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  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited September 2012

    Kathy - Didn't I mention that I sent the weight loss fairy to your house after she abandoned me?  LOL!  Seriously, I hope everything is OK tomorrow!  I wondered what was going on - sorry to hear your mom was in the hospital.  I noticed with my mom that any trauma - an illness, hospitalization, this recent move, sets her back significantly.  I hope your mom recovers some of her lost capacity.  And my treatment is going very well, thank you.  I have an appointment this Friday, then in two weeks (10/5) I'll have the big "show and tell" - the CAT scan that will indicate if ARQ 197 is a TNBC magic bullet. 

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited September 2012

    Fingers crossed for you, LUV.

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited September 2012

    Ladies. Haven't posted in a while. Just tried to catch up a bit.

    ((( Inmate ))) praying the dads wipe out the brain mets and you get back on the trial. Add me to your list of stalkers. I think of you daily



    Michelle hope the trial is going good for you.



    Hi to everyone else. I miss everyone but my anxiety is so bad I need to stay off the boards a bit more. Husband and dogs have made it up to PA and we are trying to settle in. Hubby still looking for work, it will come. Had my port out on Monday and have genetic testing appt in oct to look forward too.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited September 2012

    Kathy - Geez girl bout time you got back on here.  I thought she's gone to that bloody casino again. Was even going to ring your  mum and tell her lol.

    Seriously I'm sure the weight loss is because you have been running around after your mum and is nothing to worry about.  We could all do with losing a bit right!!  Keeping my finger crossed for you love.

    LUV - keeping my fingers crossed that your big 'show and tell' works wonderfully.  I do feel sorry for your mum (probably cause I'm old myself).  I went to the Doc's yesterday cause I have had  this cough since I caught a cold at the end of rads.  I had to blow into a machine. The doc said blimey its almost normal, not bad for an old timer. I said bloody cheek not so much of the old timer there's a lot of life in  this old girl yet. 

    Kareybeth - sending a big hug to help with the stress you are going through.

    Big hugs also to Bak, Inmate, Hope, Minxie, Tazzy, Lovelyface, Karen, Jazzy, Titan, LRM  and anyone else I have missed out. 

    I am busy back full time working still at home and will go back to work on the 14th October.  Quite like working from  home although I miss the company of the girls and the old fellar is away all day forgetting about me but the dogs love me being here so thats something.  Still got no spring weather yet but I guess it does intend to come at some time.  My BRAC tests came back inconclusive.  So now I have to think about whether to have an oophorectomy or not.  Any suggestions.

    Have a good day ladies. Keep smiling rain or shine.  Annie            

  • FernMF
    FernMF Member Posts: 349
    edited September 2012

    Chemo. round 3 was 9/11. Last night got WHOLE nights rest and feel human today for the first time in a week plus.

    Nanatwo6. Find out if you can do the chemo. First.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited September 2012

    Could do with a hug today, feeling down

     

  • DorMac
    DorMac Member Posts: 155
    edited September 2012

    Cocker - Here you go - {{{HUG}}}

    and to anyone else who needs one, too.

    Doreen 

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited September 2012

    Luv - in that case, I'll shoo her back after 10 more lbs. (at my age, I can't afford to lose more. Makes the wrinkles show more and everything else go South). Crosses fingers for 10/5.



    Cocker -(((HUG))) Snerk....I did sneak off to the casino while she was in the hospital, lol. Got my ass kicked!



    Fern - yay for a good night's sleep. NanaTwo - autocorrect's playing with Fern, she typed , she if you can do chemo first.



    McCrimmon - glad you're all back together.



    (((HUGS Dormac)))

  • JAN69
    JAN69 Member Posts: 947
    edited September 2012

    Hello everyone -  I've been reading and not feeling like responding lately.  Dawn's news of her mets put me in a funk.  It seems to me this thread has been quieter for a while too.  It's hard to joke around when our sister is hurting.  I feel like some of my friends must have felt when they visited (or didn't) while I was in treatment: don't know what to say.  My bad.

