So...whats for dinner?
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Thank you Laurie, I appreciate this!
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Laurie, I wish that damn infection would find the exit door. This is far too long to have to feel that crummy.
Michelle thoughts with you at this difficult time....
So I remain mired in clearing out this clutterred neglected house...feel a bit like I'm on house arrest...have yet to see the light of day for three days. It feels good to get it done (tho done is a pretty funny and innacurate word!), but I am exhausted and hepped up at the same time. Had a few trips down memory lane as I unearthed my sons's "back of their closet" memorabilia. A that point, was feeling ruthless, so off to goodwill with anything usable. They always tell us they are not interested in their old stuff. But I bet if they saw some of it they could be tempted....after all they must have the "save it" gene!
Both DH and I do!! But I swear I'm a changed woman.....everything out!!
Tomorrow I go on the hunt for the Boston Butt...to make the pulled pork for Saturday's football social with our out of town guests. Stop and Shop said they'd save me one. So much for my wonderful neighborhood store at which you have to order one a week ahead!! My next door neighbor suggested I skip making it and order it from one of the local barbecue places. Guess I'm too masochistic with everything else I'm doing, .........just need to try this in my crock pot! Afterall, it is doing all the work.
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Lacey,
Forget paying for restaurant pulled pork. Hire someone to bring YOU the boston butt: https://www.taskrabbit.com/ Much less expensive, and they find the stupid thing for you, go and buy it, and bring it to your house.
*susan*
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Lacey, if you decide to do the pork yourself, Paula deen has a really good version using liquid smoke. It's an oven recipe but I'm sure the crock pot would work.
Tonight was Olive Garden knock off night. I made minestrone and garlic breadsticks. Really tasty.
Thoughts are with Michelle and her family. -
Joyce-Thanks for letting us know Michelle made it there and that her mom is comfortable. I bet Michelle is exhausted Hope she gets some rest in this evening.
Lacey-Glad you got most of the "Cleaning out done"
Nancy- Do you have a recipe for your minestone?
Michelle-Sending love and prayers for you.
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Thanks everyone, I went from the airport straight to the hospital and mom was resting comfortably. She looks like she's sleeping very peacefully. One part of me wanted to spend the night with her, the more practical side won out in favor of a good night's sleep. I am beyond tired, as you can imagine. She will likely make it for a few more days, so we are going to have her moved to hospice tomorrow. It will be a much nicer environment for everyone - it's a beautiful facility.
Laurie - what a dilemma...but I know my preference would be to know what's going on. I hope you get some relief soon.
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Michelle,
Just a quick post to let you know that I am thinking of you, your Mom and your family and sending you hugs and strength....
Much love,
Seaside -
Michelle
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Sharon and I are also thinking of you Michelle.
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Michelle,
THoughts are with you and your mother. Get some sleep. All of this will be easier to manage if you are well-rested. Be well,
*susan*
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Michelle, glad you got home without incident, and got to be with your mom right away. Good choice to get some rest tonight. You will need it for sure to be "present" for all that you are now facing. Yes, hospice will be a compassionate setting for your mom. Caring thoughts being sent your way.....
Thanks ladies for the ideas to help my pulled pork process! Not sure why I didn't think about taskrabbit. Will try that next time I am in a crunch! Have you ever tried it? I did make a plan tonight tho with the butcher at S+S, so I will be out there to pick it up first thing, then mostly having a cooking day since I think the house is acceptable at this point. Just longing for the days I didn't have so much stuff! Much of it is work related, so I guess eventually it won't feel so important to meif I can ever get out of my field...or want to totally. I could have a garage sale of professional resources!
Missed a great dinner at DH's healthcare conference tonight. Steak, seafood and wonderful appetizers....I had a pear and an apple here, and some tastes of hummus I made in the vita mix for the weekend. I would have had too many calories at the dinner anyway, right?!I am so wired and focused right now I doubt I would have enjoyed the event.
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Michelle: I hope you manage to sleep and rest tonight. Thinking of you and your family during this time.
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Michelle, you and your family are in my prayers. I am glad you made it home safely and saw your mother. Get some rest, you will have so much to handle. Much love.
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Michelle - You and your family are in my prayers. I know you must be beyond exhausted but glad you made it back to see your mother. Sounds like you have 2 daughters to treasure. In patient units, either hospital based or free standing, are special. I know they do wonderful things there. I know you will advocate for your mother. She sounds very peaceful and hope that continues. May the Lord be with you.
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Michelle, you and your family remain in my prayers. Rest well.
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Michelle Thinking of you, sending hugs your way.
Lacey I understand how good it feels to get stuff cleaned out. I am a thrower outer, but my hubby is a hoarder, I have to be sneaky to get rid of stuff. My dining room table has become my office and school desk...will need to do some filing before Thanksgiving or we will all be eating off our laps.
