make this about guns and easy gun accessiblity first. And second, we need to protect, honor and mourn for the unfairness to those who lost their lives.
ETA: I am concerned that the above sentence may sound pedantic - I know you agree with it.
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The Times has these names on a Vietnam War Memorial-like mural on its homepage - can't seem to copy and paste the graphic here properly:

Newtown Shooting | The Victims
- Charlotte Bacon, 6
- Daniel Barden, 7
- Olivia Engel, 6
- Josephine Gay, 7
- Ana M. Marquez-Greene, 6
- Dylan Hockley, 6
- Madeleine F. Hsu, 6
- Catherine V. Hubbard, 6
- Chase Kowalski, 7
- Jesse Lewis, 6
- James Mattioli, 6
- Grace McDonnell, 7
- Emilie Parker, 6
- Jack Pinto, 6
- Noah Pozner, 6
- Caroline Previdi, 6
- Jessica Rekos, 6
- Avielle Richman, 6
- Benjamin Wheeler, 6
- Allison N. Wyatt, 6
- Rachel Davino, 29
- Teacher
- Dawn Hochsprung, 47
- School principal
- Nancy Lanza, 52
- Mother of gunman
- Anne Marie Murphy, 52
- Teacher
- Lauren Rousseau, 30
- Teacher
- Mary Sherlach, 56
- School psychologist
- Victoria Soto, 27
- Teacher
Source: Connecticut State Police
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