    I've been keeping my hands and mind busy making those little quilts for the kids camp.  I have about 25 quilts in various states of being.  Some finished, some almost finished, some cut out to sew, others in the planning stage.  I'm finding it very therapeudic to be clearing out my fabric supply, knowing it might help some child who is probably worse off than I am.

    So for Dawn, Luv, Desert Mom, Kathryn, the newbies, I send the softest, most comforting hugs and good wishes I possibly can.  Please remember we care for your well-being.

    For Annie - I hope all your typing is going better each day.

    NavyMom - Were you able to get the turtle pattern?

    Wrenwood - I hope we are still on for October.

    It's nearly October........prepare to duck, the pink ribbons will soon be flying over your neighborhood.

    Love and joy to all,  Jan

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited September 2012

    Cocker - (((hugs))) from New Hampshire!

    Heather - good to hear from you, hoping you get some relief from the anxiety now that your family is intact.

    Kathy - OK, that's a deal!  You're right about the wrinkles - maybe I should keep this Xeloda weight.  Problem is that DH bought me all new jeans and pants last Christmas and these extra ten pounds don't fit in those size 4's!!!  That weight was supposed to make new girls for me  Cry  Now it's righ where I don't need it!

  • NavyMom
    NavyMom Member Posts: 1,099
    edited September 2012

    Seems to me we could all use a squeeze.

    GROUP HUG!!!    (((((   )))))

    FernMF, Just gotta tell ya,  Your typo in your post made me chuckle.  "Do the chemist first"   Yep, my mind went in the gutter and was hoping for Nanatwo6 that the "Chemist" was good looking!  

  • FernMF
    FernMF Member Posts: 349
    edited September 2012

    Drat that auto spell check. I even put a period there to try and stop it. Honestly girls when on chemotherapy who feels like doing IT at all.!!!!!!!

  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,591
    edited September 2012

    I want in too...{{{{HUGS}}}} to my loves!  I think of all of you each and every day.

    got some GOOD news today and thought I would share.  I am going to NOLA on Nov 1st for my new "girls"  I cannot believe it took a year to get em back.  I am feeling happy, scared excited and everything else I could possibly feel.  I go for my 3 month follow up and 6 month pet scan in October so the only thing that would stop this was if something shows up--that just is not going to happen...but for now I am good to go!

    Maggie

  • bak94
    bak94 Member Posts: 1,846
    edited October 2012

    WoooHoooo Mags!!!! I can't wait to hear all about it!

    Now I understand my goats obsession with plums!:)

    Luv-Can't wait to hear how good the trial is working!

    Hi Jan69-We all need breaks, so sorry you are feeling down.

    CS-I never understood what incomclusive means. Is that just a big "we don't know"?

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited September 2012

    Jan...hear you on the quietness that we have now and then....sometimes you just have to step back for awhile.....sometimes our friend's news is alot to take in and deal with...but we do manage to take it in a deal with it...each in our own way....

    Hugs to everyone!  

    Had girls night out tonight...Lime margaritas for a $1....now if it were closer to the weekend it would be awesome!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Another tough day at sea.... Brady & Gisele... pirates extraordinaire

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited September 2012

    Dawn:  Dropping by to remind you that love, prayers, good wishes and deeply felt thoughts are always being sent out to you.  Holding you close to my heart; and

    LUV - all the same to you as well.  I too hope this is the magic bullet for you.

    To all - wishing those that are going through rough patches in their lives, a bright and sunny outcome as soon as possible and to those chugging along trying to find that "new normal" we all are trying so hard to maintain - keep on keeping on.

    Hugs and warm thoughts to you all,

    Linda

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited September 2012

    Ladies thats what we need a bloody good laugh. Haven't had any for a while  and now that Kathy is back we are bound to get some lol

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited September 2012

    Kath I knew you had sneaked off there . You little ......  