Bought a rotissiere chicken at the store yesterday that was good, but was roasting some veges to go along with it, and got so engrossed in school work, I burned them, not badly, they were somewhat edible, but the dog got a nice treat in the end.
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Debbie, here's the minestrone recipe:
2 Tbs olive oil
1/2 cup minced onion
1/4 cup chopped zucchini
1 stalk celery, chopped
2 cloves garlic, minced
1/2 cup carrots, julienned
1/2 cup frozen Italian green beans
4 cups vegetable or beef broth
1 15 Oz. can red kidney beans drained
1 15 oz. can small white beans, drained
1 14 oz. can diced tomatoes
1 8oz. can tomato sauce
2 Tbs. Fresh parsley minced
1 tsp. dried oregano
1 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp ground black pepper
1/2 tsp dried basil
1/4 tsp. dried thyme
4 cups water
3 cups fresh baby spinach
1 cup ditalini or other small pasta
Heat oil in large pot over medium heat. Saute onion, celery, garlic, carrots and zucchini for 5 minutes or until onion is translucent.
As remaining ingredients except spinach and pasta. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat and simmer for 20 minutes.
Add pasta and spinach, cook 15 minutes.
Serve with grated parmesan.
I keep the rinds from blocks of parmesan and throw them in soup, which I did with this one. It gave a really nice flavor. I don't ever get the minestrone at olive garden but DH said it tasted like theirs, but I don't know how discerning his palate is lol. It is good nonetheless.
Michelle, hope you got a good nights sleep. I know hospice will take good care if your mom. I can't say enough good things about them. Will be thinking of you. -
Michelle- Thinking of you today!
Carrie-At least the dog ate it haha!
Nancy- That sounds so delicious I have parmesan cheese rinds in the freezer and love to put them in my soups. I might make this tomorrow.Thanks for sharing!
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Oh yum, Nancy!!
Love minestrone (actually I'm not sure there's a soup I don't like) and haven't made it in forever! Definitely going on my menu, hopefully for this week!!
Debbie,
Are feeling any better? Soup always tastes so good to me when I'm sick!
Michelle,
Thinking of you and your family today....
Tonights dinner is going to be some pork chops that I have to use today, cornbread stuffing (although I guess technically it's dressing since it's not going in the chop..lol) and some sauteed apples. Not sure how I want to do the apples yet... Guess I better figure that out...lol!
Hope you all have a great Friday! -
Michelle- Thinking of you.
Debbie- Are you feeling better?
Nancy- That soup sounds yummy! I copied and pasted it and will have to try it. I love minestrone soup and have never made it before- sounds simple.
Dinner tonight will be pulled pork sandwiches. DS has soccer on the schedule so it needed to be a crock pot dinner night. I made a big batch so we can eat the left overs on SUnday for the game.
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Re: minestrone recipe - I didn't do this but wish I had, if you think you're going to have leftover soup, cook the pasta separately and add to the servings individually. Otherwise, the pasta soaks up up all the broth overnight and gets HUGE. Also, this might be a little salty for some, so you might add the salt at the end to your taste.
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Tonights dinner, since I already have leftover garlic breadsticks, is lasagna rolls that I had frozen a while ago. Easy peasy!
P.s. Someday I'm just going to submit one of these posts with what the stupid auto correct typed and see if anyone can figure out what I'm trying to say. E.g., in the above post it typed "cook the pasta desperately." Should be fun. -
I am located near a shop that buys live chickens and dispenses with them. All the parts like necks, backs, and feet are sold in 4lb bags. I bought one bag of each. Today I am making a Chinese pork and chicken stock. All the chicken parts are cut into 2 inch pieces with a cleaver. The pork bones I throw in whole. After blanching the bones, they are simmered for nine hours with some ginger and scallions. The house smells wonderful. There is nothing I love more these days than a bowl of flavorful soup for dinner.
Tonight's dinner will be last night's restaurant Chinese dishes, plus I will steam some dumplings I buy from Wang's, a local vendor that has an army of Chinese grandmothers pleating in the back.
Hoping that Michelle is doing well today,
*susan*
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Seaside- I make a home made apple sauce which is pretty good, I use about 4 or 5 apples- peeled, cored and chopped. 3/4 cup of water, 1/4 cup of sugar ( I use half white and brown) but you can use just one if you wanted. cinammon I use lots b/c I love the flavor. put all in sauce pan cover and cook over med heat for 20 min or until soft, cool and mash (I like it kind of chucnky)
Laurie- Still feeling yuccky but going to go out tonight, with friends for dinner (I think, havn't made up my mind yet) Have not got dressed in 5 days so thought if I got some fresh air it might make me feel better plus a margaritta or two might help!