  • JAN69
    JAN69 Member Posts: 947
    edited September 2012

    My dear Cocker Annie - You are so right.  A good laugh to lighten the loads we carry.  Jan

  • DesertMama
    DesertMama Member Posts: 47
    edited September 2012

    Heidi, thank you so much for the pic of Brady and Gisele! Put a big smile on my face- I just want to pick them up and snuggle them. Kiss  My childhood dog was a Boston and I am extremely partial to their smooshed in lil faces. My current boy is a 100lb Lab/Mastiff mix and is probably the world's best dog, but he doesn't exactly fit in my lap. The hilarious thing is, if I sit on the floor he will immediately come over and park his big ol' butt in my lap every time. Laughing

    Oh crap, now I got sidetracked and already forgot the list of names I wanted to mention- damn chemo brain. I know I will forget something important now. Ok, group hug everyone.  

    Kathy, fingers crossed it is the "good" kind of weight loss.

    Luv, I am praying for your magic bullet.

    Mags, just hurray!

    Fern, I know what you mean; I had my first round of taxol on 9/11 and it kinda freaked me out. I lived in Manhattan and my husband was in Tower 1 on 9/11- it is always a really hard day for me.

    EnglishRose, glad they think it is just scar tissue! If you still feel very worried, then ask to see your doctor before the next scheduled appt. to put your mind at ease. I saw my surgeon yesterday and she also felt that my lump was likely scar tissue. She did an ultrasound on it and saw no increased blood flow to the area, measured it for future reference, and I will just keep an eye on it for a bit, but I no longer feel worried.

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited September 2012

    Bak - the inconclusive means they are unable to advise whether I need an oophorectomy or the other breast removed or not with their current testing techniques.  This means I don't know whether to go through the surgery or not.  If I don't need to why have further surgery,  yet if I don't what will be the outcome.  I just don't know how to make up my mind about it.

    I'll start off the first laugh.  The Chloe dog has been at it again.  She has been off her food for the last couple of nights.  Then this morning I found a new lighter in her basket that had gone missing that she had got from the coffee table at some stage. She had bitten big holes all over it.  So no wonder she was off her food,  the silly girl probably tried to gas herself lol.  But no she is still around!! 

    A good laugh doesn't take away any of the fear, heartache or tears that we all feel for those still going through treatment or those that are just not feeling well but it does help to lighten the load a little bit.

         

       

  • kathyrnn
    kathyrnn Member Posts: 393
    edited September 2012

    NavyMom - now you have me really laughing! The fact that "do the chemist" flew right over my head tells you that it's been way to long a dry stretch for me!!!!!



    Been up for 24 hrs. Mom back in the hospital with pneumonia. (Hasn't been out a week!!!). And yes Cocker, she has forbidden me to go to the casino. Says that's how she caught it, despite the fact that I'm not sick and the doctor told her she probably caught it in the hospital.



    Cocker - just popped in because I forgot to vote. Yank those suckers out. You don't need them now, and it would be a shame to be a breast CA survivor and get hit with ovarian cancer.

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited September 2012

    For a chuckle, check out the pictures I posted in this thread - who knew...

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/7/topic/764271?page=331#idx_9914

    This came about because the Stage IV gals are doing a "five questions" discussion so we get to know each other a little better.  Here's the discussion that led to the picture postings:

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/8/topic/793736?page=1#idx_18

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited September 2012

    Morning ladies.



    Heidi, that pic is adorable!

    I need in on the group hug too! (((HUGS)))



    Having a not so great week in terms of anxiety. Port removed on Monday (yay). Wed was appt with primary and all we did was chat about my "high" risk and last night had a horrible dream about BC.



    Hope everyone is doing well

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Heather, what do you mean by *high risk*

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2012

    Heather, what do you mean by *high risk*

  • mccrimmon324
    mccrimmon324 Member Posts: 1,076
    edited September 2012

    High risk of recurring or getting another cancer since I've had it already and because of my age at diagnosis (41). He seems to think I may carry the BRCA genes. My fathers mother passed at a young age from BC.

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Member Posts: 2,546
    edited September 2012

    (((((Annie))))) 

    (((((group hug to all))))))

  • BernieEllen
    BernieEllen Member Posts: 2,445
    edited September 2012

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