. How are you feeling?
Nancy- I make enough mistakes on my own I would hate to see what auto correct does,Ha! I think i posted a page of mistakes from auto correct on here before i will have to find it and post it again it is really funny!
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Thank you for the update Joyce.
Michelle, still thinking of you♥
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I will attend a wake Sunday, we lost a classmate, she was only 61, died suddenly. So sad. A bunch of us HS local grads recently starting going out to eat or just having a social at someones house, so far we have lost 2.
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Michelle, you are still in my prayers. Much love.
Joyce, thanks for the info. I hope your trip to Florida goes well.
My DH and I had a lobster dinner today for our anniversary tomorrow. His gift to me is a front door with a window,something I have been wanting for a long time. My gift to him? Note the dinner tonight, he is going fishing tomorrow, our actual anniversary. 39 years, you know, 20 happy years! LOL -
Nancy, so funny on the auto-correct! Although I have found myself 'desperately' cooking
after spending way to much time on BCO and looking up and thinking OMG where the heck did all this time go?!! Lol
Debbie,
I will have to give the applesauce a try especially since the apples here in the NE are so good this time of year...
Tonight I sliced them thin with peel on and sauteed them in a bit of butter along with some sliced onion, just a couple tsps of brown sugar, a tsp of cider vinegar and a little bit of salt and pepper. Sautee over medium heat until onions are carmelized and apples are softened. Served over the top of the chops... It was pretty good!
The dressing on the other hand.... meh.... I had not ever made a cornbread dressing before and used the packaged cornbread crumbs... I think it would have been far tastier and much less salty if i had made the cornbread and gone from there! Oh well, live and learn......
Susan,
I bet both those stocks are out of this world good!!!
I don't think I have ever made my own stock! Closest I've come is to save the bone from a ham and throw it in when I make bean soup... Oh, and I do freeze the bones from the rib roast that we have at Christmas time and throw a couple in when I make a beef based soup!
Joyce,
Thanks for the update on Michelle.... Hope you and DH have a safe trip to sunny FLA!!! -
Joyce, safe travel to FL. Thanks for the update on Michelle.
Debbie and Laurie, I hope you both are well soon.
DH and I played golf with another couple today at a lovely course that's on the Audubon Golf Trail, Carter Plantation. It was designed by David Toms, a pro golfer from Louisiana. The weather was delightful. We finished up about 5:30 pm and ate dinner in the restaurant. This was my first restaurant meal since going on WW twelve days ago. I had the fish entree on the menu, which was swordfish covered with lump crabmeat in a delicious butter saffron sauce on sauteed spinach with asparagus and crispy tortilla strips on the side. The presentation was very pretty on a square dinner plate. I immediately cut the generous portion of fish into two equal pieces and ate half of it. I know the sauce was very high cal and high fat, but it was wonderful. I didn't eat any bread. Pat on the back! And I drank iced tea instead of wine. I might have had a glass of chardonnay, but the price was $9 for Simi chardonnay, which I have in my wine cooler and paid $12 for the bottle. I know I'm frugal but $9 for a glass of affordable wine is high.
All in all, I did ok in dealing with the Eating Out challenge. The other half of the fish and some spears of asparagus are in the refrigerator for tomorrow's lunch. DH had a ribeye and didn't bring any home. He said it was excellent.
Thinking of you and your family, Michelle, and sending caring vibes.
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Hi everyone, we just got home about 30 minutes ago and it's been a long day. First, let me say thanks to each and every one of you for your kind thoughts, prayers and comforting words. You are all such a caring group of lovely women and I am lucky to have you all for support. And thank you Joyce for being there for Rick and me, and visiting my mom and the girls.
Mom was transferred late this afternoon and she is settled in her hospice suite. It's really a beautiful place and will be a calm, peaceful environment for all of us. My daughters have been angels through all this and I don't know what I would do without them.
I did get a good night's sleep last night (thank you restoril) and that was very helpful. We were back at the hospital at 9 this morning so it was another long day. I'll be in bed early tonight so we can head back to hospice in the morning. My daughter is bringing the great-grandchildren as they have said they'd like to see "Memere"... they know she is sick and the older two boys know she will die. I hope they do OK, I'm a little worried about frightening them. The hospice nurse said they have booklets to use with children so hopefully it will go well.
Deb - so sorry to hear about the loss of your classmate. 61 seems too young, doesn't it?
Moonflwr - happy anniversary! If your hubby is going fishing, I hope you do something fun for yourself.
Joyce - safe travels to Florida. We will miss you both but we'll figure out how to get together while you're back in town. I hope Casey enjoys the ride!
Happy eating to everyone!
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